So i work together with a girl whom i became attracted to. She is very flirty, shows body language of attraction and so on. I became attracted to her before I snooped online and found out she has a BF. Since i never asked her directly I decided to do it in a clever way and asked who she went on vacation with but she said she "Went with friends" while she went with her BF. Finally, a few months later, she told me she has one before he picked her up from work. At this time i decided to pullback and avoid any flirting from my side. I am keeping it strictly work professional. However, it seems like now shes trying gain my attention. She does things like throw paper balls at me, constantly comes up to me to talk and now she is the one who constantly initiates our interactions. Do i keep ignoring her? i dont want to be mean but im confused at same time. Submitted October 12, 2020 at 01:07AM So i work together with a girl whom i became attracted to. She is very flirty, show...

I hate this app so much 😂 first of all, there’s no location filters so I could get messages from anyone in Ohio (my state) to someone in Zimbabwe. It’s annoying and useless because I’m not going to fall in love with some Nigerian prince that I find off of MeetMe. I’m not looking for a #90DayFiance experience. 🤦 The guys that I am remotely interested in are much worse than the guys on tinder/bumble/etc. Every guy that has been interested in me has started with “want to hang out/cuddle?” and I say, “yes”, because I like those things. And then, they are like, “okay, can we get a room? Can you get pregnant?” Where. In. That. Original. Question. Was. Sex. Mentioned?? Some guy and I were messaging yesterday morning. He asked if I wanted to hang out and where we should go and I thought of a pumpkin patch. Then he says “tbh I’ve always wanted to get head there” and then I told him that he went and ruined it talking about sex. He then ghosted/avoided me the rest of the day and finally, at...

Based on family history (lots of single women late in life/women dying alone) and my (26 f) past dating history and the dating pool...I know that I’m going to end up alone in life. The thought once made me suicidal, and has cost me friendships due to jealously (over how easy finding relationships was for them). I’m learning to be okay with this, because holding on to the potential for romantic love has really fucked up my life and self perception. I really and truly think I’m meant to be alone, and I’m learning to be okay with it. Anyone else out there on a similar life path? And NO, I don’t want to hear your happy little stories about finding love when all hope was lost. That mindset leads to nothing but disappointment for me, so please spare me. Submitted October 12, 2020 at 01:15AM Based on family history (lots of single women late in life/women dying alone) and my (26 f) past dating history and the dating pool...I know that I’m going to end up alone in life. The thought onc...

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First and foremost please do not message me about your milkplay/breastfeeding/fetish stories because I am not interested. Between 2 kids, I breastfed for about 6 years straight (a 4 month break between kids). Before pregnancy and nursing i was fine with nipple play and enjoyed having my breasts attended to. I stopped nursing in July of this year and I still cannot stand to have my breasts touched in a sexual manner. It makes me instantly agitated and nauseous. But I want to get back to enjoying it! Has anyone else dealt with this? What was your experience? Submitted October 12, 2020 at 12:22AM First and foremost please do not message me about your milkplay/breastfeeding/fetish stories because I am not interested.Between 2 kids, I breastfed for about 6 years straight (a 4 month break between kids). Before pregnancy and nursing i was fine with nipple play and enjoyed having my breasts attended to.I stopped nursing in July of this year and I still cannot stand to have my breasts...

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My bf yelled at me last night. I had a few friends over (safely! in my backyard!) and when they left, I was just so giddy from socializing, I think, that I turned on some silly music and sang along: Elton John, billy Joel, etc. honestly, it must have been pretty annoying. But then out of nowhere, my bf starts yelling at me about how he’s been so stressed out about work lately and he just “wants to be left the fuck alone.” He apologized this morning, and he’s texted me a couple times since, but I’m still pretty angry, and hurt. I know I must have been deeply annoying, but I don’t think I deserved to be yelled at...! I just told him I need some space. I don’t know what to think about it all and feel like I need some time apart to figure it out. Am I overreacting? It is such a stressful time for everyone... Submitted October 11, 2020 at 11:48PM My bf yelled at me last night. I had a few friends over (safely! in my backyard!) and when they left, I was just so giddy from socializ...

Tonight I reached out to my ex-friend who I thought had a crush on me earlier in the year. I'm asexual and despite that, I had a little crush, even though I wanted to be friends. I made a post here last week. Anyway, I decided to communicate with him, that it's done and why. I told him we are on two different pages and we're mismatched. This is what he sent: ​ That sucks. But to tell the truth, if you don't think opposite views cannot lead to continued friendship, then it's better we don't waste each others' time... ...J, I have so much love for you. You said what you said, blocked me for a bit, apologized, now not wanting to be friends. Let's chat tomorrow if you're up for it. Feel free to include me in your newsletter and feel free to send W a card. I'll always have love for you, J; differences or not. Good night. ​ I told him I was done. I feel bad, but I just can't right now. What is going on? Submitted October 11, 2020 at 11:5...

Hi! I started seeing someone and I feel really scared. He (30M) and I (32F) started talking via OLD a few weeks back. He asked me to a dinner date and we had an absolutely lovely time. It was so romantic and wow, he is amazing. He told me that he has been going through a divorce for almost two years but it is finalized in a few weeks. We continued to see one another and had amazing dates over the weeks. He always wants to see me, asks a lot of questions, seems invested, etc He is just incredible. Motivated, always very present in our conversations, caring, and very reliable. I'm not sure if it's just because I have been really busy with work and hobbies so he thinks I'm dating around and someone will scoop me up so he's bringing his A game or what... I haven't dated someone like this in a long time and I don't really know how to feel okay with "normal". I just have these jaded thoughts that he is going to end up being sketchy like so many men I ha...

60F. Have been having an electrifying conversation with a guy I met online two weeks ago. We are two hours apart, and it started as silly banter; we were too far apart to realistically have a relationship. We started out joking about OK Cupid matches and stuff, but we quickly connected mentally, and it became obvious after two weeks that we had to meet IRL. Today we finally met, and it was epic. Spent all day together, had amazing sex, and talked for hours. We are soulmates. My problem is how to let down the boring guy I had dinner with last night? I HATE this part! What the hell do I tell him?He is smitten, and I persuaded him to kiss me, because kissing is important! But with Covid I feel I pushed his boundaries, as one of the first things he told me is that he is a germaphobe. Kept his mask in a plastic bag in his pocket, and went to the bathroom twice over the course of a two-hour meal. Brought his own water to the restaurant. I paid for the meal, since I asked him out. I di...

I (23f) met a guy (25m) on a dating app about 3 weeks ago. We had a really quick but funny chat and decided to meet up. In about 2 weeks we have been on 4 dates, the 4th one being today. I was the one who initiated this one and we watched a movie at his. He ordered and paid for takeout for us. When I first got there he was watching a football match and didn’t turn it off and was giving me and the game 50/50 attention. This upset me cause it was the 4th date, and he was focusing on a game for 30 min. For a while after he was also a bit bitchy with his responses, and it all just gave me a bad gut feeling. However, we started watching the movie and cuddled (which we didn’t do before) and we were joking a lot. That’s when it started becoming fun again. We eventually slept together (not first time) and it was way better this time, he said several times it was really good. I mentioned previously that I had an early morning meeting, and in bed he said that maybe it would be best if i didn’t...