This girl [24F] and I [24M] dated a couple of months ago. We did a lot of things wrong, like going too fast, not communicating properly, among others. We really liked each other massively, but she was terrified that we were falling into a relationship pattern that she believes always ends in heartbreak and she didn’t that to happen. We stopped being sexual but we kept dating, but I noticed that as time went on she’d pull back more and more. I’ve noticed that she still likes me so much, but she feels uncomfortable with anything relationship-like, and thus she’s wanted to date less often. I don’t want to go out with her if she’s not into it, so I stopped, but then she’d seek me out again, but instead of going on dates she’d try to make it a friends outing. So what happened is this. Last night we were hanging out with fiends and near the end I asked her out to a jazz event today and she said yes. This morning she said “I’m very tired, would you rather hang out at my place?”. A couple t...

So I met a girl at a party, we had a little chat and afterwards we added eachother on snapchat. Now a few weeks later I noticed she rarely asks questions. Also when I ask her something like what did you do this week she says like nothing special and that’s it. A few days later she asks me a random question I answer her and she doesn’t even reply. Also she says she kissed with someone she is into but when I ask how they have been doing she says it’s nothing special and stuff... I want to ask her out but I feel like she isn’t interested in me... or she plays hard to get, this makes me feel not confident to ask her out and stop texting her. What should I do? Submitted November 06, 2019 at 11:22PM So I met a girl at a party, we had a little chat and afterwards we added eachother on snapchat. Now a few weeks later I noticed she rarely asks questions. Also when I ask her something like what did you do this week she says like nothing special and that’s it. A few days later she asks me ...

Hey all, I spent most of my high school years chasing after this girl and now we’re finally together. We were very close friends for about 4 years, two months ago she told me she’s had a crush on me for a the majority of our friendship and I told her I felt the same way. We’re both somewhat awkward individuals and we both are pretty bad texters. This is a problem as I’m in college an hour and a half away from her and she’s still in high school. I see her almost every weekend but during the week we do not communicate very much. I try my best to text her and stuff but I usually am the initiator and when I do initiate she sometimes takes a while to reply. I know she does this with other people who text her as well but still I want to talk to her more yet I don’t want to overtext her. I don’t think this is a sign of disinterest on her part as our relationship is still progressing and we still spend the weekends together. We’ve both never been confrontational people so I’m not sure how t...

Not sure if this is the right place for this but here goes. I'm (23M) quite new to this whole dating thing and I recently matched with someone (25F) on tinder who is from a different country. She was travelling in my city for the weekend, we met up for food and I showed her around some nice bars. I honestly feel like it went extremely well. We didn't get a chance to meet up again before she flew home but we have kept in contact. I really want to see her again as I felt like we made a good connection, we've been talking about meeting up if I ever travel to her country or if she comes back here so we can show each other around, but I'm unsure if she sees this as just friends or more than that, it's hard to tell over messages. I feel like I have strong feelings for her which has came as a shock to me as we only met for one night. I don't know if I should tell her how I feel now to see if she feels a strong connection aswell so we can decide where to take it from...

I know this girl a bit for two months now, we do the same study and we're in our first year. We've had some moments together like having lunch, going for a bike ride, all casual and just friendly. Earlier this evening she asked me to study together in my room. I know this can just be a friendly gesture to seriously study or is this probably more than that? Submitted November 06, 2019 at 11:38PM I know this girl a bit for two months now, we do the same study and we're in our first year. We've had some moments together like having lunch, going for a bike ride, all casual and just friendly.Earlier this evening she asked me to study together in my room. I know this can just be a friendly gesture to seriously study or is this probably more than that?

I haven't dated someone in person in 5 years and even my first relationship was awkward and ended poorly (that wa sin highschool and I'm in uni now). So basically, my social experience is somewhat poor when it comes to trying to get to know a girl and potentially ask her out on a date. So basically I met this girl 3 weeks ago or so, we joked a bit during a social. When we were about to leave she came up and introduced her self and we got to know each other more while walking out. A couple of days later asked if she ever been to this restaurant and she said no. Then asked me if I wanted to go there which was followed up by them saying they would be all for that place. So a little later I asked her to go there with me, ended up asking if she wanted to see a movie too before grabbing dinner there which she had no objection too. So we hung out together just ourselves a week after meeting each other. I don't know if I could call this a date or just two friends hanging out toge...

