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You can just TELL

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Showed him a tiktok of a guy w/ a tongue tat

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Found in the comment section of a cover of FRIENDS by Marshmello

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Start to finish what goes an orgasm feel like?

For a woman. Never had one (though I’ve tried) so I’m curious to know what it feels like Submitted February 07, 2020 at 10:51PM For a woman. Never had one (though I’ve tried) so I’m curious to know what it feels like

I have trouble understanding my sexual orientation

Good evening reddit, I'd like to know if some of these feelings I've got indicate if I'm straight or not... I have little experience with men, none with women and never enjoyed sex, so I wonder if one of these reasons is related to maybe not being heterosexual. I'll try to explain my feelings further. ​ When I see women, it's like I have this cozy feeling, like I'm eating a melt-in-your-mouth ice cream, sitting on a soft bed, surrounded by pilows and hugging a plush toy in a kinda chilly weather. Everything feels so perfect that the only way to make it better is to masturbate till orgasm and drift off to sleep. And I have a sweet tooth. ​ When I see men, it's kinda like eating salty snacks. I'm rarely interested in them, but when I do I have this very intense and specific crave to chow it down more and more until my mouth hurts and burns with the salt, tongue bleeding. ​ I had one-sided school crushes, all towards men until an older woman helped m...

(female) finding it hard to reach climax

during sex or while im masturbating i find it hard to reach climax. i feel like something is coming but i never feel the relieved sensation, the feeling is too overwhelming and i end up stopping. i want to orgasm so bad its so frustrating i dont know what to do. Submitted February 07, 2020 at 10:54PM during sex or while im masturbating i find it hard to reach climax. i feel like something is coming but i never feel the relieved sensation, the feeling is too overwhelming and i end up stopping. i want to orgasm so bad its so frustrating i dont know what to do.

I can't orgasm

I had a full hysterectomy last year... and even though I can get fairly wet still, I can't orgasm. I've read it's not always possible after this but I feel like he thinks I am disappointed or not enjoying it because of this, plus I am quiet in general.... any tips on how to help maybe have a chance to fix this? Submitted February 07, 2020 at 10:54PM I had a full hysterectomy last year... and even though I can get fairly wet still, I can't orgasm. I've read it's not always possible after this but I feel like he thinks I am disappointed or not enjoying it because of this, plus I am quiet in general.... any tips on how to help maybe have a chance to fix this?

My [23F] boyfriend [25M] of two years cannot get me off and it's honestly ruining our relationship

I want to start by saying that my boyfriend is the kindest, most thoughtful, loyal, affectionate person I've ever dated (or even known). Our relstionship is great. We are each others best friends, we go on dates, we go on trips, we have good lives and support each other but the sex has become unbearable to me. Early on (first 8-9 months) we had sex up to 10 times a day. It was fun. The sex was good even though I never got off. I found myself very attracted to him and wanting him all the time. Our sex life waned, then i went off my birth control for a few months because of the hormones and the risk of pregnancy turned me on, but the past six months or so, the sex has been boring. I found myself pretending im enjoying sex, then being very frank that i wasnt enjoying it. We bought a sex toy but honestly i find it way too stimulating. I stopped masturabting for a while and try to not to watch porn anymore. I have mentioned to him blantantly that i am unsatisfied and want to get off ...

Can't last long - whenever I put myself in the moment, I cum. Help?

I can't last long in bed, usually 3-4 minutes of light work. I've tried masturbating for ~30 minutes, usually distracting my mind, and yeah I can last. For actual sex though, whenever I put myself in the moment and feel the sensations, I get way too aroused. I want to be able to last long but I also want to be able to enjoy myself - I don't want to be thinking elsewhere or about my grandma rather about my partner but I get too excited when I do that. How do I change this? Submitted February 07, 2020 at 11:16PM I can't last long in bed, usually 3-4 minutes of light work. I've tried masturbating for ~30 minutes, usually distracting my mind, and yeah I can last. For actual sex though, whenever I put myself in the moment and feel the sensations, I get way too aroused.I want to be able to last long but I also want to be able to enjoy myself - I don't want to be thinking elsewhere or about my grandma rather about my partner but I get too excited when I do that...

