Videos (or other kind of tutorials) for instructional use/sex techniques ?

I already posted this in another section and I want to get some more opinions. I have been "sex video" free for over year now I think and honestly.. it's been amazing. So many benefits and I no longer long for it and I'm pretty proud of it. It has made me less anxious, I'm more in the present and it makes me value people and women so much more.

There is one issue though. As silly as it sounds.. I'm a visual learner. I go the gym so when I want to learn or improve some of my excersizes, I watch youtube videos and see how it's done. Obviously you dont become good through watching. But you get an idea of what you have to do. Especially if youre not that experienced and you just want to know how to properly locate the clitoris for instance. Obviously I wouldnt aim for non-sense porn.

Mainly I want to become better at

  • Eating pussy
  • Fingering
  • (Maybe some angles etc )

At the same time, I absolutely don't want to break my streak. It really feels good knowing how long one has been "video" free and I feel like it would get me down to zero again.

What are your thoughts on this ? Has somebody done or is this way too much overthinking and I should just enjoy more learning by doing and appreciate the nature of learning and exploring the new. I'm leaning towards the latter.



Submitted February 07, 2020 at 11:32PM

I already posted this in another section and I want to get some more opinions. I have been "sex video" free for over year now I think and honestly.. it's been amazing. So many benefits and I no longer long for it and I'm pretty proud of it. It has made me less anxious, I'm more in the present and it makes me value people and women so much more.There is one issue though. As silly as it sounds.. I'm a visual learner. I go the gym so when I want to learn or improve some of my excersizes, I watch youtube videos and see how it's done. Obviously you dont become good through watching. But you get an idea of what you have to do. Especially if youre not that experienced and you just want to know how to properly locate the clitoris for instance. Obviously I wouldnt aim for non-sense porn.Mainly I want to become better atEating pussyFingering(Maybe some angles etc )At the same time, I absolutely don't want to break my streak. It really feels good knowing how long one has been "video" free and I feel like it would get me down to zero again.What are your thoughts on this ? Has somebody done or is this way too much overthinking and I should just enjoy more learning by doing and appreciate the nature of learning and exploring the new. I'm leaning towards the latter.
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