It’s not just you I get very frustrated at people constantly conflating the two, and I’m aroace ! I hate that people use me as an example of asexuality without separating the aro component of my orientation. August 17, 2022 at 12:15AM

No worries, I don't think your answer is harsh and I kinda agree with you. I really didn't mean to say that the LGBT+ community is dangerous and toxic, that's why I tried to nuance by saying that the support provided by some people is really cool (and there are many more positive aspects). Tbh, I never heard about the term "exclusionists" before today. I really thought that most people didn't care about the problems in the community because I've never seen anyone talking about it (except maybe talking about aphobia in this sub). I think I'm only seeing the negative aspects of the community because it's the most noticeable. Oh and FYI, I don't really hang out in groups, I just see posts on social medias sometimes that kinda make me lose faith in humanity xd My bad if it's already a well-known issue, I didn't know about it and I simply wanted to know if anyone felt like me about this topic. Oh and btw I know it's the same for ev...

Met this woman two weeks ago at a mutual friend's birthday, hooked up that night and have been on another 2 dates since. Asked if she'd like to get dinner this week and got this response: "I do like hanging out with you, but I think that I’d like to prioritize looking for a serious relationship, and I assume you’re looking for something casual. I’m really sorry, and I hope we can be friends!" -Some backstory: -I'm going through a divorce and neither party has told friends or family yet because we're only just coming to terms with our decision. -I'm going to be leaving the country in 4-6months to go back home, this is part of the reason of our divorce but I also want to leave just to put distance between me and that phase of my life. I really like this new woman and would love to keep seeing her occasionally, seeing her has been keeping my head above water recently. I just feel like I've done a terrible job at explaining my position simply for not w...

I gave my number to a guy that ended up being a catfish. I told him afterwards that I’m not interested in pursuing further and that maybe we can just be friends. He was okay with that and then would send me obnoxious texts. I would keep my responses short and I eventually stopped replying. I think because of that he started sending me dick pics from unknown numbers. I’m pretty sure they’re his google voice numbers or he posted my number somewhere. What should I do? I don’t want to change my number or should I just continue to ignore or release the numbers somewhere in hopes of payback? 😅 Submitted August 17, 2022 at 12:12AM I gave my number to a guy that ended up being a catfish. I told him afterwards that I’m not interested in pursuing further and that maybe we can just be friends. He was okay with that and then would send me obnoxious texts. I would keep my responses short and I eventually stopped replying. I think because of that he started sending me dick pics from unknown ...

Whats the women’s perspective on sexting especially if its regular with the same person Submitted August 17, 2022 at 12:13AM Whats the women’s perspective on sexting especially if its regular with the same person

I started talking to this guy online 5 months ago and he kept saying we should just talk a until it’s organic to meet up and I went with it. He suggested a couple time but it never happened because of both us. One day, it seems like a good day so I decided to go. Date was okay, he was very sweet and a bit rushed. We have been dating for a month and half now. He always makes the plans, never ask what’s I want. Never has taken me out expect coffee first date. Second date was tennis and then his place. Third was beach. Then all of them his place, when I bring it up he gets upset. He says he has more fun staying in and then says he goes out to eat with his friends. I go to his place since he lives alone. One night he suggested 7 pm then texted said come at 8 and then at 9 so I didn’t even go, said maybe he has no time. That was like a fight. He was flipping out. Made plans again, schedules for 8 to make sure there were no misunderstandings. Yet, right now I’m outside his apartment wa...

This is the only acceptable kind of pussy pic August 16, 2022 at 11:12PM