I’m occasionally asked on OLD for my social media handle before we’ve even met (I only use IG). This feels kind of invasive to me but am I overthinking it? I don’t want people thinking I’m acting sketchy. My page is public bc it’s mostly work related but I tend to be a somewhat private person in general. I know I can make another handle for this purpose but I’m not going to use it so that seems pointless. Submitted May 15, 2019 at 03:18PM I’m occasionally asked on OLD for my social media handle before we’ve even met (I only use IG). This feels kind of invasive to me but am I overthinking it? I don’t want people thinking I’m acting sketchy.My page is public bc it’s mostly work related but I tend to be a somewhat private person in general.I know I can make another handle for this purpose but I’m not going to use it so that seems pointless.

Would like some advice on getting back into the dating world. I am out of a long term relationship, mid 40s male. Where to start? Have never dated or done anything through apps. What are the best ones to use from both the men and women's perspectives. Anyplace else to start outside of the apps - real face to face interactions? Submitted May 15, 2019 at 03:48PM Would like some advice on getting back into the dating world. I am out of a long term relationship, mid 40s male. Where to start? Have never dated or done anything through apps. What are the best ones to use from both the men and women's perspectives. Anyplace else to start outside of the apps - real face to face interactions?

Did you compromise yourself too much? Did you not realize your dreams of a family? Did you stop learning/growing? Submitted May 15, 2019 at 03:50PM Did you compromise yourself too much? Did you not realize your dreams of a family? Did you stop learning/growing?

DOT - Long time lurker (formerly under a different handle, admittedly), I come to you for advice. I've spent the last 14 months working on myself. I'm still a work in process (and feel I always will be) but with the encouragement of several people in my life (therapist included, fwiw), I'm putting myself out there again. I've never been much into elaborate dating profiles but I'd like to try to make the most of OLD potential. I am a mid 30's dude so I don't have a ton of photo options (at least recent ones). So I'd like some advice on whether I should use certain photos. I will give descriptions (as it's not a question about the quality of the photos but the appropriateness of the context). I already have two picked out that I'm going with (a post-half-marathon photo from late last summer and a random solo photo from a dinner with friends where I'm smiling). I have no VERY recent photos (i.e. last six months). I'm an amateur photogra...

Recently reconnected with an ex who is now leaving town. I was the one who ended it (it was about an 8-mo relationship) and as a result, she needed to cut contact, so we haven't really talked since the breakup about 3 years ago. Lots has happened for both of us in the interim. I suffered a heartbreak from someone else (and am thankfully moving out of it), she too had another relationship which did not work out and also completed her Masters -- with that complete she's decided to leave town. She was the one who reached out to initiate the get-together and reconnect. We had coffee a few weeks back and then grabbed dinner again tonight. It's been great seeing her again! I had forgotten how close we were when we were dating and I was surprised at how much it felt like reconnecting with an old friend. We both seem pretty mature about everything that happened and are openly supportive and admiring of what we've accomplished since then. I'm finding myself sad that I...

Well his messages are nice if he messages. I've been torn since it makes me wonder if he is interested or not. I'm a millennial and within my circles the rule of the thumb is if he's not putting effort in texting he's not interested. But I guess I wanted to check and see if it can be a generational thing? Submitted May 16, 2019 at 07:37AM Well his messages are nice if he messages. I've been torn since it makes me wonder if he is interested or not. I'm a millennial and within my circles the rule of the thumb is if he's not putting effort in texting he's not interested. But I guess I wanted to check and see if it can be a generational thing?

Tell me some good news. Tell me about your happy place. Tell about some good things in things your life. Big or small, dating related or not, we want to celebrate the good times today! Submitted May 16, 2019 at 11:10AM Tell me some good news. Tell me about your happy place. Tell about some good things in things your life.Big or small, dating related or not, we want to celebrate the good times today!

Hello, I do not want to sound like a downer but I am searching for podcasts (or podcast episodes) that discuss being single or simply handling that lonely feeling sometimes. I am not trying to bum myself out, but, I found that it was always comforting to listen to things to help me cope with my own feelings (for example, I love listening to The Mental Illness Happy Hour simply because it involves people sharing their own stories and battles with depression (among other issues). Thank you! Submitted May 16, 2019 at 02:05PM Hello,I do not want to sound like a downer but I am searching for podcasts (or podcast episodes) that discuss being single or simply handling that lonely feeling sometimes.I am not trying to bum myself out, but, I found that it was always comforting to listen to things to help me cope with my own feelings (for example, I love listening to The Mental Illness Happy Hour simply because it involves people sharing their own stories and battles with depression (am...

