Let's have a thread to share some of the fun interest generators you might use on a first date or with a new OLD match! Here's one of mine: Suppose you're going deaf, but you're gifted a mysterious device that can preserve any three auditory experiences and replay them with perfect clarity despite your hearing loss--these experiences may be anything from crunching leaves in autumn to your favorite song to a 30-hour audiobook--what would you choose? Submitted December 17, 2021 at 01:15AM Let's have a thread to share some of the fun interest generators you might use on a first date or with a new OLD match! Here's one of mine:Suppose you're going deaf, but you're gifted a mysterious device that can preserve any three auditory experiences and replay them with perfect clarity despite your hearing loss--these experiences may be anything from crunching leaves in autumn to your favorite song to a 30-hour audiobook--what would you choose?

I think my partner has gotten used to it not being a major topic and that has been relieving for them in November. But now I'm trying to understand their sexuality and how to approach it. Discussing it and understanding it is exhausting for them when it's too much too quickly. I'll try to pace myself when I'm probing for answers for their particular preferences. Thanks for the reply December 17, 2021 at 12:33AM

I generally say LGBT+ or just "gay community". I'm 52, a late bloomer & still have much to learn. December 17, 2021 at 12:33AM

First girlfriend in several years. We have known each other for a while, but only started dating early this year. Sex was great the first bit, but one day I asked if she would blow me, and she seemed excited to try. We'd see each other on weekends, she kept telling me she'd do it next weekend, 4 or 5 weeks in a row. Then she finally told me she would do it that night, and when the time came I asked if she still wanted to, she didn't. I was not upset at all, I could tell from how she said it earlier that day that it wasn't going to happen. But I was disappointed. I wish she would have just told me she wouldn't at the time. I think she knew just as I did. Fast forward a few more months, we've talked about it a bit and she says she can't bring herself to. She was in an abusive relationship before and he forced her to do that, so now that she's in another relationship she just can't. It makes me feel like I'm doing something wrong, that I'm ...

So ive been casually dating a guy who told me hes straight out of a relationship a while back and things initially went really well but then I refused to have sex(bc I was to be relatively sure he's into me) with him and he just came back to me telling me "he went to a hooker". Like very close, right after. Then he even went as far as to ask me if Im jealous....I asked him "am i supposed to be?" I mean its not my business if he goes...I just didnt understand why he has the need to tell me that haha. Then he went on to express he wants a fwb which i refused and I distanced myself...but we kept on talking and eventually he opened up and said that this is not just a hookup thing for him but that he has feelings for me. Our conversations deepened and we talked endlessly into the night, some sexual things happened too....but then he went to declare he tried to rekindle a "friendship" with his ex. Then I really backed off, which he noticed and then he send...

Yes. All of the above. December 16, 2021 at 11:24PM