Me (18M) and my ex gf (18F) broke up a month ago because of college, I wanted to at least try while she wasn't willing to because she was scared and thinks she can't commit. We're going to colleges not even 30 minutes away. We dated for over a year and a half and she kept telling me about her plans for us to be together in college and how excited she was because we would be so close she was very loving and clingy you can tell she was basically obsessed with me. That all changed out of nowhere and she left me. After the breakup she asked to remain friends but I told her i needed at least a month before we can talk again during and after the breakup she acted like a completely different person. She has been very petty and cold with social media and posting stories and photos while i have been silent. She has reached out to me and mutual friends asking how i'm feeling multiple times and i've either ignored or gave her 1 word answers. She's been acting as if i brok...

So I (23m) met this girl (28f) on a dating app some time ago. We used to text quite a bit. (basically one long conversation over weeks). I asked her for a coffee date and afterwards she wanted us to exchange numbers (only been texting through the app before). Now our texting was more like a conversation over a day (saying good night at the end and not texting for some days afterwards) These conversations were always started by me. Is her not texting me first a sign of lacking interest? Should I text her again or just let it be? (by the way it's almost a month since our last conversations) Submitted April 18, 2020 at 12:13AM So I (23m) met this girl (28f) on a dating app some time ago. We used to text quite a bit. (basically one long conversation over weeks). I asked her for a coffee date and afterwards she wanted us to exchange numbers (only been texting through the app before).Now our texting was more like a conversation over a day (saying good night at the end and not t...

Sex is not something you could trade with marriage or loyalty, so make sure you’re ready for the risks and consequences before you agree to sleep with someone. Submitted April 18, 2020 at 12:13AM Sex is not something you could trade with marriage or loyalty, so make sure you’re ready for the risks and consequences before you agree to sleep with someone.

i recently got into mutual masturbating with my gf as an alternative to sex sometimes and its pretty good but if we do it sitting together with her legs over mine sort of scissoring almost I take forever to cum and sometimes don't. does this make sense as a limitation? Recently I've been leaning back from this position almost laying down and having more success. When I masturbate alone I'm always laying down so it may be that I'm just not used to sitting and masturbating. Anyway not sure if anyone can relate but I dont have this problem in any other position so thought there was something to it. Submitted April 17, 2020 at 11:21PM i recently got into mutual masturbating with my gf as an alternative to sex sometimes and its pretty good but if we do it sitting together with her legs over mine sort of scissoring almost I take forever to cum and sometimes don't. does this make sense as a limitation? Recently I've been leaning back from this position almost la...

Men, what moves do you like to see when your partner gives a striptease? What gets you going? Women, are you able to describe moves that you do that you know your BF is into? Submitted April 17, 2020 at 11:23PM Men, what moves do you like to see when your partner gives a striptease? What gets you going? Women, are you able to describe moves that you do that you know your BF is into?

Okay, so this is kind of embarrassing to me (so, sorry about the throwaway) but I'm not sure if I'm normal or that I work properly. Also really sorry if this just seems like a pity party and a bit miserable. For context, I'm a 22 year old female. And sorry it's so long too. When I was 18 I got with a guy. Let's call him Jim. I met Jim at school and we really got along and I loved him (and still love him so much). When we first met I was about 3 stone lighter. I lost my virginity with him and he is the only man I've ever slept with or even spoken sexually to, even to this day. Throughout some of our relationship we spent some weeks and sometimes months not seeing eachother as I went to university, and as our relationship progressed our time together was limited as his mother wasn't very kind to me or my family. Anyway, when me and Jim did see each other though, we often had sex. However, while Jim was able to make me orgasm, he often took a long time to or...

