I (23m) and the girl I was talking to with (19f) ended things early before we even got the chance to really start. So I am a junior and college and so is she. I am normally a quiet guy just doing my thing until I was approached by a girl who was interested in my almost towards the end of the semester (that time was early- mid December). I was scared to do it all over again because my previous relationship ended on October and I was with that person for 1yr and 6 months. (She too got out of a relationship that same month but it ended pretty bad) I wasn't planning on getting into another relationship but something about her was different. It felt like we've know each other for a long time and we just clicked. She pretty much made the first moves like asking for my number and 2 weeks later kissing me. I know it was all so fast but at the time it just didn't seem like it. We video called every night and we even played games together. (which is something I've never done wi...

I cold approached a girl at my college and ended up going on a first date with her, the date was good, we connected on alot of things, maintained eye contact, held hands. We ended up making out a couple of times and she was the first to suggest that she was free in a couple of days to hangout again. Once the date was over, I ended up texting her later that night and said “I don’t want to interrupt your studying but it was really great getting to know you and I’d love to do it again”, she replied a day later that she was busy all day and that she is busy with school and her acting classes and that she thinks that needs to be her main focus. I replied that “it’s no worries at all and I respect you for wanting to focus on your goals. I wish you all the best” Maybe I could have left it open ended and tell her to let me know if she ever changes her mind, but I don’t know. I’m bummed because she was really cool and completely my type. Submitted February 06, 2023 at 01:11AM I cold ap...

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I met a girl on a dating app.. we made plans to meet up for dinner tonight about 4 days in advance.. they kept hinting at potentially pushing the date back until Later since they have a “sorority meeting at night “but still insisted to meet after. She’s been texting consistently back and forth but she just texted me saying “hey, i just got a notification saying my sororities event tonight has been moved to 7-9. i don’t know if tonight is the best night timing wise for dinner. i feel so bad, but can we please rain check?”…. What should I do/say? I’m pretty annoyed right now. Submitted February 06, 2023 at 12:03AM I met a girl on a dating app.. we made plans to meet up for dinner tonight about 4 days in advance.. they kept hinting at potentially pushing the date back until Later since they have a “sorority meeting at night “but still insisted to meet after. She’s been texting consistently back and forth but she just texted me saying “hey, i just got a notification saying my sorori...

Me (21F) and my housemate (21M) have been going on four dates together within a week and he hasn’t made a move. For context he is really, very shy. I also don’t think he’s every been intimate with a girl, although I might be wrong about this. I told him I really liked him on a drunk night out and we basically told each other how we felt then. At first everything was slow and he clearly held back a lot of things he wanted to say. Slowly but surely he has been opening up a lot and he tells me how happy he is getting to know me, how much he likes me and continues to ask me out on dates. I feel like we’ve become a lot closer, and I’m starting to feel emotionally attached to this guy. We share a lot of intimate conversations. Nonetheless, he hasn’t made a move and during all this time (considering we also live together) he hasn’t tried to hug, kiss or be physically intimate at ALL. I struggle to do so as well, but I feel like I try to get him to become more comfortable with me while he is...

Recently I went on a first date with a girl and I thought it went alright, wasn’t amazing but it was fun. About an hour after I got home I sent her a text telling her I had a nice time and that I’d be interested in another date this weekend if she’s down. That was last night around 11pm, it’s been about 20 hours since I sent that text. How long after a date is a lack of a response considered ghosting? Also, would double texting be a bad idea here? Submitted February 06, 2023 at 12:14AM Recently I went on a first date with a girl and I thought it went alright, wasn’t amazing but it was fun. About an hour after I got home I sent her a text telling her I had a nice time and that I’d be interested in another date this weekend if she’s down. That was last night around 11pm, it’s been about 20 hours since I sent that text. How long after a date is a lack of a response considered ghosting? Also, would double texting be a bad idea here?