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Just words

Part of me wishes that you scroll through this place from time to time though you'll never know its me. Just to take a look through the pages and poems and small bits of my heart ive plastered across this room for you. I've given my all to you, and you promised me more, then you gave it all to someone else. That day I was destroyed, shattered, defeated. I felt my entire body tremble when you told me, my eyes shook in despair. Everything went numb, but I felt my blood boiling inside. I was cold as ice and afraid. In that moment more than ever in my life, I felt close to death. I didnt trust anything you've said to me, you knew for so long and didn't say anything to me. All of my past, all of our past, all the "I love you"s, everything you've told me broke down into one thing, just words Submitted January 25, 2020 at 12:06AM Part of me wishes that you scroll through this place from time to time though you'll never know its me. Just to take a look ...

Gone quiet but still sticking around online... (Headscratcher)

Tried thinking of all the possible reasons and nothing logical made sense so posting here. Matched with a woman online and hit it off pretty well. We moved out of the app and were texting on the regular, even connected on social media and things were leading towards a first date but she went quiet and it died (it happens I'm not mad about it). The part that irks me is that if she's not interested anymore why not unmatch and unfollow me and move on rather than lurk around? I'm not asking for an official notice at that point cause I got the but what's the point of keeping the match rather than cutting the ties altogether and disappearing? Thanks for the feedback, it's always appreciated. Submitted January 25, 2020 at 12:26AM Tried thinking of all the possible reasons and nothing logical made sense so posting here. Matched with a woman online and hit it off pretty well. We moved out of the app and were texting on the regular, even connected on social media and t...

Lmao here's the rest y'all

https://ift.tt/2NYLcl1 Submitted January 25, 2020 at 12:14AM https://ift.tt/2NYLcl1

I can't help but feel weird about my sex life

I'm female and 19. I've been masturbating for years and i can only cum doing Very specific movements, none of my partners was ever able to masturbate me. I also don't enjoy oral sex and vaginal sex is okish but never close to make me have an orgasm (i enjoy mostly doggy and legs over shoulders). But i really enjoy anal sex, once i could even cum without masturbating. I feel really weird and wanna know If there's anything i could try out or even an explanation to why i'm like that. Submitted January 24, 2020 at 11:06PM I'm female and 19. I've been masturbating for years and i can only cum doing Very specific movements, none of my partners was ever able to masturbate me. I also don't enjoy oral sex and vaginal sex is okish but never close to make me have an orgasm (i enjoy mostly doggy and legs over shoulders). But i really enjoy anal sex, once i could even cum without masturbating. I feel really weird and wanna know If there's anything i could ...

I accidentally came in my girlfriend two times within 24 hours

The first time it happened she took Plan B within 24 hours, but then we got bold and decided to have sex again. The condom slipped off and I ended up coming in her again, and we are worried that the Plan B won’t be effective anymore. Should she take Plan B again? This was all within 24 hours. Submitted January 24, 2020 at 11:19PM The first time it happened she took Plan B within 24 hours, but then we got bold and decided to have sex again. The condom slipped off and I ended up coming in her again, and we are worried that the Plan B won’t be effective anymore. Should she take Plan B again? This was all within 24 hours.

Why is my SO angry/ frustrated after sex?

My SO (27M) displays anger/ frustration after sex or the day after. Is this something that he needs to see a doctor for? He is usually a very calm person and has a lot of patience but after sex he just gets angry or frustrated easily. I’ve noticed this about 5 months ago. He is not having an affair nor is he violent or verbally abusive, just angry and it shows in how sharp his tone of voice is and how he walks and does simple things like closing door. Can any male on this sub explain to me what might be going on with him? Submitted January 24, 2020 at 11:24PM My SO (27M) displays anger/ frustration after sex or the day after. Is this something that he needs to see a doctor for? He is usually a very calm person and has a lot of patience but after sex he just gets angry or frustrated easily. I’ve noticed this about 5 months ago. He is not having an affair nor is he violent or verbally abusive, just angry and it shows in how sharp his tone of voice is and how he walks and does simp...

Suggestions for sex related research paper

Hi all! I (22 F) am enrolled in a Sexuality course this semester and we have a big paper/presentation assigned regarding any topic related to sex (literally anything remotely related to sex). I want to do my paper on something cool as well as something people don’t usually (e.g., STIs). I wanted to brainstorm with you all so please suggest topics you find cool or would be cool to discuss in class! Everything is welcomed! Submitted January 24, 2020 at 11:28PM Hi all! I (22 F) am enrolled in a Sexuality course this semester and we have a big paper/presentation assigned regarding any topic related to sex (literally anything remotely related to sex). I want to do my paper on something cool as well as something people don’t usually (e.g., STIs). I wanted to brainstorm with you all so please suggest topics you find cool or would be cool to discuss in class! Everything is welcomed!

