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Crush seems to be giving attention to anyone but me.

The girl I like is not necessarily shy, but she's definitely not an extrovert either. She's not the one to engage a conversation, but when talking or interacting with basically anyone but me she seems remotely comfortable and chill. However when she is talking to me I can barely get any eye-contact and she seems uptight, however still not clearly showing a desire to get away from the situation. If we see each other in a public space I'm always the one approaching her, but still she doesn't run away from interacting with me. Could she have any feelings for me or am I just the one person she finds repulsive? Submitted December 15, 2019 at 12:02AM The girl I like is not necessarily shy, but she's definitely not an extrovert either. She's not the one to engage a conversation, but when talking or interacting with basically anyone but me she seems remotely comfortable and chill. However when she is talking to me I can barely get any eye-contact and she seems up...

What to do about my (22F) grumpy boyfriend (27m)?

I have been with my boyfriend for 1.9 years. He is 27 and I am 22. Sometimes he gets really grumpy, and it really is such a damper on my mood. He will get grumpy when he’s hungry, or tired, or bored, or, just randomly. A lot of the times he is indecisive, and therefore, never knows what he wants to do. He will get stressed out over not knowing what he wants his plans to be, or thinking about how he wants to play video games, workout, and work on some projects, and how he works 40+ hours a week. When we talk, he will sometimes just get aggravated with me, and then complain how I don’t know what it’s like because I don’t work 40+ hours a week (I will soon), and how I have so much time and he doesn’t. Just today, we hung out Friday until this afternoon. We talked about maybe hanging out later tonight. We both decided maybe we shouldn’t, and then we talked for a little bit, he started shaving his face/grooming himself while we were on the phone. And then he randomly got aggravated wit...

Prezzies??!

I (24f) have been talking to this guy (21m) since late May, and we never made it official, but have been chatting like a couple since then and long distance since August. Things have seemed to be getting serious (we talk on the phone for hours, he invited me to his family Christmas party, our third date was an out-of-town wedding). I wasn't expecting to exchange presents, since we're not official, that I know of. He told me the other night that he got me a present though! I have no idea what to get him now (is a joke present ok?? Should I get him something useful?? Should I try to get something hella thoughtful??) Any input would be great! Thanks! Submitted December 15, 2019 at 12:03AM I (24f) have been talking to this guy (21m) since late May, and we never made it official, but have been chatting like a couple since then and long distance since August. Things have seemed to be getting serious (we talk on the phone for hours, he invited me to his family Christmas party, ...

Dating is always boring

Hi all, don’t laugh at me or attack me please, I have little experience in dating field. But I found all men I met in my life who have interest in me that I chose to talk to all behave the same: bragging non stop about how much they make, who they know, how excellent they are in certain area .......etc.. the worst is they can’t stop, blah, blah.......I tried my best pretending I am listening, and can’t help thinking when will they stop talking so that I can leave......haha I know men are different social animals from women, but do they know what is love? Within 2 hours talking to a man, I would know should I continue to see him or no, maybe that is why they just tried their best to show off what they have, who they know and what they can do......sigh......Just venting my frustration. I am pretty sure there are plenty men out there are better, just my bad luck, I guess Submitted December 15, 2019 at 12:05AM Hi all, don’t laugh at me or attack me please, I have little experience ...

Does she like me?

I’m a (18m) senior in high school and I’ve never had a gf. So I really don’t know much about girls or relationships in general. Recently a girl (18f) in one of my classes has been paying me a lot of compliments out of the blue. We’ve talked before but it was mostly instances where I’d be talking to a mutual friend and she would laugh at a joke I made. Now I was assigned a seat directly behind her and she has gone out of her way to start a convo with me and even buy food. She always smiles at me too. She hasn’t done or said anything alluding to want to be more than friends so I don’t want to do anything to make her uncomfortable. I just can’t figure out if she’s into me. Submitted December 15, 2019 at 12:05AM I’m a (18m) senior in high school and I’ve never had a gf. So I really don’t know much about girls or relationships in general. Recently a girl (18f) in one of my classes has been paying me a lot of compliments out of the blue. We’ve talked before but it was mostly instances...

Sugar daddy arrangement

Are you looking for sugar daddy for your needs you can message me on kik here is my id bestdad2265 Submitted December 15, 2019 at 12:09AM Are you looking for sugar daddy for your needs you can message me on kik here is my id bestdad2265

Hitting up Ex-GF (19F) while I'm (20M) home on college break

So my Ex of about 2 years recently became single once again, still in our home town. She posted one of those "ask me a question" things on her Instagram story (alittle childish but hey what are ya gonna do) right after I started following her again for the first time in a year or so. Think this is a subtle invitation to hit her up or is this just a bad idea? Submitted December 15, 2019 at 12:10AM So my Ex of about 2 years recently became single once again, still in our home town. She posted one of those "ask me a question" things on her Instagram story (alittle childish but hey what are ya gonna do) right after I started following her again for the first time in a year or so.Think this is a subtle invitation to hit her up or is this just a bad idea?

How do I drop a guy gently?

