My partner and I are relatively new in our relationship, and love playing question games (where you go back and forth asking questions to each other about anything that comes to mind). We especially love playing this game with sexual topics. I am wondering, what is everyone’s favorite question, or something everyone should ask their partner to make their sex lives even better? Submitted November 08, 2021 at 12:52AM My partner and I are relatively new in our relationship, and love playing question games (where you go back and forth asking questions to each other about anything that comes to mind). We especially love playing this game with sexual topics. I am wondering, what is everyone’s favorite question, or something everyone should ask their partner to make their sex lives even better?

The last two times I’ve had sex I’ve felt a weird feeling when I climax. Still feels good but i feel like somethings wrong. Has anyone had something similar? Submitted November 08, 2021 at 12:53AM The last two times I’ve had sex I’ve felt a weird feeling when I climax. Still feels good but i feel like somethings wrong. Has anyone had something similar?

I (25F) sometimes have a really hard time orgasming. My boyfriend (27M) is really amazing and will try really hard to make it happen, but when we first started dating, we definitely weren’t on the same wavelength. He had a lot of experience with girls but still seemed to think that everything about porn was realistic and that I would cum if he just went hard enough. A year ago, I finally verbalized that I was unhappy and that wasn’t working for me. I told him I struggled more than he realized and wanted to start being honest. Now, I never lie about it or fake anything, but there’s a lot of times that I just can’t get there because he’s too rough with his hands (though he’ll usually finish me off with oral and that’s great but always has to be a separate thing from sex). I don’t think he realizes that he’s being rough, but he just presses down too hard with his fingers. It also seems like a lot of work for him because he’s pressing down and going fast and I’d be much happier with a l...

I met a gay guy who is living on campus in the same building with me and I started talking to him as he was doing design and is into fashion and I’m interested in those too. He was also living next to someone from my group so we all started hanging out and would watch movies. We’ve also gone to design events together and out for fast food. Anyway one night we were watching something about pup play as it came on cable and was late at night and he turned to me and said “would you have sex with me if we wore masks like that?”. I was shocked as we weren’t drinking and another friend was sitting there and this guy is very camp gay and has a few boyfriends and is very active on Grindr. I laughed as I thought he was joking but I don’t know as he didn’t laugh. Another time he said something similar like about if I had to would I sleep with him. Obviously I’m not attracted to him because he’s gay and I’m good at separating emotions and also I see him as a good friend and he contacts me a ...

Some background: I’m an only child and I grew up with very religious and strict parents who used physical discipline daily and controlled everything I did and say. I grew up with a lot of shame around boys and sex. Actually, I was told from the ages of 6-21 not to talk to boys or ever date. I was scared of what would happen so I avoided men and just had long crushes. Unfortunately I was exposed to porn at a young age by curious older cousins using the internet (we were all kids) and as I got older I was more interested in scenarios where men/women would seduce or force someone, and that someone enjoys it. I have so much shame regarding me being sexual or exposed to someone… I’m still a Virgin due to my anxiety and low self esteem stopping me from dating. I’ve learned that this ‘someone’ in these scenarios is me. Imaging someone seducing/forcing me in these fantasies is the only way I can get off as I’ve realised it removes the shame of me ‘wanting sex’ or being somewhat desirable/att...

So if you hadn't planned anything but it happened and the girl was clearly unprepared. Did you thought she was savage? And when 'back posing' did she look utterly disgusting? Submitted November 07, 2021 at 11:57PM So if you hadn't planned anything but it happened and the girl was clearly unprepared. Did you thought she was savage? And when 'back posing' did she look utterly disgusting?

Where do you meet women if you’re not in college and not in church? I’m also taking about in a romantic context. I’m not looking for “friends” in this respect. Submitted November 08, 2021 at 12:00AM Where do you meet women if you’re not in college and not in church? I’m also taking about in a romantic context. I’m not looking for “friends” in this respect.

It's toxic. Let people be happy with who they choose. Submitted November 08, 2021 at 12:02AM It's toxic. Let people be happy with who they choose.