I (23f) am conflicted about what to do with my boyfriend (35m). he wants me to make friends with his friends but his friends are really into being annoying ass edgelords. he has me in a group chat with two of them and one of them is always saying racially insensitive shit (I'm black) or just being a weirdo in general. today he was posting a lot of lolicon (something to do with anime and young girls) and it was disgusting to me. I tell my boyfriend about this and he downplays it. he always downplays it and just chalks it up to me being "triggered" even though I have a valid reason to feel the way I do about what's said. Submitted November 06, 2019 at 11:51PM I (23f) am conflicted about what to do with my boyfriend (35m). he wants me to make friends with his friends but his friends are really into being annoying ass edgelords. he has me in a group chat with two of them and one of them is always saying racially insensitive shit (I'm black) or just being a weir...

So a friend of a friend (22F) and I (22M) have been really flirty for about a year now, until last week where we were out in a friend group then went back to her place where she came onto me and we had sex. After that we just chatted for like 3 hours straight until I had to leave and I felt we really had a connection. I ended up asking her out and she said yes until about a half hour before where she said she couldn’t because she had a paper to write. So I asked a couple different and both times said she was because of work and she hasn’t really attempted to reschedule. Should I keep trying or just give up? Submitted November 06, 2019 at 11:56PM So a friend of a friend (22F) and I (22M) have been really flirty for about a year now, until last week where we were out in a friend group then went back to her place where she came onto me and we had sex. After that we just chatted for like 3 hours straight until I had to leave and I felt we really had a connection. I ended up asking h...

I was supposed to go on a date tonight. I usually try my best to have interesting conversation with girls I meet on dating apps. With this girl, I started with a clever opener, and conversation flowed. We were both quick witted and humorous, and quickly led to setting up a date. Having some free time on my hands I thought I’d put effort into the date and did just that. Went to message her this morning to confirm the date and she had ghosted (blocked) me. The last message I got was her saying she was looking forward to the date. This is not the first time this has happened. It’s even happened with women I’ve approached irl. I’m 6’6”, athletic, and have been told by plenty of women that I’m funny and attractive. I really don’t get why this keeps happening. Anyone have any advice? Submitted November 07, 2019 at 12:00AM I was supposed to go on a date tonight. I usually try my best to have interesting conversation with girls I meet on dating apps. With this girl, I started with a cle...

I need advice about one guy who I met through Tinder. The first time we matched was in the end of 2017. I liked him immediately. We live about 3 hours apart in different countries (EU) so we didn’t meet back then, but we talked every day for a month. And then I ghosted him. I remember he send me a text one morning saying “Hey” and I never responded. I was going through a difficult time and wasn’t ready to date. I know, I know, ghosting is shitty, but I actually prefer it to hearing “Sorry, not into u”. Anyway, almost 2 years pass by and we match again on Tinder, start talking and agree that we wanna meet this time around. Again, we talk for a month, and then he starts to slow fade me. Texting every 3 days, sometimes saying “Hey how are u” and when I reply, he doesn’t reply to me. Until one day he stops replying all together. Then a month passes and now he texted me out of blue that he’s so sorry and he had a rough period in life and he want to talk and meet (finally lol). I don’t r...

Hi! 😅 So I hooked up with my date a week ago and Didnt hear anything from him for a few days so I assumed he just wanted sex for me and that’s it. I took him off my social media and decided to move on but he messaged me again.I really like him but I thought he only wanted sex. Should i bother explaining my thought process to him or just move on? Submitted November 07, 2019 at 12:10AM Hi! 😅 So I hooked up with my date a week ago and Didnt hear anything from him for a few days so I assumed he just wanted sex for me and that’s it.I took him off my social media and decided to move on but he messaged me again.I really like him but I thought he only wanted sex. Should i bother explaining my thought process to him or just move on?