Throat sores after oral sex

Why does every time I give oral to a guy my throat starts hurting and over the next few days I have white pus things on the sides of my throat? Looks like tonsilitis Submitted January 24, 2020 at 11:37PM Why does every time I give oral to a guy my throat starts hurting and over the next few days I have white pus things on the sides of my throat? Looks like tonsilitis

How to Stop craving fetish

Hey I have an embarrassing sexual fetish that I developed through porn. I stopped watching porn but still crave the fetish. Will this ever stop. I’m losing my mind. And no I’m not going to embrace my fetish lol please help me Submitted January 24, 2020 at 11:44PM Hey I have an embarrassing sexual fetish that I developed through porn. I stopped watching porn but still crave the fetish. Will this ever stop. I’m losing my mind. And no I’m not going to embrace my fetish lol please help me

I've got phimosis.

I'm not sure if this is correct subreddit, but since it's literally part of my penis and future sex life, I think that it's the right one. So I'll start with the fact, that I'm 18 and I have full phimosis (or whatever it's called in English, I can't take the foreskin off, even when it's not a boner, I can take only a little bit of it). Pretty sure it's bad that to this day, at my age I have this issue, especially with hygiene, but since I was a little kid I was scared of it. To this day I remember when parents told me to clean it and take the foreskin off, but I couldn't do it because it really hurt, so I lied to them that everything was okay (because, as I said I was afraid of doing it). Now at this time after a few sexual stuff that had been done, I have a serious complex about my penis and even tho I've done lots of stuff, I've never wanted to take off my pants because I was ashamed of it. I was thinking about telling it to my father...

Something sexual you did that you thought you’d never do?

It’s so interesting that certain people and situations can make us do a certain act, etc. that’d normally be out of our comfort zone. So, what’s something you did that you thought would be out of the question? What made you do it, and how was the overall experience? Submitted January 24, 2020 at 11:48PM It’s so interesting that certain people and situations can make us do a certain act, etc. that’d normally be out of our comfort zone. So, what’s something you did that you thought would be out of the question? What made you do it, and how was the overall experience?

My gf hates her boobs

My gf hates her boobs and always or wearing shirt or covering them during sex. What can I do? I absolutely love them. I want to play with them, I want to suck them, I want to cum on them. Submitted January 24, 2020 at 11:56PM My gf hates her boobs and always or wearing shirt or covering them during sex. What can I do? I absolutely love them. I want to play with them, I want to suck them, I want to cum on them.

What advice do you wish someone would've given you as a teenager?

When I was a teenager, I was a weird little prude Christian girl who was abstaining from sex until marriage. I always wished my mother had been more realistic with me. I wish she'd have told me about engaging in safe sex mentally, physically, and emotionally. I feel might've made better, safer choices as a teenager, and likely as an adult, as a result. I'm really interested to know... What advice do you wish someone would have given you about sex as a teenager? Submitted January 24, 2020 at 11:59PM When I was a teenager, I was a weird little prude Christian girl who was abstaining from sex until marriage. I always wished my mother had been more realistic with me. I wish she'd have told me about engaging in safe sex mentally, physically, and emotionally. I feel might've made better, safer choices as a teenager, and likely as an adult, as a result. I'm really interested to know... What advice do you wish someone would have given you about sex as a teenager?...

Fake test results!

I was asked to share this post on here so here we go… Recently we wanted to play with someone we met on Reddit… When we asked him for his test results we were sent fake results! We wanted to share with the rest of the community to prevent this from happening again. Stay safe everybody! For the full story click here... https://www.reddit.com/user/BeautifulBelle1219/comments/eclebu/scammer_alert/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf Submitted January 25, 2020 at 12:05AM I was asked to share this post on here so here we go…Recently we wanted to play with someone we met on Reddit… When we asked him for his test results we were sent fake results! We wanted to share with the rest of the community to prevent this from happening again.Stay safe everybody!For the full story click here... https://ift.tt/2RRXdd4

What turns you on the most?

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What are some good ways for women to initiate sex

I (f) want to start initiating more but I feel awkward sometimes. What were some interesting ways that I can initiate that will lead to sex? Submitted January 25, 2020 at 12:11AM I (f) want to start initiating more but I feel awkward sometimes. What were some interesting ways that I can initiate that will lead to sex?