Hi, 34M, living 0.5 million city in Europe, with about 1 million people in the metro, and also quite a bit of turists / visitors. Over the years on online dating platforms, I noticed very strange phenomenon. I would have no matches or any meaningful conversation for months, then suddenly, out of the blue I will have 3 matches at the same day or on almost the same day, and all girls would appear interested in actual conversation, have great profiles, etc. This happens without any changes in my profiles, apparent swiping pattern or often without taking any break from swiping. It does happen between dating platforms, i.e. I will match different girl on 3 different apps. I expirienced it at least 6 times (possibly more tho) in the last ~6 years. I will ignore the struggle to try to not let any of them down, and trying to appear interested when I match with few people (I am sure women do it all the time). My inquire is about something else. But, was anybody else expirienced it? Is ther...

I [36F] and my date [37M] have been dating for the past couple of months. He seemed to be super interested and asked me a lot about my life goals and what I envision as a couple living together. All was going really well until we had conversation on intimacy. He wants full oral and anal, and I was terrified since I never had sex or sexual acts before. I still told him I will do it and I will try anal as he seems to really likes it. This was our plan for long weekend. Along with this came tons of arguments on why i would not want to fully submit to him when we both like eachother and we are moving towards getting married. I still preferred to not have this until we are at least engaged so I voiced my concern a few times. He got frustrated each time rating I'm over analyzing things. On top of this, he has been actively on the dating site we met earlier ( I removed my profile once he said he is serious for marriage and found out later that he has his profile on). We also had some ...

It's a tough skill to learn, carrying a conversation in something you're not interested in. I have the same problem, and not just for relationships: I'm a guy who's not interested in sports, cars, or first person shooters so there's not much I can relate to with a lot of guys when it comes to small talk. I have two tips. First, ask questions. They don't even have to be great questions, honestly. The thing about questions is that they prompt the other person to reply, which is good since they're the only one who has much to say about the topic. Second, and even more important than asking questions: silence is golden. You'd be surprised at how effective silence is at carrying a conversation. The other person says something, and instead of saying "yeah" or "mmhmm" or asking a question or whatever, just smile and be completely silent. Often within 5 seconds, they'll be talking again. May 17, 2019 at 07:03AM

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Bear with me, I’m sure I’ll struggle to clearly articulate what I’m trying to ask. We are all adults, we have sex but how do you internally negotiate safe sex. As soon as men realize that I can’t possibly become pregnant, they immediately want to rush to bed, condom free. I’ve made some poor impulsive decisions in that regard too but thankfully all is good. But that got me thinking, when is unprotected sex okay? I know the whole “when you’re in a committed exclusive relationship” but even then, do you have your partner get tested first? Hope for the best? Submitted May 16, 2019 at 05:35PM Bear with me, I’m sure I’ll struggle to clearly articulate what I’m trying to ask.We are all adults, we have sex but how do you internally negotiate safe sex. As soon as men realize that I can’t possibly become pregnant, they immediately want to rush to bed, condom free. I’ve made some poor impulsive decisions in that regard too but thankfully all is good. But that got me thinking, when is unp...

Hi all, I've been lurking for a while but decided to finally post after a recent experience. ​ I've been chatting with a guy from OLD for about a week, no face to face meet up has happened. We were texting the other day and out of no where I received a message from his wife responding to the last message I had sent. A little time passes and then he sends another message and apologizes that it's his ex who just recently signed the divorce papers. Clearly things are messy between them. At some point she has his phone again and messages me to explain the situation. Perhaps it's some delirious sick humor of mine in the moment, but I continued the conversation with her talking about the muck of what's going on. She ends up apologizing for the biting message she sent previously, sharing her feelings, saying I'm easy to talk to, and then sort of goes to bat for him? Meaning, she clarifies that he is actually single as they've signed the annulment papers, he was...

