This is gonna be a long one so buckle up. So a bit of background before I get into everything. Last summer before my bf and I started dating we were in the talking stage. This consisted of us talking almost everything and just trying to learn more about each other since before then we had never really spoken that much before even though we had several classes together. After a certain amount of time he starts to call me things like “sexy” and some other inappropriate name I can’t remember considering it was while ago. I tell him several times while trying to be nice that I’m not comfortable with him calling me that and I asked him to stop. He’d get a slight attitude and he’d stop for maybe a day and then go back to the name calling. One day I snapped and I told him to stop and that if he insisted on saying that stuff then I didn’t want to continue talking to him. He got upset and lashed out saying that “he was tired of trying with me being so difficult” and that “he liked me for so ...

Hi all, Has anyone deleted their match.com profile but still been receiving emails after that with their usernam in the email? Submitted May 15, 2020 at 11:45PM Hi all,Has anyone deleted their match.com profile but still been receiving emails after that with their usernam in the email?

Ethnic minority dude here (South Asian/European) - I do far far worse than my white male friends. Submitted May 15, 2020 at 11:46PM Ethnic minority dude here (South Asian/European) - I do far far worse than my white male friends.

Crushes are fine and all. Everyone should experience at least one in life for educational experiences. But after about the first 5 they just become blockades in your life (at least for me). My last crush lasted 5 years on this particular girl. Why didn't I ask her out? You might ask. Because I knew she liked me as well and that somehow terrified me. To be clear: If I had known my crushes like friends then I wouldn't have been nervous. But my crushes are always on girls I don't know. I just got over my last crush of 5 years earlier this year and I felt liberated. But once I found out she liked me I was too nervous to speak to her. I'm not even a nervous guy. I excel at talking to people. Which is why it was so liberating to not have a crush. Because it made me feel less paranoid and more relaxed. I've been walking around my workplace for the last few months now in perfect calm. And then this girl notices me... And she comes right over to me to introduce herself ...

I'm a (22F) and I have to admit...I'm attracted to toxic men. I love the chase and in the past I've sought after men with definitely not the best intentions. I've recognized this and have started to build healthier habits and going for nicer guys. At the same time though, I'm talking to this one guy (23M) and he's SO nice. Like SO SO nice. He wants to make me breakfast and buy me flowers and FaceTime me. And guess what? I HATE IT. It makes me so uncomfortable and kind of makes me want to gag tbh. Is something wrong with me? Is it possible to find a nice guy but THAT nice of a guy? lmao Submitted May 15, 2020 at 11:55PM I'm a (22F) and I have to admit...I'm attracted to toxic men. I love the chase and in the past I've sought after men with definitely not the best intentions. I've recognized this and have started to build healthier habits and going for nicer guys. At the same time though, I'm talking to this one guy (23M) and he's ...

It goes into all kinds of personality types and how to tailor seduction techniques to them. I feel like some of the ideas are a bit far fetched. Keen to hear other people's thoughts on the book Submitted May 15, 2020 at 11:58PM It goes into all kinds of personality types and how to tailor seduction techniques to them. I feel like some of the ideas are a bit far fetched. Keen to hear other people's thoughts on the book

Am I a lesbian? I watch lesbians porn but not only the girl on girl ones, I use to watch guy on guy too. The thing is that finding a good straight porn is so long, it takes hours. Because all straight porn goes straight to the girl sucking him off, they don’t take the time to know make out, and him to just do hot things. But gay porns do that. They don’t rush to sucking each other off. When I watch them I don’t imagine my self as the other girl. I don’t really think about it when I’m watching it, I don’t wish she was doing it to me, I just wish a guy would. And for you think oh she’s a lesbian, I always cover my scene when the girls are going down on each other, I find that so gross. I always skip the kissing scene between gay porns, it is a time waster and I don’t see it hot. But somehow I find it hot when a guy roughly makes out with a girl. I notice I like it when straight and gay porns you know stoking boobs and play with it. Does watching gay porn make me a lesbian? I do...

