Ok yall I feel like I'm going crazy. So long story short my boyfriend and I got into a fight that I didn't think was that serious but now that some new information came to light I think I am being cheated on.but I need a second opinion please. So we had 1 beer each in late at my house (he lives with me) on 12/1. He informs me that while we are drinking that his female coworker hugged him (one that prior said he had a fat butt etc). So I asked him why he let her hug him? He blew up at me saying he didn't blah blah blah but they hugged. He then starts grabbing all his clothes says he'll get a hotel or go stay with his grandma. So he starts a deletion and blocking process of me whatever no big deal. He just keeps an attitude until the 3rd he says he wants to come back all that he is done fighting (I was ready to move on) but whatever. So he comes back on 12/3 brings all his stuff with him and claims he got into a fight with family and thats why he got scratches on him. He...

(20m) There is this girl I used to work with (22f), and she is beautiful in every single way. I like the way she speaks, her body language, she is funny, and she is good. We haven't worked together for a good time and saw each other at a party for the first time in 8 months, then the first thing she does is call me by my name and says "my favorite coworker! How are you?" In a loud tone, and hugs me clearly cutting in half the conversation she was having before. It surprised me a lot since I had a crush on her, but throughout the party I sat down and remember most of the interactions we had and then thought of the miniscule possibilty that she was trying to hit on me. So here's why I'm dumb: I didn't talk with her in the entire time we were there!🤡 I felt embarrassed at myself so I texted her the next day and we catched up. We've been talking for the last few days, and I'm not sure if I should ask her directly "hey, do you like me?" What ...

Hey gang, I am M(29) and I have been talking to F(30) for 2 months and been seeing her for more than a month now. As you know, Christmas is coming up, so I thought about buying her a small gift like a candle (I didn't tell her). So, I asked her if I could get her a gift for Christmas, but she told me: "Appreciate the thought, but I don't want you spending money. :)" Does this mean she is no longer want to see me, because she doesn't want to be indebted or feel like she has to reciprocate? Submitted December 06, 2021 at 01:11AM Hey gang,I am M(29) and I have been talking to F(30) for 2 months and been seeing her for more than a month now.As you know, Christmas is coming up, so I thought about buying her a small gift like a candle (I didn't tell her).So, I asked her if I could get her a gift for Christmas, but she told me: "Appreciate the thought, but I don't want you spending money. :)"Does this mean she is no longer want to see me, bec...

Kind of. I created the profile back before the pandemic and recently logged back in for the first time. A guy had messaged me and I messaged back because he said something funny. The only problem is that I gained a SIGNIFICANT amount of weight, but I've been working hard to actively lose it (like 40lbs down in a few months) and get my weight back down. We've been talking for a few weeks and he seems really sweet, but I feel like i've missed my window to disclose it. I'm not sure what to do about it. Submitted December 06, 2021 at 01:13AM Kind of. I created the profile back before the pandemic and recently logged back in for the first time. A guy had messaged me and I messaged back because he said something funny. The only problem is that I gained a SIGNIFICANT amount of weight, but I've been working hard to actively lose it (like 40lbs down in a few months) and get my weight back down. We've been talking for a few weeks and he seems really sweet, but I fe...

I'm a University student and I just turned 22 years old. My biggest passion is the card game bridge, and I recently started playing at my local bridge club. I'm the youngest person there by a reasonable amount. The first time I went, I played against this guy who is 44 years old. We chatted after the session and I felt like we had a bit of a spark. That was about two months ago, and since then I've been hoping to see him again at the bridge club but he hasn't been at any sessions. Some of the other players mentioned him occasionally and alluded to him being very busy. Then last week, I attended a social gathering hosted by the club and I was really excited to see he was also there. I had a blast chatting to him and was even gearing up to ask if I could buy him a drink (there was a bar at the event). Before I could ask, he told me he couldn't stay at the event long and was leaving soon. I still had a nice time talking to him, and before he left I told him to let ...

