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/u/Loving-intellectual on Tired AroAce

Same January 12, 2022 at 12:44AM

/u/Fictional_or_True on hi fellow ace people

Not the best. Behind on schoolwork and may or may not be failing driving tests. But other than that, I’m doing well! January 12, 2022 at 12:42AM

/u/emptybeerb0ttle on How do you pronounce the word "Asexual"?

Ay- in english, ah- in my language (estonian) January 12, 2022 at 12:38AM

/u/caffinatedgoblin on Tired AroAce

r/traaaaaaacccccccce r/traaaaaaarrrrrrrroace r/traaaaaaarrrrrrrro are all subreddits you might like January 12, 2022 at 12:35AM

/u/endertribe on I got sexualised (?)

Have you considered your friend and kind of twat? Maybe a bit of a bellend? January 12, 2022 at 12:34AM

/u/Demigxd13 on So apparently you all aren’t “fully human” what’s that like?

nice January 12, 2022 at 12:33AM

/u/Rich_Sympathy_9453 on Help! I'm not horny!

I’m not horny either if it makes you feel better :/ January 12, 2022 at 12:33AM

Date got covid. I'm worried she's in the hospital but..

We've been talking for about a month. Its been slow as far as dates. Weve only gone out twice cause schedules and some shit thats come up on both our ends. So needless to say we aren't super close yet. She tested positive for covid the other day and her whole family has it too. I have her tinder so I checked it earlier and she's been 6 miles away all day instead of 3 and she's not at work and she doesn't drive and ger friends live about an hour away. So she's not with them. Im worried she's in the hospital but I don't want to ask her if she is cause I don't want to come off creep or like I care about her too much already and scare her off. We haven't had the talk beyond voicing our intentions and joking lightly about a future togrther. I could love her. I know that. But idk how she feels. She's very guarded for some personal reasons. Mostly due to her fucked up family. So I've been patient in connecting with her. Would it be weird to a...

/u/Johnylongbottoms on What are some stupid things you thought before you realized you were asexual?

I thought that because I didn’t want to date or have sex with any of the girls I had ever met, that meant I didn’t think they were pretty. I was convinced that I had somehow developed really high standards and was very misogynistic January 12, 2022 at 12:32AM

/u/Incardna on Poll on variorientation.

A world where people don't need a 45 minute PowerPoint presentation to understand the nuances of being ace sounds great. January 12, 2022 at 12:32AM

/u/KittenMaster9 on I made an asexual pickle and was told Reddit would like it, so what's everyone opinions on it?

one day it will arrive January 12, 2022 at 12:31AM

/u/yanalla on i finally gave myself my dream haircut

Omg you are stunning!!!! I've always liked this hairstyle, might get one someday myself, thanks for being your authentic self and for the inspiration! January 12, 2022 at 12:30AM

/u/SettleDown_Beavis on What are some stupid things you thought before you realized you were asexual?

At one point in time, like, my pre-teen years, I didn't realize that people would have sex for any reason other than to have kids/reproduce. Just didn't fathom having sex just because. I thought if I told people I didn't want kids, that it was self-explanatory. Alas, no. January 12, 2022 at 12:28AM

/u/footthrowaway195 on What are some stupid things you thought before you realized you were asexual?

Couldn’t tell you January 12, 2022 at 12:28AM

What advice do you read here that doesn’t seem to be true in real life?

For me it’s not having a social media following, some men expect me to be an influencer or something because I’m into makeup and stuff and when I say I don’t really use it and have like 200 followers they don’t even try and add me, what about you? Submitted January 11, 2022 at 11:52PM For me it’s not having a social media following, some men expect me to be an influencer or something because I’m into makeup and stuff and when I say I don’t really use it and have like 200 followers they don’t even try and add me, what about you?

