what is your definition of love ? Submitted April 23, 2019 at 01:44PM what is your definition of love ?

I never had a real relationship. I know I’m young and I still have time for that. But that didn’t stop me from having lovers in the past. I know this were only the ‘sordid affairs’ but I always expected smth out of it. And I got hurt a lot of times- and I blame myself for it and nobody else: I simply fall in love too quickly. So what happened in the past 3 months is the main thing here: There’s been this guy that we have been friends for 3 years already. I liked him from the very start but somehow nothing happened. He is more of a quiet person, maybe that’s why he didn’t approach me. But a few months ago my bestfriend talked with him and he confessed he’s mad about me from the day we met. That’s why she even encouraged him to approach me. And he did. And after I dumbed my “friend with benefits” we finally got on a date. But things have been moving so slow ( I’m really not used to that- I’m more of a humping rabbit on a first date only then comes love if ever🤷‍♀️) We made out for th...

Alright so. Backstory: I dated this guy for a year, we broke up, I was single(ish) for two years (didn’t have any SERIOUS relationships I saw going anywhere), and then a couple days after my 18th birthday, I got a Tinder because I was.... well. Looking for a hookup basically (I was really really sad). And I met this guy. Let’s call him Justin. Justin was super smart, extremely attractive, funny, and seemed to actually like me. So we started talking and when we finally met, it was FANTASTIC (best first date I’ve ever been on). So, fast forward a couple of weeks (yes you read that right), he pulls over on a random county road and tells me he loves me for the first time. And I said.... “you know, I thought so” 😅🤦🏼‍♀️ Fast forward a year and Justin and I are still together, stronger than ever, and no plans to separate. I’m lucky I have such a patient and understanding man ❤️ Submitted April 23, 2019 at 04:30PM Alright so. Backstory: I dated this guy for a year, we broke up, I wa...

Letting go of someone we love is the hardest thing we will ever do. Some people never surrender to love for the fear of being hurt. But to not have loved, to not have felt the immense joy it brings, would have been a far worse kind of death. Submitted April 23, 2019 at 05:00PM Letting go of someone we love is the hardest thing we will ever do. Some people never surrender to love for the fear of being hurt. But to not have loved, to not have felt the immense joy it brings, would have been a far worse kind of death.

Soo im 14 years old and still at middleschool. Me and my friends fell like we are the bosses of the school cuz we are the oldest kids at the school. At the start of the year there was a few girls who came new. In 7th grade girls were way more than boys. With the newcommer girls the diffrence became bigger. So lets get to the story. One of the newcommers is pretty cute and a nerd. So the nerd was cute and everybody (including me) had a crush on her. We were good friends with her. Everytime we see eachother at school we do this punch-handshake kindof thing and say "hey bro!". It was a good frienship until... I was at the cafeteria line and talking to my friends about brawl stars( a moba game that is fun). She came running to me. Me: hey bro! ( i readied my hand for the handshake cuz she always starts the handshake) She didnt do the handshake. I was confused beacause the handshake is the crutial point of our frienship. S ( im gonna call her s) : i need to talk to you! Me: can i...

And we haven't been seeing that long too. Gaaaaah. I hope he stays. Submitted April 23, 2019 at 06:01PM And we haven't been seeing that long too. Gaaaaah.I hope he stays.

Really simple question, but how do you know when you're falling in love with someone? Would really like everyone's outlook/opinion on this if you could take the time to give your opinion! Submitted April 23, 2019 at 06:06PM Really simple question, but how do you know when you're falling in love with someone? Would really like everyone's outlook/opinion on this if you could take the time to give your opinion!

It's like constantly checking your phone expecting someone to message you even though you already knew that person won't It's like forcing yourself to fit inside this tiny hole just to be a part of something. It's like fighting someone you already knew you won't able to win no matter what happen. It's like bursting your way forth through that storm God knows what hell you end up with but you kept going because you keep grasping to that little hope. It's like pulling that knife that buried deeper on your chest hoping you would end up fine but you knew you'll die instead. It's like searching for something that doesn't even exist. You kept putting on so much effort but that effort isn't enough to have her because she is too way out of your league that each day you'd lose a chance to have her. You could only wish that person her happiness with you, but you could already see herself happy without you. It hurts to be ignored by someone...

