I feel like every time things are going well with somebody, I always find a way to overthink it. And then, I force myself to want too much too fast and decide to figure out a way to get them to end it. For example, I’ve been talking to someone for a month. I noticed some changes in how they’re communicating with me, I act mildly clingy, and immediately decide they don’t want me. Then I send a message asking if they want something or not (knowing full well it’s too soon to know and definitely not a good time to ask). That way, I can go back to square one guilt free. It’s a constant cycle and I’m not sure how to break it. I’m in the process of finding a new therapist here, but in the mean time, am I the only one that acts like this? Any advice (other than therapy)? Submitted February 01, 2021 at 12:08AM I feel like every time things are going well with somebody, I always find a way to overthink it. And then, I force myself to want too much too fast and decide to figure out a way t...

I was dating a girl for a couple months and she cut things off saying she didn't feel I had enough mature mentality and I'm not sure what that means since she didn't elaborate? Submitted February 01, 2021 at 12:15AM I was dating a girl for a couple months and she cut things off saying she didn't feel I had enough mature mentality and I'm not sure what that means since she didn't elaborate?

Can any guy give me some advice about how i can muster up courage to talk to ladies i like, i don't know for what reason i can flirt to ladies i don't even know and i don't like and for some reasons there are ladies that falls for me that i don't even like why is this. And my balls just hides when it comes to the ladies i like the hell. My guess is that i'm afraid to commit and show my true self or introduce my life to them is that it? Submitted February 01, 2021 at 12:17AM Can any guy give me some advice about how i can muster up courage to talk to ladies i like, i don't know for what reason i can flirt to ladies i don't even know and i don't like and for some reasons there are ladies that falls for me that i don't even like why is this. And my balls just hides when it comes to the ladies i like the hell.My guess is that i'm afraid to commit and show my true self or introduce my life to them is that it?

That pic is awfully saucy for being an "asexual app" February 01, 2021 at 12:00AM

I seriously just had this revelation the other day. You aren't alone. 😅 January 31, 2021 at 11:59PM

Asking what they think of the lgbtq community then asking a bit later what they know about asexuality. January 31, 2021 at 11:47PM

I heard someone describe being asexual like this: when you see an absolute beautiful person, but you don't think they would be more attractive naked on top or under you, that's possibly because you don't feel sexual attraction. January 31, 2021 at 11:46PM

I'm glad I could be of help. Usually it's just kinda there and not very strong. A little bit uncomfortableness. Bur by now I'm pretty good at telling people if I start to feel extremely uncomfortable or in overall avoid conversations like this completely. January 31, 2021 at 11:46PM

not an expert, but I'd say 1) only if you're 100% sure you want to 2) only with someone who you trust enough to stop if you don't want to continue. January 31, 2021 at 11:33PM

I have two birds and even my grandma says "How is your son and his Kids doing?" when refering to them January 31, 2021 at 11:31PM

where did you get that picture of me? January 31, 2021 at 11:31PM

Hey! It's cool. There's more confused people out there than you realise. I'm still working myself out, take your time. January 31, 2021 at 11:27PM

Thanks for the tips. I'm pretty sure I am ace, but I would like to explore sexuality a little bit (safely of course!). January 31, 2021 at 11:22PM

Np, good luck finding something you like 😁 January 31, 2021 at 11:20PM

Thanks😊 January 31, 2021 at 11:18PM

Pregnant Ace here. It is... an interesting experience. January 31, 2021 at 11:17PM

If they’re your friends and they are lgbtq+ themselves then they’re probably more likely to accept you. I’m wish you the best of luck. January 31, 2021 at 11:17PM

Try Etsy, lots of choice and price points January 31, 2021 at 11:16PM

I’d suggest doing some research and trying to find personal stories and see if you relate to any of them. You sound ace to me, even if your sexuality fluctuates over time you can still be a valid ace. January 31, 2021 at 11:13PM

This is exactly how I feel. Aroace makes me feel (I dunno, warm and fuzzy?) and agender is just an afterthought. It still feels good, but not in the same way or to the same degree. January 31, 2021 at 11:12PM

Exactly what I did. My mom is thrilled with her grand-pup! January 31, 2021 at 11:11PM

It sounds like she’s sex favorable, above all else I’d advise communication. If you make it clear you just want to understand her I doubt she will feel insulted if you ask her questions like this. January 31, 2021 at 11:07PM

Both are great January 31, 2021 at 11:07PM