Respect and validation from a distance of three feet or more! June 06, 2019 at 12:14AM

Will everyone still be able to see everyone or will you only be shown people who match your sexuality? June 06, 2019 at 12:13AM

Nope. But considering how pervasive sex and sexual attraction is in mainstream anything, I don't need to. While some businesses think sex sells, I'm just sitting here thinking "...the fuck?" A good example is a calendar my sister-in-law gave my mum; it's firemen posing with kittens. I'm always drawn to the kittens because kittens are awesome. Couldn't care less about the guys (get rid of the guys and have more kittens. Everything needs more kittens). June 06, 2019 at 12:10AM

I get it, mate. I wish I was a Ken Doll. I remember freaking out when I first started displaying even secondary sex characteristics like facial hair. I used to do construction, and was kinda muscular, and I'd feel really uncomfortable whenever anyone commented on it. As for actual genitalia? Blech. I try to pretend it doesn't exist. June 06, 2019 at 12:05AM

I came out to an online friend I've known for a while and he seemed to accept it. Irl, I came out to two family members, both of whom rejected it, one just quietly repeating "we live in an oversexualized society" a bunch, the other ranting to me for 15 minutes about how I was "decieving myself." Nothing's comfier in the deep south than a closet, let's stay here hahaaaa June 06, 2019 at 12:05AM

Before I discovered asexuality, I often worried that having a relationship with someone would mean I would be expected to have sex, and I didn't want that. I think looking back that was the biggest sign. In terms of discovering that I was ace, the moment I realised was when I learned that it was possible to feel romantic attraction while being asexual. June 06, 2019 at 12:03AM

I also dislike cake. June 05, 2019 at 11:58PM

Maybe Tinder will finally be useful! Nothing kills the mood faster than a match opening with something they probably think is sexy and me having to go, "Well AKSHULLY..." June 05, 2019 at 11:57PM

lol June 05, 2019 at 11:56PM

I am tired of playing games when I comes to online dating, and tired being ghosted if someone is not interested. It has happened at least twice now. Guys just stop messaging me without an explanation. Why can’t people just be honest? If your not into me after a first meeting I get it. Just tell me. It frustrates me and upsets me more then It probably should that this has happened multiple times. It’s hurtful and rude. Makes me feel like shit. Submitted June 05, 2019 at 11:44PM I am tired of playing games when I comes to online dating, and tired being ghosted if someone is not interested. It has happened at least twice now. Guys just stop messaging me without an explanation. Why can’t people just be honest? If your not into me after a first meeting I get it. Just tell me. It frustrates me and upsets me more then It probably should that this has happened multiple times. It’s hurtful and rude. Makes me feel like shit.

Thanks in advance! Between recently being divorced and also not having my first real relationship since then not go so great, I’m not 100% convinced I should be dating in the first place instead of taking a breather, but a little constructive criticism never hurt anyone. https://imgur.com/a/oBdCMnN Submitted June 05, 2019 at 11:51PM Thanks in advance!Between recently being divorced and also not having my first real relationship since then not go so great, I’m not 100% convinced I should be dating in the first place instead of taking a breather, but a little constructive criticism never hurt anyone.http://bit.ly/2HZueR3

This is a throwaway. My SO has told me in the past that he has a low sex drive, and that is the reason we don't have sex as often as I would like to. I'll start by acknowledging that I shouldn't have done this, but I looked at his browsing history on his computer. He looks at porn Very frequently. Videos, Instagram photos, and Reddit. And he looks at specific porn stars. I'm sure he masturbates when he looks at this. I find that my feelings are hurt that he looks at other women and gets off, and tells me he's just not in the mood. Of course the women in porn and these half naked/naked Instagram models are waaay more attractive than I am so that affects my confidence. I've never viewed porn as something bad or wrong, but I'm wondering if this could be affecting our relationship. Is it right or even fair to bring this up? First admitting my invasion of his expected privacy, and second asking if he truly has a low sex drive or why he prefers to masturbate t...

When I was 15 years old, my girlfriend and I were watching a movie. We were both horny teenagers that wanted to lose our virginity as soon as possible. At first, I only wanted her to give me a blowjob and she did it, swallowing the cum. Things happened, and I finally stuck it inside of her. My heart was racing, I was scared that I could get her pregnant. We only ended up doing it for a bit. We thought that there was nobody around us since we were in a very secluded area of the theater, but we heard a voice behind us. In Spanish, he said,"Don't do it here." Then, he sat back down and continued watching the movie. My girlfriend and I were terrified and speechless so we just stopped right there. Long story short, we finally gained enough courage to leave before the movie finished and walk to the mall. That was one of the most awkward experiences I have ever had. Submitted June 05, 2019 at 11:26PM When I was 15 years old, my girlfriend and I were watching a movie. We w...

I’m the kind of person, like many, who’s always down about never going to find someone for themselves. I was just talking with someone who literally couldn’t be more perfect for me, and I saw such a future there, but the distance just killed it. And I’m moving to the Czech Republic in a year, so i don’t quite have the time now, while finishing uni, to worry about a girlfriend, but I’m always questioning how I’ll do it later. They always say you’ll find someone when you least expect it, and in the most unexpected of places. But being someone who’s shy and not so into the party/bar scene, I just wanna hear how some of you met your partners. What 1-in-a-million odds brought you together? Submitted June 05, 2019 at 11:27PM I’m the kind of person, like many, who’s always down about never going to find someone for themselves. I was just talking with someone who literally couldn’t be more perfect for me, and I saw such a future there, but the distance just killed it. And I’m moving to ...

