My wife (29F) and I (32M) have been married for 5 years. We have a wonderful marriage. We communicate really well, are extremely supportive of each other, share responsibilities, and genuinely enjoy each other's company. Right now, she is working from home full-time, and I am down to part-time hours, but also working from home. Despite being around each other almost non-stop, we are as close as ever and have had no conflicts or stresses on our relationship. The one area which has been a concern for years, though, is our sex life. We used to have sex a few times a week, which was fantastic. I knew that sex might taper off a bit as time went on, but I wasn't prepared for what has happened. We now have sex no more than twice a month, sometimes only once a month. I try to initiate much more often, but she always shoots me down. We never have sex on weeknights, only weekends. She never initiates, never tries to seduce me, never makes any attempt at being sexy. When we do have sex,

So one day I got a message from someone I have never met before she told me she wanted to trade nudes keep in mind this was my first time ever sending nudes so at first I was scared so I decided to talk to her and get to know her we talked for hours and hours we talked about everything and anything by the time we were done talking she had already sent me two pics and one video so I thought I had to send her stuff it was at night I was laying in bed so I got up and sent her a lot of pics she rated my face and my dick a 8-9 she texted me super fast she made me actually think she liked me I didn’t think I could catch feelings just from nudes & texting but somehow I did I thought about her so much she told me she wouldn’t stop texting me she texted me every morning right when she woke up she made me feel like I meant something to her and then one day actually I think it was yesterday or two days ago she stopped texting me and she blocked me 💔💔💔 I felt and still do feel hurt broken

I'm a virgin and I've heard people on the internet say that sex without a condom feels awesome and with a condom it's not as incredible. Is it still really good tho? Cause when I will have sex with my gf I will obviously use a condom. Submitted May 07, 2020 at 12:21AM I'm a virgin and I've heard people on the internet say that sex without a condom feels awesome and with a condom it's not as incredible. Is it still really good tho? Cause when I will have sex with my gf I will obviously use a condom.

long story short, im 25(f), lost my virginity in nov 2019 (hurt like hell, had to stop, cried, tried again, less sucky but wasn’t great), then had sex again in february, dude was kinda thick...dont remember it hurting but i did bleed abit after. I’m jus worried that if i have sex again its always gonna be this tightness there and its kinda stressing me out. sometimes its even uncomfortable to finger myself and i hate it. would love some advice! thanks in advance! Submitted May 07, 2020 at 12:23AM long story short, im 25(f), lost my virginity in nov 2019 (hurt like hell, had to stop, cried, tried again, less sucky but wasn’t great), then had sex again in february, dude was kinda thick...dont remember it hurting but i did bleed abit after. I’m jus worried that if i have sex again its always gonna be this tightness there and its kinda stressing me out. sometimes its even uncomfortable to finger myself and i hate it. would love some advice! thanks in advance!

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Every time I've asked my bf a fantasy of his, it's always something about me being dominant. Not like whips and chains, but me being on top, taking charge, etc. But I'm more naturally submissive. It doesn't turn me on to be dominant at all. I prefer men to tend to take charge sexually, but he's much more passive. One time when we were engaged in foreplay, he even asked me, "what do you want me to do?" That's honestly one of the biggest turn offs to me, when a guy asks for instructions even when he knows the things I like. It makes me want to just roll over and turn on the tv. It makes getting turned on for me difficult. It doesn't help that his dick is huge; I REALLY need to be wet for him to even get in. Once we get going, we have great sex even though he doesn't do a lot of the things I like. It's getting turned on that takes work. I've told him clearly what I want but he just barely does those things. I even reminded him recently

I've been grinding on pillows ever since I was a child. I find that I get enjoyment in the beginning, but over time my clit becomes less sensitive. Does this mean that I am in no way of achieving orgasm? Should I just give up, and try something else or should I keep trying even though I cannot feel anything? This is coming from a girl who is on a mission to have her first orgasm btw. Submitted May 07, 2020 at 12:29AM I've been grinding on pillows ever since I was a child. I find that I get enjoyment in the beginning, but over time my clit becomes less sensitive.Does this mean that I am in no way of achieving orgasm? Should I just give up, and try something else or should I keep trying even though I cannot feel anything?This is coming from a girl who is on a mission to have her first orgasm btw.

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Cause I was emotional and clingy. He's moving out and filing for divorce. I'm not sure if there is another person. This is 8 months into the marriage and 5 years of being together. Submitted May 07, 2020 at 12:19AM Cause I was emotional and clingy. He's moving out and filing for divorce. I'm not sure if there is another person. This is 8 months into the marriage and 5 years of being together.