Advice on Kissing

Hi guys, this is such an embarrassing question, but do you have any advice on French kissing? Despite being in my mid twenties, having several relationships and sexual partners, I still know I'm just not good at this, and have actually been gently told so. I just don't know what to do with my tongue, so I don't do much with it. Kinda like a dead fish lmao. What are you meant to do when someone sticks their tongue into your mouth? How do I do it? Help a gal out Submitted February 07, 2020 at 11:19PM Hi guys, this is such an embarrassing question, but do you have any advice on French kissing? Despite being in my mid twenties, having several relationships and sexual partners, I still know I'm just not good at this, and have actually been gently told so.I just don't know what to do with my tongue, so I don't do much with it. Kinda like a dead fish lmao. What are you meant to do when someone sticks their tongue into your mouth? How do I do it? Help a gal out

Feeling anxious about buying sex toy, because I'm not sure if my boyfriend would feel bad about it.

(He lives with me by the way.) I have asked him before if he would care if I had a sex toy and each time I got a different answer, so that has been fueling my anxiety about it. The first time he said he didn't care, and he seemed very sure about that, but after a while he seemed unsure about the subject. I mean, they were passing conversations, so I never got to tell him that it wouldn't replace him, and/or it doesn't mean I am not satisfied with out sexy time. I'm pretty sure he would at least feel bad. I know I will explain myself and tell him it's not replacing him if he finds out. I really wouldn't like to him know until he stumbles upon it, but I don't want to be sneaky about it. I just want to have confidence that if he accidentally saw it he would wouldn't be sad about it. I know I shouldn't feel guilty, anxious, or like I have to be sneaky about it, but I don't want him to be upset. I am an extremely empathetic person, so maybe this fee...

I feel like my boyfriend just always wants a blowjob

Whenever we start doing anything, he always wants me to give him a blowjob and then finish him off with my hand. Problem is, I hate giving blowjobs. I usually lie and say something like my lips hurt or my tongue hurts. It's so annoying to not be able to just say, "I don't want to." If I do say that, he gets upset and he'll try to convince me otherwise. It's gotten to the point where we just never do anything. Earlier, he started doing stuff and then just pulled away. I tried to continue by touching his dick, but he said, "Your tongue would be better." I said, "No," and he just went "Nevermind." Help.please. Submitted February 07, 2020 at 11:20PM Whenever we start doing anything, he always wants me to give him a blowjob and then finish him off with my hand. Problem is, I hate giving blowjobs. I usually lie and say something like my lips hurt or my tongue hurts. It's so annoying to not be able to just say, "I don...

Do girls look at guys asses like guys look at girls?

Guys are so obsessed with girls asses in leggings and tight jeans, do girls look out for guys asses? Submitted February 07, 2020 at 11:21PM Guys are so obsessed with girls asses in leggings and tight jeans, do girls look out for guys asses?

Anyone have a similar fetish? My[25] girlfriend [26F] like to sit in public places like restaurant chairs with a dress on and no undies after I’ve cum in her and we love the little snail trail my cum makes. We leave it for others to find

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Can’t cum after being sick?

a couple days after I’m sick with the flu or a cold, I’ve found I can’t cum. What’s going on, and is there any solution to this? Submitted February 07, 2020 at 11:29PM a couple days after I’m sick with the flu or a cold, I’ve found I can’t cum. What’s going on, and is there any solution to this?

If you had a weekend of free time and privacy with your SO, what new, weird, and different things would you explore, or try atleast once?

Any specific wild, taboo, interesting or downright weird things encouraged. Assume anything goes. Submitted February 07, 2020 at 11:31PM Any specific wild, taboo, interesting or downright weird things encouraged. Assume anything goes.

Problem with PIV - new to sex

I looked on the FAQ but couldn't find an answer to my very virginal question. I'm a college student (F) and have just started having sex. I've gotten together casually a few times with this guy I really like, but neither of us are incredibly experienced (he is more than me, though) and our problem every time has been that he can't get inside me. Another guy was able to do it, so I know it's possible, and I'm wet enough when it happens. We just can't figure out where to put his cock, even though he's fingered me so obviously knows where it is?? I just don't know what the problem is, but I want him to be able to fuck me the next time we're together. What could we be overlooking, what should we try so we can do this? Thanks to anyone who can help lol Submitted February 07, 2020 at 11:31PM I looked on the FAQ but couldn't find an answer to my very virginal question. I'm a college student (F) and have just started having sex. I've g...

