I haven’t “come out” to my parents because it just seems like it’s not at all relevant to them? I’m panromantic so I may or may not end up in a lifelong relationship, but my nonattraction to people and voluntary lack of a sex life really doesn’t concern them. April 11, 2019 at 06:34AM

Honesty is probably the best. Whether you're ace or not, it's clear that, for now, you aren't interested in more than hugging, and you shouldn't compromise on that. Talk to him about how you feel, and if he can't handle it, then he isn't worth your time. You're only 16, you have plenty of time to grow and learn and discover your truths. April 11, 2019 at 06:31AM

This is why I like how GSRD (Gender, Sexually, and Relationship Diversities) seems to be catching on. Much shorter while still being inclusive. April 11, 2019 at 06:12AM

I'm more like the kid who's really good at football but doesn't like football and would rather be in theater April 11, 2019 at 06:07AM

I can relate. When I had to have an examination down there for the first time, I almost kicked the old lady in the face. I can't offer any advice that hasn't already been given, but I wish you luck! April 11, 2019 at 06:05AM

I didn't see any downvoting going on...but I upvoted some people who made some good points. April 11, 2019 at 06:05AM

kind of in the same boat here. im never in relationships and all in my teens and 20s my mom would always tell me "its okay if you are gay me and your dad would still love you" and id always tell them im not gay. it got to the point where i was tired of them asking and i told my mom if she asked me that one more time id stop talking to her. i think they might still think im gay and honestly i dont even care if they do. but i also dont know why i just dont tell them how i really feel. i think its easier for them to understand the concept of if i was gay and in the closet than that i am actually asexual and am not sexually attracted to people and dont care about being in a relationship April 11, 2019 at 06:02AM

As for me, coming from a religious family, it did not go well. My mother straight up told me: "You're not asexual." Bullcrap about how I could choose to be celibate but "God made man and woman to be together", blah blah blah. I guess what I'm trying to say is, if you're not sure if they'll have a positive reaction, I would be wary of telling your family. April 11, 2019 at 06:00AM

What is demiromantic you ask? Demiromantics are people who experience secondary but not primary romantic attraction (it's like the romantic version of demisexual). Most demiromantics are also somewhere on the asexual spectrum! April 11, 2019 at 05:56AM

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People... why are people so horrible? It's getting to be that just the word 'people' for me is like a swearword. ​ Like, so what if you're a hetero-ace- you're still queer (if you want to wear that) because you're not heterosexual. And 'queer' is just the phrase that they throw to the non big-four letters so the acronym doesn't get too long. I call it 'The Acronym' because it annoys me when people don't say the entire thing. If you won't say the entire thing, wtf is the point in being politically correct enough to begin the acronym but not enough to include everyone in it? ​ Also depending on where you are in the world, the Acronym has different letters and numbers in it e.g. in Canada there is a 2 in there for two-spirit. I support that. Geographical and cultural differences are why the '+' is so important. April 11, 2019 at 05:39AM

You could always pretend you didn't know either and just realized it. April 11, 2019 at 05:34AM

One the other hand everyone does experience heteroelectric attraction. April 11, 2019 at 05:31AM

No Charles, give me the damn regular towel. How am I supposed to wipe myself with paper towels after shower? April 11, 2019 at 05:31AM

That's terrible. April 11, 2019 at 05:30AM

*Ugly laugh* Take your upvote. April 11, 2019 at 05:28AM

I thought it was relevant to both subreddits. April 11, 2019 at 05:28AM

No but... you can hug plushies. And! They invented a hug vest which puffs up to simulate arms around you. ​ I have so many plushies for this reason. April 11, 2019 at 05:27AM

Honestly I keep looking at this picture cause I like the lamp in the right hand corner... uhhh yeah. April 11, 2019 at 04:58AM

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Okay, so basically I have a 4-4.5 inch dick and my girlfriend is a large girl (290 lbs - but she's also very tall at 6'1) and I'm wondering what positions you think would work best? We haven't had PIV or anal yet, just oral and manual shit. she's got very thick thighs, pretty huge ass, and of course a decently large tummy. so that's got me kinda overwhelmed lol... but yeah, what positions would work best for us? for vaginal and also for anal as she wants to try that too. Submitted April 11, 2019 at 02:35AM Okay, so basically I have a 4-4.5 inch dick and my girlfriend is a large girl (290 lbs - but she's also very tall at 6'1) and I'm wondering what positions you think would work best?We haven't had PIV or anal yet, just oral and manual shit. she's got very thick thighs, pretty huge ass, and of course a decently large tummy. so that's got me kinda overwhelmed lol... but yeah, what positions would work best for us? for vaginal and a...

