I had sex for the first time and it’s been 3 days and everytime I open my bowel I start bleeding (medium with clots)! I was wondering if that is dangerous and I’m really freaking out! It doesn’t happen when I pee though? Submitted February 26, 2020 at 11:52PM I had sex for the first time and it’s been 3 days and everytime I open my bowel I start bleeding (medium with clots)! I was wondering if that is dangerous and I’m really freaking out! It doesn’t happen when I pee though?

Throwaway because a lot of family/friends know my username. Context : me and my gf (both in our 20s) have been together for 8 years, live together and things are pretty good ! We communicate a lot and quite early in our relationship she mentionned she was attracted to both men and women. No bother, i'm pretty open about this stuff, so i said sure, we can be looking for a threesome or even open the relationship a bit, in the sense where we can both look for fun elsewhere and still have our loving relationship together. It took a while for things to get in motion, due to many different factors, but last week we matched with this girl on a popular online dating app, she's basically in the same spot as my gf, except she's single. She's looking to experiment both with a woman and with a threesome situation, so great ! We talked every day since we matched and even though we mentionned early on in the discussion what we were looking for, we all agreed to start by learning ...

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21 female, did all the necessary research before I decided to get my first dildo. Bought some lube, stretched my hymen out pretty far already, have used this 4-5 inch thing with it for a month and I’ve slowly been getting used to it. Now, my most annoying problem is that any time I try to pull the dildo out, the back of the head gets jammed against this noticeable dip at the top of my vagina and it hurts like hell if I try to remove it at normal speed. So much so that I have to go excruciatingly slow to pull it out. I don’t think it’s my another part of my hymen? It’s not a thin membrane and the dip is a little ways inside but still closer to the entrance. As for the toy, I believe the dildo in question is a medium/ ‘softer’ firm firmness and the exact model can be found on Eden Fantasies, called ‘Perfecto.’ Is it me? Is it the dildo’s head being too firm for my body? Is there a way for me to get myself used to this so it’ll stop hurting? And yes, I am using a lot of lube to try and...

I like being eaten out but not as much as I like PIV sex. It’s weird because I see most girls posting online about how they can’t have an orgasm with just PIV sex but that’s the ONLY way I can orgasm (yes I am sure I know what an orgasm feels like). I hate when oral sex lasts too long, it’s a nice way to start out for a few minutes but the actual PIV sex part is what I enjoy most. I also have never, ever, EVER felt the need to masturbate and the only times i’ve tried it, it’s because i’ve felt like it’s weird that I don’t masturbate while majority of women do. I don’t enjoy it at all regardless of toys or my fingers. I guess I’m “vanilla” but I enjoy the warmth and sensation of an actual human penis more and I’m not horny enough to want a substitute. I guess I’m just venting here because I feel like I’m weird for being this way? Help!! Am I weird for this? Submitted February 27, 2020 at 12:00AM I like being eaten out but not as much as I like PIV sex. It’s weird because I see mo...

What are some ways to make sure an escort isn't affiliated with LE? My go-to was to ask them to write my name on a piece of paper lol. But that might just verify they are legit rather than not being affiliated with LE... Submitted February 27, 2020 at 12:02AM What are some ways to make sure an escort isn't affiliated with LE? My go-to was to ask them to write my name on a piece of paper lol. But that might just verify they are legit rather than not being affiliated with LE...

i started seeing this guy and we're both crazy into freaky bdsm. he hurts me really well and after our first session this weekend my ass was wholly bruised, like i got beat the fuck up. it looks medical but otherwise feels normal. it's been about 3 days and i'm nearly healed, by the end of the week when i see him again i'll probably be back to normal. he says he was only getting started this time and i assume later sessions might be even more brutal. i don't know what we are yet or how long this will go on for, but assuming that i see him at least once a week for the forseeable months, will this actually fuck up my veins and tissue at some point? what type of damage is this causing? Submitted February 27, 2020 at 12:03AM i started seeing this guy and we're both crazy into freaky bdsm. he hurts me really well and after our first session this weekend my ass was wholly bruised, like i got beat the fuck up. it looks medical but otherwise feels normal. it...