I (32m) have been blessed with having no refractory period and a sky-high sex drive. Sometimes if I’m REALLY excited I can cum 6 times in one session with no downtime. I know girls love the uniqueness of this and the fact that they turn me on so much! Ironically I’m also very into orgasm denial and can go several weeks having PIV sex with no orgasm! But I feel like this is a waste in the circumstances lol. Ladies, how can I balance these two aspects of myself, to get the most out of my situation for both me and my partner? Maybe there’s a way to incorporate both elements in one session? Would appreciate hearing your thoughts. Some comments other than “humblebrag” would be awesome! Submitted April 17, 2020 at 11:29PM I (32m) have been blessed with having no refractory period and a sky-high sex drive. Sometimes if I’m REALLY excited I can cum 6 times in one session with no downtime. I know girls love the uniqueness of this and the fact that they turn me on so much!Ironically I’...

My boyfriend and I (22 and 24) have been together for almost 1 year but had been interested in eachother for 1 year before officially dating. We were both very shy to dive in, as we both dont have alot of experience. Turns out it is great and we have a loving relationship. I feel his love in my ways. He respects me and gives me time, services, support, etc. However, sometimes i'm not sure how physically attracted he truly is to me. He always says hes not good with words and self expression. I try to shower him in compliments and make him feel desired, but sometimes I feel that i'm not getting as much in return. He's never had issues being turned on by me or wanting sex. But I've asked him before if physically i was his "type" but he said he doesnt have a "type" to reassure me. I just wish I could 100% confidently say that he makes me feel 100% beautiful at all times and sexy in bed etc. Guys, any ideas how i should approach this? Tdlr; My boyfriend...

I told my boyfriend that it would be really hot to see him dress up in women’s intimate wear (stockings, tights, lingerie) and he was really into the idea! However, he said he wants me to be more vocal, overpowering, and daddy-like in my mission of turning him into my femboy slut. Problem is I’m introverted and can’t come up with things to say on the spot. Can you guys help me think of things to call him and how to treat him so as to put more of a roleplay element into this? Things I’m already doing: I’m referring to his butt hole as a pussy I’m telling him he’s the cutest girl I’m calling him my cum slut I’m lightly slapping and choking him (as per his request) I’m being a bit more intense in the way I eat him out (rimming) Any help would be greatly appreciated. Thank you. Submitted April 17, 2020 at 11:36PM I told my boyfriend that it would be really hot to see him dress up in women’s intimate wear (stockings, tights, lingerie) and he was really into the idea! However...

I was wondering what your experiences have been with going off the pill in relation to sex drive. I find my body doesn't physically want sex most of the time, even when my brain does. I've been on the pill since I was 16 (for other reasons) so this is my 'normal' and I don't really know anything different. I am thinking of trying it because I want to have a higher libido. I am in my first committed relationship and we don't want kids for at least 5+ years due to our age. My boyfriend doesn't like the idea of my going off the pill, but has agreed to use condoms if I do decide to stop taking it. Submitted April 17, 2020 at 11:41PM I was wondering what your experiences have been with going off the pill in relation to sex drive. I find my body doesn't physically want sex most of the time, even when my brain does. I've been on the pill since I was 16 (for other reasons) so this is my 'normal' and I don't really know anything different....

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For some background I am 22 F and growing up I always knew I liked guys, romantically and sexually, but it would take a while for feelings to build and most of my crushes were towards celebs and characters until I got a little older. However, a throw away comment made by a ‘friend’ made me worried that I was asexual (nothing wrong with that of course). But basically I don’t look at random guys and think, I want to have sex with them or get aroused by guys I don’t know. So this made me question my attractions a lot and sent me into a panic. I am now in my first serious relationship with a guy who I’ve known for a year or so, and who is a bit older than me. When we first met I knew that I was interested in him as a person, and then we began going on dates and slowly getting to know each other. I began to like him romantically and then started fantasising about having sex with him and doing sexual things. This would make me feel all tingly and stuff. Sometimes when we are together and si...