Me and my partner finally ventured into piss play. Any ideas from someone that has tried it about things we could try in this aspect?? We've gotten pretty extreme in the short period of time since we began but would still like to hear you're experiences . Submitted April 11, 2019 at 02:53AM Me and my partner finally ventured into piss play. Any ideas from someone that has tried it about things we could try in this aspect?? We've gotten pretty extreme in the short period of time since we began but would still like to hear you're experiences .

and it really turned me on. she got a mysterious message on her instagram from a random company we couldn't find out anything about offering a surprisingly high fee for contact martial arts video shoots. My wife is a former martial artist and they had found her through her old works website. What made us think it was porn was that there was a lot of language about trying things out and not doing anything they weren't comfortable with, suffice to say it was a very peculiar message and not at all in line with what she's used to getting reached out to by other martial arts companies. This happened this afternoon and I've been really hyped up and intrigued by the idea (even though we agreed its sketchy and she shouldn't do it). Has anyone else encountered something like this? Being excited by the idea their partner could do porn? or dated anyone who was in porn? Would be curious to hear your thoughts. Submitted April 11, 2019 at 03:33AM and it really turned me...

So the last few times we've had sex hes started involving my butt during the usual fingering foreplay. Which had been fun and fine with me. 2 times ago he did some different position which I loved. But mostly I loved him taking charge and just moving me around till I was where he wanted me. He kind of half tried to actually insert himself into my butt but I quickly said no no not so quick and we just kind of moved on. Then last night while we were going at it he was having a little problem coming until he reached around and put his finger in my butt he came like right away. I'm not like 100% sure what to think about it overall hes kind of embarrassed talking about it super bluntly. Wow that's a wall sorry basically what I'm after is some recommendations on a butt plug for me. Like a good starter. I think I'd like to surprise him with it see how that goes and it could be a good way to open a conversation?? I dont think full anal is in the picture for a while so ...

My husband and I met 3 years ago and been married for one year. When we first met sex was great, and I've had two bad partner in the pass and they're always been selfish so when I met my husband who cared about my body I was super happy. Fast forward I'm a few months pregnant and sex been less exciting and less frequent. He stop going down on me even when I ask, I ask why he said he only like to do it in the shower but I don't reason for that is it doesn't feel as nice and I don't like him going down on my while I'm standing. Another problem he literally lasts maybe 5mins and he'll come, now I'm not saying sex sucks with him now it's still nice I do feel good he does kinda try to turn me on but its not the same as before. Is it cause he's getting older? and his sex drive is low? Or is it because I'm pregnant and he doesn't want to touch me as much? I guess what I want to ask is how can I help him feel comfortable going down on me? An...

Hey all, sorry if this is the wrong place but, my girlfriend of a year hasn't dated since early freshman year of high school and shes' expressed the fact that shes disappointed that she missed out on a lot of the coming of age saucy experiences some people had in high school (truth or dare, spin the bottle, making out in the park at night, etc.) we've talked about how bottle spinning isn't really a thing we can do since we're a couple and have no nearby friends, similarly with truth or dare a two person game would rapidly just devolve (evolve?) into sexytime. aside from public late night makeout sessions were not really sure what people did as teenagers as I didn't really have any of those experiences either, any advice on how to shake things up a bit? were not really looking to get spicy with other couples either. ​ Edit: were both in our early 20s Submitted April 11, 2019 at 03:50AM Hey all, sorry if this is the wrong place but, my girlfriend of a yea...

