First time wasn't really coming out, we were at a strip club in Vegas cause a few of the girls we were with wanted to go to a Vegas strip club because, Vegas (they were Irish). I was on my phone when one of the dancers came up to me and I said "I'm basically asexual outside relationships" to like, tell her I wasn't interested in a nice-ish way. At the time, though, it was more just something to get out of the situation, but looking back I should have known then. One of the friends I was with asked me about that later, and I gave it a bit of thought but then kinda didn't think about it for a while. I just rolled with it even though I didn't have any real understanding of asexuality at the time. I've never had a clear picture of my sexuality, really, though that was kinda the start of figuring stuff out. A few years later I checked out asexuality a bit but only enough to realize it might actually fit. About two months ago my therapist was pushing me t