We live together. Shortly after I moved in he asked me to ask permission to masturbate. That was fine, so I did. He basically always said yes. A few times he wasn't available to ask so I masturbated anyway. I later confessed, and he said it was fine. But then it happened again and I confessed again. At this time he admitted he never liked that I masturbated anyway, and he doesn't masturbate, and would really prefer if I didn't. He really doesn't, I promise. So it's not a double standard. So anyway I reluctantly agreed and didn't masturbate for a whole year. I asked if we could buy a vibrator so he could use it on me, and he said no, and used the example should we get a fleshlight for you to use on me? To try to convince me using a toy would be weird. I just wanted it so he could get me off faster, it takes like 30 minutes with his hand. Recently I gave in and haven't stopped since, though I do feel bad. What should I do? Submitted February 27, 2020 at...

Help! I have phimosis and today was the first day I was able to retract my foreskin entirely but it got stuck behind the head of my penis. Is there any way to undo this? Submitted February 27, 2020 at 12:16AM Help!I have phimosis and today was the first day I was able to retract my foreskin entirely but it got stuck behind the head of my penis. Is there any way to undo this?

Hi Reddit, I can't find a clear answer online so I want to ask you. Me and my girlfriend want preform oral sex on eachother, but we have a question about using protection. We are having (unprotected) sex about 8 months now, we dont have any other sex partners and we both don't have any STI's/STD's. Do we need to use protection for oral sex Thank you in advance! Submitted February 27, 2020 at 12:16AM Hi Reddit,I can't find a clear answer online so I want to ask you.Me and my girlfriend want preform oral sex on eachother, but we have a question about using protection. We are having (unprotected) sex about 8 months now, we dont have any other sex partners and we both don't have any STI's/STD's. Do we need to use protection for oral sexThank you in advance!

So I went to town with my flatmate and she was trying to set me up with one of her guy friends, I've met him a couple times and we get along quite well and me being drunk I was like fuck yea I want to get with him. He was very shy so it took a while to lead up to as we were walking around he was making sure I didn't get split up from them and he held my hand and then bought me a drink. we ended up making out and dancing and there was a little bit of touching (me rubbing him up and him grabbing my boobs and stuff like that) he decided to walk me home and came up for some water and he started to fall asleep so I said he could stay the night if he wanted. Now I thought this would lead to sex but I'm quite surprised it didn't. I generally thought if a guy came home with you he would expect that you would have sex but he didn't which is actually really nice to me. Anyway he ended up staying at mine and he just cuddled me all night and then this morning me and my flatmat...

9 lessons I learned from this Life 1. Giving too Many Fucks, Fucks Up Your Life Most of us give too many fucks: we care about some celebrity’s new car, our ex-boyfriend’s cute girl, having the latest footwear, and many more trivial things. Little do we know that giving too many fucks has a detrimental effect on our mental health as it makes us focus on having unrealistic and fake things that we might never get. 2. Choose the Things to Give a Fuck About We are wired to care about many things. However, if we want to progress, we must choose to only care about things that add value to our lives. We must stop giving a fuck about useless things such as posting a perfect selfie on Facebook or having the best swag in town. 3. Life is Fucking Full of Problems Never expect to live a life of everlasting happiness because problems will never end. For example, if you are poor, you will have money problems, and if you become rich, you will experience money management problems. Problems never end, ...

Goddamnit I love you. I love remembering how it all started. From sharing laughs with you, to having your arm in my mine, to having you cuddled in my lap, and then feeling your lips against mine. Leading to sneaking out at night just to see you and that leading to more. Now my heart belongs to you. I love your smile and the voice behind it, the way your lips are curved entrance me. I can’t help but taking the time to look you up and down to soak it all in. Your mind is complex and deep and wonderful. I love hearing you talk about the things you love, I could listen to you for hours. I want to give you everything I have... give you as much as I can. In the future I hope to be able to come home to you, to see your amazing eyes (and butt 🥰). Then hear you talk about your day. Everything from the highs to the lows. You are the beautiful girl I revolve around, the girl that makes me feel like I exist. Absolutely nothing compares to you. I love writing about you. I struggle to tell you ev...