Kinda a long story, and I know these probably get thrown in here a ton, so sorry if you've seen enough of these. I met this girl on a dating app and ended up getting her Snapchat. We started texting on Snapchat and shortly after I asked her on a date (doing something that she said she liked). I got a "maybe, but I want to get to know you better first" kinda text. Okay, good enough for me, I'll keep texting a see where it goes. Fast forward a couple more days of texting and I asked her again (I'll admit, probably a bit too soon, but I was eager). This time she straight up told me that "it's not me" (my fault), just that meeting up with guys she meets online kinda freaks her out a little bit (understandable), that anyone could be a killer (but "not me"). She said she wants to get to know me better still. I say ok, thinking that's not bad either. Additionally, to be cautious I've kind of stopped the compliments for now (simple stuff

I'm 19 (fem) and he's 25 (we started dating when I was 17), my parents know him and approve him, we've been together for 1 year and 8 months. I'm a med student and he just graduated as a dentist. We are so compatible (career, goals, dreams) and we had a great relationship. He had to do an internship/social service year to get his credentials (that's how it works in my country) and he had to move to another city, 3 hours from me to live alone, we would only see each other during the weekend. We had problems before bc he still had commitments/emotions issues from his previous relationship (4 toxic yrs), he was afraid of me leaving/stop loving him, I always gave him all, I felt like I was paying for someone else's mistakes and putting up with double the effort, but I did it anyways bc I love him and wanted him to get better. We did overcome that, got over it and everything was better, he did went to therapy and improve a lot. But then he confessed me that he star

I am considering that, but I need a topic, I still don't have a topic in my mind, maybe playing the violin? I dropped it for a long time. I have to pick it up...Does it sound attractive? Submitted May 06, 2020 at 11:47PM I am considering that, but I need a topic, I still don't have a topic in my mind, maybe playing the violin? I dropped it for a long time. I have to pick it up...Does it sound attractive?

I(F29) have been seeing a man(33) casually for 2 and a half months. While we really like each other and have great chemistry it seems as though we have fallen into a situationship. We cuddle all night and are very lovey dovey with eachother. All the sweet kisses and deep emotional talks. Well other than deciding on sexual exclusivity we haven’t labeled anything. I’d like to be his girlfriend but I’m not really in a rush and I’m confident enough that it wouldn’t shatter my world if he didn’t want that. So here’s my dilemma, I have been talking to someone that wants to go out on a date this week and I want to.. now I know that my situationship is casual but I kind of feel bad. Should I inform my initial partner about my date since we are so intimate with each other? And if so, what should I say? I don’t want to hurt his feelings. Submitted May 06, 2020 at 11:50PM I(F29) have been seeing a man(33) casually for 2 and a half months. While we really like each other and have great ch

I'm a 5'4 guy and very briefly I dated a 5'0 woman. She told me that height doesn't matter, but a couple weeks after meeting her she cheated on me. I kind of knew something was up because whenever we were together she would always be texting on her phone. She had cheated on me with a 6'2 guy and they slept together multiple times. I asked her if my height had mattered to her, but she said not it didn't when she actually cheated on me with a tall guy. I asked her if she was talking with anyone, but she said it was just a "friend." I knew she cheated on me because I had looked at her phone briefly when she was in the shower and saw all these messages of her wanting to spend the night with this guy. I'm not surprised, because a lot of short women told me that they like "bigger" guys so i'm not surprised this happened to me. I don't think i'll ever truly trust a woman that says height doesn't matter anymore. You never know wh

Pretty long story but I'd like to share as my first post on this subreddit. I was introduced to a girl through a friend. We went on a few double dates and Valentine's date (second day of knowing her). We made out on the first date. The attraction was there. She was always open to hanging out. She made plans of being around months down the road by saying she wanted to attend certain future events togther. Then COVID happened. So much has changed. I'm trying to be responsible and not ask her to hang during a damn pandemic. During this period, we mostly talked on the phone. It's been very dry. What can we really talk about? She's home all day. I'm working 5 days a week with long hours. I'm exhausted after work. I'm introvert and don't like to talk when I'm tired. We snapchatted each other, on a streak and everything. I tried sending her snaps/messages so it wouldn't seem like we're getting distant. Maybe the content was corny? She changed