I love being in love and all the great feelings and experiences that come with it. In a perfect world, I’d find the love of my life and we’d build a relationship that makes it through the hardest times and lasts. But I’m genuinely starting to lose hope. I’ve been in so many relationships, all which have ended in either cheating or just feelings fading. I can’t bare the thought of being hurt again because I’ve been hurt SO many times. It’s almost embarrassing for me to talk about because I truly don’t know anyone else who’s been through as many relationship issues as me. I know it sounds dramatic, but I used to be so hopeful in finding “true love” but now that part of me just feels dead. I know this sub is about love and all the good things that come with it, which is why I’ve subscribed. I find the smallest amount of hope in this sub with all of these uplifting posts about your guys experience. Rant over. Thanks for listening. Submitted April 23, 2019 at 06:15PM I love being ...

I’m sacred to settle but I’m also tired of being lonely. Submitted April 23, 2019 at 06:24PM I’m sacred to settle but I’m also tired of being lonely.

I don’t think I’ve ever felt so happy and just right with someone as I do with him. He’s liked me this whole time since he’s met me & i had no clue until recently. He is an absolute angel to me. He makes me feel like spring, when i look at him I feel sunlight in my heart. I just want nothing else but to love him for every moment the rest of my life because that’s what he deserves. I see him almost everyday, sometimes multiple times in a day. each & everytime I do, i get butterflies and this big ass smile on my face I just can’t help it Submitted April 23, 2019 at 06:32PM I don’t think I’ve ever felt so happy and just right with someone as I do with him. He’s liked me this whole time since he’s met me & i had no clue until recently. He is an absolute angel to me. He makes me feel like spring, when i look at him I feel sunlight in my heart. I just want nothing else but to love him for every moment the rest of my life because that’s what he deserves. I see him almost ev...

Don't worry fam. Fun, Flirty, and Fabulous were the first things we planned on with writing this character. I think that you'll be happy with the end results. We've been working very hard to make sure we have multi-layered characters. April 24, 2019 at 07:03AM

Just wanted to hear some positivite stories or even success stories out there :) Submitted April 23, 2019 at 07:03PM Just wanted to hear some positivite stories or even success stories out there :)

There is someone for everyone. Submitted April 23, 2019 at 07:43PM There is someone for everyone.

Love is like fire, if you play with it sombody gets hurt. Submitted April 23, 2019 at 07:49PM Love is like fire, if you play with it sombody gets hurt.

You may or may not see this, but if you do keep reading. Baby you are amazing in every way, no matter how badly you think of yourself I will always see you as perfect. You always ask after you do something weird "why are you with me" but I just smile and tell you that I don't care how weird you think you are that I always want to stay with you, your weirdness is what makes you, you! You're the one I could see myself marrying one day. Know this you are perfect and I love you, and always will. Submitted April 23, 2019 at 08:31PM You may or may not see this, but if you do keep reading. Baby you are amazing in every way, no matter how badly you think of yourself I will always see you as perfect. You always ask after you do something weird "why are you with me" but I just smile and tell you that I don't care how weird you think you are that I always want to stay with you, your weirdness is what makes you, you! You're the one I could see myself marr...

If you've been reading my previous posts you know what's up, but for your reference here's a link to Update: M29 tells me F30 he loves me… <---NSFW ​ I am seriously so madly in love with my boyfriend it's crazy! He is so wonderful, I can't even go into all of it. Let me instead share a moment that made my heart melt. ​ We were at the farmer's market this past weekend. It was a gorgeous sunny day and we were there with a friend of his. We decided to park our butts on the curb and listen to a guitarist that was playing there. So we sat and listened to him play for quite awhile. It was fun!!! After he finished playing and the market was closing up, it was time to get our butts off the curb. Egg (bf) stood up first, and then I just put my hand in the air towards him. He grabbed my hand and helped me get up. I said, "Aww thank you cutie!" he was like "Ya, I always got your back!" *heart melting, boy I love is so amazing....Anime twinkly ...

