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/u/charliethequeer on Meet new aces

Some parts of Australia December 26, 2020 at 12:03AM

/u/Artist-128 on 👏🏻You👏🏻are👏🏻never👏🏻to👏🏻young👏🏻to👏🏻be👏🏻asexual👏🏻

13 here, raised in a LGBT-phobic family. I did my own research and I support the LGBT+. I know I’m ace, even if everyone else tells me otherwise. December 25, 2020 at 11:55PM

/u/TamTams_12 on Really excited to read my christmas present!

You're welcome! December 25, 2020 at 11:55PM

/u/BoundaryTheory on I learned that not only can aces have kinks, bu my kink is car noises

Thanks! Lol I guess it does sound weird though. Also I guess that makes sense. At the very least it’s what I would expect. Anything they find stimulating/enjoyable that can be associated with sex becomes a kink for an allosexual and anything that an asexual enjoys in general can become a kink. Hmm that’s an interesting theory. December 25, 2020 at 11:46PM

/u/Planklength on I learned that not only can aces have kinks, bu my kink is car noises

Feeling aroused by car noises is not something I've heard of before, but I'm glad you found something to enjoy. As far as I am aware, there's very little understanding of how kinks form in mainstream psychology. I think one of the more popular (but not very well-tested) explanations is that people start associating something with something else that feels nice, or is exciting. Anecdotally I can say that kinks seem to be decently common among ace people. December 25, 2020 at 11:43PM

/u/GlassPrunes on I am confused if I am an asexual

If you don't feel sexual attraction than you're asexual. If you only feel sexual attraction in certain, specific circumstances than you might be asexual/a- spectrum . The wiki of this sub is good place to find answers or clarifications to many questions you might have. December 25, 2020 at 11:40PM

/u/OrlaTheAccordionist on I came out to my parents a few months ago and they gave me these a Christmas gift!!

that is so cute🥺 December 25, 2020 at 11:38PM

/u/sector11374265 on Really bold to put this crap on an asexuality subreddit

imagine having opinions this aggressive and literally having no idea what you’re talking about December 25, 2020 at 11:37PM

/u/GiveKurapikaMoreLove on I got an ace ring for Christmas today! I’m very happy with it. Please excuse my nails, i haven’t filed them in a while so sorry about that lol.

Ahh onion rings are lovely, it’s understandable to keep nails short for making them lol December 25, 2020 at 11:35PM

/u/TheCoolerSeiver on I got an ace ring for Christmas today! I’m very happy with it. Please excuse my nails, i haven’t filed them in a while so sorry about that lol.

Worked at a Sonic making onion rings until very recently so most of my nails are short except for the one I used to peel onions with, lol December 25, 2020 at 11:33PM

/u/RABlackAuthor on I think im asexual but i also feel like i may be lying

If you feel like you're asexual now, but things change in a few years as you get older, that doesn't mean you're lying now. It just means you've changed. When I was a boy, I sang soprano in my church choir. Then my voice changed, and now I sing tenor. But that doesn't mean I was lying about being a soprano before. Being human is complicated, especially when you're in your teens and have all those hormones rampaging around your body. If you want to identify as asexual now, then go for it. If things change later, you can worry about that later. December 25, 2020 at 11:32PM

/u/GlassPrunes on What changed when you realized you were asexual?

Helped me understand some of the reasons I felt different than my peers, as well as why I felt weird with the bisexual label (now see myself as asexual biromantic) December 25, 2020 at 11:31PM

/u/GiveKurapikaMoreLove on I got an ace ring for Christmas today! I’m very happy with it. Please excuse my nails, i haven’t filed them in a while so sorry about that lol.

Practical nails are great! I can’t really do much with mine as they’re long, but when i cut them it’s nice to be able to do things haha December 25, 2020 at 11:30PM

/u/TheCoolerSeiver on I got an ace ring for Christmas today! I’m very happy with it. Please excuse my nails, i haven’t filed them in a while so sorry about that lol.

Mine are... practical December 25, 2020 at 11:29PM

/u/OkieNope on I came out to my parents a few months ago and they gave me these a Christmas gift!!

This is so wholesome ♥️ December 25, 2020 at 11:29PM

/u/GiveKurapikaMoreLove on I got an ace ring for Christmas today! I’m very happy with it. Please excuse my nails, i haven’t filed them in a while so sorry about that lol.

Aw thanks! And I’m sure your nails look nice too tho December 25, 2020 at 11:28PM

/u/RABlackAuthor on What changed when you realized you were asexual?

I'm older (56M), so for me it was more like, "Oh, so that's what it's called." Before that, I'd always just described myself as "Done with it." Also, I found a video on YouTube of someone describing the top 10 signs of being asexual, and I had to laugh because so many of them fit me, even things that I'd never told anyone about. December 25, 2020 at 11:28PM

/u/Berzerker-SDMF on Really bold to put this crap on an asexuality subreddit

Obvious troll is obvious Such an blatant attempt at trolling.. Hes clearly trying to provoke a reaction and upset people. Dont give this idiot the attention he so clearly craves. December 25, 2020 at 11:28PM

/u/TheCoolerSeiver on I got an ace ring for Christmas today! I’m very happy with it. Please excuse my nails, i haven’t filed them in a while so sorry about that lol.

Your nails look way better than mine, lol. Ring looks great too December 25, 2020 at 11:28PM

/u/dyslexic_gecko on Meet new aces

No i mean i don't live in the us but still got covid cases, who doesn't have them? December 25, 2020 at 11:23PM

/u/mu5cl3c0nfu5i0n on I came out to my parents a few months ago and they gave me these a Christmas gift!!

Super cute! Happy Holidays to you and your parents! :) December 25, 2020 at 11:23PM

/u/hayesinthehaze on ace cookie!

it's just a sugar cookie! December 25, 2020 at 11:23PM

/u/sector11374265 on 👏🏻You👏🏻are👏🏻never👏🏻to👏🏻young👏🏻to👏🏻be👏🏻asexual👏🏻

this is literally the equivalent of being “too young to be gay.” like...that’s not how it works, you figure it out when you figure it out and it’s different for everyone December 25, 2020 at 11:17PM