I'm back in the dating game after being married my entire adult life. I took almost two years from the day my divorce was finalized to be single. This last year I have dated, but traveled a lot for work, so knowing I wouldn't be in a specific location for more than six weeks at a time, I never really put my heart into building something new with someone. In November of last year I relocated from New Orleans to a tiny little midwest town, just me and my dog. It has been a huge adjustment, but I have settled in well. I have been trying online dating, and it has been, well, interesting. I am getting a ton of attention from men in their mid twenties. I just turned 38. I would love to meet one great guy to spend time with, but I will never remarry, and am not at the age where I can even imagine having children. I am curious if other ladies my age have dated younger men, and would love to hear about your experiences! Submitted May 16, 2019 at 06:31PM I'm back in the dati...

Throw away to hide any identifying info. So I (M, 30) have recently started to get back into the dating game. I was in an incredibly physically and emotionally abusive relationship for about 4.5-5 years. When she was sober, there was no one else I wanted to be with, but that was rare. I finally got the strength to end it, about 2.5 years ago. I then went on to get into relationships with women that shared a lot of similarities and problems with the first one. I didn't like where I was going, so I stopped all dating, sex, whatever. I went into therapy to help me grow as a person and deal with my issues. Recently, I feel good about myself for the first time in an incredibly long time. I'm proud and excited of where I'm heading in life, and want to meet someone to grow and share with. Now I'm having problems meeting women. The few conversations I have (online or in person) feel extremely hollow. I know not every conversation is going to be fireworks, but I feel useless...

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I’ve been a fool and i need to let off steam. I was seeing someone for three months and it was becoming clear that he was hesitating in making things official. There were other blatant warning signs too that I stupidly overlooked: some days he would be super into me, other days he would be distant. He would tell me that we had been invited to family parties but that he had decided we wouldn’t be going (I’d met his parents several times and they were so lovely to me). His humor was always at my expense and on the occasions when I told him he’d gone too far, he would claim he was joking. He would tell me that I’ve passed certain ‘tests’: that I look ok without make up and first thing in the morning and that my body was nice enough. Some evenings I wouldn’t hear from him then he would text me the next morning with a very long explanation as to where he had been the night before even though I hadn’t even ASKED what he had been up to - he would just weirdly volunteer some long winded exp...

This is embarrassing to write because I feel like at my age with my experience I should know the difference here, but I'm not sure I do. I'm posting to this sub because I feel like I grew up during a time where consent was a little fuzzier than it is these days so would appreciate the perspective of someone around my age. I'm 39 and he's 42. Today has consisted of feeling like a bomb went off next to my head - hard to explain - and just intermittently breaking down, sorta out of nowhere. I met someone new on Saturday. We'd been texting for a few weeks and he seemed like a perfect gentleman to me. It was a friendly vibe and I honestly wasn't thinking I would be into him. Then we met and I was actually shocked, in a really weird way, at how much we seemed to click in person. Like, shocked because it felt like my assessment via text had been way off, and usually I'm pretty good at telling if I'm going to vibe with someone in person. We made plans to go o...

A couple months ago, I was just doing my thing, going on 1, maybe 2 dates a week, most of which went nowhere. After two dates with Anne (names are fake), I realized I was pretty into her, and that she was into me too. However, I'd recently also gone out with Beth (both first dates had been arranged a week or so in advance, before I'd met either of them). Beth messaged me the day after our date asking if we could go out again. Beth was great, but I also liked Anne, and things were a little further along with her and I wanted to pursue things with her and I get anxiety over the notion of multidating. So I sent Beth (what I thought) was a very nice text where I told her that she was great, and I'd ordinarily be interested in seeing her again, but I'd gone on a couple dates with someone else and I sensed it going somewhere, I didn't want to multidate and I didn't want to waste Beth's time, thanked her for the nice date and wished her good luck. She never repli...

I'm in an extremely new relationship with someone I suspect is bipolar. He had mentioned that he took mood stabilizers every morning but didn't elaborate and I didn't press him, planning to ask him about it at a later time. We got together super fast... he asked me to be his girlfriend after a few incredible dates in and I happily accepted, aware that it was probably too immediate, but our connection was amazing and I was really feeling it. I have NEVER gotten with anyone this fast, but he made me happy, so I decided to go with it. I got the attention I wanted. The good morning texts, the frequent communication,seeing each other frequently despite our distance from each other. Awesome few weeks there... And then last week, I started to feel him being distant. Slow on replies, not reaching out. I called him out on the behavior and he admitted it. Said he was really focused on work. A few days after that he admitted being distant, but it wasn't personal, that work was ...

