I'm lying about my weight to a guy on my dating profile

Kind of. I created the profile back before the pandemic and recently logged back in for the first time. A guy had messaged me and I messaged back because he said something funny. The only problem is that I gained a SIGNIFICANT amount of weight, but I've been working hard to actively lose it (like 40lbs down in a few months) and get my weight back down. We've been talking for a few weeks and he seems really sweet, but I feel like i've missed my window to disclose it. I'm not sure what to do about it.

Submitted December 06, 2021 at 01:13AM

Kind of. I created the profile back before the pandemic and recently logged back in for the first time. A guy had messaged me and I messaged back because he said something funny. The only problem is that I gained a SIGNIFICANT amount of weight, but I've been working hard to actively lose it (like 40lbs down in a few months) and get my weight back down. We've been talking for a few weeks and he seems really sweet, but I feel like i've missed my window to disclose it. I'm not sure what to do about it.