I (25 F) have never had a boyfriend or had sex. I’ve barley even been kissed. I’m not “saving myself for marriage” or anything, just shy and unsocial so meeting new people has been and issue. I go through phases where I have no desire to be with anyone/date and then I’ll think about it and realize it would be nice to have someone. I’ve gotten so used to being alone and honestly I like being independent but I think I’m ready for a relationship. I want to try and start dating for real but the older I’ve gotten, the more embarrassed I am to bring up the fact that I’m still a virgin. What’s the best way to bring it up? Will guys think I’m weird? Any advice helps!! Submitted February 26, 2020 at 11:33PM I (25 F) have never had a boyfriend or had sex. I’ve barley even been kissed. I’m not “saving myself for marriage” or anything, just shy and unsocial so meeting new people has been and issue. I go through phases where I have no desire to be with anyone/date and then I’ll think about...

I met this fantastic guy off hinge who is from the UK. I am from Canada. I spontaneously said yes to going on a date with him and it was fantastic. We connected so quickly, humorous banter, lots to discuss. We spent about 2 hours at the restaurant and then he walked me back to my place. I invited him upstairs and one thing led to another. He stayed until the morning and left before he had to go to work. He came over the next night and then the following night. It was honestly magical. I thought this was the first sign of a long term thing. Now, on the first date he mentioned that he would be flying home at the end of the week, but his company was planning to have someone come live in Canada more permanently at the end of the month. Once he flew home, we chatted on and off. He wasn’t the best texter, maybe hearing from him every couple days, but I was having trouble forgetting the incredible dates we had. Turns out his company didn’t need to send anyone to Canada anymore, and he mad...

What is a good conversation starter to your crush in chat aside from "How's your day", "How are you", and "Hows your week?" Submitted February 26, 2020 at 11:37PM What is a good conversation starter to your crush in chat aside from "How's your day", "How are you", and "Hows your week?"

I was supposed to go on museum date last weekend but the guy literally never messaged me back on Instagram until today because he “didnt check ig in a while.” Honestly, I’m really debating if I should continue talking to him since I had waited all day to hear back but he decides to go MIA for a couple days instead. I thought he was “different” he seemed pretty nice and genuinely interested in talking but now I feel like I’m wasting my time putting in extra effort when a guy only puts in half Submitted February 26, 2020 at 11:41PM I was supposed to go on museum date last weekend but the guy literally never messaged me back on Instagram until today because he “didnt check ig in a while.” Honestly, I’m really debating if I should continue talking to him since I had waited all day to hear back but he decides to go MIA for a couple days instead. I thought he was “different” he seemed pretty nice and genuinely interested in talking but now I feel like I’m wasting my time putting in ex...

I've had a traumatic brain injury for five years now and I haven't been able to make anything happen for nearly 3 years from my last dating experience to the point where I don't know what's going wrong. Online dating is basically going nowhere, along with mobile, and I'm generally too tired to go out and can't handle loud environments for too long. At this point I'm just going through the motions and am ready to give up. What should I do? Submitted February 26, 2020 at 11:46PM I've had a traumatic brain injury for five years now and I haven't been able to make anything happen for nearly 3 years from my last dating experience to the point where I don't know what's going wrong. Online dating is basically going nowhere, along with mobile, and I'm generally too tired to go out and can't handle loud environments for too long. At this point I'm just going through the motions and am ready to give up.What should I do?

