I can't be the only one that feels like this. Regular everyday "enjoyable" things feel bland and pointless, and I don't have much fun doing anything other than when it's sexual. For some background I'm a 28 year old dude, have an abnormally high sex drive (Hyperspermia to be exact), and have a few FWB's that I keep in close contact with to the point where I'm having sex 1-2 times a day. Things like watching movies, netflix, youtube, listening to comedians, whatever it may be.. I get little pleasure or enjoyment from. I feel like the pleasure I get from sex is such a high peak that the rest of life feels flat, bland, and almost boring. Like my adrenaline/dopamine receptors are fucked up because of the use I've put into them over the last ~10-15 years. Anyone heard of something like this or been through it yourself and can share some insight to it? Submitted June 23, 2019 at 12:04AM I can't be the only one that feels like this. Regular e...

SO had a 100 mile mountain bike race last week Saturday. When he got home Sunday evening we had sex, and when he came it was very bloody. At first we thought I had started my cycle early but as the day went on with no more blood we concluded that it must’ve been him. Is this cause for alarm or do you think it has to do with his the stress caused to that area from his race? Submitted June 23, 2019 at 12:08AM SO had a 100 mile mountain bike race last week Saturday. When he got home Sunday evening we had sex, and when he came it was very bloody. At first we thought I had started my cycle early but as the day went on with no more blood we concluded that it must’ve been him. Is this cause for alarm or do you think it has to do with his the stress caused to that area from his race?

So, me and my bf had sex a view days ago, hes average size, but for some reason he went deep like usual and I had immediate pain. My first thought was bruised cervix, but it's still a little painful when I twist around, and it's been almost a week? Is this normal? I'm going to schedule a gyno appointment Submitted June 23, 2019 at 12:10AM So, me and my bf had sex a view days ago, hes average size, but for some reason he went deep like usual and I had immediate pain. My first thought was bruised cervix, but it's still a little painful when I twist around, and it's been almost a week? Is this normal? I'm going to schedule a gyno appointment

My husband and I (both early 30’s) been together 10 years. Good marriage, good sex life, it’s pretty regular, and fun. A few years ago I used his phone (with permission) he must have forgotten to close the browser he was in, it was a private browser it was an erotica site with written erotic stories, he was on one about sissies. I didn’t read it, I just closed the tab and looked up what I was looking up. A couple weeks ago he told me to go on his tablet and look up something he had saved on reddit. He’s pretty new to Reddit and probably didn’t realize unless you change your options to otherwise it shows what subs you frequent. He had been frequenting sissy subs. I want through some of the subs and I have to say I’m actually pretty confused. I’m also unsure if this is something I should bring up. I love pleasing him sexually, and if this is something we could do together I’d love to partake with him! I just don’t know what that would look like. I’m also hesitant to bring it up becau...

I am a 24 y.o. woman. I have a VERY high sex drive. I have a lot of sex on a regular basis, and I would like to say I have had my fair share of sexual partners. However, I have never once came with any of my partners, and I can’t figure out why. I am only able to cum through masturbation. I still find sex immensely enjoyable despite the fact that I never cum, but I would like to one day cum through sexual intercourse. Has anyone else experienced this? What has helped you? Why do you think I have this problem? Any thoughtful input appreciated. Submitted June 23, 2019 at 12:12AM I am a 24 y.o. woman. I have a VERY high sex drive. I have a lot of sex on a regular basis, and I would like to say I have had my fair share of sexual partners. However, I have never once came with any of my partners, and I can’t figure out why. I am only able to cum through masturbation. I still find sex immensely enjoyable despite the fact that I never cum, but I would like to one day cum through sexual...

Hey, i don't even know if this is the right place to post, but seeing as how I'm feeling right now encompassing sexual relationships with people, then Im just gonna do it. To be honest, I don't even know where to begin. After going through a couple of honestly, quite rough and emotionally draining relationships, I started the new year feeling a bit low on the whole romance front. After experiencing sexual assault pretty recently too, I also feel like sex has become something so unromantic to me, where its mor just an act than it is a connection with someone. I've met à couple of really cool, nice people since then, that I've definitely connected to. Yet I still have this feeling that I'm so unloveable and not worth it, eating away at me. It's gotten to the point where I just feel like there is no hope of me being with someone that actually cares about me, the way I feel that deep down I deserve. I would say that even this time last year I had more confiden...

First thing's first: I didn't. I'm a virgin. I, at 21, am easily the youngest person where I work. I'm also one of the only girls. It's an active, blue collar job and I mostly work with men who are at least 10 or so years older than me. For the most part, I get along with them. A lot of them are real sweethearts, and so long as you work hard and you're friendly they'll be your best friend. It's overall a great work environment. Now, I went out a couple weeks ago with a few of the younger guys. I ended up getting pretty drunk, and then I got a ride home from one of them. I didn't know this at the time because I haven't known him very long, but apparently he's a huge womanizer. He invited me to his place but I declined, and he dropped me off at home. Now it turns out that some of the other guys saw me get a ride home from him and told people that I went home with him. Because of his reputation, people think we had sex. A couple of the guys ...

