Do girls with daddy issues want someone to be their rock(love/support) or do they want someone like their daddy(distant/uncertain), perhaps both? I am perplexed and intrigued by this girl I'm going out with. For context, I'm 32 years old, she's 8 years younger and we get along pretty great overall. I have read all books, been with tons of women and have never really had a problem figuring girls out, but I feel like I need a little help with this one. Submitted March 07, 2020 at 12:20AM Do girls with daddy issues want someone to be their rock(love/support) or do they want someone like their daddy(distant/uncertain), perhaps both? I am perplexed and intrigued by this girl I'm going out with. For context, I'm 32 years old, she's 8 years younger and we get along pretty great overall. I have read all books, been with tons of women and have never really had a problem figuring girls out, but I feel like I need a little help with this one.

"My rebuke of you is not the parting you deserve from me. And your forgiveness for me is a gift that I'm joyfully indebted to. You have my sincerest admiration for the way your spirit wills towards that which calls it most justly. I want to begin a fruitful silence with you on a note of acceptance, and not of rejection. You deserve my praise and not my scorn." I could not let such hardness of heart persist.. Submitted March 07, 2020 at 12:11AM "My rebuke of you is not the parting you deserve from me. And your forgiveness for me is a gift that I'm joyfully indebted to. You have my sincerest admiration for the way your spirit wills towards that which calls it most justly. I want to begin a fruitful silence with you on a note of acceptance, and not of rejection. You deserve my praise and not my scorn."I could not let such hardness of heart persist..

I have been on & off OLD for over a decade and wanted to share some tips, as there's a lot of people who write "IDK what to say, just MSG me." Take what you like, leave what you don't. On mobile, sorry for formatting. Be honest. With yourself: what do you want? Hook ups, relationships, looking for someone to marry, or anything in between. If you don't know, that's okay. It's more important to be honest than to have a label. With your profile: there's some stuff you don't have to put on a profile, but be upfront with what you're looking for, hobbies or activities you engage in, some values or beliefs that are important to you. Mention things like: books you liked, games you rocked, role models you value(d). Focus on using positive wording, as you are selling yourself. You don't need to brag, but instead of saying something that's self deprecating, find a different perspective that is more relatable. Use current photos. It...

Back in the end of January sadly my boyfriend (M24) and I (F22) went through a miscarriage. I bled for a solid two weeks, had a number of doctors appointments, and an OB appointment where they took a cervical biopsy causing me to bleed more. In this period of time we were having sex due to all of the bleeding. We had sex once before my period came last month and I hurt all over, mentally and physically. I did not enjoy it at all. Honestly I’m not even interested in sex right now and we have only had it 3 times since this incident. I’m not sure what I need to do to feel better. I know I need to meet his needs. I just don’t feel sexual at all. I don’t blame him for any of what happened. I have no resentment so idk why I feel this way. I think because he knows this he hasn’t initiated anything and quite frankly I don’t want to but idk what I should do. Submitted March 06, 2020 at 10:54PM Back in the end of January sadly my boyfriend (M24) and I (F22) went through a miscarriage. I b...

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Me and my husband have been having some problems. You'll see if you check my posts lol. I've been working on trying to figure it out and I finally did this weekend. I know what's ailing him and why I've been so hurt but really it is unrelated to me. So that's good but we had some hard honest talks. Like I said something's I thought I'd never say. He said LOTS of things I've never heard. I would've never guessed like I was shocked he felt certain ways about things I say or do ie my very judgemental tone. I'm like what I have that?! I'm just expressive but okay. So I'll tone that down I guess. But something weird happened. I can't describe it. We were talking for the 3rd day (he's gone 5 hours away for work so we have to break up these long talks) and I was still hurt. But I was getting the answers I wanted and it was REALLY WEIRD the HONESTY was making me feel some type of way. Like it was giving my vagina a HEARTBEAT. Odd. 💦...

Just got done, and I feel disgusted with what I just did. Is this because I’m not truly attracted to this girl or is it just a post but clarity thing? Has any guy in a relationship ever experienced this with their girlfriend where they aren’t attracted to them after the sex? How about guys who just hookup? Submitted March 06, 2020 at 11:01PM Just got done, and I feel disgusted with what I just did. Is this because I’m not truly attracted to this girl or is it just a post but clarity thing? Has any guy in a relationship ever experienced this with their girlfriend where they aren’t attracted to them after the sex? How about guys who just hookup?