I'm a 21M and I just don't enjoy sex with my girlfriend anymore. We have been together for about 1.5 years and before the 1 year mark, the sex was great. But somehow after that, it fell flat for me. It seems to me, that I have to do all the work while we're having sex and it's extremely one sided. I'm someone who enjoys blowjobs very much. My girlfriend used to do them pretty regularly when we were starting out. But nowadays it seems to me that girlfriend only cares about herself. Our usual sex looks like this: I try to get her to mood, usually by a little foreplay at first and then going down on her for a few minutes. Then we have sex, which is usually unsatisfying for me, because I suffer from premature ejaculation, so I'm pretty much ready after 20 seconds if I don't go slow. Only way for me to last longer is to have sex 2 or more times a day at least two days in a row. Right now, once a day is the maximum I can get. After sex I of course finish her off...

Let me start by saying that I generally enjoy being dominated. My boyfriend likes taking control in bed and I enjoy that as well. We spend the night together about once a week, so morning sex is always a given for us (nothing better than waking up to that). My boyfriend has a hard time coming in the morning, I don’t know why but he does. He still loves sex of course, even if he can’t finish. I think he gets frustrated that he can’t finish and embarrassed but I’ve always assured him that it’s ok. Nonetheless we still enjoy sex, a lot. We started cuddling this morning and then kissing and of course it escalated to sex. He started pinning me down and going to town. In the back of my head, I kept telling myself that I would eventually push him on his back and ride the hell out of him. I wanted to surprise him and take charge. Anyways, we did missionary and then doggy and we both kind of ended up cuddling (as this point I knew he didn’t think he could finish). When he can’t finish he just ...

18yo male. I was at college for 2 months before I got sent home. I was fresh out of a relationship and would be pretty horny a lot of the time. Since I've been home, I really haven't felt that horny. I hope my testosterone levels are alright because I still work out (and other drawbacks to low levels). Anyone else feeling this? I'm wondering if it's because I'm not seeing any women in person besides my mom. I'm not really stressed either Submitted April 17, 2020 at 11:56PM 18yo male. I was at college for 2 months before I got sent home. I was fresh out of a relationship and would be pretty horny a lot of the time.Since I've been home, I really haven't felt that horny. I hope my testosterone levels are alright because I still work out (and other drawbacks to low levels).Anyone else feeling this? I'm wondering if it's because I'm not seeing any women in person besides my mom.I'm not really stressed either

Every time my boyfriend touches me my body responds by having these like twitch-like shakes. Im a female with a very high sex drive and I can’t control myself when he touches me. I’ve never experienced these twitches with any other partner and I don’t understand why I do it. I can’t control them either. I need to know the science behind these shakes. It’s like if he runs his hands down my body I’ll respond in a single twitch and every time he touches me I get that same twitch until we start having actual sex. Sometimes they’re a little violent and they aren’t associated with any negative emotions at all. Is my body just releasing high levels of Oxytocin or something? Submitted April 17, 2020 at 11:58PM Every time my boyfriend touches me my body responds by having these like twitch-like shakes. Im a female with a very high sex drive and I can’t control myself when he touches me. I’ve never experienced these twitches with any other partner and I don’t understand why I do it. I can...

I had a dream that: I was intimately kissing and looking in the eyes of my sexy gf and loving it But ... Then she let another man in and she got back on top of me and said experience me cumming with me ... I looked in her eyes as he whipped her.. teased her... felt her pussy slowly ... when she felt pain I would pleasure her tung to help coax Seeing my lovers eyes in pleasure and pain was so hot Then her heavy breathing .. moaning.... losing track and almost fainting on me as she lost control ... She then got on her knees and gave him a sensual blowjob as she also rubbed my cock slower But we then made out as he made her cum .. Am I wrong for thinking this is so erotic and hot and experiencing her pleasure with her ...? I liked it 🥵🥵 Submitted April 17, 2020 at 11:59PM I had a dream that:I was intimately kissing and looking in the eyes of my sexy gf and loving itBut ...Then she let another man in and she got back on top of me and said experience me cumming with me .....

