I’m not sure he likes me anymore [27M] [23F] he’s acting like he’s okay with me dating others

For the past 4 weeks I have been going on dates with a guy I met in a grocery store in March. At first i was a little skeptical because he’s a tad bit older but not by much.

On our first date we met up at Dairy Queen. We talked for three hours , he did majority of the talking.

He asked me out for a second date a few days later and the second date he cooked and made cookies for us at his house we cuddled and watched movies.

We had a 3rd date and we ended up having sex. Ever since the third date he’s been acting weird.

When i come over he will ask me “why didn’t you give me a hug when you came in?”

“Why don’t you bring a second pair of clothes over so you can spend the night?”

“Can you come get comfortable with me?”

“Do you want me to do this or that?”

“Can you come over?” And if i say “I’m busy today he’ll ask can he come pick me up if I’m tired

“Do you miss me?”

It’s like he asks me questions non stop The other day when i came over he was on the game playing COD with his friends and he asked me “do you want me to get off that game?”

And i said “no” I’m fine you can finish playing

We were laying in bed last night and he asked me “what did you do today?”

And i said “i went downtown”

and he said “who’s downtown? Your other boo”

I looked at him and said “no” and he said “i mean if you do have others your talking to that’s fine”

Now today i texted him this morning and he hasn’t said a word to me or responded

TL:DR; he won’t let things happen naturally and let me be myself as far as getting to know him. He asks me questions as if he’s insecure about my feelings. Not sure if it’s a personal flaw or red flag. And what made him ask about other men

Submitted May 16, 2020 at 12:25AM

For the past 4 weeks I have been going on dates with a guy I met in a grocery store in March. At first i was a little skeptical because he’s a tad bit older but not by much.On our first date we met up at Dairy Queen. We talked for three hours , he did majority of the talking.He asked me out for a second date a few days later and the second date he cooked and made cookies for us at his house we cuddled and watched movies.We had a 3rd date and we ended up having sex. Ever since the third date he’s been acting weird.When i come over he will ask me “why didn’t you give me a hug when you came in?”“Why don’t you bring a second pair of clothes over so you can spend the night?”“Can you come get comfortable with me?”“Do you want me to do this or that?”“Can you come over?” And if i say “I’m busy today he’ll ask can he come pick me up if I’m tired“Do you miss me?”It’s like he asks me questions non stop The other day when i came over he was on the game playing COD with his friends and he asked me “do you want me to get off that game?”And i said “no” I’m fine you can finish playingWe were laying in bed last night and he asked me “what did you do today?”And i said “i went downtown”and he said “who’s downtown? Your other boo”I looked at him and said “no” and he said “i mean if you do have others your talking to that’s fine”Now today i texted him this morning and he hasn’t said a word to me or respondedTL:DR; he won’t let things happen naturally and let me be myself as far as getting to know him. He asks me questions as if he’s insecure about my feelings. Not sure if it’s a personal flaw or red flag. And what made him ask about other men