So this is a question for the ladies. I haven't been sexually intimate with a large number of women in my life, but I have had enough experience to wonder about women and anal penetration and intercourse. I've only ever been with ONE woman who genuinely loved being fucked in her anus, even to the point of having orgasms that way. We all know porn is really fantasy and doesn't reflect real world sexual experience, however.... Are there maybe a somewhat larger percentage of women who do enjoy anal intercourse, and I just haven't met that many? Really curious to hear from women directly about the truth. Submitted March 06, 2020 at 11:04PM So this is a question for the ladies. I haven't been sexually intimate with a large number of women in my life, but I have had enough experience to wonder about women and anal penetration and intercourse. I've only ever been with ONE woman who genuinely loved being fucked in her anus, even to the point of having orgasms tha...

Ok so, I am a straight female, and I also happen to be a Leo wich is a fire sign (bear with me for a sec, I am getting into it) And I have the biggest crush on an Aquarius, a water sign. And really, I just had an erotic daydream that, while having oral sex and that he starts ejaculating, I would put out mouth and say «extinguish my fire mister fire man» while he would be "watering" me. Submitted March 06, 2020 at 11:11PM Ok so, I am a straight female, and I also happen to be a Leo wich is a fire sign (bear with me for a sec, I am getting into it) And I have the biggest crush on an Aquarius, a water sign.And really, I just had an erotic daydream that, while having oral sex and that he starts ejaculating, I would put out mouth and say «extinguish my fire mister fire man» while he would be "watering" me.

I F19, after leaving a toxic relationship, spent some time avoiding everything that resembled a relationship. Then I started wanting sex again and now I have two FWBs. I'm back to sex and it's the best feeling ever. I've never treated the topic of sex as taboo but now I'm getting even more honest with myself about it, I'm learning new things about myself. I'm so happy. I'm starting to realize interesting things about my sexual preferences. I feel like I've discovered a whole new aspect of myself. Submitted March 06, 2020 at 11:13PM I F19, after leaving a toxic relationship, spent some time avoiding everything that resembled a relationship. Then I started wanting sex again and now I have two FWBs. I'm back to sex and it's the best feeling ever. I've never treated the topic of sex as taboo but now I'm getting even more honest with myself about it, I'm learning new things about myself. I'm so happy. I'm starting to realize...

Last night my partner and I had a very new and interesting experience together! We're currently long distance, so more often than not we get freaky over text; I like to call it sexy texty time lol we got on the topic of porn we watch (we're an incredibly pro-masturbation couple, and are very open about it with each other), and found that we actually had some very common tastes with it, even the stuff that's more weird and uncouth. This eventually lead to masturbating together" while sharing pictures/screen shots of stuff we found and really liked. Neither of us had done this before either with another person or each other before, but it was a great experience I highly encourage couples to try! We both gained an ever better understanding of the other person as a sexual being, and even found potential future role play from it! Edit: I think another reason why this is great to do occasionally is because a lot of people have fantasies or things they like that aren't...

Hey, I’m for the Toronto area and I’ve just gotten out of a long relationship. I always use protection but I’m always terrified of catching herpes or something along those lines. How can I overcome this fear so I can actually enjoy causal sex? Thanks in advance! Submitted March 06, 2020 at 11:21PM Hey, I’m for the Toronto area and I’ve just gotten out of a long relationship. I always use protection but I’m always terrified of catching herpes or something along those lines. How can I overcome this fear so I can actually enjoy causal sex?Thanks in advance!

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Hi. I never posted to one of these things before and I made a reddit account just to post this. Anyways, me and my papa (that’s what I call him most of the time) been in a ddlg relationship for maybe 3 months, almost 4. And he’s the best daddy I ever had and he always give me attention whether I’m in little space or not. But he hasn’t messaged me since Monday. And I know he said he was busy, but I really miss him and I’m getting worried. I keep thinking the worse like what if something happened to him. I try not to think like that, but he lives far away and yeah ): anyways sorry for the long paragraph I just need to vent to someone because I have no friends that are aware of my ddlg. Submitted March 06, 2020 at 11:24PM Hi. I never posted to one of these things before and I made a reddit account just to post this. Anyways, me and my papa (that’s what I call him most of the time) been in a ddlg relationship for maybe 3 months, almost 4. And he’s the best daddy I ever had and he al...

Hello people. So I talked to my girlfriend about it and she was willing to let me finish off in her mouth. She said that it tasted bitter but she won't mind letting me do it again. I've read on the internet that what you eat can affect the taste of your cum. For example, apparently pineapples, apples, lemons, etc. can make your cum taste better. Is this true? Also, how long will it take to affect the taste? Like... If tomorrow's gonna be humpin' day then is having said fruits today enough? Or do I have to start marking the calendar and make sure I eat those fruits for like a week before the big day? I really want this to be a good experience for the both of us. Submitted March 06, 2020 at 11:26PM Hello people. So I talked to my girlfriend about it and she was willing to let me finish off in her mouth. She said that it tasted bitter but she won't mind letting me do it again.I've read on the internet that what you eat can affect the taste of your cum. For...