so theres this guy in my class and hes like really really cute. ive always kinda liked him but never really got the chance to have a conversation with him before. i know hes into anime like me lol and i like the way he acts. hes just so confident and outgoing but anyway :)) since we have to stay at home now i decided to text him about 2 weeks ago. and we were getting along fine until i tried flirting with him. i sent him a naughty pic all of a sudden lol but he told me he was gay. like i get it, he likes boys and stuff but its just a pic if its hot its hot rite? anyways, so i asked my gfs about this and they said mean things about him and i really like this kid, like its okay if hes gay i just want him to like me. i really really want him to be my first and ive never been with anyone before but why cant he get it? pussy is pussy and i dont get why he doesnt wanna do it with me. he doesnt know what hes losing because i really like him and ill be really good to him, even if he wants t...

I don't really know how to start this. I guess a bit of a backstory. Never besides when losing my virginity was sex painful, and even that wasn't horrible. I met my husband and at first sex was normal and amazing. But for the past month or so it's been hurting, bad. It feels like a tearing every time, sometimes I can get past it and then it feels okay, but majority of the time we have to stop. But the past few times he's said he can feel it stretching and squeezing him, and then today he said it felt like a scab. Like rough and at some point something "sharpish" poked him. I'm so confused. I've talked to two of my doctor's, and neither really said anything. I don't have an IUD. Has anyone experienced anything like this? If so, what did it turn out to be and how do I fix it? Submitted April 18, 2020 at 12:14AM I don't really know how to start this. I guess a bit of a backstory. Never besides when losing my virginity was sex painful, a...

I just wanted to share this but, I feel kinda insecure loving being degraded. I find pleasure in domination and when I suffer physically I kinda like it (in some specific areas). It kinda scares one of my friend who doesn't want me to hurt myself (which I completely understand) it's just really strange what I feel. And when he calls me a slut or smth like that, it turns me on so much (and he knows this. I am a woman and still virgin but just liking those kind of stuff scares me a little bit. Is this normal ? Submitted April 18, 2020 at 12:15AM I just wanted to share this but, I feel kinda insecure loving being degraded. I find pleasure in domination and when I suffer physically I kinda like it (in some specific areas). It kinda scares one of my friend who doesn't want me to hurt myself (which I completely understand) it's just really strange what I feel. And when he calls me a slut or smth like that, it turns me on so much (and he knows this.I am a woman and sti...

Hello everyone, I'm [21M] in relationship with my gf [21F] for already 2 years and majority of this time we rent one room together. Unfortunately recently we've been going through crisis in relationship. I don't want to create a wall of text, so just assume that it was sth out of our control and I felt unloved because of it. Therefore I kinda lost comfort in bed I had with her and partially "sexual trust". We have things in bed already spiced up with our toys and roleplays but I kinda don't feel attracted to her. We have an open communication about this whole crisis. I don't watch porn/masturbate (except today and yesterday, but will stop it). Is it just a coincidence or maybe it's just time passing and taking away my previous need to have sex with her as much as we used to? How to deal with it? Submitted April 18, 2020 at 12:16AM Hello everyone,I'm [21M] in relationship with my gf [21F] for already 2 years and majority of this time we rent...

Is there such a thing as guys that like thighs the most for me they've always been an added bonus Submitted April 18, 2020 at 12:16AM Is there such a thing as guys that like thighs the most for me they've always been an added bonus

I tried posting this earlier but it got taken down, hopefully it works out this time. So for starters, I made a throwaway account to post this as I would rather my sex life and personal life be different. Also, sorry if this is really long. I am 28f and my husband is 33m. We have been married for 3 years. The other day, while lying in bed my husband asked to have a serious chat with me about something that’s been on his mind. Of course I accepted it and listened to what he had to say. We’ve always been open about sex with each other. Our sex life is still very active and even though it isn’t the best sex I’ve ever had, our intimacy still makes it amazing! He said that he has a kink/fantasy that he wants me to know about. I said “ok, what is it?” Thinking it would be something along the lines of anal or bdsm etc. But he was very timid in talking about it and he was beating around the bush by saying things like “I don’t want you to think of me differently after I tell you this” and ...