Gf of 2 years left me unexpectedly for another guy. I was/am deeply in love with her. She crushed me completely by doing this. I hate this feeling, she messages but its always mindless banter, not the deep conversations that initially attracted me to her. I'm left feeling empty, heartbroken, and confused daily. As soon as she's finished messaging me a few pointless messages, she's right back chatting him online (even now as I write this). She led me to believe we would be married with kids by the end of 2022 and now this. I want to let go completely but I'm struggling. I went NC but broke it after a few days of her messaging. I guess deep down I just want her to come back, everyday she's away it breaks my spirit more and more. I feel so empty inside, she was also my best friend so it feels hurtful on two levels. I love this girl and would do anything for her, but it's clear now that she doesn't carry the same unwavering love for me that I have for her. I ...

I (30 F) haven't had the best luck in love. All but one ex-boyfriend cheated on me, and the one that didn't came out as gay and we broke up, so yeah. Kind of unlucky. I also went through a patch the last few years where my normally sky-high sex-drive was completely non-existent. It was a combination of side-effects from birth control, pandemic depression, weight gain and being with a guy who turned out to be gay who I wasn't actually physically attracted to. About a month ago, I met someone (35 M). We've gone on quite a few dates, slept together a few times, and I'm really starting to like him. I'm very attracted to him, I enjoy his company, and my sex drive is right back to where it was 10 years ago. Because I actually like this guy, I'm in my head about it. My past relationships all moved relatively quickly, and I don't really feel like I have any idea how fast a "normal" relationship is supposed to go. We haven't discussed exclusivit...

So I (25M) work with this girl (22F) and I really like her. We have been texting each other all the time and have gone out for food several times. She is really busy between school, work, and an internship. On top of this she is moving away (about 4 hours) in just over a month. We tried to schedule a date several times but the timing never worked out. So I asked her yesterday, do you want to go on real date with me sometime, someplace in the future. Her response was maybe, that she is super busy, and that she is glad we had this talk. What complicates this further, is my other coworkers have seen us flirting. So two different coworkers have asked her how she felt about me and she told them she really likes me. I trust both of these coworkers and feel somewhat bad that they told me something that she told them in confidence, but it is not like ask them to tell me. So between that and the connection we have when we talk, I think she actually likes me. So I guess my question is what s...

I am unsure how to market myself, but at this juncture in my life, I just want to hook up with babes. Am I wrong for this? Submitted November 08, 2021 at 12:12AM I am unsure how to market myself, but at this juncture in my life, I just want to hook up with babes. Am I wrong for this?

This is kind of an AITA post because I just want to know for sure, and I can’t post it anywhere else because of their rules. It is dating related. So I’ve been talking to my boyfriend for 6 months and we’ve been on loads of dates and it’s just amazing on so many levels. I’ve posted before that’s he’s dorky and nerdy, and I love that. However. It took a while for me to find my ‘type.’ I’ve dated all kinds of guys and found I tend to get on better with the tall and lankies. My most recent ex, before my boyfriend, has been messaging me now and again but I don’t reply. His most recent one really hurt. See, he does meal prep. I don’t. He never gets fast food (not once in the three months we were seeing each other.) I love fast food. He’s (from what I’ve seen) obsessed with muscle and, dare I say, gains. I’m a tubby chick that likes movies. (Before anyone comes at me for being unhealthy, I know but I do dance regularly.) The biggest turn off for me was that he goes to the gym everyday....

So there's a guy I've seen for almost over ten months since the end of the last year. We'd casually had sex as the lockdown happened and had to be stuck inside. From time to time he asked me about deeper things for instance how people start a relationship in my original culture etc, but back then I was intimidated going further from it and I assumed he either. And then he once gave me small gifts but I thought it wasn't more than a casual thing since we were basically meeting for having sex and ending up having sex. It kept like that for about 4months, then we had a trip together and we started talking about having a long distance relationship cus I had to leave back to my country for quite a while. Back then he knew that I've seen other guys a bit and seemed hurt but I discovered he was also chatting with other girls on apps and wouldve probably had casually met them or more so even the while we were together. Anyways we had these walls to each other and he said h...

No, I have high libido. November 07, 2021 at 11:39PM

I agree! I guess it hurt because with my anxiety issues it took awhile for me to work up the courage to mention it and he just waved it off. But I definitely have it better than most. November 07, 2021 at 11:38PM

Same. My attraction and libido are both none existent so I kind of link them together as the same thing. I forget they’re separate things November 07, 2021 at 11:37PM

Sounds like progress to me, but could be another few years before he fully accepts it if he's just waving it all away as just "a teenage phase." :-/ November 07, 2021 at 11:36PM

Same November 07, 2021 at 11:36PM

I'm actually kind of surprised by the results so far. November 07, 2021 at 11:35PM