Hi! Six months ago I (27M) broke up with my first girlfriend. She also is the first girl i've had sex with. Now i'm getting back into "the game" I notice that there are a lot of people just having casual sex or one night stands... I've been raised traditional when it comes to sex; i've learned that sex is something special you should not casualy share. So on one hand i feel like i am missing out because i do not have 'casual' sex or hookups, but one the other hand i wonder if there is any added value to your life by just constantly doing a one night stand thing. I get the feeling that i am the only one still holding on to these values of sharing sex with just a very few select people... I wonder what the pro's are of hooking up with people casualy? What is the added value of just hooking up with one person after another? Doesn't it degrade sex to "just something you do" instead of sex being a special thing? Or is this just me being n...

I went to pride last year, about 300k people. Not kidding. It was my first ever and I didn't wear anything ace - I wasn't totally out and I didn't know if it would be okay for me to be, whereas straight allies are totally acceptable going, even encouraged here, so long as you're respectful. Most heteros mock the few and far between protesters, and keep them away from the main thrall, so it's pretty great. I did, however, see a decent amount of ace representation and cried lol. There was one girl, wearing a purple dress, with a black and white jacket, purple hair. I wanted to thank her. I wanted to walk up to her and tell her how much it meant to me, but I didn't feel comfortable in front of my boyfriend's friends. We'd only been dating for two months and I didn't know how they'd take that. Two are bi/pan, so I was worried they'd be upset because they had to fight so hard for their space, you know? First year attending and out and you bet y...

I (27) went out with a girl (25) after she messaged me on Tinder and spoke for a while. I had an instant connection, we got on well, had a lot in common, there was no awkward moments, flirting, talk of future dates and even a few kisses. We went out again and it was just as easy, laughing, another kiss and asked to text when I got home, then more talk of future dates. A few days later (almost a week ago now) said she wasn't into me and I'm totally obsessing over it. I can't believe how quickly I fell for this person and how sad I've been since. It really makes no sense to me, and I'm not new to dating/relationships. I want to ask her out again obviously (I've not spoken to her since), but I know it's not fair. I really don't know what to do, this has never happened to me before, and I'm definitely not the type to catch feelings so easily. Maybe I've just seen too many movies and think that I can't let it slip away cause it feels so real.....

Hi, Those who were ghosted...were you ever re-contacted? Submitted June 22, 2019 at 11:24PM Hi,Those who were ghosted...were you ever re-contacted?

I'm gonna try to keep this as short as possible, given my predicament. TL;DR in the end. So, this involves two women in my life: my FWB, I'll call her "A", and this other girl, I'll call her "B". A and I have this very cool friendship with benefits: we both see each other as just friends, have talked about it and neither have feelings or even think we'd work out as a couple, given our different personalities. So it's all good in this front. On the other hand, B and I have recently started talking and going out again (we went out a couple of years ago, but for reasons not important here, we didn't go past a second date). Now, we connected really well in both a physical and emotional way, but because we don't wanna ruin things, we decided to just enjoy what we have instead of going straight to a relationship. We decided that if any of us were to develop feelings, we'd talk about it and decide what to do. A couple of weeks ago, I in...

People’s definition of love is very broad. I was asked once in marriage counseling what both of our definitions of love were? Why her disposition changed after making vows. In retrospect I’d like to hear everyone’s definition of love on this post. It may actually be an eye opener in many ways. Submitted June 23, 2019 at 12:18AM People’s definition of love is very broad. I was asked once in marriage counseling what both of our definitions of love were? Why her disposition changed after making vows. In retrospect I’d like to hear everyone’s definition of love on this post. It may actually be an eye opener in many ways.

Huh. That actually sounds like me. TIL June 23, 2019 at 12:16AM

From what I've heard around here, some aces find these jokes completely unappealing, while other people are so fine with them that they joke about it more than Allos. I think sex-repulsed aces tend to be in the former group, but ones that are a bit more neutral towards it (but still don't see any appeal in it) tend to see sex in general as just very silly and ridiculous and a good candidate for making the butt of jokes. June 23, 2019 at 12:15AM

I'm also an ace who wants kids, but I get the OP's point. I've gotten a lot of comments from friends about my lack of interest in a sexual relationship over the last several years ("You haven't met the right partner," "Just wait, you'll change your mind")...and a friend of mine who is Child-Free has gotten the exact. same. comments. from her family & friends. It's the same narrative I heard growing up about gay/lesbian folks: "He just hasn't met the right girl," "she hasn't met the right man." Many allosexual, family-oriented people assume that everyone is just like them. If we disagree, then (from their perspective) it's just a matter of time before we realize that we were actually wrong ( Omg, there is a sexy, sexy man! And I do want to have his babies! ) and they were right. June 23, 2019 at 12:10AM

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