I've been dating my boyfriend for almost 2 years now. Recently he told me he was bored with vanilla sex and wanted to try some of his fantasies. I told him I'd be completely on board to try anything for him if that's what will make him happy. He has 3 main kinks he wants to try. He wants to be restrained and be a sub, he wants to experiment with his prostate, and he wants me to pee on him. Now these all sound like pretty average kinks or fetishes so I told him I'd be happy to try these with him. The only problem is that I have no idea where to start. What are some good resources for restraints and prostate play? I want to know everything possible so we can try these things safely without him getting hurt or anything really bad happening. Where do I start? Any helpful resources or recommendations would be greatly appreciated. Thanks! Submitted April 11, 2019 at 04:43AM I've been dating my boyfriend for almost 2 years now. Recently he told me he was bored wi...

My fiancé and I have been together nearly 4 years, and have been sexually active for 99.9% of that time. That means we got together when I was 18, and it’s safe to say I was ‘young and dumb’ in regards to sex. I had a few sexual partners prior to him, but it was the exact same story: None of my sexual partners have ‘helped’ me get off. Before having sex for my first time, I watched porn to educate myself—Not a lot, but what I felt was enough. In all the videos, the female would moan, pant, etc., and I came to the realization that that was what women did. So, I did just that. For years. I didn’t have a reason to moan, I just did, because I THOUGHT that was what I was supposed to do. Fast forward to 3 years ago: I am in a relationship with my now-fiancé. I am now realizing that sex normally (or should I say—sometimes) leads to orgasming. Fast forward to now: I am feeling defeated. I am the one to blame, because I continue this whole act. I will say, ‘I’m cumming’, even though I am no...

I have had multiple sex partners and I was always the one who cant stand not having sex. I can masturbate 5 times per day and I can have sex 5 times per day or more. However, this past one month, suddenly my libido dropped. I only masturbate once or twice per week and i am not into sex as much. I just stopped my birth control pill a month ago but I only used this pill a year ago and before that, my libido was always high. Is this normal? And why? Shouldnt I have higher libido now nearing to my 30s? Thank you Submitted April 11, 2019 at 05:33AM I have had multiple sex partners and I was always the one who cant stand not having sex. I can masturbate 5 times per day and I can have sex 5 times per day or more. However, this past one month, suddenly my libido dropped. I only masturbate once or twice per week and i am not into sex as much. I just stopped my birth control pill a month ago but I only used this pill a year ago and before that, my libido was always high. Is this normal? A...

Me and my girlfriend[2 years going strong] have sex pretty often, and we have had 3 slip ups, meaning $120 of plan b. And almost every month its countdown to her week, just to make sure we are safe I've suggested multiple times that she should get birth control because we both like condom-less sex (we do it a lot), and the feeling of finishing in her (<-- hopefully that made sense) But she doesn't have any current doctor or gyno, and she wants to her parents to know if shes on Bc But my parents know and want her on it I have told her that I want her on bc before summer starts because financially we cant have slip ups, none of us have jobs. I've seen that Bc is pretty cheap, and part of me says I should try and get it for her, but I think that they have to do hormone checks? So I dont think I can I'm not sure but I'd like to get it for her, or take her to a gyno or a planned parenthood and get it. Does she need to be there when getting Bc? Should I just sit...

Whenever I (20F) have steamy sessions with my boyfriend, I begin to have really bad stomach pains, pains that are worst than any period cramp I’ve had. The pain goes away within half an hour or even earlier, but I have no idea what’s causing it to happen. It’s not just after or during sex either, as I’ve also experienced the same pain occasionally after simply just making out. Has anyone else experienced anything like this? Submitted April 11, 2019 at 06:17AM Whenever I (20F) have steamy sessions with my boyfriend, I begin to have really bad stomach pains, pains that are worst than any period cramp I’ve had. The pain goes away within half an hour or even earlier, but I have no idea what’s causing it to happen. It’s not just after or during sex either, as I’ve also experienced the same pain occasionally after simply just making out. Has anyone else experienced anything like this?