So, I went on a night out about three or four weeks ago, at one bar there was this group of women nearby, one of whom I thought was really attractive. I checked her out, and later I remember seeing her looking at me for a little bit, doesn't necessarily mean she was interested, but yeah. I got talking to her as we went over to them, she and I spoke for a good while, just a mature conversation talking about everyday stuff. She said she has a partner (but doesn't live with them), and I can't remember who brought the conversation topic of the gym up, but I said that I've recently started going to the gym. Keep in mind, I'm not a fitness freak, bodybuilder or anything like that; I only go very occasionally, but she kept saying I could be her gym buddy and she wanted me to "be her trainer/personal trainer/train her at the gym". She said all those exact words, and she said that I should let her know when I'm going so she can go at the same time or she'...

Met this girl on a hike, we had a decent convo and asked for her number to hangout, she gave. Didn't speak during rest of the hike. At the end, she initiates a convo and we speak. I texted her the same day, we kept texting for a while. I ask her out after 7/8 messages(particularly mentioning 'do you wanna go out..'), not so confidently, with ifs and maybes. She says shes busy that weekend and invites me to hangout with her labmates to get a happy hour. Was busy, so I said no and mentioned 'perhaps some other time' and asked about her day. She did not reply. (We go to the same uni) Sent her another text after 3 days tryna be funny(I feel it's cringey now) about dead convo, no reply. Sent her one more after a couple of weeks asking if shes doing okay, no reply. What wrong did I do here? What can I do in future? (Never dated anyone, 22/M). I'm not even sure if this is the right place to post. Submitted November 06, 2019 at 11:53PM Met this girl on a...

background story So I basically been texting since Monday and yesterday I basically sent her a two worded response to see if she would spark up the convo but she didn’t text back at all, but she said he to me In class today first. So my question should I continue to text her or something else??? Submitted November 06, 2019 at 10:20PM background storySo I basically been texting since Monday and yesterday I basically sent her a two worded response to see if she would spark up the convo but she didn’t text back at all, but she said he to me In class today first.So my question should I continue to text her or something else???

I was finally ready to tell Jane how I truly felt about her, after so many talks with a few of my friends and venting about a lot of things but I felt ready. I was home on leave at the time just between Christmas and new years like I have been every year. I sat in my car and started the message, yes I messaged it because she was busy with work and family and could barely get any free time. I told her how her smile is incredible, how even her worst laughs make me smile so much. Telling her how much her and her son meant to me and how I would always treat her the way she deserved to be treated. The way just a simple message from her can turn any day into one of the best days. One quote I would always tell her was that there was only one thing that outweighs every other concern. One thing that will make you give up on everything you thought you knew, every instinct or rational calculation....….Love. I sent it to her and sat there patiently even though I knew in the back of my head that ...

On my four hour bus ride home from seeing my girl. I came on a whim and only for one night. We went to go see the Joker together and I noticed her holding on to me tightly as if she didn’t want to let me go. I realize everyday how much I love her. We aren’t the same, grew up differently but we still find ways to relate and connect, its so beautiful. I’m also a bit insensitive sometimes, not thinking before I speak or making weird decisions that no one understands except me but she still loves me anyway. I lost my headphones a couple days ago and she got me new ones and I’m just listening to music right with the bright moon at my side thinking about how happy I am to have this girl, you know. How I wouldn’t have had these experiences if not for her, how shes accepted who I am but still encourages me to be a better person. Submitted November 06, 2019 at 10:40PM On my four hour bus ride home from seeing my girl. I came on a whim and only for one night. We went to go see the Joker t...