Yesterday I was at my parents' place. My mum asked me about my love life, and I told her I was still very single! I said... "wouldn't it be amazing if I bumped into my soulmate on the train tomorrow?" Ive been asked out a good few times, but i never find anybody who interests me. I use tinder, but the fact it's a sleazy dating app gets me less passionate and excited over it. Nobody I've met from there has enticed me yet. Meeting someone on the long train journey home tomorrow though, where we have plenty of time sitting together to talk about our lives like it's a first date? What a story to tell the grandkids. Call me old-fashioned but I really do like lovey-romantic shit like that. I know it was a joke, but it came from a place of truth. I'm feeling kind of hopeless, like I'll never find what I'm looking for on my own, and I just wish life would throw a person at me who I can make it work with. I made a bit of a deal out of it, because my mu...

Me(16m Sophomore) and her (15f Freshman) btw. I’ve only talked to her a few times and I can’t stop thinking about her, it’s so damn annoying. She’s only in my bio class and I’m getting really frustrated and sad because I have a crush on her, and I’m not sure if she likes me at all. I’m such a pussy when it comes to talking to my crushes, I’m beginning to get ‘that’ feeling when you really like someone and know you can’t have them, it makes me feel like shit to be honest. I’m literally sitting right behind her in class and it’s impossible to even talk to her. Shit, it’s impossible to get anything done anymore because I’m constantly in my head all depressed. Today the feeling got a lot worse and I don’t want to let her know how I’m feeling, well we don’t even talk that much anyways. I at least want to be friends. If anything I want to be more than friends, but I don’t know if that’s ever gonna happen. Everyone seems so happy around me and she seems so happy overall, I have to act lik...

Well.. you have done what every crush has done to me..crush me.. you had me thinking there was something between us but really I know it was nothing now. You just used me to get your sexual feelings out and now you are on to the next chick. You never had any real interest in me. Feel like a damn fool. I let myself be verunable once again. I swear. I'm sick of this shit. Never again. I'm tired of this shit, it hurts. I don't deserve it. I don't deserve to be played with. I'm so angry and pissed off right now. Fine, go be with her. Tell me you want me then when you had your fill you toss my feelings to the side, damn bastard. I hate you for that. 😭😓😪 Submitted April 23, 2019 at 11:45PM Well.. you have done what every crush has done to me..crush me.. you had me thinking there was something between us but really I know it was nothing now. You just used me to get your sexual feelings out and now you are on to the next chick. You never had any real interest in m...

Because I sure do. I love seeing my girlfriend happy. So so much. I love throwing little endearments into my goodnight messages and seeing her reaction to them, and I know that seems like just a little thing but I know she loves it. And it's as they say, "the little things count " I'm not the best with using my big girl irl words, and telling how much I adore her and think she's amazing in person. That's something I want to get better at, but for now I'll do what I can to let her know how incredibly loved she is through my more articulate writing skills lol Anyways, I'll stop crying now and get to sleep. I got a whole lot of girlfriend lovin' to do tomorrow ~ Submitted April 23, 2019 at 11:57PM Because I sure do.I love seeing my girlfriend happy. So so much. I love throwing little endearments into my goodnight messages and seeing her reaction to them, and I know that seems like just a little thing but I know she loves it. And it's as ...

I’m pretty nervous. I really like her. We haven’t known each other long but all of our conversations have been the highlight of my days. I tend to romanticize things so I’m trying to slow myself down before I make it out to be more than what it is. Regardless, I really like her :) I haven’t been on a date in a while after a long term relationship so I’m hoping I’m not too noticeably nervous. Wish me luck Submitted April 24, 2019 at 12:00AM I’m pretty nervous. I really like her. We haven’t known each other long but all of our conversations have been the highlight of my days. I tend to romanticize things so I’m trying to slow myself down before I make it out to be more than what it is. Regardless, I really like her :) I haven’t been on a date in a while after a long term relationship so I’m hoping I’m not too noticeably nervous. Wish me luck