So I have been with this girl for a while now.I actually felt really bad. I had broken up with her over some dumb shit. I made a post about it a while back. It's kind of irrelevant. She makes me happier than any girl I've ever been with. I love how sexual and open she is. I would say we ha e a great sex life. But recently she has brought up pegging. Her ex husband was bisexual, and he absolutely loved it. He was sort of an asshole to her, so she 100 percent enjoyed it and loved dishing out her hate for him by "slamming him in the ass" she still has the strap on.She's showed it to me, she got a big kick out of degrading him. Recently she has brought up the idea of pegging to me.She even said " I won't use that huge Hooker on you, is get a small new one".. gee.. how thoughtful of her... I am 100% comfortable with my sexuality.I'm not afraid that this would "make me gay", I'm not worried about her telling people. Although it has cross...

Lately, I have changed my mindset during sex from "this position will do this" to "adjust until I get a good reaction." I still have these things in my mind, though. So, when I am having sex with a woman from behind and telling her to move until I am on her spot, I have noticed a trend of them putting their faces down. This is something that I have always seen as something meant for the purpose of making themselves look more attractive, but not necessarily to create more stimulation on the Gspot or the Aspot. Now, I understand that feeling sexy is a big part of sexual desire and satisfaction, but I sort of see that more as a means to an end. So, when my mindset is to please, it is a little confusing when they get into this position. I know we have different positions and styles for how we're built, so I will say that my penis is longer and a little thicker than average and is angled at a somewhat downward angle. I am not very thick, so I all but abandon try...

Obligatory warning can't spell very well English is not my first language, and on mobile so sorry for format. TL DR want to come with my girlfriend giving me a blowjob she wants the same but I just can't do it for some reason am I weird. My gf (23f) is very inexperienced, we been dating for over half a year now. She loves to give me (24m) blow jobs and they feel great but for whatever reason I just can't come. I've only had one of your girlfriend gave me blowjobs and they were terrible I mean they were so bad that I would go flacid from them. When she gives them to me I get hard as a rock and can get as close as 99% of the way there. But just can't get all the way is there something that I can do to help this something that she could do to help this or is it a lost cause? Submitted April 11, 2019 at 06:45AM Obligatory warning can't spell very well English is not my first language, and on mobile so sorry for format. TL DR want to come with my girlfriend gi...

So the idea of hfo (hands-free orgasm) is probably not new to anyone. I've been practicing it for quite a while and just wanted to share some things I observed that happened to me, positive and negative. I see a lot of posts talking about the positives of the experience, but no one ever mentioning side effects. Am I really the only unlucky one? So, after I learned to do this about 6-7 years ago the ability for hfo would come and go and each time it would feel somewhat different. I first have learned to do it through listening to hypnosis files, then just audio files, then visual loops and even vr. Positives: it is amazing and pretty much the best sexual experience that is possible within the realm of existence. It feels like you discovered a cheat code to pleasure. It can feel like heaven, no exaggerating. Your whole existence is wrapped in a warm blanket of guriahs' hands and every cell of your body turns into an orgasm. When it reaches your head your vision turns gold, eve...

Ever have a moment where you realized things were much, much, much more "off" than you realized? I never imagined I'd run into human traffickers online. I'm from the bible belt, ffs. A couple years ago, I was looking for a friend with benefits or hook up with a mature, dominant man (ai, Papi!!!). Casual sex is hard to find when you look like you're possibly a very masculine butch lesbian or a scandalously young gay boy, depending on the angle of the sun. I'm female to male and at this point in my life, newly transitioning, I was discovering what it means to actually have a libido (thank you testosterone injections). I didn't have time to learn how to flirt with (gay? bi? pan?) men while working and going to school full-time. Being autistic, I suck at flirting. Flirting takes a lot of work when you can't intuitively interpret novel forms of nonverbal communication. I tried gay dating apps but I was still too feminine. I went on straight dating apps ...