Last night I was using my boyfriend’s browser to search something & when I opened a new tab, the ones behind it displayed images of a very obviously overweight woman. I then went to his search history & upon doing that, found that he searched for “big belly bbw”. Immediately, I confronted him about this, as it makes me extremely uncomfortable. I am no where close to the size that the women he searched for are. I understand a fantasy but I have seen (before we started dating) nudes on his phone of MUCH larger women. I feel as if he is into fat girls & he is not honest enough with himself to admit that. I have been with him for 2 years & he has apparently lied to me this entire time about his sexual history. He has told me that he’s had sex with at least 4 people, one of them attractive, the rest I have not seen. Last night, he told me that he’s only had sex with one other person besides me & that she was fat (he lost his virginity to her). Now I don’t know what to...

I (f18) usually would have to use my hand to rub my clit during sex to reach an orgasm. But today, I orgasmed with just penetration and without rubbing myself. It felt sooo good. I didn’t know I could orgasm with just penetration,so I shocked myself and him (m20). It was by far the best sex I’ve ever had. Submitted March 06, 2020 at 11:36PM I (f18) usually would have to use my hand to rub my clit during sex to reach an orgasm. But today, I orgasmed with just penetration and without rubbing myself. It felt sooo good. I didn’t know I could orgasm with just penetration,so I shocked myself and him (m20). It was by far the best sex I’ve ever had.

My boyfriend has been asking for anal sex (he has had it before but I haven’t) and I have always declined. I never told him the real reason why but basically just said it would be painful. He has recently stopped bringing it up since thinks my answer will always be no. I have a butt plug but have only used it a handful of times and that hurt at first but began to feel good (with lube). I’ve never let him plug my ass. I genuinely want to try anal and I want to give him what he wants but my reluctance is because I have a fear of getting poop on his dick or him seeing it possibly on the plug (even with a condom, seeing shit in general would be gross) or a smell. I obviously shower regularly but I still have a fear that something is lingering in my rectum that would literally embarrass me from wanting to have sex ever again. Not sure where to go from here. Submitted March 06, 2020 at 11:37PM My boyfriend has been asking for anal sex (he has had it before but I haven’t) and I have al...

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I’m not sure if I’ve ever had an orgasm (I’ve only recently become sexually active). My bf and I were having sex today and we tried doggy style and it was the best sex we’ve ever had. He doesn’t last very long (6-8 mins), so the pleasure for me is short lived however today it felt soo good but I’m not sure if it was an orgasm. He was hitting my g-spot which felt amazing and my moans were genuine, i almost started crying it felt so good. But there was no “climax” as an orgasm has been described as having... it just felt good the entire time from start to finish. Afterwards i felt really tired and my heart was racing. My bf always asks me after if I came and i dont know what to tell him because I really don’t know. Would this be considered an orgasm?? Submitted March 06, 2020 at 11:42PM I’m not sure if I’ve ever had an orgasm (I’ve only recently become sexually active). My bf and I were having sex today and we tried doggy style and it was the best sex we’ve ever had. He doesn’t la...

I feel weird/embarrassed even typing this. But 3 days I tried prostate stimulation for the first time and...holy fuck it feels good. I haven’t had a prostate orgasm I read about, just enhanced “regular” orgasms, but it’s amazing, more than triple intensity. I hate the idea of pegging. I actually hate the whole “process”, and what “needs to be done.” But just leaving something there is enough for the best pleasure ever...I have to really force myself not to make noise or moan, even then usually something comes out. I always want that feeling But how would I possibly bring that up with a woman without her running away? Submitted March 06, 2020 at 11:46PM I feel weird/embarrassed even typing this. But 3 days I tried prostate stimulation for the first time and...holy fuck it feels good. I haven’t had a prostate orgasm I read about, just enhanced “regular” orgasms, but it’s amazing, more than triple intensity.I hate the idea of pegging. I actually hate the whole “process”, and what...

My girlfriend and I met from a hookup. We knew each other super minimally but had a strong sense that we would enjoy sex with each other so she came over. I am pretty sexually literate and try to improve on things of my partner would like it different etc. but I’m TERRIBLE and I mean completely freeze up and get nervous god awful at taking initiative with someone for the very first time when it comes to kissing or something more. Maybe even just touching a butt. I like to know the girl would be okay with it and all and can’t seem to read if she would like it or not when there is not an explicitly stated yes. Anyways she came over under the premise of hooking up, and I don’t exactly do hook ups but there I was with a pretty lady in my room, wanting and intending to have sex with me, and we were both still clothed. I tell her I don’t know how to start this kinda thing. (As that seems to typically be the guys job) and upon telling her I was totally lost she just started kissing me and t...