A very attractive individual asked if we could have sex and I said i couldn’t, then they asked to exchange nudes and I also said I couldn’t. I really like how this person looks and I wanted to go out with them but they just want sex and it made me feel unease the idea of sex with a stranger. I told that person “I’m really afraid of having sex with someone it’s not personal”. Submitted December 06, 2021 at 12:26AM A very attractive individual asked if we could have sex and I said i couldn’t, then they asked to exchange nudes and I also said I couldn’t. I really like how this person looks and I wanted to go out with them but they just want sex and it made me feel unease the idea of sex with a stranger. I told that person “I’m really afraid of having sex with someone it’s not personal”.

Me(27m) an my partner (24f) started having sex 5 months back. Both of us are very into it and are trying to explore each other. The issue is she doesn't feel anything during p2v sex. I get her to orgasm everyday by fingering her or by going down on her. She enjoys it very much too. I can even make her squirt by fingering her. But p2v, i feel that she is just enduring for me. Both of us are new to sex. I have read that very less women are able to orgasm through p2v sex. Is that true?? Am i doing something wrong?? Submitted December 06, 2021 at 12:31AM Me(27m) an my partner (24f) started having sex 5 months back. Both of us are very into it and are trying to explore each other.The issue is she doesn't feel anything during p2v sex. I get her to orgasm everyday by fingering her or by going down on her. She enjoys it very much too. I can even make her squirt by fingering her. But p2v, i feel that she is just enduring for me.Both of us are new to sex. I have read that very l...

My (26M) partner (26F) and I had oral sex only for a year when we met, so it’s something we really love and spent a lot of time on before sex. Our sessions typically start with making out and fingering, and then she’ll give me a blowjob until I’m pretty close to cumming. She’s usually very wet after blowing me so then I go down on her until she cums. I love doing this because she orgasms before we get to penetrative sex and it takes a lot of pressure off me. The problem is, I typically go soft while I’m eating her pussy which I hear is very typical (takes about 15-20 minutes for her to cum), but once she comes we move right into penetration and I usually have to jerk myself off to get hard again for sex. I usually get hard pretty quick but it still feels kind of awkward while she’s watching me get hard, maybe I’m overthinking it? Submitted December 06, 2021 at 12:34AM My (26M) partner (26F) and I had oral sex only for a year when we met, so it’s something we really love and spen...

Or does it just make it more fun? I’m a girl and don’t watch it much and am curious the main reason why guys do Submitted December 06, 2021 at 12:47AM Or does it just make it more fun? I’m a girl and don’t watch it much and am curious the main reason why guys do

I’ve recently come to terms with the fact I am bisexual, so recent that I haven’t came out to anyone yet. I’ve had sex with women in the past but I really want to have sex with a man, the only issue is I don’t know how to initiate things. Because I haven’t come out I don’t want to ‘out’ myself using apps like Grindr, and also I just don’t know how to flirt with guys to get to a point where he’s ripping my clothes off lol. Any advice is appreciated x Submitted December 06, 2021 at 12:53AM I’ve recently come to terms with the fact I am bisexual, so recent that I haven’t came out to anyone yet.I’ve had sex with women in the past but I really want to have sex with a man, the only issue is I don’t know how to initiate things.Because I haven’t come out I don’t want to ‘out’ myself using apps like Grindr, and also I just don’t know how to flirt with guys to get to a point where he’s ripping my clothes off lol.Any advice is appreciated x

I wanna know how often you guys cum and i mean with videos and with sex like is it once a day or every 2-3 days And girls how often do you girls cum with fingers, toys and sex And maybe talk about ur relationship if you are single or taken age would be interesting as well Stay safe Submitted December 06, 2021 at 12:56AM I wanna know how often you guys cum and i mean with videos and with sex like is it once a day or every 2-3 daysAnd girls how often do you girls cum with fingers, toys and sexAnd maybe talk about ur relationship if you are single or takenage would be interesting as wellStay safe

I ran out of my normal lube for jacking, so I tried using my precum. It worked but didn't last as long as regular lube. But when I cum, it really works good as lube. Any other suggestions for lube that I can try? Submitted December 06, 2021 at 12:58AM I ran out of my normal lube for jacking, so I tried using my precum. It worked but didn't last as long as regular lube. But when I cum, it really works good as lube. Any other suggestions for lube that I can try?

