I mean of course, but this was something answered in the context of the character SpongeBob being portrayed in a relationship, especially since I believe the network was trying to push for SpongeBob to have a love interest. December 09, 2019 at 12:16AM

Because sponges are scientifically asexual you donces December 09, 2019 at 12:14AM

Lol, don't know why I find that last bit funny :P December 09, 2019 at 12:11AM

It's not fun breaking up with someone unless you have decided at least 90% that it's the right thing to do :3 That requires lots of communication and introspection. You're going to do fine, regardless. It's not your fault, and you'll make the right choice :) December 09, 2019 at 12:03AM

Sometimes I think I love my husband more than he loves me. There have been times that I have been painfully overlooked by him. I feel I always put him first. I’m an expat that moved to my husbands country for him. I gave up a job I liked, time with my family, everything. He has done a great job building as good a life as possible for us and I hate feeling ungrateful. But a few instances have me questioning why I do all this for him when I know he’d never do the same for me. Am I expecting too much? A few examples of what I mean: when his ex girlfriend was being all crazy towards me, he didn’t want to confront her because he didn’t want to hurt her feelings. So mine got hurt instead because it felt that he was more worried about her than me (this was early on in our relationship). His sister is a bitch to me, so I cut off contact from her (just me- he still has contact with her) and he wants me to reach out to her and patch things up even though it’s really her who should be apologizin...

Or like is it common to enter a relationship and think that they're the one? I've been in 3 so far and none of them have felt like "the one". Submitted December 08, 2019 at 11:47PM Or like is it common to enter a relationship and think that they're the one? I've been in 3 so far and none of them have felt like "the one".

So, I saw this gorgeous girl at the gym and wanted to try to approach her but I've never done that and have no idea how to do it. I'm (21yo) an introvert with severe social anxiety. On top of that she works out with a personal trainer who happens to be a very attractive woman. But lately I've been trying to fight my social anxiety so if someone can give an advice on how to approach her and what exactly to say. Any help is appreciated Submitted December 08, 2019 at 11:10PM So, I saw this gorgeous girl at the gym and wanted to try to approach her but I've never done that and have no idea how to do it. I'm (21yo) an introvert with severe social anxiety. On top of that she works out with a personal trainer who happens to be a very attractive woman. But lately I've been trying to fight my social anxiety so if someone can give an advice on how to approach her and what exactly to say. Any help is appreciated

Gonna give some background on me. Just turned 21 a couple months ago, currently in college, spent 15-20 yrs old in two different “relationships” One 2.5 years the other 2 years. I use to always want kids and to be married and do all that stuff. Recently got over some health stuff and have been re-entering dating/real world stuff. Can’t really picture myself going back into a traditional relationship like at all marriage seems sad and kids seem like giving to much up ( I would also honestly at this point be more open to adopting a kid myself than being forced to raise a kid with someone in a situation that’s not guaranteed to work out). I think it comes to three things 1. I’m at the this point in life where friends from high school are married have kids and are miserable 2. I came to this realization where I was like why did I spend 5 years of my life in relationships when I don’t even know what I value in a partner yet 3. The health stuff since I went through a lot of it alone has mad...

I've been using OKCupid for a couple of months in Germany now and so far I've gotten a few likes, but they're not people I'm interested in. As for me browsing others' profiles, most of them seem very similar but on occasion one stands out a bit and I take the time to write a personalized message (never copy/pasted). The number of replies I've gotten I can count on one hand (and you can't even see what you had sent or whether it was read unless the other person likes you back, even for subscribers). I've been under the impression that this is partly due to women getting barraged with messages that they don't even look at most. I have to wonder how many messages I've sent that drowned in someone's inbox... Anyways, I got used to most of this and accepted that for the most part OKC is a longshot, whether due to finding the right crowd of people or getting heard in the crowd. However, a couple of days ago I read a profile that sounded so much ...

I'm not really sure what you do, I've heard that you should tell them that you want to date then straight up, or is that too weird? Plus, I'm really socially anxious so is there any way of doing this without looking like an idiot? And when do you actually become a couple? Is it like a set amount of time or do you have to ask them or something? Submitted December 08, 2019 at 11:24PM I'm not really sure what you do, I've heard that you should tell them that you want to date then straight up, or is that too weird? Plus, I'm really socially anxious so is there any way of doing this without looking like an idiot? And when do you actually become a couple? Is it like a set amount of time or do you have to ask them or something?

