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/u/Phoenix-with-oil on I’m looking for the asexual young adults 💜🤍🖤

Hello everyone! I’m 17 September 06, 2021 at 12:28AM

/u/cat_romance on I don’t want kids of my own… am I selfish for not wanting to be a surrogate mother for my sister?

The allos would 100% say you are not the asshole. This is not an asexual thing to not want to carry someone else's child. The majority of people in the world would not do this. September 06, 2021 at 12:25AM

/u/JuliaX1984 on Being asexual makes me feel not human and like life is meaningless

👏👏👏 September 06, 2021 at 12:24AM

/u/OrbitalBuzzsaw on it happened yesterday

Congrats! September 06, 2021 at 12:24AM

Is it possible for a cock to penetrate the womb?

I was getting fucked last night and suddenly i felt his cock go deeper than anyone’s ever had… it felt like it went past the cervix somehow. Just wondering if it’s biologically possible for the cock to enter the womb or to hit it Submitted September 06, 2021 at 12:44AM I was getting fucked last night and suddenly i felt his cock go deeper than anyone’s ever had… it felt like it went past the cervix somehow. Just wondering if it’s biologically possible for the cock to enter the womb or to hit it

my bf likes to let his dick go soft so he can get hard inside me?

so my bf and i have never used condoms because I've always been on other forms of birth control so we typically use coconut oil as lube or rely on a solid sloppy bj before hand. i never really minded because (with the exception of a few times), I usually stay wet enough throughout that lubrication isn't an issue. but recently my bf has been into this thing where we will have sex for longer periods of time so he can make me cum multiple times, but in between he'll go soft inside me and just lay on top of me/hold me on top of him/hold me down depending on the position. after a while, he'll usually move me around a bit so he could kiss my breasts or start kissing my neck/lips or whispering in my ear and then get hard again while still inside me. then he'll start thrusting again and at first i usually feel a ton of friction because it's pretty dry down there other times i'll get wet naturally as he continues. sometimes he'll stop and i can apply some lube

What do you do while he’s cumming in the doggy position?

In other positions I feel like I can be more “involved” in him cumming - like when I’m on top I can pick up the pace, put on a show etc. In missionary I can pull him into me with my legs/arms, start kissing him deeply. In doggy it just gets super awkward for me especially when he’s cumming because all I can do is…keep doing what I’m doing. Ie I just stay on all fours while he thrusts and pumps his cum into me. It’s fine but something about the experience makes me just feel like a receptacle for him to cum into since I’m so passive through the whole thing. Does what I’m saying make sense to other women? Is there anything I could do differently? Submitted September 06, 2021 at 12:46AM In other positions I feel like I can be more “involved” in him cumming - like when I’m on top I can pick up the pace, put on a show etc. In missionary I can pull him into me with my legs/arms, start kissing him deeply.In doggy it just gets super awkward for me especially when he’s cumming because a

Fear of intimacy in hookup/dating culture over getting mono

Simply put, i'm afraid as hell of getting mono. I'm 27, have been in 3 long term relationships (with them not having dated people prior to me....can more or less confirm this). I've traveled across 3rd world countries as a kid so maybe i've been exposed already. I recently became single and i'm trying to get into dating culture but the idea of someone spreading mono to me (and me being impacted for weeks/months) sounds absolutely horrible. Anyone else deal with this fear? Submitted September 06, 2021 at 12:52AM Simply put, i'm afraid as hell of getting mono. I'm 27, have been in 3 long term relationships (with them not having dated people prior to me....can more or less confirm this). I've traveled across 3rd world countries as a kid so maybe i've been exposed already. I recently became single and i'm trying to get into dating culture but the idea of someone spreading mono to me (and me being impacted for weeks/months) sounds absolutely ho

Disgust with what used to bring more joy to life

I apologize if this doesn’t belong here . I was always sex positive until the most recent “relationship “. I used to love sex. I even sort of had a higher drive than some of my male partners in the past. I still have a sex drive unfortunately but now feel disgusted by it . I hate having to “relieve “ it . It’s nasty and a mechanical process to me. It makes me feel like an animal , to have a drive I do not want anymore. This problem started to arise when I was in a somewhat coerced relationship with an older man (way older .. 30 years older than me). He knew exactly what to do to give me physical pleasure, but often the pleasure was equally met with or overridden by a strong feeling of disgust and regret on my side. He also didn’t take care of himself physically , so that added to the level of disgust. Ever since that “relationship” , the idea of getting physically close to someone else or even to touch myself alone repels me . There’s nowhere else I can say this to anyone. I have a

How do I find a nice girl to shower with attention, love and hugs?

