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/u/sheiseyecandy on “You have short nails, you must be a lesbian”

It says u have priorities just like everyone else May 11, 2022 at 11:39PM

Trouble intiating

18m Been talking to this girl for about a year now, tho we can’t meet up because of distance and our culture (religious country) but last night we confessed that we like each other. But she also complained that she’s always the one initiating stuff like calls, photos, topics and yes she’s the one who confessed first :) BUT I wanna change that! So how can I become more than what I am right now? excuse my English and thank you! Submitted May 12, 2022 at 12:07AM 18m Been talking to this girl for about a year now, tho we can’t meet up because of distance and our culture (religious country) but last night we confessed that we like each other. But she also complained that she’s always the one initiating stuff like calls, photos, topics and yes she’s the one who confessed first :) BUT I wanna change that! So how can I become more than what I am right now? excuse my English and thank you!

How to meet other gay men?

I (gay 25 M) have tried online dating and it hasn’t worked. I’m also not a huge bar/club goer. Any other ways to meet other gay men? Submitted May 12, 2022 at 12:09AM I (gay 25 M) have tried online dating and it hasn’t worked. I’m also not a huge bar/club goer. Any other ways to meet other gay men?

“I like you but I’m not ready for a relationship” truth?

Anyone find any truth behind this? I think I came on a little too strong with this girl I was falling for and scared her off. Haven’t texted her in a week and she hasn’t reached out at all either. When she said it I basically said, “no worries if it’s not gonna work it’s not gonna work” and that was it. Why even throw in the “I like you” if it’s just a cop out bc of no interest? Submitted May 12, 2022 at 12:09AM Anyone find any truth behind this? I think I came on a little too strong with this girl I was falling for and scared her off. Haven’t texted her in a week and she hasn’t reached out at all either.When she said it I basically said, “no worries if it’s not gonna work it’s not gonna work” and that was it.Why even throw in the “I like you” if it’s just a cop out bc of no interest?

What Should I Do?

Hi, so about 2 years ago I met this girl online. Well more like I saw her Instagram handle on her profile on an app and dmed her. She replied that night and we got into chatting. Got her snapchat and for the next 6 hours we texted nonstop. Mind you she first dmed me back around 11pm. Over the course of the time we would text nonstop and I don't always have to text first. It is like our vibe or "energy" matched. She doesn't want a relationship at the time, but I did.. She comes over the first time. We skate over to the nearby Target and I buy shampoo for my newly dyed hair and she's sitting in the shopping cart as I push her. We skate back and get food at the nearby restaurant and talk about life. We take it back to my place and eat it. Before she leaves, she lets me kiss her. Afterwards as I said we still constantly text and snap and sometimes video chat like it seems so great. Second time she comes over, she is dying my hair for me. We lay stomach-down on the be...

Do I text her or nah?

So back in November I lost my virginity to this girl, we'll call her Claire. We're both seniors in high school, so she was 17 turning 18 and I just turned 18. We had talked about it beforehand and decided we wanted a friends with benefits situation with an option for something developing if we felt it was right. We fool a few times and I call it off because I don't want anything to develop and I could feel myself becoming attached, even though I didn't like her as a person. She cried and said she was starting to like me and it was a big ordeal. A month or so passes and I regret cutting it off because I'm a little horndog. So, I try to get things moving again. She tells me she doesnt want to, and that she doesnt want us hanging out end in sex. I ask her why and i never get a straight answer. We end up making out in my car a few days later (though I admit I initiated it). And before things could escalate her mom calls her and she has to go. I was a little annoyed ...

/u/CherryVallance on Sex repulsed aces who have NOT experienced sexual abuse, what about sex makes you dislike it so much? (If you know what bothers you about it)

For me I don’t think it’s any one particular thing. I really dislike society’s fascination and depiction of it, and I’ve seen way too many people wreck their relationships over it. It’s just so overrated. Look at all the Hollywood sex scandal stuff, all the men who’ve tried to hide it - it’s just gross. Money and sex, two of the most powerful evils that people abuse, in my opinion. May 11, 2022 at 11:39PM