My friend asked me out put of the blue last week. I liked her since the day we met, but quickly got over her because she seemed uninterested/was on a different wavelength. I decided to give it a try because recently I felt my crush coming back in recent weeks We went on a trip together for two days. She didn't want me to kiss her or the lips because I was sick, I asked her if I could kiss her somewhere else, and she said yes, but stopped me after several seconds (we were in bed and I felt frisky). When she asked what my favorite part of the trip was I said seeing her and she just half smiled. We'd sit and hold hands and I wanted to kiss her, or tell her how gorgeous she looked, but again, sick, and she wanted to get up and go to the next venue pretty fast. I was nuzzling her neck on a train ride and asked her what she was thinking about, she said dragons. I said I wasn't thinking about dragons, but she said it wasn't the place or time (completely justified). We held h...

Alright so I'm a white man in his early twenties, and I'm only interested in dating black girls. Now I can talk and pull white girls all day, idk what it is, but when it come to talking to a beautiful black girl, I get super nervous and lose the confidence because I feel like black girls aren't interested in white guys, and it just makes me feel like I'm going to waste my time. Don't get me wrong I've dated and been with black women to know the ins and outs and all, but barely had relationships, I've only been in four so far. Most of the time I'm just used for sex, and thrown to the side. I'm not against just hooking up and all, I mean who is, really. But when I'm lead on while it's happening and told that they like me, of course I'mma feel some type of way. It's not that I just want to break norms and date a black girl cause I can, it literally just what I'm attracted to, and I get alot of backlash for it. Submitted December...

so basically ive known him for a couple of months. We had a common class this semester so we spent alot of time together. Thing is hes so hard to decipher, i mean he shows interest in the little things (saves me a seat everytime, texts me to hang out before/after class, asks if iwanna join him for lunch) i mean i guess yeah. Recently hes been getting touchy like casually holds my hand, puts hands on my shoulder type shit. But like overall i dont know his personality that well and i dont know wether to ask him out or just leave it be. I mean i clearly am interested and i drop so many hints but he doesnt always pick up on them. Should i take the initiative and shoot my shot? The way i was planning to do it was through a secret admirer note kinda thing (we have christmas events where we can send anonymous letters with cookies and shit to people of our choice) anyway does that sound like a good idea or should i just let it go and stay on the safe side? Submitted December 08, 2019 at...

Since I'm still in high school and in a relatively religious family, I am forced to go to Catholic mass every Sunday. Normally I zone out and pay zero attention to anyone else there, but occasionally I see this guy who I find very attractive, who is also there with his family. Because our families usually go to different masses, I almost never see him (only about once every 2 months or so). However, whenever we're both there we make a lot of awkward eye contact that at least feels like we're acknowledging each other's presence. Last week at mass, he was wearing a sweatshirt from his high school, so I was able to figure out his name from the internet, as well as a few other basic details about him (yes I know it's creepy, it's a bad habit). However, I couldn't find any social media, so it seems like the only way to get his attention/ask him out is in person. If you know anything about (white) Roman Catholicism, you likely know that there are always people w...

And if so... what are things you like to hear? I’m going to a concert alone tonight and I really want to try to go up to some people and make friends and connections. Also I’m single af so I want to stop being scared of cuties and make a move. Is that too aggressive and intimidating? Or a turn on that a lady knows what she wants and goes for it? Submitted December 08, 2019 at 11:32PM And if so... what are things you like to hear? I’m going to a concert alone tonight and I really want to try to go up to some people and make friends and connections. Also I’m single af so I want to stop being scared of cuties and make a move. Is that too aggressive and intimidating? Or a turn on that a lady knows what she wants and goes for it?

I (28F) am absolutely falling for my coworker (27F) and I am in need of advice! She is drop dead gorgeous, has this great personality and we get along great. About a month ago she hinted at being bisexual but has never said if she’s actually been with another girl. I know her last relationship was with a guy and she keeps saying she’s open to being with a girl. We constantly flirt back and forth and I want to ask her out but I feel as though She’s out of my league or is just leading me on. How do I find out if she’s actually into me? I don’t want to make work awkward but I get butterflies when I’m around her and can’t stop smiling whenever see/talk to/or think about her. Help me please!! Submitted December 08, 2019 at 11:38PM I (28F) am absolutely falling for my coworker (27F) and I am in need of advice! She is drop dead gorgeous, has this great personality and we get along great. About a month ago she hinted at being bisexual but has never said if she’s actually been with anoth...

