I am confused on what i should do next

So i work together with a girl whom i became attracted to. She is very flirty, shows body language of attraction and so on. I became attracted to her before I snooped online and found out she has a BF. Since i never asked her directly I decided to do it in a clever way and asked who she went on vacation with but she said she "Went with friends" while she went with her BF. Finally, a few months later, she told me she has one before he picked her up from work.

At this time i decided to pullback and avoid any flirting from my side. I am keeping it strictly work professional. However, it seems like now shes trying gain my attention. She does things like throw paper balls at me, constantly comes up to me to talk and now she is the one who constantly initiates our interactions.

Do i keep ignoring her? i dont want to be mean but im confused at same time.

Submitted October 12, 2020 at 01:07AM

So i work together with a girl whom i became attracted to. She is very flirty, shows body language of attraction and so on. I became attracted to her before I snooped online and found out she has a BF. Since i never asked her directly I decided to do it in a clever way and asked who she went on vacation with but she said she "Went with friends" while she went with her BF. Finally, a few months later, she told me she has one before he picked her up from work.At this time i decided to pullback and avoid any flirting from my side. I am keeping it strictly work professional. However, it seems like now shes trying gain my attention. She does things like throw paper balls at me, constantly comes up to me to talk and now she is the one who constantly initiates our interactions.Do i keep ignoring her? i dont want to be mean but im confused at same time.