Like the title says, we were talking on POF for a week or so, confirmed the time with her yesterday, replies 'Perfect!' while with her friends yesterday I just reply great see you then, she hasn't even viewed that message though nor my message today leading up to the dinner date tonight asking "We still on for tonight?" Flakes are so common nowadays on these god forsaken apps, I'm not about to sit at the table for 2 all night may just go to the bar or get takeout in the off chance she's showing up and was just not communicating in interim.. Feel like I'm losing my mind though. This has the be a flake, right? It's bizarre having someone flake at the absolute worst time after conveying serious interests in all her texts but I could definitely see this happening to people since people don't care. I didn't even say anything that would provoke rejection but she obviously could be talking to others and dating someone else by now. Thoughts? ...

So this girl (32F) I've (24M) been seeing for the past 6-7 months fucked someone else yesterday, minutes before we had plans. She was mainly doing it out of revenge since she found out i went to a strip club a few weeks ago. She says she didn't enjoy it and does not plan on doing it again. Obviously, this is my time to GTFO out of an already pretty toxic relationship. I'm pretty pissed about it to say the least. She says I'm so important to her and all that... she wanted me to move in at a certain point and I didn't so she says she can act single. I guess I do too (active on dating apps), but she actually follows through and meets/hooks up with people. Why is this so hard for me to walk away from? I have a hard time blocking her and preparing myself to go about my life without her, even though that's exactly what she deserves. I told her it's over, but I'm still feeling the urge to talk to her, maybe because I want revenge, maybe because I'm a nice,...

Like the title says: Roses as a gift for christmas? Not just roses but longlife roses in a square XL box? Go or no go if you would receive it as a christmas gift? I date this girl now for 3 months and i had this idea normally for valentine’s day but i don’t know what to buy her for christmas .. Submitted December 06, 2021 at 12:10AM Like the title says: Roses as a gift for christmas? Not just roses but longlife roses in a square XL box? Go or no go if you would receive it as a christmas gift? I date this girl now for 3 months and i had this idea normally for valentine’s day but i don’t know what to buy her for christmas ..

Outside advice/thoughts would be appreciated. So I (M32) have been frequenting a bar for a couple of years, mostly alone because I prefer my own company and can't be bothered with any hassle that others can cause and end up being tied in with it. A few months ago a girl (18) started working there. I'd met her in there before she started working because she was friends with another worker there but never really spoke to her, just acknowledged her. Now, I'd like to add that the last relationship I had was 6 years ago so I'm pretty used to being single now, other than a few girls I met a few times between then and now, nothing serious. Because of this I feel absolutely useless at talking to anybody that I like and have no idea of how to read possible signs, and what are not possible signs of interest. Basically, the last 2 months or so we have talked whilst she's been working, pretty much about anything and everything, joked a lot, laughed even more and as far as ...

Like the title says: Roses as a gift for christmas? Not just roses but longlife roses in a square XL box? Go or no go if you would receive it as a christmas gift? I date this girl now for 3 months and i had this idea normally for valentine’s day but i don’t know what to buy her for christmas .. Submitted December 06, 2021 at 12:14AM Like the title says: Roses as a gift for christmas? Not just roses but longlife roses in a square XL box? Go or no go if you would receive it as a christmas gift? I date this girl now for 3 months and i had this idea normally for valentine’s day but i don’t know what to buy her for christmas ..

ah i forgot how young many of the people in this sub are December 06, 2021 at 12:03AM

I painfully relate to this too, even if I'm not aro. December 05, 2021 at 11:45PM

Yeah, it kind of breaks my heart. When I feel myself starting to like someone I can barely indulge in feeling a crush, and it hurts. Because I know it wont work out. I can't offer them sex, so it's better if I just push people away at any sign of emotional closeness. It makes me feel really hopeless, but I try to tell myself that it doesn't mean my life is over. Even if I never am in a permenant relationship, I think just surrounding myself with friends and family I care about could be enough. December 05, 2021 at 11:43PM

I have what I’ve been calling “backwards crushes” where I find someone physically attractive & want them to like me but if they were to ACTUALLY make a move… ew pls no 🤢 Idk how much of this has to do with my asexuality or fear of commitment or both but it’s made me feel weird for years December 05, 2021 at 11:20PM