Need advice

So me (21 m) and and my girlfriend (20 F) had sex on a week after her last period in early December. She has a Skyla IUD, I always wear a condom and pull out because we simply don’t want kids right now. We don’t have intercourse that often anyways. She is a week and half past her period. She’s been over two weeks late in the last but just was wondering what are the odds of her being pregnant and should we consider getting a test now or wait? We’ve been dating for three years and had the same contraceptive plan the whole time and it’s seemed to work. Let me know what you guys think. Just kinda tired worried and I don’t know if I should be or not. Submitted January 11, 2022 at 11:58PM So me (21 m) and and my girlfriend (20 F) had sex on a week after her last period in early December. She has a Skyla IUD, I always wear a condom and pull out because we simply don’t want kids right now. We don’t have intercourse that often anyways. She is a week and half past her period. She’s been o...

Looking to get into online dating. Critique this, I know it's alot but help me boil it down or build it up. Thank you

Not looking for a relationship, just trying to connect and make some friends. The world is too serious let's be silly. Meet me at the Kokomo 🌟 Hobbies- jiu-jitsu, trying to cook, animes, family owned restaurants, podcasts, YouTube shows, learning a new skill like ice skating Music- Imagine Dragons, Kendrick Lamar, Fall Out Boy, Tech N9ne, Awolnation, Matt and Kim, Joyner Lucas, Submitted January 12, 2022 at 12:00AM Not looking for a relationship, just trying to connect and make some friends. The world is too serious let's be silly. Meet me at the Kokomo 🌟Hobbies- jiu-jitsu, trying to cook, animes, family owned restaurants, podcasts, YouTube shows, learning a new skill like ice skatingMusic- Imagine Dragons, Kendrick Lamar, Fall Out Boy, Tech N9ne, Awolnation, Matt and Kim, Joyner Lucas,

I caught my [18F] boyfriend [21M] looking at an onlyfans subscription..

I immediately became upset. As a small girl with small boobs, I got very insecure. She had giant boobs, a big butt and I compared myself to her. I know he wanted to get off and he was quick to reassure me that it was only porn. She didn’t show her face or anything but it still hurts me. It’s been months later and I still obsessively think about this. We’ve been happily together for two years and this instance has made me so insecure about myself and my relationship. I cry once a day about it (at least) and it makes it extremely hard to leave the house knowing he might be looking at other women. Is there something wrong with me? Our sex life is amazing. Why does he need other women? I feel like every guy I’ve been with has cheated on me and I believe it’s just bound to happen at this point. What am I doing wrong? Please help me. Tl;dr I caught my bf looking at some girls onlyfans behind my back. I just want my relationship to go back to normal. We were happy before this. Submitted...

Learning why dating strangers is better than from within established social circles

So, for the last month or so I've (40) been hanging out one-on-one with this woman (35) from a social group that I've been spending time with for the last year. I really like this group of people, but of course due to covid the whole "getting together and getting to know you" has been a slow process. At the end of November I started spending time with one woman, and so far it seems like we're having fun. We laugh a lot, we both spend time texting each other with both of us initiating. A couple days ago I let it be known via text that I like her and really want to spend more time with her. She hasn't responded. Now, my anxiety over my entire place in the group is at an all time high. I'm so worried that my advances weren't welcome and that she has started slamming me to the rest of the group. She's more of a core member, more outgoing than me and more assertive while I don't really post or get involved because I get busy and don't have a ...

I'm going on my first date at 26 any tips?

So I 26M am a registered nurse, I'm going on my first date with an MD from work (26F) I thought I'd never date anyone from work let alone a junior doctor, but I like her a lot, and she said she likes me too so I thought I'd give it a shot. There are many reasons I've never dated which I won't explain here or I'll have to talk about my entire life's story but I had a difficult life, and now It's easier and I have way more time to date. I know It might sound like I'm being low value or whatever, but I want her to like me lol, and I don't wanna screw up Submitted January 12, 2022 at 12:14AM So I 26M am a registered nurse, I'm going on my first date with an MD from work (26F) I thought I'd never date anyone from work let alone a junior doctor, but I like her a lot, and she said she likes me too so I thought I'd give it a shot. There are many reasons I've never dated which I won't explain here or I'll have to talk about ...