I'm 18. Pretty sure this guy is like 19/20. I've been chatting with three different guys, one wants to be my sugar daddy, the other two want to be my boyfriend. One of the two who wants a relationship though, he lives in another state and texts me everyday even if I don't say anything. I swear for like two weeks I didn't open his messages, and he texted me at least once a day. He barely knows me really. But I don't want to just ghost him. I told him I can't do long distance again, and that we could just be friends but honestly I feel bad. I do wanna be friends but I never feel like talking. He's apparently really lonely and could use a friend. He told me I'm the only thing keeping him from killing himself which I 100% don't really understand because like I said he doesn't know me that well even. Submitted December 15, 2019 at 12:14AM I'm 18. Pretty sure this guy is like 19/20. I've been chatting with three different guys, one wan...

Excuses, excuses, and more excuses

Sometimes, I find someone interesting and/ or attractive in a party, a getty, or just walking in my university campus. I really want to get to know them but instead I start to overthink and come up with a metric ton of excuses for not doing so. For example, I went to an underground club last night with a group of friends. A girl I met during the day (through a friend) accidentally stumbled upon me while dancing. We exchanged apologies and no-problems. I noticed it was kind of weird and seemed a little "on purpose." Coincidentally or not, one of my friends sees this and tells me after a second or two "that was on purpose." She's attractive and seems like a fun, charming person, so I'm a little interested in getting to know her. I'm also motivated by the fact that she possibly made that move and has been nice in our one or two interactions. I want to know who she is on the inside! But then BAM, I unintentionally start thinking: She's not THAT attrac...

Should I ask him out ?

MEN OF REDDIT HELP HELP! Super confused with this guy ! I’m posting this from a throwaway account because he knows my user & I’d rather keep this anonymous. Anyways: I (21F) met this guy at university. We’ve become close friends over the term. We text, study together, talk about personal stuff, sit together, and he has occasionally flirted with me but never formally asked me out on a date. I don’t wanna go into too many details about the flirting because as I said he knows my user. Now I really like him, and sometimes I get the vibes he likes me too. Should I ask him out and ruin the friendship if he doesn’t like me? How would I even ask him out ? Or should I wait for him to make a move ? For context, he did get out of a bad relationship some months ago, not sure if that plays a factor or maybe he just doesn’t see me that way. I haven’t been as flirty as he is because I’m confused, and if I start flirting out of nowhere it might confuse him too. As you can see I’m just confused ! ...

/u/RubyAsh on Will they ever get it?

Well spoken, Im similar that I don't like confrontation but if it comes to it I will stand my ground. I'll just keep repeating myself anytime they try to trip me up, I'm sure they might eventually realise I'm not acting and this is just how I am. To me it's kind of like a lot of things in life, if people have different regions or sexual orientations or political views, I understand I'm friends with people who are different to me, and I dont mind if they want to talk about their stuff, that's fine, I'm fully supportive of people having different ways of life - but it becomes an issue when they try to change someone else, I'm not okay with the chats it if it's done in a way that feels like they're trying get me to say I'm like them, when I'm not. Your words do make a lot of sense, I do think slowly the world is getting more accepting overall. I don't want to bang on about my ace-ness but it'd be nice if people did understand ...

/u/ArtemisJewels on Asexual fun

I’ve been on and off considering the possibility I could be aro... I have no idea honestly. I love all people too strongly to be able to decipher the answer, but what you just wrote is exactly how I told my boyfriend I wanted a relationship to be, and how we have it. The foundation is, “I have your back and you have mine, and our stories are one”. No sex, not even kissing if I’m not up for it (I’ve had more and more periods of that lately but it could be I’m creeping into clinical territory for depression), the most important thing is that we have each other’s backs. It makes me excited that someone else sees things that way, that I’m not alone. December 15, 2019 at 12:08AM

/u/EliteHoney on If the shoe fits...

r/oddlyspecific December 15, 2019 at 12:02AM

/u/account473837373 on i actually thought it was posted in this subreddit at first

Thanks mate December 15, 2019 at 12:02AM

/u/Pyro_Pegasus on i actually thought it was posted in this subreddit at first

Send garlic bread December 15, 2019 at 12:01AM

/u/RubyAsh on Will they ever get it?

That's fair, yeah, I guess I was just feeling a bit unsupported - their words said they understood but actions were almost the opposite, I don't need to be changed, at least I'm okay with it even if others are not?! XD December 15, 2019 at 12:00AM

/u/Pyro_Pegasus on Why is the Kawaii/Soft Girl/Lolita Subcultures full of smut?

Wow, that’s very disturbing. Is that what happens in Boku No Pico? I never seen the anime but I’ve seen a lot of memes calling it cursed December 14, 2019 at 11:59PM

/u/Alpha0963 on It’s time for me to peace out

Thank you so much ❤️ December 14, 2019 at 11:56PM

/u/Alpha0963 on It’s time for me to peace out

Thank you December 14, 2019 at 11:55PM

/u/hupsistakeikkaa on If the shoe fits...

Same December 14, 2019 at 11:55PM

/u/Alpha0963 on It’s time for me to peace out

Lol thanks. Trust me, I’m always gonna have cake before sex cause chocolate cake 🙏 December 14, 2019 at 11:55PM

/u/Alpha0963 on It’s time for me to peace out

Of course! I will always be a friend of the community ❤️ December 14, 2019 at 11:54PM

/u/Alpha0963 on It’s time for me to peace out

Thank you December 14, 2019 at 11:49PM