Sooooo.... I’m home with you. Sitting right next to you. I don’t wanna wake you up babe, you’re such an angel and so attractive to me!! A literal goddess 😍😍 Even though I’m right here with you, I just want to tell you how lucky I am to have you. How lucky I am to say you’re mine, and I’m yours! I’m still so amazed and blown away that YOU are MY girl!!!!! 😍😍😍😍 You’re an amazing woman, and an incredible mother! I am so proud of you and so proud of being yours. I love you princess, with all of my heart ❤️ you’re my world, my everything 😘🥰😘 I’ll always be right here, as I am now; right here next to you, with you, always ❤️💕 Ladiessssss.....ugh! I feel so blessed that he’s my man♥️🥰💁🏽‍♀️👩‍❤️‍👨 Submitted November 06, 2019 at 11:03PM Sooooo.... I’m home with you. Sitting right next to you. I don’t wanna wake you up babe, you’re such an angel and so attractive to me!! A literal goddess 😍😍 Even though I’m right here with you, I just want to tell you how lucky I am to ha...

So this girl and I sit next to each other in a class and I have had her SC and # for awhile now and we’ve been talking. We haven’t hung out outside of class because she is super busy with school, work, and competitive dancing.. but we walk together and talk before and after class. She also invited me to go see her dance show at our school. I’m pretty sure that she likes me and I def like her but the problem is that I am transferring to UGA this Spring (about 2 1/2 hours from where we go now) and I suck at LDR. So should I tell her how I feel or just kinda slowly “drift away” until I transfer so no one (particularly me, if she doesn’t feel the same) gets hurt? Thanks Submitted November 06, 2019 at 11:14PM So this girl and I sit next to each other in a class and I have had her SC and # for awhile now and we’ve been talking. We haven’t hung out outside of class because she is super busy with school, work, and competitive dancing.. but we walk together and talk before and after clas...

2:05am EST In the beginning, when we first met, I knew there was something different about you. It started with the little things, from the way your hair rests perfectly on your shoulders to how honest your eyes sparkle. Humans by nature want things they can’t have and since the beginning I knew my chances with you were slim to none. As time passed, the more I got to know you the more I realized why I like you. You’re not afraid to speak your mind and as harsh as you can be you’re still gentle with every touch. You helped me get back up when I felt like I couldn’t anymore and even until this day it means so much to me. What you may consider insecurities or flaws I found the most beautiful about you. I can’t stress how absolutely gorgeous you are, from that endearing smile of yours to the way your heart talks to others, flawless. To me you’re a gem that needs to be reminded of their worth and it’s the mystery behind this masterpiece that keeps me attracted. You sparkled the brightest ...

I met you almost exactly a year ago and a lot has happened during that year. During that year I fell so hard for you and I think I’m still falling. You helped me figure out who I am and you helped me truly find my sexuality. You are always there for me now matter what and I’m always here for you no matter what. Even after everything we’ve been through together, I still love you. I remember when I realized I liked you. We continually flirted with each other but I couldn’t take a hint at all. We continued to grow closer in a matter of months and we started to fall for each other. I wish I took my chance to ask you out in a date. We never dated but we treated each other like we did. If I could go back in time and change anything I would change that. I would seize the moment. But I have to let you go. This is my final goodbye to you. This is me letting go of my feelings and setting out free from my heart. You’ll always have a special place in my heart and I will always love you. Goodb...

There this girl in my class who’s had my eye the entire semester, but I never get a chance to speak to her. Background: my class size is about 30 The class is only 2 days of the week (these are the only times I see her) She is always sitting with her dorm mate/friend Whenever I turn around in class (I sit upfront) she always making eye contact and smiling, we’ve been doing this almost the entire semester, and I’m just lost at what to do I follow her finsta, she’s always like “Am I too ugly, is that why I’m single” I just want to scream how attractive she is but I’d want to come off creepy, just kinda lost as what to do or even on how to approach her with her best friend next to her Any advice is greatly appreciated. Submitted November 06, 2019 at 11:55PM There this girl in my class who’s had my eye the entire semester, but I never get a chance to speak to her.Background: my class size is about 30 The class is only 2 days of the week (these are the only times I see her)She ...

Ya I feel the same November 07, 2019 at 12:07AM

An analogy to alcohol is a rather ironic choice because Aces also drink at a far lower rate than the general population. Iirc, the population as a whole is around 15% abstinent from alcohol but Aces are around 40%. November 07, 2019 at 12:03AM