Alright so there’s this girl (15F) that I am (16M) interested in at school. She’s said hey to me a couple times and would call us “twins” because we are both tall (She said she was 5’10” and I’m 6’7”). Earlier today in study hall I asked for her snap and she took my phone and added herself for me. The issue is though, is that she never added me back lol. Is there a chance she just forgot to add me back? All of this happened before class ended. I guess I was getting the wrong signals from her and she’s probably not interested. I’ll talk to her tomorrow but probably won’t bring up that she never added me, or if I do it’ll be in a joking type of way. Any help about this? Anyone of y’all been in this type of situation before? Thanks in advance Submitted February 26, 2020 at 11:51PM Alright so there’s this girl (15F) that I am (16M) interested in at school. She’s said hey to me a couple times and would call us “twins” because we are both tall (She said she was 5’10” and I’m 6’7”). ...

Hello guys, I'm 22 yo, male, and I decided to share my story, with confidence that I will find the answer of my question here. When I was  pregraduation enginner , I watched most of the RSD natural course and had a lot of results which I am very proud about that because in my area, there are just a few people with this ability. When I graduate, I was very busy for searching  a job and had depression and a lot of stress, so unconsciously I forgot the knowledge of being an alpha, and creative person. Even when I talk with a new girl, it is just a pep talk, nothing more. I stopped being funny, attractive and spontaneous and I don't know why. Now I work 8 hours a day as an intern in the bank and I want to regain this ability again, to challenge myself, to feel my fear, and to be a better person personally and socially. Did you have any experience like that and if you had this, how did you get from that situation? English is not my native language, sorry for mistakes :) ...

I (24F) wanna ask a guy (26M) out that I've known for about 2 months. We text a decent amount and he's come to a party I threw but he hasn't asked me out thus far, although I sense a lil sum'min between us. So, I figure it's time for me to take the lead and ask him out BUT I don't want to throw him off or come across as intense/desperate. When is too soon for a gal to take charge and ask the guy out? Or additionally, what is the wrong way to go about this? Submitted February 26, 2020 at 11:57PM I (24F) wanna ask a guy (26M) out that I've known for about 2 months. We text a decent amount and he's come to a party I threw but he hasn't asked me out thus far, although I sense a lil sum'min between us. So, I figure it's time for me to take the lead and ask him out BUT I don't want to throw him off or come across as intense/desperate. When is too soon for a gal to take charge and ask the guy out? Or additionally, what is the wrong way to...

I [35M] and my girlfriend [30F] have been seeing each other for the past 7 months. She and I had an affair (her on her boyfriend) an me on (my wife). We seem to have a great relationship and really enjoy our time together. We see each other all evening M-F and weekends I stay over nights at her place. I have even met her two kids ages 8 & 10, that seem to look forward to hanging out with me. Before we started seeing each other she was aware that I had just received al large inheritance. Since we’ve been together, I purchased and furnished her a house trailer (which I put in her name), bought her a a new wardrobe, as well as, purchasing her kids electronics, clothing, dance lessons, etc. I’ve been paying her utility bills, ground rent, and I could go on and on. I spent about $30,000 and I’m almost out of money. At this time she is not ready for me to move in with her and her kids. She said if we move in together now our relationship wouldn’t last. Since we’ve been together she h...

I’m a 22 M in college. I’ve been talking to this girl for about a month and a half now. We’ve gone on multiple dates, been intimate, and just had a good time overall. I’ve met her roommates and other friends, they all seem to like me, and some have mentioned she talks about me a lot to them. But I know she is still on apps such as Tinder thanks to my roommates. I know she likes me as she has said it and has said she enjoys spending time with me. However, when I asked about us dating she said she was interested but wanted to take it slowly. Is it normal for her to keep looking seeing as we are not exclusive atm? Is it a bad sign? Submitted February 27, 2020 at 12:01AM I’m a 22 M in college. I’ve been talking to this girl for about a month and a half now. We’ve gone on multiple dates, been intimate, and just had a good time overall. I’ve met her roommates and other friends, they all seem to like me, and some have mentioned she talks about me a lot to them. But I know she is still ...