I didn't know she liked me and I still feel like she doesn't

My friend asked me out put of the blue last week. I liked her since the day we met, but quickly got over her because she seemed uninterested/was on a different wavelength. I decided to give it a try because recently I felt my crush coming back in recent weeks

We went on a trip together for two days. She didn't want me to kiss her or the lips because I was sick, I asked her if I could kiss her somewhere else, and she said yes, but stopped me after several seconds (we were in bed and I felt frisky). When she asked what my favorite part of the trip was I said seeing her and she just half smiled. We'd sit and hold hands and I wanted to kiss her, or tell her how gorgeous she looked, but again, sick, and she wanted to get up and go to the next venue pretty fast. I was nuzzling her neck on a train ride and asked her what she was thinking about, she said dragons. I said I wasn't thinking about dragons, but she said it wasn't the place or time (completely justified). We held hands a lot, but I felt like an older, married couple instead of the lustful arm candy I want to feel like.

I dunno. I was actually going to ask out another friend the same week she asked me out (she knows this) and driving to work I can't help but wonder what would have happened if I'd asked them out and I wonder if they'll find someone this weekend. But I've always had a sense of wanderlust in relationships.

But she says she moves slow, so maybe I'm being impatient. I guess I just expected there to be more flirting. Part of me wants to break it off just to see if the other person is interested (she's explained that she's not okay with the people she's seeing talking to other people) but maybe I'm being really impatient. I always try to rush these things and it ends up biting me in the ass.

Submitted December 08, 2019 at 11:25PM

My friend asked me out put of the blue last week. I liked her since the day we met, but quickly got over her because she seemed uninterested/was on a different wavelength. I decided to give it a try because recently I felt my crush coming back in recent weeksWe went on a trip together for two days. She didn't want me to kiss her or the lips because I was sick, I asked her if I could kiss her somewhere else, and she said yes, but stopped me after several seconds (we were in bed and I felt frisky). When she asked what my favorite part of the trip was I said seeing her and she just half smiled. We'd sit and hold hands and I wanted to kiss her, or tell her how gorgeous she looked, but again, sick, and she wanted to get up and go to the next venue pretty fast. I was nuzzling her neck on a train ride and asked her what she was thinking about, she said dragons. I said I wasn't thinking about dragons, but she said it wasn't the place or time (completely justified). We held hands a lot, but I felt like an older, married couple instead of the lustful arm candy I want to feel like.I dunno. I was actually going to ask out another friend the same week she asked me out (she knows this) and driving to work I can't help but wonder what would have happened if I'd asked them out and I wonder if they'll find someone this weekend. But I've always had a sense of wanderlust in relationships.But she says she moves slow, so maybe I'm being impatient. I guess I just expected there to be more flirting. Part of me wants to break it off just to see if the other person is interested (she's explained that she's not okay with the people she's seeing talking to other people) but maybe I'm being really impatient. I always try to rush these things and it ends up biting me in the ass.