Maybe one that makes you feel extra confident.. or is stylish but versatile enough for anything? I was thinking about this today and what I want to wear on my Olive Garden first date tonight and I immediately went to my long, fitted sweater and leggings and realized I have chosen this outfit for a few first dates. Now I just need to determine if I'm going to wear my knee high black boots since much like my 2 first dates this year, he's 6'2. Since I'm 5'8 it's not often I can wear them and not feel like an amazon. Then again it is Olive Garden, so maybe I'll take it easy with flat footed slouch ankle boots. Hmm.. decisions decisions. Anyway what about you all? A favorite first date outfit you seem to find yourself going back to every time or is it just me? Submitted May 16, 2019 at 08:10PM Maybe one that makes you feel extra confident.. or is stylish but versatile enough for anything? I was thinking about this today and what I want to wear on my Oliv...

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God help me, I google everybody. I act coy but if I'm going on a date with you, I've already googled you and found your Insta, Twitter, and Facebook. I ask because I don't have much of a media presence. I've only just started tweeting. My Facebook has three posts total on it. My Instagram is private. Would you rather know more, or know less? Also, one of the last guys I was interested in turned out to be a Red Pill type, so I'm glad I found that out before getting in too deep. He masked it well, but when you're on record (podcast no less) identifying yourself as such it's gonna be hard to explain away. On the brighter side, I have a date tonight with this guy . Everything I've found about him online, I like ... a lot . Submitted May 16, 2019 at 08:59PM God help me, I google everybody. I act coy but if I'm going on a date with you, I've already googled you and found your Insta, Twitter, and Facebook.I ask because I don't have much o...

First date and he shares openly about his faith. He has very strong convictions and beliefs. Not my forte but we have a friendly discussion/debate about it and end the evening on a positive note. Something that struck me later was the fact that he listed "no sex before marriage" as one of his strong convictions, and suddenly I can't stop thinking about it. Either this guy's an evil genius and knows exactly what he's doing or I'm about to test his faith in more ways than one... Submitted May 17, 2019 at 01:03AM First date and he shares openly about his faith. He has very strong convictions and beliefs. Not my forte but we have a friendly discussion/debate about it and end the evening on a positive note.Something that struck me later was the fact that he listed "no sex before marriage" as one of his strong convictions, and suddenly I can't stop thinking about it.Either this guy's an evil genius and knows exactly what he's doing or ...

My ex of a decade revealed he dumped me via text because for A YEAR AND A HALF he'd wanted to get out of the relationship but he NEVER told me and pretended everything was fine and "I just didn't know how to tell you". How do I move on from this betrayal? JFC. "When our relationship got real, it stopped being as fun & it became that relationship that became 'this is where you pay all of the dues' " so he decided to end it but still couldn't. And then he just kept his feelings from me and lied until he texted me "I'm done". And now he has days where he's totally fine? I just don't understand. Still. What? Submitted May 17, 2019 at 01:33AM My ex of a decade revealed he dumped me via text because for A YEAR AND A HALF he'd wanted to get out of the relationship but he NEVER told me and pretended everything was fine and "I just didn't know how to tell you".How do I move on from this betrayal? JFC....

Anyone ever have close female friends who you knew/known in your 20s come back in your 30s because they developed feelings over time? As in, you asked them out early on, they said no and you two stayed as good friends over time as mature adults. Not the scenario of being friends because you still have feelings but because she is a nice person to know. Then when life clears up for her a bit more realizes she has feelings for you? Submitted May 17, 2019 at 02:03AM Anyone ever have close female friends who you knew/known in your 20s come back in your 30s because they developed feelings over time? As in, you asked them out early on, they said no and you two stayed as good friends over time as mature adults. Not the scenario of being friends because you still have feelings but because she is a nice person to know. Then when life clears up for her a bit more realizes she has feelings for you?