I’ve been cheated on or rather two of my boyfriends broke boundaries in open relationships. They both confessed to me the next day, and I fucked them immediately after they told me all the details. Like every single detail, what the person looked like, how they fucked, what they let him do, everything from start to finish. It gets me so wet, I just strip them and we fuck hard and raw, cum dripping from me at the end of the session. Am I fucked up ? Submitted April 11, 2019 at 06:53AM I’ve been cheated on or rather two of my boyfriends broke boundaries in open relationships. They both confessed to me the next day, and I fucked them immediately after they told me all the details. Like every single detail, what the person looked like, how they fucked, what they let him do, everything from start to finish. It gets me so wet, I just strip them and we fuck hard and raw, cum dripping from me at the end of the session. Am I fucked up ?

Hey everyone, in about a month I’m going to visit my boyfriend. We’ve been dating for 4 years and have been long distance for about a year and a half. I’ll be there for our 4 year anniversary, so I’m looking for ways I could spice things up on the special occasion. He does still live with his parents as he’s in college, so I can’t really do anything too extravagant. What can I do to make the night extra special?! Submitted April 11, 2019 at 06:55AM Hey everyone, in about a month I’m going to visit my boyfriend. We’ve been dating for 4 years and have been long distance for about a year and a half. I’ll be there for our 4 year anniversary, so I’m looking for ways I could spice things up on the special occasion. He does still live with his parents as he’s in college, so I can’t really do anything too extravagant. What can I do to make the night extra special?!

So basically, my girlfriend and I love each other dearly. She has a 3 year old son who I love as well and we're definitely planning a future together. However, she's recently made some comments to me that have me a little worried. First off, we have a solid relationship. Our sex life is great, and I'm always down to trying new things in the bedroom (toys, positions, role playing, etc.) We talk about our future and she sees us getting married and having kids and all that. Early in our relationship, she had expressed an interest in experimenting with another girl. She's a very curious person, and lives by the motto "anything once". She asked if I'd ever be okay with that, and I was honest and said it would make me uncomfortable, to which she replied "That's okay. It's just a fantasy anyway." She didn't like the idea of me with another girl in a threesome (neither do I), so we just dropped it altogether. Fast forward to now, and she ...

So my partner likes to be dominated during sex. This involves things like tying her up, using toys on her, teasing her, choking, etc. She likes to idea of being my "toy." Since my previous sex partners have mostly been vanilla, I am really not used to this and I feel kinda clumsy and awkward during these acts. Since she also likes to act defensive and sad, I sometimes have a hard time telling if I'm doing something wrong and she really isn't enjoying it. I've asked afterwards and so far she hasn't said I've done something wrong. I've also told her to yell out STOP really loud if things are going too far and she isn't enjoying it. So far it hasn't been used. I guess I want to hear some tips on how to be the dominator and maybe how to boost my confidence during these acts. I want to feel like I'm in control, but so far I am constantly thinking if I'm hurting her too much, is she not enjoying it, etc. Submitted April 11, 2019 at 06...

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Hear me out. My first love didn't really love me, the second one only got into a relationship with me because of a stupid dare and the third keeps me on a leash to benefit from my money and protection from creepy men on the street. None of them ever told me they loved me. No one has apart from my mother. I just honestly have about had it with love. It makes me sick. End of rant. Submitted April 10, 2019 at 07:51AM Hear me out. My first love didn't really love me, the second one only got into a relationship with me because of a stupid dare and the third keeps me on a leash to benefit from my money and protection from creepy men on the street. None of them ever told me they loved me. No one has apart from my mother. I just honestly have about had it with love. It makes me sick. End of rant.

After you left, I started thinking whether you really were good riddance or was it just my ego satisfying me by saying that? Submitted April 10, 2019 at 12:12PM After you left, I started thinking whether you really were good riddance or was it just my ego satisfying me by saying that?