I’m tired of loving you. I’m tired of the longing, the waiting, the hoping. I’m tired of feeling safe whenever I’m around you, but unable to be held in your arms. I’m tired of you camping out in my mind. Would it be too much to ask for some time alone? I’m tired of pretending I just look at you as a friend. I’m tired of my pathetic cries over not being with you. I’m tired of wishing that you didn’t have someone to love when we first met. I hate this obsession I somehow developed with you. I don’t understand why I have to adore you so much after all this time. I’m tired of it all, but I don’t know how to move on. Worst of all, I don’t even WANT to move on deep down. My love for you has created far too much hope for our future. For once, my optimism is getting the best of me. I’m tired of loving you, but I can’t stop. Submitted April 24, 2019 at 12:33AM I’m tired of loving you.I’m tired of the longing, the waiting, the hoping.I’m tired of feeling safe whenever I’m around...

I have finally been getting over my ex and sparked a new crush on a person recently. We have been friends for most of the school year, and I tried many times to try and schedule things with her as an attempt to get to know each other better outside of school. After her cancelling plans on me, and generally just not seeming interested, I took a hint and gave up. But as a last ditch effort, I asked her to prom. To my surprise, she said yes. She then said it was a possibility that she couldn't go due to reasons which are reasonable. After talking it over a couple times briefly, it looked like we were set to go, but all of a sudden she cancelled. I just feel very played, and like I had this hope reignite only for it to die again harder. Submitted April 24, 2019 at 01:46AM I have finally been getting over my ex and sparked a new crush on a person recently. We have been friends for most of the school year, and I tried many times to try and schedule things with her as an attempt to...

Growing up I always was told and believed that when the time would come I would find someone. I was told this when I was in high school by family and friends when the girls never even looked in my direction. "Don't worry, the girls get more mature in college, it will be better" I was top student, top athlete, and well respected by all so it didn't make sense but I went with it. When I was in college I struggled finding myself at first, I tried to become a better version of myself to see more success in the departments of love and relationships but it didn't work. I ended up growing as a person but left my 4 years of undergrad with no relationship to speak of and nothing more than my first kiss. I had a great job, had a perfect GPA and graduated top of my class. I was also told by many people what an amazing person I was, yet nothing. My family said "Don't worry, the girls get more mature in grad school, it will be better" A year later I again grad...

You can love hundreds and thousands of people in a lifetime and maybe those feelings will change... But when you are truly in love with someone, there is nothing that will ever fully rip you from those feelings. Other lovers, new experiences, years apart, even recognizing that the two of you ended up growing into two completely different worlds... there is no breaking free from being truly in love with someone. Submitted April 24, 2019 at 02:44AM You can love hundreds and thousands of people in a lifetime and maybe those feelings will change...But when you are truly in love with someone, there is nothing that will ever fully rip you from those feelings. Other lovers, new experiences, years apart, even recognizing that the two of you ended up growing into two completely different worlds... there is no breaking free from being truly in love with someone.

There comes a point in our lives when we meet that one person that rock our entire world. Our bodies yearn for them, our hearts seem to want to jump out of our very chests to connect with theirs. Stars collapse and planets collide and comets scratch against the firmament and galaxies blink out of existence. Your body could virtually burst from that insane, joyous high, and some nights that yearning is so great you can hardly relax, let alone fall asleep. All you can think of is them. Then and there they've become your entire world and nothing else matters. Thank you, great Cosmos... I hate being in love, but this is taken from the diary from one of my characters after meeting one of the most beautiful girls, and it was written possibly one-and-a-half to two months ago when I couldn't sleep. This...This amazing girl was all I could think about right then, which disappointed me because I had made an effort not to feel this way for her. But the struggle against mind and heart, r...

love is a vestigial word not many have truly felt. you cant be certain you have, i especially cant be sure i have either. its a figment of fleeting expectations and false realities personified into an industrialized fictitious feeling. love as we know it isnt an emotion. its a combination of simple lust and an idiopathic addiction caused by the repeated encounters youve experienced with someone you have allowed yourself to grow fond with. its obvious in the most basic elements of life and the examples are all around you. though i know this all to be true, why is it so hard to accept it once this "love" is truly absent. Submitted April 24, 2019 at 04:00AM love is a vestigial word not many have truly felt. you cant be certain you have, i especially cant be sure i have either. its a figment of fleeting expectations and false realities personified into an industrialized fictitious feeling. love as we know it isnt an emotion. its a combination of simple lust and an idiopa...