The short story is that I was emotionally and sexually dead inside for five years after last breakup. Sort of started feeling into a guy that I was friends with and he felt the same so we dove in. It was fun and sexy and spontaneous the first couple weeks, then kind of leveled off when we kept having conversations about NOT being too much too soon. And I still want to hang with him, but the past couple times we’ve hung out, I’ve just felt nothing, like really cold. Not even two weeks ago, it was all good and sweet and I had all the happy feels. Are these just normal growing pains where the excitement and passion comes and goes or is this a sure fire sign that I should move on? Submitted May 17, 2019 at 02:05AM The short story is that I was emotionally and sexually dead inside for five years after last breakup. Sort of started feeling into a guy that I was friends with and he felt the same so we dove in. It was fun and sexy and spontaneous the first couple weeks, then kind of lev...

Unsure if this is where I should post this. I met this guy through OLD and we hit it off, he lives in another state and we text at least once daily most interchanges are NSFW. We hooked up last time and he was very dominant, which is fine. However, he mentioned how he would take care of me wherever he would fly me to see him and all this nonsense. At first I thought it was just weird sex talk and didn’t think much of it. Since then he has bought me a ticket to go visit him and I’m unsure if I’ve entered some type of weird situationship and I’m a sugar baby or how even that works. I would ask him but in the off chance that I am just being weird and paranoid that may come off very weird. Any suggestions or personal experiences with something similar would be greatly appreciated. Submitted May 17, 2019 at 02:15AM Unsure if this is where I should post this.I met this guy through OLD and we hit it off, he lives in another state and we text at least once daily most interchanges a...

Simple question, how often do you delete/revamp/restart your online dating profiles? Context is relevant for me I suppose: I live in the upper midwest. We have a few bigger population centers and I live just close enough to two of them that I can kinda see what is available. I also work as a delivery driver so I drive to a third large city daily. I use strictly Bumble at the moment. I first downloaded it on a whim when I was still in deep depression over my ex-fiance dumping me out of the blue...it was a very bad call. I deleted the app when a different ex and I had a brief moment of leaning on each other and were hooking up. Forgot to delete my profile and redownloaded the app, nothing. After a couple days I deleted and restarted my account with the same crap profile...then ran out of swipes lol. After about two weeks I decided my profile needed a complete reboot. I went this past weekend without it (app and account deleted), rewrote my profile, got two new pictures and tried again...

So I wasn't sure what to title this, but I'd like to know. Does anyone else nickname people from OLD in their head? Not as a bad or condescending way, but more like a self preservation mechanism. I've lately found myself keeping people as nicknames until we've had a few dates and things show some promise. Obviously I still know names and call people by them, but when thinking about people it's all nicknames. Before I'd invariably get invested mentally then hurt when they'd disappear or bail. Submitted May 17, 2019 at 02:58AM So I wasn't sure what to title this, but I'd like to know. Does anyone else nickname people from OLD in their head? Not as a bad or condescending way, but more like a self preservation mechanism.I've lately found myself keeping people as nicknames until we've had a few dates and things show some promise. Obviously I still know names and call people by them, but when thinking about people it's all nicknames. Be...

Well, it's been about 9 months since I broke up with a partner of 8 years. It was jarring, and hard, but it got easier with time. I still have much to heal, still have days where I miss her. I actually still hang out with her once in a blue moon, catch food or a movie, chat a little, catch up. We both feel like we can be friends, though we've hooked up more than once... ​ Anyway, I guess that's not really the point of this post. After about 4 months, I started seeing someone I met online. It was new, different, exotic even. A girl from Uganda, who somehow found me very enticing. I was always a little lukewarm about it, her having a kid ( I'm not even sure I want kids), being somewhat different culturally, having little differences that kept making me second guess things. But after dating a month or so, she starting clinging to me, a LOT! Already telling me she loved me, sending as much time with me as I would allow, going out of her way to really care for me. There...

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So I’ve been in a LDR for about 9 months and tomorrow I’m going over to my boyfriend’s house (we’re both super horny because we haven’t done it in so long). From out texts we spend back and forth I noticed that he likes it when I’m in control and eludes to it in a way. The thing is that I have no idea how to be. Any good tips? Preferably to when I’m giving him a BJ? Submitted May 17, 2019 at 05:13AM So I’ve been in a LDR for about 9 months and tomorrow I’m going over to my boyfriend’s house (we’re both super horny because we haven’t done it in so long). From out texts we spend back and forth I noticed that he likes it when I’m in control and eludes to it in a way. The thing is that I have no idea how to be. Any good tips? Preferably to when I’m giving him a BJ?

