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/u/gatemansgc on Sex :(

i'm kinky but repulsed by sex itself, so i absolutely agree. January 20, 2021 at 11:54PM

/u/gatemansgc on Awkward questions...

probably have someone british in the family lel. at least it's not as bad as it is over in england! oh my, that's unfortunate. maybe one day you can adopt! that's better than biological kids anyway. you can see my kink if you scroll through my posthistory a bit, i don't bring it up in threads until they get old to avoid the torrent of downvotes it attracts. my kink is too weird for most people lol January 20, 2021 at 11:52PM

/u/ineedtogooutsidemore on It took me a long time to understand ...

I relate to this way too muchhhh January 20, 2021 at 11:48PM

/u/_milhaim_ on Haven't read through them all yet, but I'm building my collection!

Oh I see. I wish I had department funds haha Oh cool, I'll add it to my list! Thank you :) January 20, 2021 at 11:48PM

/u/Piccionna on Me hanging out in these ace/aro communities without a care in the world vs. me when I think about actually telling my family

sameee January 20, 2021 at 11:48PM

/u/ineedtogooutsidemore on Do you feel welcomed in the LGBTIA+ community?

Somewhat(?????). I’m biromantic ace, so I can just pass off as bisexual when around assholes who don’t like aces wether they’re in the lgbtq community or not. And some exclusionists still consider allosexual aromantics and alloromantic asexuals who have same sex attraction of some sort LGBTQ in terms of orientation. So with that, I’m much better off then heteroromantic/aromantic asexuals who unfortunately are the ones gatekeeped the most :/ Although luckily there are lots of people who are inclusive to all asexuals and support them!! So it’s not all bad I guess? January 20, 2021 at 11:44PM

/u/babbitygook14 on Haven't read through them all yet, but I'm building my collection!

Yeah, Asexualitues wasn't cheap. I got it off Amazon for ~$60. Since I'm using it for my thesis, I used funds allocated to grad students from my department to help pay for it. Understanding Asexuality is great! It's a really fun read compared to most academic texts. Bogaert is hilarious. January 20, 2021 at 11:43PM

/u/haikusbot on Hot!

Correct me if im Mistaken but i domg think That a Is bottle - joshuacarre06 I detect haikus. And sometimes, successfully. Learn more about me. Opt out of replies: "haikusbot opt out" | Delete my comment: "haikusbot delete" January 20, 2021 at 11:42PM

/u/joshuacarre06 on Hot!

Correct me if im mistaken but i dont think that is A bottle January 20, 2021 at 11:42PM

/u/genienie on Me hanging out in these ace/aro communities without a care in the world vs. me when I think about actually telling my family

I love you 🥺 thank you! January 20, 2021 at 11:41PM

/u/leonissans on “You don’t look ace.” And I don’t care what goes on in your bedroom and you shouldn’t have to care about my bedroom life. ♠️😌👋🏻

Dammit 4 months later and I still wish I looked like this. I'm to trans for this :( January 20, 2021 at 11:41PM

/u/moniker2therescue on Me hanging out in these ace/aro communities without a care in the world vs. me when I think about actually telling my family

Not everyone's story is the same, but I want you to know you don't owe anyone anything. Coming out is a journey that will last your whole lifetime, and you have the right to choose each step of that journey (hopefully... if no one outs you against your wishes). You don't have to come out to anyone you don't want to. If you're just not ready yet, that's okay. And, if you have someone in your life that you don't ever want to tell... that's okay too. If you're not ready and you need a safe placeto express yourself, we're here. When you are ready, if you need a shoulder to cry on or someone to celebrate with... we're here. We are proud of who you are. with great compassion from an old grey bi lady January 20, 2021 at 11:39PM

/u/GlassBank on Is this true?

Yes. There are a lot of "buts" but the answer is yes. January 20, 2021 at 11:36PM

/u/allo100 on Excuse my messed up palm, I have a lot of calluses. Anyway loooookkkkk aaattttt myyyyyyyyy rinnnnnngggg im so happy

Ring is nice. January 20, 2021 at 11:35PM

/u/NotANilfgaardianSpy on Hot!

I‘m originally from Germany January 20, 2021 at 11:34PM

/u/romanator25 on I made myself a simple crochet brACElet!

Great job on the acelet! I have a parachord one myself (actually posted it half a week ago) it’s great to see people showing pride through rings and acelets, also a good way to spot an ace in the wild. Edit: final note, it is also good to see the divers ways to make the bracelets too! January 20, 2021 at 11:33PM

/u/Destructopoo on Hot!

Scoot is like a small movement. It's usually used in a friendly way. When somebody says "scoot over" they mean "move over enough for me", meaning I'm trying to get in on the wärmflaschening too. Thanks for taking the time to speak with a non native speaker! What's your native language? January 20, 2021 at 11:32PM

/u/_milhaim_ on Haven't read through them all yet, but I'm building my collection!

I'm planning on doing my dissertation next term about my experience of asexuality and I was looking to build my bibliography so thank you for this! I was looking for Asexualities (Feminist and queer perspectives) but it was really expensive everywhere I looked. May I ask where you found it? Also, if you've read it, what is the top left one like? January 20, 2021 at 11:32PM

/u/nootnotnut on Hi! Do you mind if i join the club?

Extra extra points January 20, 2021 at 11:30PM

/u/The_Book-JDP on Freak?

Everyone always acts like if you never find anyone...then you’ll be in literal hell until the day you die; you know...if you don’t kill yourself first. I say if the person you are with doesn’t accept all of who you are then there’s no reason to be with that person. There is more to life than just sex and you should feel liberated that you aren’t held back and so distracted that you can do really anything without having that constant itch in the back of your mind or in all of your mind like who the majority of the population has sex on the mind. I’m not with anyone...I’m 38 and am perfectly content with the fact that I will die alone. Seeing as that the odds of me ending up with someone who is expecting sex is basically 100% and I’m never looking to engage...they are relationships that are destined to fail since everyone puts so much important on sex even though you can go your entire life and never have it and it doesn’t shorten your life expectancy at all. If you are lucky, you’ll f...

/u/stitchitch on Hi! Do you mind if i join the club?

And if it's vegan? January 20, 2021 at 11:28PM

/u/stitchitch on Hi! Do you mind if i join the club?

No get out. Jk here's your honorary garlic bread 🥖and cake🎂. January 20, 2021 at 11:27PM

/u/DancingQueen_only17 on Awkward questions...

The grandkids one makes me uncomfortable. So I’m the youngest of my siblings and am 18 and my mum has already stuff for future grand children. None of my siblings have relationships and I’m an (closeted to them) aroace😂 January 20, 2021 at 11:26PM