What is your fav way someone has initiated sex

This can be with a pattern, fwb or one night start but what are some of your favourite ways someone has initiated sex with you that made you feel vv special Submitted January 25, 2020 at 12:12AM This can be with a pattern, fwb or one night start but what are some of your favourite ways someone has initiated sex with you that made you feel vv special

Can I get in trouble for masturbating in a public swimming pool?

State is California. I do it all the time! Submitted January 25, 2020 at 12:13AM State is California.I do it all the time!

Why is my partner entitled to my emotional support but I'm not entitled to sex?

Yeah title. I don't understand why my girl is entitled to me listening to the inconsequential things that bother her and help her make basic decisions and keep her from freaking out at people, but then I'm not entitled to her reciprocating with sex. And by sex I don't necessarily mean penetration, there are plenty of ways to get off without it taking longer than 10 minutes including cleanup. Why is it considered socially expected for the guy to provide emotional support for the girl but it's considered gross for the guy to expect regular sex from the girl? Submitted January 25, 2020 at 12:22AM Yeah title. I don't understand why my girl is entitled to me listening to the inconsequential things that bother her and help her make basic decisions and keep her from freaking out at people, but then I'm not entitled to her reciprocating with sex.And by sex I don't necessarily mean penetration, there are plenty of ways to get off without it taking longer tha...

Blowing up my phone before the date!

I’m 32 male, pretty successful when I’m using dating apps but never find anything long term. My game plan of exchanging 3 or 4 messages and then asking if girls want to hang out or grab a drink works fantastic! I’ll make definite plans with the plan of confirming the day of, or sometimes the day before. I don’t really plan or like to chat much in between for fear of texting something dumb. My issue is that a lot of these girls blow my phone up asking all the questions I would rather answer on the date in the mean time! A lot of the times I either flake or they flake when this happens. Am I gonna sound like an asshole if I say something like “hey! Let’s talk about all this in person when we meet up”? Submitted January 25, 2020 at 12:03AM I’m 32 male, pretty successful when I’m using dating apps but never find anything long term. My game plan of exchanging 3 or 4 messages and then asking if girls want to hang out or grab a drink works fantastic! I’ll make definite plans with the p...

Gf messaged guy on Tinder after we agreed to be exclusive

It sounds worse than it actually is in the title. Basically, my girlfriend and I having been dating for 2 years almost. She’s 20 and I’m 21. When we first met, things move really quicker. We agreed to be exclusive 2 weeks after meeting each other on Tinder. However, she told me a couple months later that she continued to message this guy after we agreed to be exclusive a week or two after, although didn’t remember if she was flirting or not. The guy was polyamorous, and I know for a fact she’s not interested in any of that. She told me she never had any interest in pursuing things with him ever. When the guy offered to meet up, she said they could go to a pub or something (she said this was her way of letting things fizzle out since she was too shy to outright reject him - also this bit was before we agreed to be exclusive). When I initially asked her if she wanted to be exclusive, she was at a ball and wasn’t able to communicate for long periods but I ultimately agreed despite sayi...

How the fuck does this even work in the first place?

I'm browsing this sub everyday and the more I read the more I realize I can't understand anything! It feels like I have to go Ultra Instinct to ask a girl out or escalate a conversation with one. How does dating work? I refuse to believe I'm not good enough, but apparently this is the case. How do people fall in love with each other? And why can't I?Imagine love was, idk, a video game... like a wrestling game villain where everyone else was winning with one maneuver and I either won in 45 minutes after my fifth finishing move... or, worse, lost humiliatingly... and even if I won, I then found out it was just level 1 out of like 10-15... Sorry, just needed to rant a little. But man I can't socialize. Submitted January 25, 2020 at 12:16AM I'm browsing this sub everyday and the more I read the more I realize I can't understand anything!It feels like I have to go Ultra Instinct to ask a girl out or escalate a conversation with one. How does dating work...

I was stood up on a Bumble date storytime/ I need advice

I'm a 20 year-old single female. Lately I have been feeling lonely because I don't have a BF so I decided I to try a dating app in search of a possible relationship/connection. Maybe my first mistake was to go looking for a relationship on Bumble. I swiped right on a hot guy and he started messaging me through the bumble app. He said that I was gorgeous and that he wanted to meet me in person. He lives pretty far far away but he said he travels a lot so he'd let me know when he's in the area so we could meet for dinner. I get a text from him a week later and he told me he was going to be near me because he was on a business trip. I agreed to set the date to see him. The first red flag was when he wanted me to find the place to meet him at even though the area he was in was literally in the middle of nowhere with little to no options for resteraunts. He wanted me to drive 60 miles to meet him while he only had to drive 12 miles from where he was on his business trip t...