My ex best friend name is cookie I met her 3 years ago the first thing i said to her was" you have beautiful eyes" years later she said she just scarred, I feel in love the first time that I saw, she was the only thing that made me happy, once we and a friend's wore going out and she's going to fall in a hole but I catch her and broke my leg, once she was very sad because all of her friends we're mad at her and she tretened to kill herself so i sprinted to her house and broke the lock with my hands I broke 4 fingers that day, one of them don't close very well, when her grandfather died I spent the night talking with her trought the phone, and made her happy, we had so many beautiful historys, one we got drunk and ruined a birthday party, recently we got mad and don't even know why, we didn't talk for months but one day the teacher told to sit on her side in the classroom, so we became the best again, and life was good I've never loved a girl so mu...

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I’m a 13 yo boy, straight and I live in Switzerland (that’s why my English is so bad). I never experienced love in my life, but I think I just found it. She is short, blonde hair, beautiful body, eyes like emeralds. But the thing I like the most about her, it’s her personality with no doubt. She is my best friend so we talk like with no boundaries about almost everything, our friendship means everything to me. Being stupid as I am I understood how much I loved her, only when she got with her current boyfriend , he is a nice guy and I believe a good lover but it still hits me hard to accept that I’m not my most important person’s most important person. Her smile alone warms my heart, this is not just an attraction. Idk what to do :( Submitted April 10, 2019 at 02:01PM I’m a 13 yo boy, straight and I live in Switzerland (that’s why my English is so bad). I never experienced love in my life, but I think I just found it. She is short, blonde hair, beautiful body, eyes like emeralds....

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I rejected my friend without knowing as I didn't even know that he was trying to imply he likes me. It was only until I thought about it for awhile and discuss it with my other friends that I realise he was implying it. I have been treating him like a friend and I thought he sees me that way too. I'm sorry its just that I have very little experiences and I can be really dense when it comes to this kinda situations. Submitted April 10, 2019 at 04:15PM I rejected my friend without knowing as I didn't even know that he was trying to imply he likes me. It was only until I thought about it for awhile and discuss it with my other friends that I realise he was implying it. I have been treating him like a friend and I thought he sees me that way too. I'm sorry its just that I have very little experiences and I can be really dense when it comes to this kinda situations.

I fell in love with this girl at my school and it's complicated. There's not a thing I don't love about her she's so pretty and I love everything about her and I can't stress that enough. When I'm alone at night I think of you and more in love I fall. I see her walking by and I want to tell her that I love her but there's no point. I listen to songs that make me dream of what her love must be like. I genuinely love her she might not be the best looking girl but she's my type. I love her, oh God. I swear my love for you is like an endless poem. But only at night is when I can dream about you, where I can praise you. Submitted April 10, 2019 at 06:34PM I fell in love with this girl at my school and it's complicated. There's not a thing I don't love about her she's so pretty and I love everything about her and I can't stress that enough. When I'm alone at night I think of you and more in love I fall. I see her walking by and I...

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I’m a senior, the last time I had a crush was freshman year. I haven’t had a crush on anybody in like forever. (I’m completely over my freshman year crush) I feel like all my friends either have relationships or crushes they admire. Then I’m there, not interested in anyone as a crush or romantically; I can’t help put feel that there’s something wrong. This is ranting and curious to know if anyone else felt this way Submitted April 10, 2019 at 09:59PM I’m a senior, the last time I had a crush was freshman year. I haven’t had a crush on anybody in like forever. (I’m completely over my freshman year crush) I feel like all my friends either have relationships or crushes they admire. Then I’m there, not interested in anyone as a crush or romantically; I can’t help put feel that there’s something wrong. This is ranting and curious to know if anyone else felt this way

Hey So as to begin I’m a student and few days ago I paying attention in one of the lectures and the lecturer looked at me straight in the eye in the middle of the lecture for about 6 seconds and I didn’t blink or look away it was really weird then he just carried on the lecture The next day he was talking eye contacted me again but this time I looked down and couldn’t hold it. I felt embarrassed.. he didn’t do it since then he asked me twice about my name as if he didnt know although I’m sure he knows it Does anyone have any explanation for it? Is it attraction or Sth or I’m just over reacting? Submitted April 10, 2019 at 11:17PM Hey So as to begin I’m a student and few days ago I paying attention in one of the lectures and the lecturer looked at me straight in the eye in the middle of the lecture for about 6 seconds and I didn’t blink or look away it was really weird then he just carried on the lectureThe next day he was talking eye contacted me again but this time I looked d...