From my experiences, one of the biggest struggles I’ve noticed men have is the fear to interact with women in social settings because they feel like all the girls will say no to who they are at their core. They want to ask THAT girl out but is afraid she will think he is weird, tell all her girlfriends, and think there’s something wrong with him. What helped me and many other men: If you don’t have much positive experience talking to girls and you are that afraid of them saying no, change your view on what “rejection” really is and just start by asking out one. Her “no” doesn’t mean that you don’t have worth and you should think in extremes. Ex: “she rejected me because girls don’t wanna be picked up in my Toyota even if it’s a 2020 model.” Wrong. It has nothing to do with your car. And all to with the way you equate your current career status with your entire value as a man. Your values like being able to find humor in difficult situations, getting her to laugh when she hasn’...

What I mean is ok, disregarding covid-19 you can go up into any mall/coffee shop/park, make small talk with the people their and if there's a single guy or guy clearly with his family then ok, you can ask him out/exchange numbers. Nowadays, you can't even meet people to begin with because of the face masks... and what you look like matters. Dating apps were already popular before, but now it's like a sole means to meeting people, because there's literally no other way now generally speaking. I'm curious now because I've taken the dog to the park to see someone swiping on the bench as I passed... could it be the masks or is it just normal even more so now? Submitted May 16, 2020 at 12:14AM What I mean is ok, disregarding covid-19 you can go up into any mall/coffee shop/park, make small talk with the people their and if there's a single guy or guy clearly with his family then ok, you can ask him out/exchange numbers.Nowadays, you can't even meet p...

For the past 4 weeks I have been going on dates with a guy I met in a grocery store in March. At first i was a little skeptical because he’s a tad bit older but not by much. On our first date we met up at Dairy Queen. We talked for three hours , he did majority of the talking. He asked me out for a second date a few days later and the second date he cooked and made cookies for us at his house we cuddled and watched movies. We had a 3rd date and we ended up having sex. Ever since the third date he’s been acting weird. When i come over he will ask me “why didn’t you give me a hug when you came in?” “Why don’t you bring a second pair of clothes over so you can spend the night?” “Can you come get comfortable with me?” “Do you want me to do this or that?” “Can you come over?” And if i say “I’m busy today he’ll ask can he come pick me up if I’m tired “Do you miss me?” It’s like he asks me questions non stop The other day when i came over he was on the game playing COD with his fri...

I chat to his dude pretty regularly on snap who hangs out with our group sometimes quite a bit. His other friend group consists of only girls and we have met up with them a couple of times. I’ve had a small crush on one of the girls the whole past year of school and I was too embarrassed to admit to my friends when they asked me multiple times including her friends that I liked her. Even still I got pecked by her at a party like 7 months ago and then she just ran off (I was pretty drunk and zoned out), and that was that. Fast forward to Christmas we were chilling at a mates house playing ping pong when this girls group start drunk texting our group chat. One of them sent a video and in the background you can here this girl going ‘oh yeah I’d get with (me)’, which my friends replied to asking who it was to which the girl I had a crush on herself replied saying it was her! My friend posted a picture on Instagram the other day of my crush having shared a photo saying ‘what do you do ...

Hi, Im still very young but im in relationship with my boyfriend for 1,5 year and we want to move on slightly. I find it very turning on when I touch my boyfriends dick through pants. But do you actually like it guys? What with public places? How much pressure should I use? cause I want it to be pleasing not uncomfortable for him Thanks in advance Submitted May 16, 2020 at 12:03AM Hi, Im still very young but im in relationship with my boyfriend for 1,5 year and we want to move on slightly. I find it very turning on when I touch my boyfriends dick through pants. But do you actually like it guys? What with public places? How much pressure should I use? cause I want it to be pleasing not uncomfortable for him Thanks in advance

I (19F) feel like i don't masturbate the right way? I kind of just wiggle the middle flap of skin (poor wording) back and forth until I "come" which takes around 4 minutes. I thought girls took longer when finishing? I also can't find my clit even when I search up pictures? When I masturbate, it does not look lile the girls in porn and I think I am doing it wrong. Submitted May 16, 2020 at 12:06AM I (19F) feel like i don't masturbate the right way? I kind of just wiggle the middle flap of skin (poor wording) back and forth until I "come" which takes around 4 minutes. I thought girls took longer when finishing? I also can't find my clit even when I search up pictures? When I masturbate, it does not look lile the girls in porn and I think I am doing it wrong.