I'm having trouble with my breast size (they used to be 34b but now they're like a 32b,maybe) I've always had a booby trouble, but I just feel so low. My boyfriend loves them but he loves big breasts. It's so hard not to think about that Submitted May 17, 2019 at 05:28AM I'm having trouble with my breast size (they used to be 34b but now they're like a 32b,maybe) I've always had a booby trouble, but I just feel so low. My boyfriend loves them but he loves big breasts. It's so hard not to think about that

I don't know if this is the right place to post this. I apologize if it isnt, please direct me and I will post it there. So about a year and a half ago, I was spending the night at my then-boyfriends house. We had gotten some alcohol and I definitely drank a little too much. He started pressuring me to have sex without a condom, and I said no because I was not on birth control at the time and I was not in a good place to get pregnant. We ended up having sex with a condom. After that, I passed out from drinking too much. I halfway woke up a little while and he was rubbing his penis on my vagina. I was still half unconscious but I sat up a little when I realized what was going on. He immediately pulled away as if he knew he was doing something wrong. I didnt think much of it and laid back down and started to fall asleep again. After a minute or two, I guess he thought I was passed out again and he tried to insert his penis in me. He could only get the head in due to the angle we wer...

Hey all, my girlfriend responds negatively to the pill and already suffers enough hormonal problems as is (endometriosis). Although I'm a huge proponent of the pullout method, I wouldn't be against the stay in method. So I guess I'm just asking if any other guys out there have taken the duty of controlling their contraception, how's it going? And do you plan on reversing it. Submitted May 17, 2019 at 05:32AM Hey all, my girlfriend responds negatively to the pill and already suffers enough hormonal problems as is (endometriosis). Although I'm a huge proponent of the pullout method, I wouldn't be against the stay in method.So I guess I'm just asking if any other guys out there have taken the duty of controlling their contraception, how's it going? And do you plan on reversing it.

Here’s the problem. In real life I’m insanely jealous. If I see my boyfriend check out another girl, I seriously want to cry. I think I have body dysmorphia even though my boyfriend says I have a perfect body, I never ever feel good about myself. The weird thing is I have fantasies of watching a girl give him head or a girl ride him. I could never allow this to happen in real life and I could never tell him. I feel so confused. I don’t understand how I could be extremely jealous but fantasize about this. Advice ? Submitted May 17, 2019 at 05:38AM Here’s the problem. In real life I’m insanely jealous. If I see my boyfriend check out another girl, I seriously want to cry. I think I have body dysmorphia even though my boyfriend says I have a perfect body, I never ever feel good about myself. The weird thing is I have fantasies of watching a girl give him head or a girl ride him. I could never allow this to happen in real life and I could never tell him. I feel so confused. I don’t ...

Why is a woman’s scent so much sexier when she finishes a run or working or if she hasn’t bathed? Oral is more of a turn on when a woman is ripe. I feel like a dirty animal because I like this, but I can’t get enough! Submitted May 17, 2019 at 05:41AM Why is a woman’s scent so much sexier when she finishes a run or working or if she hasn’t bathed? Oral is more of a turn on when a woman is ripe. I feel like a dirty animal because I like this, but I can’t get enough!

I made a post today about being extremely horny and a majority of the responses I got were it's just hormones. I could be wrong, but I don't usually see women painfully aroused for a few days in a row to the point where it is hard to leave their room Submitted May 17, 2019 at 05:47AM I made a post today about being extremely horny and a majority of the responses I got were it's just hormones. I could be wrong, but I don't usually see women painfully aroused for a few days in a row to the point where it is hard to leave their room

I am so sorry I this question seems rude or offensive, I am asking out of genuine curiosity. In my country recently started a campaign in the news to raise awareness about females predators and pedophiles who we thought they were a myth. This week I saw on the news two unrelated women exposed. One was a foster mother and the other a teacher in kindergarden. So if women can share this trait with men then are there women who have the harmless fetish for legs, thighs or feet like men do? I never saw or heard about this and if someone has it can they talk about their attraction and their experiences? Submitted May 17, 2019 at 05:47AM I am so sorry I this question seems rude or offensive, I am asking out of genuine curiosity. In my country recently started a campaign in the news to raise awareness about females predators and pedophiles who we thought they were a myth. This week I saw on the news two unrelated women exposed. One was a foster mother and the other a teacher in kinderg...