I went on a date last night, and pretty early on the guy asked me if I wanted to hang out with him and all of his friends the following night. I agreed, and we had a good time. After the end of the date he texted me and said he was looking forward to tomorrow. Today he didn’t text me at all. No details, nothing. I just messaged and asked if we were still on tonight and said, “oh yeah, sorry! I forgot to tell you the details.... feel free to come!!” Feel free to come? Does this guy actually want me to go? Submitted May 07, 2020 at 12:12AM I went on a date last night, and pretty early on the guy asked me if I wanted to hang out with him and all of his friends the following night. I agreed, and we had a good time. After the end of the date he texted me and said he was looking forward to tomorrow.Today he didn’t text me at all. No details, nothing. I just messaged and asked if we were still on tonight and said, “oh yeah, sorry! I forgot to tell you the details.... feel free to com

So- If someone opens the topic of “what is this?” And expresses that they want to date and get closure with the goal of an LTR one day and aren’t open for fwb, then several days later asks “what do you think about this just being fwb?” Are they testing me to see how I respond or are they just asking a question. They asked me this with no lead up via text. When the topic originally came up, I admit I wasn’t very articulate but did say that I wanted to take it slow and see where it goes. We’ve since had sex. Now this comes up. I’m not sure if I’m being tested because I didn’t give a “hell yes/hell no” kind of response. Tbh- it might be hell yes one day. Right now, idk. I want to get to know them better and like being around them but I’m not quite ready to jump in with both feet so early. When I say “hell yes” I want to mean it and be 100% sure. What do y’all think? Submitted May 06, 2020 at 11:56PM So- If someone opens the topic of “what is this?” And expresses that they want t

So I have been dating this guy for a month and we have hung out basically every weekend . I really like him but idk what he is looking for because we haven’t talked about that yet ( neither of us brought it up ) . He’s been super helpful because when my car broke down he came& helped me towed it . However after our first meetup I noticed that he texts less but always reply when I text him ( which I rarely do since we are both busy unless if it’s for plans ) anyways I saw him last week and we kissed for the first time and it was super intense.we cuddled and he just stared intensely into my eyes & held hands as he called me gorgeous & just gazed at me intensely as I played with his hair .the kiss was very intense and strong because we were both getting turned on but I wasn’t ready and I was on my monthly due so I told him I wasn’t ready to have sex which he respected and just kept feeling me up and cuddling. I asked him how he felt about it and his response was that “ it was

I (35F) have been dating a guy since right before pandemic. So still very new (less than 10 dates virtual or otherwise) but lots of instant connection and amazing conversation and we both indicated we feel something quite positive as we chat like old friends but there’s a great physical attraction too. I have t felt this way in a while and usually takes me a while to let people in due to past hurts. I had high hopes. So he works in a line of business where it’s a basic salary but can be bonuses and commission / add ons incentives on top. Since the lockdown isn’t in his ace of work but does get paid the basic still. However he decided to continue to work with a group of clients (for free) to give advice weekly during the lockdown. As (he said to me) it kept him busy and it helped the clients out whilst the physical business was shut. He told me last week his employer called him out fo the blue to grill him about why he was doing that and basically to say it’s not ok. He felt they wer

Okay, so I downloaded Hinge this quarantine mainly because I had a lot of time on my hands and I had just gotten out of a long term relationship a couple of months ago. I figured I could chat with people and test the waters of online dating from the comfort of my own couch. I swiped on some guy, saw his cute puppy, and sent him a message about it. I live in the US by the Canadian border, and I failed to see his location tag. After an hour or so of great conversation I come to realize he is Canadian, and immediately I'm disappointed. We continue to chat anyways. We video chat almost every single night, and he even purchased an upgraded phone plan so he can talk to me on his cell! We made a google doc with a list of all the things that we're going to do together once quarantine is over. Last night, we even exchanged addresses to send eachother care packages. We have a countdown going until the border opens, which is supposed to be on May 21st, but we both doubt that will really

So there was a girl I liked and she went to USA. I was friends with friend and I use to tell her friend how much I miss her and everything and her friend suggested I get her number and I told her friend that ask her first if she’s okay with me getting her number and she agreed to give. I got her number and we started talking again and I asked her if she mind that I asked for her number from friend and she said no as i(me) have everyone number(she was intern at office) and I told her no I don’t have anyone else’s and she said “okay okay”.I was telling her how much I missed her sweet sweet voice and she asked me “why? Why was I missing her voice?” I told her “ I don’t know why but just was and missed her every single day after she left”. Again she she laughed off and said “why’s that” and I told her “ just don’t know why but no matter what I do all day, I miss her and can’t get her off my mind” she replied with a emoji and asked her so I shouldn’t miss you? And she laughed off again an