Love is a messy thing. So much of it is revealing the faults and follies of myself to a whole other person. Making mistakes in the most common sense moments. Reassuring my feelings when they are in doubt. Making decisions together. Changing myself for the betterment of the relationship. Showing support in tough times. Jumping into new situations. Accepting that I'm not perfect. It's a very scary thing, but it's worth it. I love you. Submitted April 24, 2019 at 05:02AM Love is a messy thing. So much of it is revealing the faults and follies of myself to a whole other person. Making mistakes in the most common sense moments. Reassuring my feelings when they are in doubt. Making decisions together. Changing myself for the betterment of the relationship. Showing support in tough times. Jumping into new situations. Accepting that I'm not perfect. It's a very scary thing, but it's worth it. I love you.

You know.. the feeling of wanting that person to never leave. Not knowing everything about them, but knowing they are important to you? See.. he told me he loves me.. but he doesn’t know me completely. I want him to stay... but I don’t love him yet. Also he’s 23m and I’m 28f and I’m new to dating a younger person. Is there a term for this? Submitted April 24, 2019 at 05:50AM You know.. the feeling of wanting that person to never leave. Not knowing everything about them, but knowing they are important to you?See.. he told me he loves me.. but he doesn’t know me completely. I want him to stay... but I don’t love him yet.Also he’s 23m and I’m 28f and I’m new to dating a younger person.Is there a term for this?

There it was. April 23rd 2019 that smile and happiness. The type that no one else can cause. There it was the happiness that I knew from the start of our relationship that I have provided to you. Being so intimate and close to you that I lose myself inside of you. My body starts to shake and the craving and love that I have for you since day one witch has grown by so much. When I touch you my romantic side comes so strong that I feel an overwhelming true inner love that is so self confident and perfect. My whole body goes weak. I get so turned on for you, and I feel it so indefinitely that nothing in this world could ever strip what we have. It is so pure and known between us that what we have should cancel out everything in this world and tell you that home is right here in where we are holding each other. I know so positively that you felt exactly what I felt. That no pain in the world could ever not be worth what we have between us. That you felt it just like I did that no matter w...

I live in a society where love is frowned upon, and everything is pre-determined for everyone. I was in love once for 6 years, but she left me over a text because “I was too poor”. Now, I am always confused about my sexuality, and even discussing about what I want can get me in trouble. I write stories or poems to cope with it, but lately, I feel like running away or well, killing myself. All day long I see others in love and all I can do is just wonder what it would be like if the society were more open to everyone. How do you cope with sadness? I now love someone but I don’t think he even knows that I exist. How do you live your entire life knowing that you will never be happy, be loved or be able to truly live? How do you cope? Submitted April 24, 2019 at 06:28AM I live in a society where love is frowned upon, and everything is pre-determined for everyone. I was in love once for 6 years, but she left me over a text because “I was too poor”. Now, I am always confused about my ...

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So basically there's this girl I like at school and I just can't seem to start a conversation with her. I don't have the most confidence but I do talk to her on occasion when my friends hype me up. What I'm trying to say here is that I need help with talking to girls. Any tips would be helpful. Submitted April 24, 2019 at 01:16AM So basically there's this girl I like at school and I just can't seem to start a conversation with her. I don't have the most confidence but I do talk to her on occasion when my friends hype me up. What I'm trying to say here is that I need help with talking to girls. Any tips would be helpful.

