I'm a 22F, I have never been on a date in my life. I want to finally start putting myself out there and hopefully going on some. Anyway, from what seems to be the general consensus, guys expect sex pretty soon into dating...like date two or three? I've never been on BC for sadly obvious reasons, lol. The idea of 'the pill' makes me nervous. I know IUD is most effective but I'm very squeamish about medical procedures and the process for those sounds awful, so I guess the pill is my best bet. Obviously, I don't want to get pregnant, but the side effects of the pill just sound so dangerous... plus, not knowing which one I'd react well too, etc. So, I guess I have a few questions... Do most girls go on BC specifically before they start dating? Don't you have to be on it for a month for it to work, so should I be factoring that in? Do guys really hate condoms that much? And are they really that prone to ripping/failing? I feel so out of my element about...

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I first hooked up with my fwb in high school. I was 16 he was 18. We've hooked up on and off for eight years. At 18, I asked for more, but he made it clear he only wanted sex. I'm 23 now he is 26 We both agreed that if one of us started seeing someone else, we would tell each other, or if one of us was no longer into the FWB situation we would tell each other. He’s very respectful (or was) about this. So all this started in April. I went there last Friday (July 27) and we hooked up and as per usual I left right after. Normally we hook up minimum 2-3x a week plus a lot of sexting. It’s also normal for the texting to slow over the weekend but pick back up literally 7 AM Monday. Well the Monday came and nothing. Tuesday and nothing. Finally I messaged him Wednesday and asked if I could come by for a D session. His reply was “can’t. Busy.” If he’s busy he normally would go off on what he’s busy about. So I said “Oh ok. Haven’t heard from you in a bit. Are you still interested in ...

I thought I was in an impossible position, but now it's clear. I thought I will mever get out of the following aspect and was desperately giving everything a try. But I realized it's not the way. You can't expect a relationship with fun trips, mutual respect and other nice shit from an idiot who randomly adds you and thinks you will fall for his "18 centimetres". Lmao, I'm open for a relationship and would like to have a boyfriend, but one with an actual personality and someone I can actually build on. But I'd rather wanna die single than dating a desperate pervert, lmao. I don't know if I will ever meet someone, but hey I'm an open and easy person, but I have self respect and I hope some folks will learn it as well. Submitted April 10, 2021 at 11:56PM I thought I was in an impossible position, but now it's clear.I thought I will mever get out of the following aspect and was desperately giving everything a try. But I realized it's ...

In most cases, they are born that way. In no cases, there's a choice involved. See my other reply here. April 11, 2021 at 12:04AM

it’s something you’re born with. In most cases. But, it never is a choice. Sexuality is linked to the brain, and the brain is susceptible to structural and chemical changes, and thus sexuality could change, but changes aren't a choice regardless. People do go blind, or end up with heavily altered personality, or become savage in something, etc due to brain changes, and sexuality is no different. April 11, 2021 at 12:03AM

Well, double-yikes, then. Everything about my insight stands, plus that. 🤷🏽‍♀️ An adult needs to set boundaries with a minor, when it comes to infatuations. Adults also shouldn’t be venting about their sexuality/romantic lives to minors. Minors aren’t known for their stellar relationship advice or keen sense of sexual awareness. April 11, 2021 at 12:02AM

Her friend is being visibly frustrated by her ambivalence for (intimate relationship) casual sex and that’s entirely valid. Actually, in the context of this storyline, the brunette is (also) frustrated because the blonde is currently underage (this conversation happens right before her sweet 16 party), and the brunette is straight. April 11, 2021 at 12:01AM

This looks like a typical sort of marriage guidance book you'd find in a Christian bookstore. My ex-wife was raised Evangelical and I tried being that way myself for her sake (I was raised in the Episcopal Church and have since gone back to it). I remember more than one occasion where she got upset because I didn't want sex as much as the marriage book said I would, and she thought she was failing as a "good Christian wife" because she hadn't had enough chances to not refuse me. April 10, 2021 at 11:56PM

Btw wanting and enthusiastically wanting are not the same, but is liking something that I do not dislike for any reasons enthusiastically wanting, or could it not be wanting at all? April 10, 2021 at 11:55PM

I 100% agree April 10, 2021 at 11:51PM

This. April 10, 2021 at 11:51PM

And why are the ingredients all unspecified amounts except the butter? sugar WHAT April 10, 2021 at 11:44PM

If you think Asexual fits your experiences, and it's a term you want to use, then your Asexual as far as I'm concerned. Some Aces still like having sex with people, even if they don't particularly care if they do end up having sex, and that's perfectly fine and valid. April 10, 2021 at 11:38PM

That's....definitely not normal behavior. And even if you know the person well, exposing your genitals to someone without consent is not okay. I am not a guy, but I do have quite a few guy friends and I have never heard any of them talk about this sort of thing. April 10, 2021 at 11:37PM

2 sticks. April 10, 2021 at 11:35PM

Okay. If I am indifferent in terms of wanting, but I like sex with a woman more than masturbation because she is physically attractive, am I asexual then? April 10, 2021 at 11:34PM

Wanting and liking are not the same, sometimes I want broccoli because I know it's healthy but I don't like it. There is a term called Sex ambivalent that you can use, it's basically a term that refers to anything that doesn't fit in sex repulsed, sex adverse, sex indifferent or sex positive. https://lgbta.wikia.org/wiki/Sex-ambivalent April 10, 2021 at 11:29PM

Another step towards world domination or cake April 10, 2021 at 11:28PM

oh, we have that in finland as well! it's called elämänkatsomustieto here, basically translating to "life stance education", it's also offered as an alternative to lutheran religious studies classes and it covers similar things: philosophy, different religious and non-religious belief systems and ideologies, cogitive biases and critical thinking etc. etc. i fully agree with you, it's probably the most important class to take for anyone wanting to be an active and informed citizen in society. too bad it's not mandatory here and only a few people take it (mainly bc people belonging to religious organizations are put into religious studies groups of their own religion), i hope that will change in the coming years :) April 10, 2021 at 11:25PM

Horrible. Not that it really matters but I would be curious when this was written/published. I mean it mentions Larry King so it wasn't THAT long ago. April 10, 2021 at 11:22PM

Your nails! 10/10 April 10, 2021 at 11:15PM

No lol its fine I kinda give off that vibe online- April 10, 2021 at 11:09PM