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/u/blrmkr10 on Is kissing sexual?

This is just me personally, but I go by the intent behind the kiss. Like if it's "I'm just kissing you so I can undress you later" then it's sexual, but if it's more like "I'm kissing you because I like being with you" then that's more romantic. Not very helpful, just my thoughts! August 09, 2020 at 12:04AM

/u/multithreadedprocess on Because yes, if you don't want to have sex with your partner you're just friends with them ... Why are people like this :(

Asexual people will always have some of the hardest problems navigating relationships. It's an unfortunate consequence of biology. I feel for them. It's an incredibly tough thing to deal with. August 09, 2020 at 12:01AM

/u/LittleMissRose64 on Is kissing sexual?

Thanks, that's really helpful! Fray, lith and cupio all seem to describe some aspects, but nothing hits the nail on the head, I guess. Idk, I feel like I need more experience to know for sure. I've only ever had 2 """"""crushes""""""" and one person reciprocate. I'll probably refer to that list a lot in the near future lol August 08, 2020 at 11:58PM

/u/HavePlushieWillTalk on Three Quarters of People Cannot Define Asexuality

That doctor should not be talking about asexuality, they don't seem to understand it. They say asexual people not only don't feel attraction (yep) but have no inclination or interest in sex (wtf? Not necessarily?). The doctor also implies that asexuality is not LGBT which is NOT A THING THEY ARE ALLOWED TO DECIDE FOR US. August 08, 2020 at 11:57PM

/u/nasneren on Question for those wearing ace symbols in public.

I saw someone with our flag the other day wearing it as a cape! August 08, 2020 at 11:56PM

/u/Acepocryphon on Is kissing sexual?

I dont like how wet it is August 08, 2020 at 11:53PM

/u/livipup on Is kissing sexual?

Maybe one of these labels might fit you? August 08, 2020 at 11:52PM

/u/LittleMissRose64 on Is kissing sexual?

Wow, that's so crazy. I cant believe I never connected the dots August 08, 2020 at 11:51PM

/u/xspacerose on Made this ace heart crown for my profile picture, feel free to use it ^^

wish it was transparent and that i even knew how to edit photos so i could put this on a selfie lol but this is awesome ty for making and sharing this! August 08, 2020 at 11:51PM

/u/CantDecideANam3 on Is kissing sexual?

If it's a peck on the cheek or lips, then no. If there's tongue action involved, yes. August 08, 2020 at 11:50PM

/u/Jackvader2020 on This Was In Response To The Comment "Just wanted to say: If you are a man dating a t-woman you are not straight"

Transphobia with some aphobia sprinkled on top. If the conversation keeps going maybe they will throw in some racism too. August 08, 2020 at 11:47PM

/u/stelliferous7 on Sex Ed and Asexuality

Good point. The fact that the entire community is not talked about in sex ed needs to be addressed as well before this can be done. August 08, 2020 at 11:43PM

/u/Jroboi16 on Posted not knowing r/aaacceee was just a meme subreddit..now wondering if I’m somewhere on the ace spectrum lmao

Lovely sentiment but can I just ask that people stop using the word patriarchy? Even if the English monarchy was still relevant we have a matriarch right now. (Gets off soap box) August 08, 2020 at 11:43PM

/u/BurgerGamer on I just thought of an amazing analogy!!

SSX Tricky is way better than sex anyway, so don't worry about it August 08, 2020 at 11:39PM

/u/LittleMissRose64 on Sex Ed and Asexuality

Idl where you're from, but where I'm from sex ed is either "abstinence or death" or "look at all these stds!!! Dont want that now do we?" So basically still abstinence or death Sex ed would need to consider actually teaching about sex before even considering diving into non-hetero sexualities. So if where you're from people will listen, I'd recommend starting small. Write a letter to your (former or current) principal about the changes youd like to see August 08, 2020 at 11:39PM

/u/KuhjaKnight on Sex Ed and Asexuality

This will be a hard sell. Sex education is so hard in America because of the control by the conservative voices over it. We barely even tel kids what a penis or vagina is. I don’t think any schools even discuss homosexuality, let alone bisexuality. If they can’t even discuss homosexuality, which is far more common the asexuality, we are dead in the water. It’s a good idea, but I don’t think it’ll go anywhere for a long time. Hell, there are even large groups in the LGBTQIA+ community that dismiss us. August 08, 2020 at 11:39PM

/u/Darth-Krarn on “You’re the only teenage girl I’ve ever met who would rather talk about history than boys.” -my best friend’s mom in 10th grade

Republic August 08, 2020 at 11:38PM

/u/Dinowlsaur on Making an ace vest c: stars are for the inside. I'll get black pants, a grey shirt, and white tie, too, but I only want to sew the vest

Aw hell yeah dawg August 08, 2020 at 11:37PM

/u/throwawayy1171 on Have a lot of the traits of asexuality, but still masturbate and have fantasies about nudity that is not directly sexual

That may be true but i only started watching hentai regularly about a year and a half ago, i remember feeling this way even before that. August 08, 2020 at 11:37PM

/u/arandomhuman726 on Finally got an ace flag!!!! I have ascended, I am vibe

Yay time for some cake to celebrate! August 08, 2020 at 11:34PM

/u/vlakkers on Because yes, if you don't want to have sex with your partner you're just friends with them ... Why are people like this :(

I completely agree with you, I just don't think you're going to get people who don't understand that concept to agree. People who are sexually active and use sex as their preferred method to love someone will not agree with us. I mean you have people who get divorced, break up, and get into fights because they don't have enough sex. So it's just not something that's going to translate to those people. August 08, 2020 at 11:34PM

/u/TheBonobo4 on “You’re the only teenage girl I’ve ever met who would rather talk about history than boys.” -my best friend’s mom in 10th grade

Interesting. Republic or Empire? August 08, 2020 at 11:34PM

Yet it feels like we met before...

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