I'm from the UK but she doesn't have to be. I'm a guy btw and 100% new to dating after a long relationship so be kind!! xx Submitted September 06, 2021 at 12:04AM I'm from the UK but she doesn't have to be. I'm a guy btw and 100% new to dating after a long relationship so be kind!! xx

Having a huge crush

Jesus Christ, where to begin with. There's this girl in my university, we attended the same classes. I've talk to her on several occasions, and exchanged Whatsapp messages frequently. I'm having a huge crush on her, the last time I had a crush like this was like 5 years ago. Unfortunately right now she's in a totally different city(around two hours and half away from where I live), how the heck should I approach this situation, I don't know if she has a boyfriend, single, etc... And donno how to approach this question with her, how to ask her in a way that isn't weird?? Need help please :') Submitted September 06, 2021 at 12:05AM Jesus Christ, where to begin with. There's this girl in my university, we attended the same classes. I've talk to her on several occasions, and exchanged Whatsapp messages frequently. I'm having a huge crush on her, the last time I had a crush like this was like 5 years ago. Unfortunately right now she's in a

Is he interested?

I’ve been talking to this guy I met online for about two weeks. We talked on the phone for the first time last weekend in between two weddings he was going to. We also talked on the phone this weekend and then texted yesterday. He suggested that we meet. He lives in the city and I live in NJ. He said something like “when we meet, where would it make sense to meet up? We decided he could take the train and I could pick him up. Then the convo ended without planning a day/time. And he hasn’t texted me at all today. Is he interested? In my experience, a guy who was would just pick a day/time rather than dropping off. Should I just text him today? Submitted September 06, 2021 at 12:05AM I’ve been talking to this guy I met online for about two weeks. We talked on the phone for the first time last weekend in between two weddings he was going to. We also talked on the phone this weekend and then texted yesterday.He suggested that we meet. He lives in the city and I live in NJ. He said

Advice for the person using the apps.

(M24) I recently moved to a new city, knowing nobody, for a good job opportunity. And like any other person in that situation, I went hard on the dating apps. I went on quite a few dates and I started noticing that about half the women pretended like they didn’t read my bio. I’m not sure this is gender specific issue and I know both genders vet and judge people based on the profile that is presented. For example: On a date we were talking about how she was about attend graduate school (good for her). Then she asked if I went to college. I was surprised by this question because the university I attended was listed on profile, along with my job and all other relevant info. This wasn’t a huge deal but It felt odd after she talked about how she roasts men’s profile, which I don’t have problem with. So I asked her in a joking tone if she read my profile, her response was “no”. AM I SUPPOSED TO BELIEVE YOU MET A RANDOM MALE FROM HINGE AND DIDN’T AT LEAST READ HIS BIO. No. Now laddies and

He liked me, but wouldn’t commit so I walked

Has anyone had it happen where you walked away when he said he didn’t want a relationship? Curious what happens to others as this happened to me. Submitted September 06, 2021 at 12:10AM Has anyone had it happen where you walked away when he said he didn’t want a relationship? Curious what happens to others as this happened to me.

Guys, is there any other reason you’d ask a girl who you met in person for her phone number other than to try and get to know her/to continue to talk to her?

I texted them first a week later and they don’t seem interested. Submitted September 06, 2021 at 12:14AM I texted them first a week later and they don’t seem interested.

/u/bigmemetimeenergy on How tf do I date as a 19m asexual in college?

Maybe! I’ll look into it September 05, 2021 at 11:44PM

/u/lordtaco98 on I’m looking for the asexual young adults 💜🤍🖤

Ouch. 22 and I already felt old XD September 05, 2021 at 11:44PM

/u/No_Sundae_4651 on Being asexual makes me feel not human and like life is meaningless

When I was younger I had more of this mindset sometimes and I should get back into it. I used to be like "I don't waste all my time focusing on needing a partner and I get to just do things." Especially when I'd go on school trips and everyone else was worrying about hooking up/getting asked out and I was like "ya'll... I just wanna know the itinerary for tomorrow" September 05, 2021 at 11:43PM

/u/ManicAcroNymph on Do you have sex?

I am not ace but my best friend is and we’ve talked about it, just to contribute to discussion. She does have a partner she occasionally sleeps with, but from what I understand she doesn’t really enjoy it and is working her way out of the entanglement. Otherwise, however, she does masturbate and use porn. She considers that more enjoyable and efficient than sex with a partner. From what I understand her telling me, it’s more of a way to relieve tension and destress rather than because she ‘wants to have sex.’ September 05, 2021 at 11:43PM

/u/s-queen-x on I’m looking for the asexual young adults 💜🤍🖤

Daily reminder that I'm not a teenager anymore (I know 21 is by no means old but still...) September 05, 2021 at 11:42PM