From my understanding (and my opinion), that notion came about from the initial "wrong" of sex favorable aces seemingly pushing sex repulsed aces out. That morphed into this shared anti-sex-favorable-ace rhetoric, which naturally morphed into "they arent REAL aces." The initial wrong seemed to be interpreted now as a general effort from allos to infiltrate ace spaces with microlabels and the like...making sex-repulsed aces feel even MORE ostracized. But not everyone there agrees with that statement. I openly identified as sex favorable/ neutral when i asked and wasn't accused of not being ace or disingenuous. October 30, 2023 at 11:16PM

I relate completely. I don't have much to add but it's nice to hear I'm not alone. It's always been a relationship destroyer in my experience. October 30, 2023 at 11:15PM

Where there are any semblance of tribe there will be people trying to make that tribe "exclusive". Partially out of a desire for purity. Partially out of a desire to be "special". October 30, 2023 at 11:10PM

Aegosexual. I don’t get turned on IRL but I do with books. October 30, 2023 at 11:10PM