I’m the exact same!!! I am happy engaging with myself on my own, but for the idea of sex or pleasure from someone else, I’m just uninterested. It does feel forced, not in a traumatic way, just like I don’t care to engage in the first place. Which, I feel bad bc my partner wants to and on the rare occasion that I do get aroused, he wants to make me happy but I really don’t care for it. In all honesty I’d rather have sensual cuddles or entirely foreplay and then either end there or finish on my own. I’m starting to think it’s an ace thing. September 12, 2023 at 11:19PM

I get horny, and can masturbate to nothing. Maybe sometimes I’ll think of a fantasy. Absolutely no desire to live that fantasy, though. Just a fun way to keep my mind occupied. I love romance. I have romantic fantasies and feel a desire for them. Sex is never involved or even thought of in those. September 12, 2023 at 11:18PM