This man I’ve met online and have been texting to just randomly stoped texting one evening and I understand he can be busy for sure but it’s been nearly a week now. He’s been online plenty of times, including times we were online at the same time. I sent a few follow up texts but I feel dumb because I’m scared I annoyed him with the follow ups. We didn’t argue, fight or anything. Our last message was literally about cats lol. I understand maybe he got bored but idk to completely halt one day like it’s nothing is so weird to me. Last time he pulled something similar I just stopped texting him and then he hit me up out of nowhere and started to talk to me for a few days consecutively with both of us being pretty engaged. It’s so sudden and random, I’m confused. Should I let him go for good or wait that maybe he replies. And last time when I asked if I did something wrong, all he told me was “nothing, life got busy”. Him: 28M, Me: 22F idk if that’s relevant Submitted March 05, 20...

Sounds to me like you probably shouldn't. You won't gain much from doing so, and they seem pretty likely to be hostile to you about it. March 04, 2022 at 11:25PM

No. There's no point really March 04, 2022 at 11:24PM

He is tall and huge...his pictures is only his face on an angle looking slimmer than he is. Literally close to 450-500 pounds. He is very tall so he is able to walk and fit in a car. This is not fair. Got cafished. How to tell him to fuck off and post real pictures. Submitted March 05, 2022 at 12:09AM He is tall and huge...his pictures is only his face on an angle looking slimmer than he is. Literally close to 450-500 pounds. He is very tall so he is able to walk and fit in a car.This is not fair. Got cafished. How to tell him to fuck off and post real pictures.

I'm a 37-year-old male, living in Queenstown, New Zealand (Australian originally). I'm frienfly, great with conversation, and generally considered by some 'above average' looking. I live in a really awesome outdoor adventure town, where there are a lot of people with different lifestyles. I keep thinking this is a great spot to meet people I'm interested in, but I always find myself not overly interested in many people. Furthermore, I'm aware this is a problem, and I definitely accept that people can be great for you even if they are completely different. I'm also quite demotivated and introverted when not dating, and lack a social circle. When I am dating, I become much more outgoing and extroverted. This is super hard to balance. I find I'm biased towards a personal cognitive check-list when assessing potential partners. At the moment, I am looking for a partner whom: 1) I find attractive (or at least above average in my own tastes), 2) I find inter...

Asexual people acted like crushes were disgusting It’s a bit more complicated than that for us than “crushes are icky”. You see, as asexual people, we live with the fact that everyone else but us experiences crushes and romantic desire through a need for sex on some level. So we tend to (often TRY to) develop a lot more sensitivity around people expressing their sexual interests around us as to compensate for the fact that we have no way of relating to those feelings of sexual attraction that you have as an allosexual. And when you become overly sensitive to people expressing their sexual feelings, well it can get hard to put up with. I mean, girl, I am a GAY MAN. Can you even imagine the kind of talk that I have to get used to in my people’s community? I love them of course but… it’s just a bit more complicated because I am ace. March 04, 2022 at 11:24PM