I'm a virgin, 17 year old, male, 6'0. What does sex feel like? I'm genuinely curious. I am a pretty good looking guy and I have had girls who have been sexually attracted to me, but I have yet to reach the point of intimacy with a woman to experience sex for myself. So, what is it like? Oral, Anal, Vaginal? EDIT: Also, what does making out feel like? Submitted May 16, 2020 at 12:07AM I'm a virgin, 17 year old, male, 6'0. What does sex feel like? I'm genuinely curious. I am a pretty good looking guy and I have had girls who have been sexually attracted to me, but I have yet to reach the point of intimacy with a woman to experience sex for myself. So, what is it like?Oral, Anal, Vaginal?EDIT: Also, what does making out feel like?

My gf (30) and myself (29m) have been dating for a few months now. It's been a bit of a whirlwind romance, we're very happy with each other emotionally and physically. We started talking about our past relationships recently, and she told me she was always the dominant one and liked to be in control. However, with me it's the total opposite. She becomes very submissive and wants me to lead. I've had very few sexual encounters before I met her, so my experience is lacking, but I do my best to become the aggressive man she wants out of me. I'm just unsure of the dynamic. If she's been a Dom before me, what would cause her to change suddenly with me? Would it feel unnatural for her? She doesn't open up much about it, she just assures me she only wants to please me. So I figured I'd ask this lovely subreddit for advice. Please leave your thoughts! Submitted May 16, 2020 at 12:10AM My gf (30) and myself (29m) have been dating for a few months now. It...

I'm a virgin, male, 6'0, 17 years old and a pretty good looking guy. When erect, my penis is 6.5 inch long and my girth is 6 inches. I feel somewhat awkward asking this question, but I feel like getting insight from the opposite sex may provide me with some useful insight when it comes time to get down and dirty with my future girlfriend and wife. Submitted May 16, 2020 at 12:16AM I'm a virgin, male, 6'0, 17 years old and a pretty good looking guy. When erect, my penis is 6.5 inch long and my girth is 6 inches. I feel somewhat awkward asking this question, but I feel like getting insight from the opposite sex may provide me with some useful insight when it comes time to get down and dirty with my future girlfriend and wife.

depends, i do feel uncomfortable but if i am worried the person im talking to will invalidate people on the ace spectrum then i will just deal with the discomfort and say bi, but if i am more comfortable then i'll say biromantic ace, but if i get somewhat close to people i end mentioning being ace bc everyone talks about sex or asks about what i and my partner do and thats way worse so i end up clarifying anyway bc i hate those comments/questions that seem to always come up sooner or later May 16, 2020 at 12:17AM

This is nice :) May 16, 2020 at 12:16AM

To be honest I really doubt many allos even know what it means. May 16, 2020 at 12:10AM

No problem 😄 May 15, 2020 at 11:57PM

I’m glad I could help in some way! May 15, 2020 at 11:57PM

I assume that is the only purpose of seduction May 15, 2020 at 11:54PM

So, this is a guy who followed me on instagram way back about a year ago (maybe it's two years now). I usually don't accept randos on social media but we had a mutual friend in common and worked for the same organization just in different locations. i accepted his follow and forgot about it, but then i noticed he'd been liking my photos for a few months it wasn't weird because he wasn't liking selfies or anything but i thought i'd reach out and message him and see what he was up to/introduce myself, i wasn't expecting a lot to come of it because i knew how far away we were from each other but i was thinking some flirting could be nice. so we exchanged info and social media accounts after like 3 weeks of messaging i think? he friended me on fb immediately, liked my post and picture but when i went to his profile i saw he had a girlfriend... immediately i got weirded out (noticed he didn't really even like his gf's posts and things) and left it at tha...