I did a lot of googling and can’t find the answer. I have a fun factory vibrator that I want to bring on a plane but I read you should kill the battery first so it doesn’t go off in transit and raise any flags. So I’m sitting here on the most powerful mode and it just won’t die! It has died twice on me while using it of course but the one time I am trying to kill it, it’s just living its best life. Submitted May 17, 2019 at 05:50AM I did a lot of googling and can’t find the answer.I have a fun factory vibrator that I want to bring on a plane but I read you should kill the battery first so it doesn’t go off in transit and raise any flags. So I’m sitting here on the most powerful mode and it just won’t die!It has died twice on me while using it of course but the one time I am trying to kill it, it’s just living its best life.

[24F] here. When I was a teenager, and probably up until I was 21, I was constantly in the mood. I was in a 3-year relationship from when I was 20-23, and about a year into it I was suddenly content having sex only two or three times a month, and started making a ton of excuses to get out of it (which is a big factor in why he left me). I even saw a doctor to see if anything was wrong with me or if my hormones were out of whack but they didn't find anything. I pretty much just accepted that my libido must have slowed down with age or something (though I was only 21 when the change happened). Once we broke up (about 7 months ago) I became horny all the time like I used to be before we dated. I've been seeing a new guy for about a month and am up for sex pretty much all the time, every day now. I know it's possible that I just wasn't a good match with my ex, but I'm worried that once I settle into this new relationship I might revert back into having a low sex dri...

I (24F) won a bet against my boyfriend (32M) where now basically I get to tie him up and do whatever I want. How can I make this experience as pleasurable as possible for him? What are the kinds of things I can do? Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated! Also, if anyone has any recommendations for restraints too! Thanks! Submitted May 17, 2019 at 05:58AM I (24F) won a bet against my boyfriend (32M) where now basically I get to tie him up and do whatever I want. How can I make this experience as pleasurable as possible for him? What are the kinds of things I can do? Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated! Also, if anyone has any recommendations for restraints too! Thanks!

Update to the is your first orgasm your hardest post I made yesterday. It took me about an hour or so but from all the advice I got it really helped and I orgasmed!!!!!! I’m so excited to tell my boyfriend!!!!! :))))))) Submitted May 17, 2019 at 06:03AM Update to the is your first orgasm your hardest post I made yesterday. It took me about an hour or so but from all the advice I got it really helped and I orgasmed!!!!!! I’m so excited to tell my boyfriend!!!!! :)))))))

Hey, so i was wondering if anyone has some really bad anal expierence stories? Im just trying to understand what's the worst that could happen i guess Submitted May 17, 2019 at 06:11AM Hey, so i was wondering if anyone has some really bad anal expierence stories? Im just trying to understand what's the worst that could happen i guess

This is, admittedly my own fault; she never actually said that we were dating, but for me it had felt implicit and I treated it as such when she started wanting pictures like that, and I'd never have shared them at a personal level like that unless I was, or thought I was with them. Now after its been made clear that she didn't see it as a relationship, it really hurts that they firstly asked for such a thing, and more-so that I reciprocated. I feel disgusted with myself for sharing them, and feel a bit used. Submitted May 17, 2019 at 06:12AM This is, admittedly my own fault; she never actually said that we were dating, but for me it had felt implicit and I treated it as such when she started wanting pictures like that, and I'd never have shared them at a personal level like that unless I was, or thought I was with them.Now after its been made clear that she didn't see it as a relationship, it really hurts that they firstly asked for such a thing, and more-so th...

so my boyfriend and i have lived with each other for over 5 months. our sex life used to be fine and we’d have sex 3-4 times a week which was perfect for me and just the right amount but lately it’s crashed immensely and we have sex usually once every 10-14 days which is driving me insane. he says it’s because he’s just tired from work and has no energy once he comes home even tho he used to be fine before. any time i try bringing up the fact that we don’t have sex as much as we used to and it’d be nice to at least try a bit more he just gets mad and says he doesn’t wanna talk about it and goes back to complaining about him being too tired. the thing is is that he still expects head from me and says it will make him happy but i don’t even wanna do it if he can’t do something for me that i’ve been wanting... idk if i’m going crazy for feeling like this but it’s getting frustrating. he also says it’s just because we’re out of the “honeymoon phase” but like, that doesn’t mean you need to...