Pegging, general relationship sex advice

So I have been with this girl for a while now.I actually felt really bad. I had broken up with her over some dumb shit. I made a post about it a while back. It's kind of irrelevant. She makes me happier than any girl I've ever been with. I love how sexual and open she is. I would say we ha e a great sex life. But recently she has brought up pegging. Her ex husband was bisexual, and he absolutely loved it. He was sort of an asshole to her, so she 100 percent enjoyed it and loved dishing out her hate for him by "slamming him in the ass" she still has the strap on.She's showed it to me, she got a big kick out of degrading him. Recently she has brought up the idea of pegging to me.She even said " I won't use that huge Hooker on you, is get a small new one".. gee.. how thoughtful of her... I am 100% comfortable with my sexuality.I'm not afraid that this would "make me gay", I'm not worried about her telling people. Although it has crossed my mind, that maybe she's upset with me (we had a short breakup) and she is doing this out of revenge. I'm not completely worried about this, I don't think she wants to do it to "hate fuck me" like she did with her ex. But it has crossed my mind- because of that break up we had.. She hadn't brought it up until a week or so after we got back together. So that kind of concerned me.. I just feel like she is wanting to go 0-100 real quick. I've had my ass eaten, once before, it wasn't my cup of tea.. But I had the runs earlier that day, and I know I wasn't completely clean down there. So I'm thinking because I was worried about not being clean, it held me back from enjoying it. I'm open to be rimmed again. When she brought it up, I was hesitant. Actually that's an understatement. I was 100% against it. But she's been persistent about it. Brought it up several times. I've suggested maybe a finger first, work our way into it. When I do ass play on her, I always lube up, sometimes I eat her ass first. But before my dick goes in, I always get it nice and lubed and start with one finger, I go slow. Once I get two in and work it for a few minutes then I fuck her ass. And she LOVES it, she's one of those girls. We slap a dildo in her pussy and I fuck her ass. She comes so hard, and gets all sweaty. But like I said "the pegging" topic has recently come up. It usually comes up while I'm fucking her ass. She says "God, after I come, can I fuck your ass please" and I turn her down. Any advice? I like her slit. And I want to make her happy. I just. I don't know. Any advice please?

Submitted April 11, 2019 at 06:28AM

So I have been with this girl for a while now.I actually felt really bad. I had broken up with her over some dumb shit. I made a post about it a while back. It's kind of irrelevant. She makes me happier than any girl I've ever been with. I love how sexual and open she is. I would say we ha e a great sex life. But recently she has brought up pegging. Her ex husband was bisexual, and he absolutely loved it. He was sort of an asshole to her, so she 100 percent enjoyed it and loved dishing out her hate for him by "slamming him in the ass" she still has the strap on.She's showed it to me, she got a big kick out of degrading him. Recently she has brought up the idea of pegging to me.She even said " I won't use that huge Hooker on you, is get a small new one".. gee.. how thoughtful of her... I am 100% comfortable with my sexuality.I'm not afraid that this would "make me gay", I'm not worried about her telling people. Although it has crossed my mind, that maybe she's upset with me (we had a short breakup) and she is doing this out of revenge. I'm not completely worried about this, I don't think she wants to do it to "hate fuck me" like she did with her ex. But it has crossed my mind- because of that break up we had.. She hadn't brought it up until a week or so after we got back together. So that kind of concerned me.. I just feel like she is wanting to go 0-100 real quick. I've had my ass eaten, once before, it wasn't my cup of tea.. But I had the runs earlier that day, and I know I wasn't completely clean down there. So I'm thinking because I was worried about not being clean, it held me back from enjoying it. I'm open to be rimmed again. When she brought it up, I was hesitant. Actually that's an understatement. I was 100% against it. But she's been persistent about it. Brought it up several times. I've suggested maybe a finger first, work our way into it. When I do ass play on her, I always lube up, sometimes I eat her ass first. But before my dick goes in, I always get it nice and lubed and start with one finger, I go slow. Once I get two in and work it for a few minutes then I fuck her ass. And she LOVES it, she's one of those girls. We slap a dildo in her pussy and I fuck her ass. She comes so hard, and gets all sweaty. But like I said "the pegging" topic has recently come up. It usually comes up while I'm fucking her ass. She says "God, after I come, can I fuck your ass please" and I turn her down. Any advice? I like her slit. And I want to make her happy. I just. I don't know. Any advice please?