Videos (or other kind of tutorials) for instructional use/sex techniques ?

I already posted this in another section and I want to get some more opinions. I have been "sex video" free for over year now I think and honestly.. it's been amazing. So many benefits and I no longer long for it and I'm pretty proud of it. It has made me less anxious, I'm more in the present and it makes me value people and women so much more. There is one issue though. As silly as it sounds.. I'm a visual learner. I go the gym so when I want to learn or improve some of my excersizes, I watch youtube videos and see how it's done. Obviously you dont become good through watching. But you get an idea of what you have to do. Especially if youre not that experienced and you just want to know how to properly locate the clitoris for instance. Obviously I wouldnt aim for non-sense porn. Mainly I want to become better at Eating pussy Fingering (Maybe some angles etc ) At the same time, I absolutely don't want to break my streak. It really feels good ...

Why do guys let girls give them blowjobs when they can easily bite their dick off?

Make fun of me if you want, but I'm quite serious. Seems like nothing but an enormous risk, especially if you meme about liking crazy girls more. Submitted February 07, 2020 at 11:32PM Make fun of me if you want, but I'm quite serious. Seems like nothing but an enormous risk, especially if you meme about liking crazy girls more.

How to treat labia cyst?

I’ve had this little spot on my labia for a few months. Figured it was an ingrown hair, but I didn’t wanna poke around at it so I just left it alone. In the past 4 or 5 days it’s turned into a cyst. It’s so sore, at the start it only hurt if pressure was applied to it but now it hurts when I walk, sit down or sleep with my legs together. I sleep on my side so this is a huge problem for me sleep wise. I put perfume on it last night before I went to bed bc I read it helps dry out spots so I assumed it’d work for cysts too but it just make it ten times more painful in the morning so I put a tiny bit of cream on it to moisturize the skin again. Probably stupid of me but it’s just so painful. It’s no so bad that I can’t walk, and I can ignore it when I’m talking with friends but I can still notice it when sitting down. Is there anything I can do to help it go away? I can’t afford to see a doctor plus I’m really embarrassed this is even happening to me. Any advice is highly appreciated ...

I am a 13 year old male teenager and cant masturbate

I am curious to see what masturbation feels like as I know that many kids my age and younger have masturbated. I have tried many different techniques but none of them have worked. I was wondering if there is something wrong with me or If I'm doing something wrong or maybe I just have to wait. Can you please give me some advice on why I cant masturbate. Submitted February 07, 2020 at 11:36PM I am curious to see what masturbation feels like as I know that many kids my age and younger have masturbated. I have tried many different techniques but none of them have worked. I was wondering if there is something wrong with me or If I'm doing something wrong or maybe I just have to wait. Can you please give me some advice on why I cant masturbate.

Unexpected turn on

My girlfriend and I were having sex last night and as she was riding me I started telling her about some paper I had to write for my history class and she was just listening. I don’t know why but it really made the sex even better because there she was riding my dick and I was just casually talking about school. Weird combination but we both enjoyed it. Anyone else experience odd turn ons similar to this? Submitted February 07, 2020 at 11:46PM My girlfriend and I were having sex last night and as she was riding me I started telling her about some paper I had to write for my history class and she was just listening. I don’t know why but it really made the sex even better because there she was riding my dick and I was just casually talking about school. Weird combination but we both enjoyed it.Anyone else experience odd turn ons similar to this?

Afraid of being with someone more experienced

I(M19) recently almost went all the way with a friend(F36) of my mother, but stopped after we both lost our clothes. I didn't stop because i wasn't interested which is something else I'm afraid of her thinking.. I had to get out of there because i realised that i just don't have the experience she does and THAT is TERRIFYING. For clarity I have only been with very 3 women and she has already listed off at least 10 to 14 different people, men and women. I really like this person and i would really like to finish what we started but how do I overcome the fear of not having that 20+years of sex she's had? Submitted February 07, 2020 at 11:47PM I(M19) recently almost went all the way with a friend(F36) of my mother, but stopped after we both lost our clothes. I didn't stop because i wasn't interested which is something else I'm afraid of her thinking.. I had to get out of there because i realised that i just don't have the experience she does and ...