Basics, 25m, a person who used to abuse drugs that also led to some felony charges a long time ago, but will always be there, in recovery and secure enough in it now to feel okay with starting to attempt to date. I may be 25 but I have literally been in one "longer" term relationship in my life and that was a disaster (more due to them than I, probably leading to why I didn't choose to go further on) I also have bipolar disorder but am totally medication compliant and understand the importance of this. I just don't want to "sign anyone up" for something they are unaware of, so I feel like getting all that out of the way early on could be good, but maybe I'm wrong? Maybe I don't even bring up the bipolar thing at first??? I just have no idea what's normal in dating these days or what I should do. My family is all much much older than me and can't help with this. The last time my sister was in the dating world was 1998 when she got married...

I met this guy online on Reddit last year in September but we started talking on a regular basis in December. I was going through an hard time because of depression, anxiety, personal issues and being heartbroken after another guy I met online broke the friendship we had. This guy helped me a lot and gave me advice, we have the same sense of humor, have a lot of things in common etc so we clicked. If I am correct about the idea I got he seems to be a very good guy but he is not very lucky with girls because of many reasons. We live very far (I am from Italy and he goes to uni in Florida), but he has the possibility to travel often and I want to move from here anyway. He really likes Italy and italian culture in general, he said since the beginning that he found me attractive, complimented my looks a lot etc When he asked me if I liked him on Snapchat he admitted he had a crush on me and he still thinks I am cute but he is seeing a girl rn at his place. The point is...for me crus...

This guy (M21) and I (F23) have been friends for a year or so and they’re kinda always been something between us. And after two of us going separate directions in the dating world for about 8 months or so we’ve finally found our way back. We hang out just the two of us all the time and do date like things but we don’t call them dates. Whenever we hang out with our mutual friends we stick to each other... everyone can see what’s going on and is just waiting for the DTR. He always gets my doors, offers me his coat, carries my bag, and is just always checking in on me to make sure I’m good or to see if I need anything. When we watch movies with friends we always have our legs on each other or what not. Given all of this neither of us has verbalized how we feel. He just got out of a painful relationship about 4 months ago so I really don’t think he’s gonna be the one to bring up the conversation. I’m fine with being the one to bring it up I just don’t know the best way to do so? Submi...

I want to call and tell a guy how I feel (I was nervous before and sent him mixed messages), but I want to make sure he's on his own and can talk beforehand. How should I go about confessing my attraction? Submitted April 24, 2019 at 03:10AM I want to call and tell a guy how I feel (I was nervous before and sent him mixed messages), but I want to make sure he's on his own and can talk beforehand. How should I go about confessing my attraction?

So, I have a coworker that I am on friendly terms with. For the most part we don't communicate much outside of work, but we have several common interests and I have developed a little office crush. I didn't think much of it and wasn't going to act on it. However, I'm starting to think we could get along really well and would like to get to know her better outside of work. I'm about to go on a trip and she agreed to watch my pet. When I go to drop it off we have a friendly chat for about 45 min and then I muster up the courage to ask if when I get back if she'd like to grab dinner sometime, as a thank you for watching my dog, but pretty clearly implied to be a date. She says, "potentially" and kind of wobbles her head. I'm not sure how to respond to that and drop it right there and steer back to idle chitchat which lasts for another half hour. It never got awkward, so I was happy about that. Then I head out. What do you all think that could mean?...

Throwaway account So I’m 20 years old and heading to grad school this fall and I’ve never really been in a serious relationship. Every time I talk to a girl I end up getting way too attached too quickly or obsessive and end up running away from them while trying to distance myself. I feel like I’m definitely emotionally driven, I’ll find and make time whenever I can to hangout with them and also check my phone for a notification from them. I definitely hate being alone. It’s getting to the point where even though they don’t give me any reason to be sad/upset, I still am. For example, if I don’t talk to someone for a day or more I’ll get super upset and it’ll affect my mood for the day. I wouldn’t say that I necessarily have low self esteem. Am I just not ready for a relationship? I’m sick of this heavy heart feeling and feeling “depressed” over girls I’ve only been talking to for weeks/a month. I know I sound super clingy/obsessive/needy. Does anyone have any tips? Submitted Ap...