Have you ever been in love but felt as though neither of you could be togther? Friends want you to stay with your ex your family doesn't approve etc? I'm there rn need consulting :( Submitted April 11, 2019 at 01:09AM Have you ever been in love but felt as though neither of you could be togther? Friends want you to stay with your ex your family doesn't approve etc? I'm there rn need consulting :(

I'm having what is pretty much a 3 day romance. We pretty much knew by the 2nd day that we loved each other. It's been a week since meeting him on Bumble, We have so much in common, it's scary. He is practically my soul mate. I spent my life hating the idea that people cant fall in love and it needs time. I'm a believer, feels like I've known him for years Submitted April 11, 2019 at 02:15AM I'm having what is pretty much a 3 day romance. We pretty much knew by the 2nd day that we loved each other. It's been a week since meeting him on Bumble, We have so much in common, it's scary. He is practically my soul mate.I spent my life hating the idea that people cant fall in love and it needs time. I'm a believer, feels like I've known him for years

I met a girl around November, we slowly started to fall into something new. It was something different than what I experienced times before. I didn’t notice for months how happy and comfortable I was with her. Things I struggled with slowly started to disappear and things I worried about just faded away. I hadn’t even noticed until I just thought about myself up to this point. Submitted April 11, 2019 at 03:00AM I met a girl around November, we slowly started to fall into something new. It was something different than what I experienced times before. I didn’t notice for months how happy and comfortable I was with her. Things I struggled with slowly started to disappear and things I worried about just faded away. I hadn’t even noticed until I just thought about myself up to this point.

We’ve not talked that much. Hell, we’ve only said about 80 words to each other. But after a couple months of observing you, I’ve fallen in love. You’re so smart and handsome. You don’t care how others perceive you, you don’t care about fitting in. People talk about how smart you are all the time, even when you’re not in the class. Talking about how smart you are. Doesn’t help with me trying not to like you so much. I know you probably just recognize as that weird bipolar girl whom you have a couple classes with and had that weird friend who watched you play chess that one morning. But I’m sorry, the short morning we spent together was enough to reel me in for good. You smiled at me. You talked to me. You looked at me. After months of silently watching you, it all became real and I was ecstatic. Even more so than the time we almost bumped into each other when you popped out of a random door in the hallway, talk about me being cheesy. I keep saying it’s “fate” how of all people you almo...

We have been texting back and forth for 3 months now. I asked her out after a month and a half of texting but she didn't replied me back. But we kept on the texting as if nothing happened. We didn't revisited the topic. After several days, she shared with me about her previous love life, a guy cheated on her and it was devastating and still recovering from that memory. I realized why she was emotionally unavailable so decided to support her by sharing my experience with the heart breaks. I helped her with no strings attached because I liked her. She liked it, too and she also confessed that she doesn't think about the past more often because of me. And we also started flirting back and forth but in actual she was testing me to see if I had any ulterior motives behind me but I ignored it. I was literally putting on so much effort and my time on her even though my intentions were pure, I understand why she wouldn't trust me and would trust me and I respect that. Until...

Hey. It's Me. I wrote you a poem some time ago. About how there's this man. Here's another for you. It's Me. I'm trying to be patient. I'm jumpy with the anticipation That you are coming back to me. Coming home. You're so far away. But I still feel you in my heart. Every night I dream of you. That you're walking though the door. Or that I'm waking up beside you. It feels SO real. And then I wake. And then you're not walking through the door. And then you're not laying beside me. And then I'm back in reality. You are doing your job. I know you are being as safe as you can. Sometimes you cannot tell me where you are. I accept that and I wait. I wait for the email. The one that says you get to come home early. I wait. I wait for the rare call, The call you make when you get even the Smallest bar of cell service. Wherever you are. I hear your voice on the line From across the world. The most comforting sound I know. And I know everything wil...