So i've been in a relationship for about 3-4 months , We went on a few dates and on the most recent one, She said "it was the best date i've ever been on " But now she's ghosting me and ignoring my text and i'm starting to grow more frustrated with a relationship that's only one way... any tips, or advice to solve my problem? Submitted December 08, 2019 at 11:45PM So i've been in a relationship for about 3-4 months , We went on a few dates and on the most recent one, She said "it was the best date i've ever been on " But now she's ghosting me and ignoring my text and i'm starting to grow more frustrated with a relationship that's only one way... any tips, or advice to solve my problem?

Me and my girlfriend of about 6 months have been having a really tough time lately, we’ve been thinking her being in high school is getting in the way of things. So we thought taking a break until she graduates high school (I’m 20) we’d go back to dating (of course we would stay in touch and not fall off the face of the earth until then), now hearing her bring this up makes me think this is really important to her, and she wants to make this work after high school. Which is great. I love the idea. But she told me while the break was going she couldn’t promise me the fact she may hook up with guys, or have fun along the way. How am i supposed to feel about that? I mean yes she’s technically single but it also tells me what we have isn’t important. Could i get some advice here? Has anyone ever been in this situation? My heart hurts. Submitted December 08, 2019 at 11:46PM Me and my girlfriend of about 6 months have been having a really tough time lately, we’ve been thinking her bei...

Hey all. I've been chatting to a girl and it was going really well. However her replies have slowly got less comprehensive until the point where she's just read and stopped replying mid conversation. We're did have a date planned but i'm guessing because of this it doesn't look so likely anymore. How long do I leave it until I message again and what do I say? Cheers. Submitted December 08, 2019 at 11:47PM Hey all. I've been chatting to a girl and it was going really well. However her replies have slowly got less comprehensive until the point where she's just read and stopped replying mid conversation. We're did have a date planned but i'm guessing because of this it doesn't look so likely anymore. How long do I leave it until I message again and what do I say? Cheers.

So there is this girl who I share a lot of classes with that I like, and I want to get to know her more. We are already kind of friends, but I feel like I don’t know her well enough. I want to establish a good relationship before I ask her out. Do you guys have advice? Edit: I might add this is a throwaway account. Submitted December 08, 2019 at 11:53PM So there is this girl who I share a lot of classes with that I like, and I want to get to know her more. We are already kind of friends, but I feel like I don’t know her well enough. I want to establish a good relationship before I ask her out. Do you guys have advice?Edit: I might add this is a throwaway account.

I(20M) have been dating this girl(21F) for some months now and it's the best thing that ever happened to me. I have never loved anyone like this. But there's one thing that really bothers me. Before initiating our relationship she used to sext and send (and receive) nudes to this guy, who i never knew or met. Nowadays, during our relationship, she still message him frequently, mostly ending with him turning everything sexual. (At least she doesn't respond sexually.) I just wish he stops sexting. Everytime i bring this up in a conversation she just diverts the topic and talks about something else as if there's something she doesn't want to say. How can i show her this really bothers me? Excuse my terrible English😶 Submitted December 08, 2019 at 11:56PM I(20M) have been dating this girl(21F) for some months now and it's the best thing that ever happened to me. I have never loved anyone like this. But there's one thing that really bothers me. Before in...

Hey anyone who reads this, thanks for your time. So here we go, I am a male in a relationship with a girl and i can say i love her but its been downhill many times and little splits and we get back together because we both genuinely love eachother well i hope so atleast but there's been problems she's had and i fixed them all like for example she feels like i call her over and then focus on talking to my friends and she just sits there and listens so i fixed that even though i don't think i done it i still made sure i didn't for her sake, but anyway i've had a problem where she is like flirty i feel so basically she is the only female in a friend group which i am apart of and ever single person in this friend group has liked her/still does and she liked one of them 2/3 years ago and she dated two guys in this friend group i know it sounds really hectic and shit but that's how it is, she dating one guy cos of like another girl she was friends with basically pus...

So I went to the hair salon on Saturday to get a haircut and sat down on a chair to wait. Not two minutes later, the most beautiful girl I have ever seen came to me and said that she can cut my hair now. I was completely stunned and just sat down. It was the usual talk between a hairdresser and the customer, but she had a charming manner and the usually so uncomfortable small talk felt like a fully natural thing. As she finished I thanked for the cut and paid. I wanted to ask her out, but I couldn't. My thoughts were going crazy and not a meter behind me sat some customers in a row. I simply wasn't comfortable enough in this situation and just went out the door. And then the regret kicked in, I wanted to turn around and try again, but it was too late, she already got to a new customer. I don't know what to do at this point. Would it be too creepy to just drop by on Monday and ask her out (IF she is there) or should I wait until my next haircut? PS: Sorry for potential mis...