Date got covid. I'm worried she's in the hospital but..

We've been talking for about a month. Its been slow as far as dates. Weve only gone out twice cause schedules and some shit thats come up on both our ends. So needless to say we aren't super close yet. She tested positive for covid the other day and her whole family has it too. I have her tinder so I checked it earlier and she's been 6 miles away all day instead of 3 and she's not at work and she doesn't drive and ger friends live about an hour away. So she's not with them.

Im worried she's in the hospital but I don't want to ask her if she is cause I don't want to come off creep or like I care about her too much already and scare her off. We haven't had the talk beyond voicing our intentions and joking lightly about a future togrther. I could love her. I know that. But idk how she feels. She's very guarded for some personal reasons. Mostly due to her fucked up family. So I've been patient in connecting with her.

Would it be weird to ask if she's ok? She always replies rather quickly and if it's not quick she always has a reason. I asked her how long she has to quarantine cause she told me she feels fine the other day and im curious when roughly i can see her again. Now I'm worried she's in the hospital cause she hasn't responded or sent me any tiktoks or pictures all day.

I just feel weird cause the only reason I think she's in the hospital is cause of her tinder location. I'm not a creep and I don't want to seem like one. Is that creepy tho? I'm just worried about her. Idk. Help.

I suppose if I have to ask if i should ask I probably shouldn't ask but It's my personality to check up if I'm worried. So this definatly a me thing to do. I just don't feel like it's warranted for whatever reason. I feel like she doesn't want me to care about her yet but I do. She has such a rough medical/family/social/drama life and she came out so sweet and idk how. It's why I like her so much.



Submitted January 12, 2022 at 01:16AM

We've been talking for about a month. Its been slow as far as dates. Weve only gone out twice cause schedules and some shit thats come up on both our ends. So needless to say we aren't super close yet. She tested positive for covid the other day and her whole family has it too. I have her tinder so I checked it earlier and she's been 6 miles away all day instead of 3 and she's not at work and she doesn't drive and ger friends live about an hour away. So she's not with them.Im worried she's in the hospital but I don't want to ask her if she is cause I don't want to come off creep or like I care about her too much already and scare her off. We haven't had the talk beyond voicing our intentions and joking lightly about a future togrther. I could love her. I know that. But idk how she feels. She's very guarded for some personal reasons. Mostly due to her fucked up family. So I've been patient in connecting with her.Would it be weird to ask if she's ok? She always replies rather quickly and if it's not quick she always has a reason. I asked her how long she has to quarantine cause she told me she feels fine the other day and im curious when roughly i can see her again. Now I'm worried she's in the hospital cause she hasn't responded or sent me any tiktoks or pictures all day.I just feel weird cause the only reason I think she's in the hospital is cause of her tinder location. I'm not a creep and I don't want to seem like one. Is that creepy tho? I'm just worried about her. Idk. Help.I suppose if I have to ask if i should ask I probably shouldn't ask but It's my personality to check up if I'm worried. So this definatly a me thing to do. I just don't feel like it's warranted for whatever reason. I feel like she doesn't want me to care about her yet but I do. She has such a rough medical/family/social/drama life and she came out so sweet and idk how. It's why I like her so much.
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