I've been dating this girl for 35-40 weeks now and I genuinely feel like I love her should I tell her over text or face to face? Submitted April 11, 2019 at 05:39AM I've been dating this girl for 35-40 weeks now and I genuinely feel like I love her should I tell her over text or face to face?

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I am back on the dating scene after years. The last time I was in 20s so I imagine things have changed. Obviously I decide who I would like to have sex with way sooner than who I want to be in a relationship with. Lets say I'm on a great first date and I really want to have sex but I don't know if this will change the dynamic of him thinking we could potentially date. I wouldn't know him enough to know if I wanted to date him but I wouldn't want to sabotage a potential future. How do you balance that? Submitted April 10, 2019 at 03:39PM I am back on the dating scene after years. The last time I was in 20s so I imagine things have changed.Obviously I decide who I would like to have sex with way sooner than who I want to be in a relationship with. Lets say I'm on a great first date and I really want to have sex but I don't know if this will change the dynamic of him thinking we could potentially date. I wouldn't know him enough to know if I wanted to d...

Anyone with any experience? Kind of like an "almost relationship? Someone you may have went out with on a couple of dates and suddenly just fizzled out or lost interest? ​ Been recently thinking about a girl I went out on a couple dates with a couple months back. Thinking about reconnecting and reaching out, but don't know if I should since she was the one that ended things. ​ If I were to reach out let's say, any advice on how to go about it? Submitted April 10, 2019 at 03:41PM Anyone with any experience? Kind of like an "almost relationship? Someone you may have went out with on a couple of dates and suddenly just fizzled out or lost interest?​Been recently thinking about a girl I went out on a couple dates with a couple months back. Thinking about reconnecting and reaching out, but don't know if I should since she was the one that ended things.​If I were to reach out let's say, any advice on how to go about it?

We all know that at least 90% of men who disappear or ghost on us come back at some point. They come they go they come back. However, every time I let them back in; Poof! They’re gone again. I don’t know if this is the same for men with women I can only speak from my own experiences and basically I always regret even responding to them. Anyone ever had a happy ending with a reappearing man (or girl)? Submitted April 10, 2019 at 04:23PM We all know that at least 90% of men who disappear or ghost on us come back at some point. They come they go they come back. However, every time I let them back in; Poof! They’re gone again. I don’t know if this is the same for men with women I can only speak from my own experiences and basically I always regret even responding to them.Anyone ever had a happy ending with a reappearing man (or girl)?

Went out with a guy from OLD, we happen to live about a block from each other so we met on the corner and walked to an area with bars and restaurants. I could immediately tell he was super nervous, like talking about how he changed three times and how his hair is usually shorter, etc. I’m a really easy person to go on a first date with so I knew it would be fine and we had a fun evening. Then he kind of guided us back to his place – which didn’t seem too sketch because we have mutual friends and mutual former co-workers. Plus home hangs are just more my vibe, hooking up didn’t cross my mind which admittedly is naive. We hung out and he drank a lot – I don’t know if that’s what he does or if it was still nerves? I don’t know, but he proceeds to tell me that he was thinking I was going to sleep with him! Clearly realizing that was not going to happen. Then I left, he didn’t walk me home which I thought was kind of weird too. I figured he just didn’t get what he wanted and I was getting ...

38 and struck out dating entire life, looking for any suggestions to start Submitted April 10, 2019 at 04:40PM 38 and struck out dating entire life, looking for any suggestions to start

TLDR at the bottom. Background: At the end of January, I got on OLD for the first time. I hadn't dated for nearly a year. Before that it was a fling with someone I re-met IRL from high school days which would was never going to be a LTR thing. Before that it was mostly random little things over the years. I haven't had an LTR/SO in over five years. And that failed because it turned long distance and communication struggles. It's been so long I had forgotten... Story: the third guy I met from OLD was super sweet, busy with work, newly moved to my area... We dated casually for just over two months. We saw each other once or twice a week. At first it was dinners, walks, and out for beers. Slow and good. We did travel one weekend together but other than that I only stayed over once at his place. We both kept up with our own lives in and around seeing each other. Sometimes I could tell he liked me. Other times I questioned. I told him he didn't need to rush into a relat...