Only one resulted in a serious relationship. All the others left me after a few sexual encounters. What's wrong with me? Am I that bad in bed? Submitted April 24, 2019 at 03:58AM Only one resulted in a serious relationship. All the others left me after a few sexual encounters. What's wrong with me? Am I that bad in bed?

This is probably the most basic post you’ll read, but I just need to type it to get it off my chest. I recently went to Prom with a completely beautiful girl who I’ve known for quite a while. We were never really friends, but aware of each others’ presence and had some mutual friends etc. I finally mustered up the balls and asked her to Prom when I heard she hadn’t been asked yet. We went this weekend with our friends in a group and had casual fun. I really enjoyed her personality, but there was no noticeable romantic spark between us. We had a fun day and I dropped her off that night as a friend. For some reason I thought something more would come from that night. I imagined I would have smooth talked her into giving me a smooch, setting up a second date, or something like that, but that was just not the case. I was looking real sharp and she was absolutely gorgeous. A lot of people told me we made a great looking couple when they saw our pictures. Now I’m obsessed with her and fat...

I've been talking to this girl for about two months now and im kind of getting mixed signals i hope posting on here would help me understand it more. We've gone out once and she said she had a really amazing time, we talk every day sometimes over the phone for hours. But now when i ask to see her on a date its just something new every time. For example one week she had a test to study for which I completely understand, second week she had a family dinner, and third week she just said i pick the worst days, and when i wanted to find out what days work for her she just left me on read. I dont know how interpret these signals. Should i cut it off completely with her? Should i not ask her out on dates any more? I dont want to seem like im chasing her as well. What do you guys think. Thank you! Submitted April 24, 2019 at 04:54AM I've been talking to this girl for about two months now and im kind of getting mixed signals i hope posting on here would help me understand it ...

Like I mentioned in the title, I got the girl. For about two weeks now, a girl that I have been interested in for about a year (and never had the guts to go up to her, even though she is one of my best friends), happened to split with her boyfriend (for the last two weeks), and I was talking to her (16F) before she started dating him. She never gave me a reason as to why he broke up with her, but it’s none my business... Here’s some backstory: This girl goes to my church. Her and I are really great friends. She always happens to walk up to me and give me a hug. I don’t have to do a thing. She calls me sweetheart, tells me how much she likes me, etc. Meanwhile, I’m sticking back, playing the game, and trying my best not to get caught up in something that may or may not work out. I’m going to see her tomorrow at church, but I’m gonna let her come to me. Anything else I should do? 😅 Submitted April 24, 2019 at 05:20AM Like I mentioned in the title, I got the girl.For about two ...

I've (M 19) noticed a trend everytime I talk to a girl on a dating app. The cycle usually goes like this: we hit it off on the app, I ask for their snapchat, we talk on sc for a couple days, I get their number, after a couple days I ask her out, she agrees, then they suddenly lose interest out of nowhere and start talking less and less. Then I see they are back on the dating app. This seems to happen everytime and I'm not sure what I'm doing wrong. Am I talking too much/seem like I'm too needy? I try to balance it but it still happens even when I think things are going well. Any tips would be appreciated. Submitted April 24, 2019 at 05:36AM I've (M 19) noticed a trend everytime I talk to a girl on a dating app. The cycle usually goes like this: we hit it off on the app, I ask for their snapchat, we talk on sc for a couple days, I get their number, after a couple days I ask her out, she agrees, then they suddenly lose interest out of nowhere and start talking ...

Yup. Went back to his place after watching a sports game, wasn't planning on it going anywhere, honestly I just needed to hang out with someone since my kinda breakup about two weeks ago. His roommate comes out to the living room and tells him to stop bringing home fat girls and points at me. I mean yeah I have a little extra but I am 5'8" 160 lbs, work out regularly, and have lost 40 lbs over the past year after dealing with severe anxiety and depression throughout college. I haven't felt this confident in years since a LTR breakup a year ago and just wow. Nothing like being "broken up" with, deciding to just go out with someone who seems nice to try and have fun, and then being ripped down yet again. Submitted April 24, 2019 at 05:45AM Yup.Went back to his place after watching a sports game, wasn't planning on it going anywhere, honestly I just needed to hang out with someone since my kinda breakup about two weeks ago.His roommate comes out t...

