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/u/tallman11282 on Is there a sub for conservative asexuals?

Maybe it's because conservatives hate the entire LGBTQIA+ community and think we're all deviants and wants us dead? No, that can't be it, could it? Conservatives (regressives are a more accurate term IMO) have no place in the community because they are against parts or all of the community and even if they aren't individually they vote for politicians who are. Conservative policies tend to be harmful to anyone that isn't cishet, white, and male. Just look at what is going on in conservative ran states, bills to ban abortion (with no exceptions for rape, incest, or the health of the pregnant person), bills to ban books that teach the truth about racism in this country, bills to essentially outlaw trans people even existing, bills that ban even acknowledging non-cishet people and relationships exist. As Steven Colbert has said "It is a well known fact that reality has liberal bias." April 05, 2023 at 02:34AM

Tinder gone wrong!

So I matched with this fairly attractive guy on tinder a couple days ago. We ended up messaging 24/7 he was a good texter conversation was going well. We meet up in person he drives to my house he comes in for a bit and we end up agreeing to go play some basketball. We end up at basketball court right by my house we shoot some hoops for a good 45 minutes and end up going for a little drive around town . Mind you he’s 20 I’m 19 I usually don’t date guys close to my age I perfer them older he also wasn’t really my type quite short but he had features I thought were attractive and the conversation was just good over text. Getting to know him I knew off the bat that there was some red flags. He doesn’t have a job his parents give him an allowance and he was very awkward. I don’t rely on my parents I work as an exotic dancer and make a decent amount of money where I’m financially free to do what I please so I couldn’t relate to his financial problems which I think he noticed. When driving ...

My (25F) boyfriend (23M) ghosted me and I need advice for how to move on.

I already shared this in r/relationship_advice but thought I could also get some help here maybe? Idk I’m still just pretty distraught about everything. Warning: This is LONG and I don’t know how to condense it to be any shorter. I don’t know how believable this sounds but my life has honestly turned into a bad Reddit post and I’m still in shock. For context: my boyfriend (Joe) and I have known each other for ~4 years. We were best friends for a year, dated for just over a year, and broke up for abt a year. We broke up the first time because he was struggling with who he was and it seemed like he was going down some dark paths I was uncomfortable with, as well as a general lack of communication. In December I reached out bc I missed having him in my life and we got back together almost immediately. We have been back together for 5-ish months (neither of us kept an exact date bc we’ve already done the whole “count down the months” or whatever) and it’s been nothing short of wonder...

/u/FiaMadison on omg, I hate being ace and always being horny 🫠 *bonus: picture of my cat because why not*

Your fur baby is amazing. April 04, 2023 at 11:55PM

Age gap issues

Questions for life differences as they are showing and keeping things tough So as I come here rn my question is what do you recommend to a couple who is king distance 20 (21M 41F)years apart in age and life difference between living situation are confusion. Sleep and work schedules are complete opposite but when we are together it is more then a party between the two. Texting isn’t really the best as we don’t really see the same ways texting but calling can be a hit or miss. As we have discussed moving in it is something that has its challenges. Any advice would be great thank you. Submitted April 04, 2023 at 11:58PM Questions for life differences as they are showing and keeping things toughSo as I come here rn my question is what do you recommend to a couple who is king distance 20 (21M 41F)years apart in age and life difference between living situation are confusion. Sleep and work schedules are complete opposite but when we are together it is more then a party between the tw...