I'm reading it right now. It's utterly fantastic and I wanted to share it with everyone. Amazing resource on the physical and anatomical components of sex, but even more so an amazing resource for the mental and emotional side too. Everyone needs to read it! Submitted June 05, 2019 at 11:31PM I'm reading it right now. It's utterly fantastic and I wanted to share it with everyone. Amazing resource on the physical and anatomical components of sex, but even more so an amazing resource for the mental and emotional side too. Everyone needs to read it!

i'm in college, so naturally that means interfacing with tinder culture etc. etc., but in my mind sex and intimacy have always been something around 75% emotional connection 25% actual physical interaction, which makes it hard for me to pursue casual encounters. i'd say i solidly identify as demi, but it's making me feel like i'm less capable of being a good lover than anybody else : / i know it's far from the truth and i've had plenty of people tell me i'm good at what i do, but my stubborn little brain refuses to believe it, so... how do i rationally think myself out of this? Submitted June 05, 2019 at 11:32PM i'm in college, so naturally that means interfacing with tinder culture etc. etc., but in my mind sex and intimacy have always been something around 75% emotional connection 25% actual physical interaction, which makes it hard for me to pursue casual encounters. i'd say i solidly identify as demi, but it's making me feel like i...

Hi reddit, I (19M) is currently in two sexual active relations. I've always been a long laster, and that could be problematic in some relations with girls for example that could suck me for 30+ min after an hour or so of sex wanting to please and make me cum but couldn't. It wasn't really a big deal until recently when at different time I would cum REALLY QUICKLY then some other times where I would have an half hard during sex wich never happened to me and I would last hours in wich i would pull out sometimes masturbate then proceeded to go back in. I thought at first it was the condoms, wich would be too.small or the liquid inside wich is used to make you last longer made me feel nothing. However i did anal today (without condoms) and the same thing happened (not as problematic to the times I used condoms though) Furthermore, before i could do multiples round. I'd cum once then 20-60min later i could have sex again. But now once I cum it's pretty much over for ...

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Whenever I finger my gf, she loves it. It turns me on a lot to finger her. When I finger her after a minute or so (after rubbing her clit) she pulls my hand away and says it’s too sensitive. Does that mean she had an orgasm or is about to have an orgasm? She has to take a break after before I can go again. Can any ladies describe this to me? Submitted June 05, 2019 at 11:50PM Whenever I finger my gf, she loves it. It turns me on a lot to finger her. When I finger her after a minute or so (after rubbing her clit) she pulls my hand away and says it’s too sensitive. Does that mean she had an orgasm or is about to have an orgasm? She has to take a break after before I can go again. Can any ladies describe this to me?

27F - I feel like it's impossible for me to feel any kind of immediate sexual attraction to a guy I first meet - I can find a guy attractive / be intrigued by him, but never have any urge to kiss or have sex with him until we get to know each over a while (like a period of a couple weeks). Even if I meet a super hot guy drunk who's into me, I've never felt enough sexual chemistry in those situations to want to do anything (or even fantasize about doing something). Is this the norm or am I different? I think it gets me in trouble because guys feel no chemistry with me on first dates (bc there is none... yet!). Like if a guy were to try to kiss me on a first date, I probably wouldn't be too into it 95% of the time. I'm just confused because I have friends who hookup regularly and enjoy it and I feel like I'm missing something... Submitted June 05, 2019 at 11:45PM 27F - I feel like it's impossible for me to feel any kind of immediate sexual attraction t...

The guy I slept with was a friend, we admitted feelings and went out for a few drinks before we decided to sleep together. I thought it was okay but I'm a little paranoid in case he thought otherwise or has had second thoughts about us. He's a really busy guy so ain't great keeping in touch at the best of times (whereas I like very regular contact with partners), just paranoid about how long I should give him to contact me. I don't want to contact him too early in case I scare him off, also I don't want to constantly be chasing him (I had to message him to meet up). Submitted June 05, 2019 at 11:52PM The guy I slept with was a friend, we admitted feelings and went out for a few drinks before we decided to sleep together. I thought it was okay but I'm a little paranoid in case he thought otherwise or has had second thoughts about us.He's a really busy guy so ain't great keeping in touch at the best of times (whereas I like very regular contact wi...

We were supposed to have dinner tonight. This is a the text from lunch time. Her-"my name", can we push to Tuesday? Just got a call from "step mom" and "little girl" is not feeling well today. I am going to take her back home so the step family and ex husband can take the rest of the kids to church tonight. I am so sorry. ​ Me- No problem. Hope "little girl" gets better soon ​ Her-Thank you. I really am so sorry ​ I asked what time would be good for Tues and she gave me a time. I told her that would work. It just seemed cliche that cancellation happened the day of. Good thing is that she had a reschedule day. What say you? Submitted June 05, 2019 at 11:53PM We were supposed to have dinner tonight. This is a the text from lunch time.Her-"my name", can we push to Tuesday? Just got a call from "step mom" and "little girl" is not feeling well today. I am going to take her back home so the step family and ex...

Hi everyone! I’m a 21 woman and have been dating someone for over the past two years. I recently got out of a rocky relationship that ended because things just weren’t working out. He was my first serious boyfriend and relationship. I am ready to move forward with someone else now, but have no idea where to even start? I’ve never had a dating app. & am not really sure they’d work. I guess I just feel down in the dumps because a guy asked me out on Monday after we seemed to hit things off. However, tonight he decided to cancel the date I was looking forward to on Friday. He just mentioned he rather go out partying with some friends, so not really sure what I’m doing wrong here...? Any advice, especially a guy’s opinion, would be highly appreciated! Thank you all! Submitted June 05, 2019 at 11:58PM Hi everyone! I’m a 21 woman and have been dating someone for over the past two years. I recently got out of a rocky relationship that ended because things just weren’t working out....