In most late age virgin posts on reddit, they seem to have a sense of what their problem is, like being too socially awkward or very depressed, but for me I really don't know what the problem is. I'm 6'1, white, in shape, have a career, and live in California. With the exception of a tipsy one that just randomly kissed me one night, not one single woman has ever shown interest in me beyond friendship. I've gotten a fairly good number of dates from dating apps but they were almost all first dates. If I followed up after the date she would always text that there wasn't any "chemistry" or "connection" and it would end there. A couple times in desperation I replied back to the women asking for an honest critique, but they ignored the texts. Offline approaches didn't work either, and I suspect that could be a clue. When women actually interact with me in person they have no interest in me. It's always "sorry, I have a boyfriend" if...

I met this woman on my Instagram and we hit it off immediately. She wanted to hangout so we decided to go out for drinks! Everything went smoothly in my opinion we talked about life , career goals etc & she even said we should hangout the next day. I texted her the next day and i got no response and come to find out later she blocked me on Instagram. It’s cool there’s plenty of other women out there but i’m just wondering why do women do this so much? Submitted April 24, 2019 at 05:54AM I met this woman on my Instagram and we hit it off immediately. She wanted to hangout so we decided to go out for drinks! Everything went smoothly in my opinion we talked about life , career goals etc & she even said we should hangout the next day. I texted her the next day and i got no response and come to find out later she blocked me on Instagram. It’s cool there’s plenty of other women out there but i’m just wondering why do women do this so much?

Basically, this dude and I like each other and dated. However, he wants to “pause” what we are doing because he will be moving for his new job and I will be in grad school. There are other factors, so he doesn’t want the relationship to be in the way of what we want to do in life. However, he said in about a year or so, once things seem to settle down, he might contact me again. What does a guy mean when he wants to “pause” the relationship? Should I see this as a way of me being a safety net if he doesn’t find anyone new in the future? Submitted April 24, 2019 at 06:03AM Basically, this dude and I like each other and dated. However, he wants to “pause” what we are doing because he will be moving for his new job and I will be in grad school. There are other factors, so he doesn’t want the relationship to be in the way of what we want to do in life.However, he said in about a year or so, once things seem to settle down, he might contact me again. What does a guy mean when he wan...

19, F. Ive never been intimate with a guy before on a level where they’ve seen my body. I’m just starting to put myself out there and am interested in dating but I’m scared for when it will come to the physical side of things as I’m overweight, I have stomach rolls, etc, my body is not attractive at all and I’m really scared about that side of things if/when it comes down to it. Do guys mind a heavier body or like? I’m really insecure about mines and for anyone to see it someday Submitted April 24, 2019 at 06:30AM 19, F. Ive never been intimate with a guy before on a level where they’ve seen my body. I’m just starting to put myself out there and am interested in dating but I’m scared for when it will come to the physical side of things as I’m overweight, I have stomach rolls, etc, my body is not attractive at all and I’m really scared about that side of things if/when it comes down to it. Do guys mind a heavier body or like? I’m really insecure about mines and for anyone to see ...

30m been in only one other LTR and just started seeing this 36f. We met through mutual friends and we got along pretty good. Had a few dates always good times and then she brings up how important it is to have a kid soon. And I get it because we're at that age where everyone getting married and starting a family. Except I'm not ready to do that right now, I definitely want to have kids at least 2 maybe 4 lol. But then after we put it all out there over a phone conversation, we just kind of left it open ended. This all happened like 2 days ago when we spoke, and she has mentioned on prior dates on how her age bothers her sometimes because she doesn't already have a husband and kid. Now I understand it's harder for girls, their literally on the clock and pressure from family/society. But man, to somehow expect a guy to commit to having kids so soon...that seems crazy. (More the timing than anything, we've only just started seeing each other) But she did make it cl...