Oh wow, I had forgotten about this... I saw that episode before I found out I was ace. And I remember thinking that the episode seemed weirdly cruel to have been written that way. That despite there being a term for it, asexuality, that a "tumor" was making the character ace. It left a sour taste in my mouth, and I felt disappointed afterward but shrugged it off thinking "I guess that's how it is then". I was disappointed because I thought they were going to answer something for me that I didn't know at the time - could there be people happily together who don't have sex? And they said, "no" and back then I was kind of sad to hear that answer. And... yeah... now I know why I was sad. November 10, 2019 at 12:22AM

He was the first man I met on match and I let him come over to the house. I suppose I was feeling risky. Most of our time spent together was risky. Too much drinking, sex too quickly. I suppose I was feeling lonely, or bored; likely both. I liked him instantly. I think I liked him. He wasn’t my typical type, not that I have one. I should say, he was not as good looking as I usually go for. Not as preppy but smart. Not much ambition at all and clearly broken. I think I liked how broken he seemed, it made me feel safe. When we kissed it felt like magic. I don’t say that generously. I’ve had long-term relationships with men who never sparked the kind of things I felt when I kissed him. It was all downhill after the first kiss. Two broken people convinced that they’d be hurt by one another, racing to see who could scare the other one away the fastest. I won. It took about a month and a half, but I won. I think the STI accusation is what finally did me in. They call them STIs now (sexually...

33/f here.  Over the summer, someone from my childhood friend-requested me on Facebook. No big deal. He started liking / commenting on a lot of my posts. I guess we both realized we share a sense of humor and share views on a lot of things, so we started tagging each other in posts, having small conversations on posts via comments. That went on for a few months, and then he messaged me one day. We sporadically messaged for a month or two, and then he gave me his number and asked if I wanted to text instead.  So I texted him. We texted a bit but it was sporadic. One night we watched the same movie and texted pretty much all night.  About a week and a half ago, I thought of something that reminded me of him, so I texted him. It turned into a week and a half of non-stop texting. From wake-up to bedtime. Nothing flirty, but we were catching up on each other's lives, discussing interesting topics, hobbies, telling jokes, etc.  A few times he took hours to respond when h...

Did you watch "Mamma Mia! Here we go again"? I was laughing so hard at those scenes, when SPOILER that one girl goes to the bed with the guys she just met because i thought the scenarist made these scenes as a parody of all those "i don't normally do this" tropes. Turns out hippies really did something like that, and it was a normal portrayal of straight sex in those times. I was so stunned, when i learned that. November 10, 2019 at 12:18AM

I honestly don't bring it up unless somebody asks me personal questions, which is basically never. November 10, 2019 at 12:14AM

Haha. I have to go for check ups every 6 months. My gynecologist keeps reminding me to use protection. I just say yeah, because it's been 2 years since I started going and every single time she asks...my answer is the same. I don't have sex. I guess she can't understand I really don't. November 10, 2019 at 12:13AM

Just to let you know, you will have to do it once you are +25, whether you are active or not. November 10, 2019 at 12:12AM

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Hey everyone! Could use some advice on this :) So I've never orgasmed with any of my sexual partners (2) but I put that down to them being one night stands and that they were just in it to get themselves off. Now I'm dating this guy and he's really trying but nothing seems to work. We've tried so many different positions, penetration, oral, clitoral stimulation etc. We even bought a vibrating cock ring today and still no luck. Maybe I just can't orgasm? I mean I can when I masturbate but I'm never horny, I mainly do it if I'm stressed so I can sleep haha. I don't really get turned on/tingly down there and I thought it was my medication but I've stopped taking them now for months and even changed my birth control so I have no idea what's causing this. I like sex and I like having sex but I'm pretty much numb. Is this a medical thing or am I stuck in my head? Like I do consciously try not to put too much pressure on myself to do it but ??...

So I tried fingering my bf for the second time (but first time I actually understood what I was doing vs fingering it like you would a vagina. Oops). He seemed to enjoy it a lot but I could tell I wasn’t hitting his prostate. If I reallllyyy reached I could feel it with the tip of my longest finger. It was frustrating for me cause I felt bad, I was really hoping I’d be able to make him go crazy. He still said he really liked it but we’d figure out better positions to go deeper later. But I also wanna do my own research so I can maybe try again and surprise him. I haven’t found many helpful things via google (no, I don’t want to watch a “pegging demonstration” video on pornhub, google) so I was wondering if I’d get better help here. What positions could we try that would make the prostate easier to reach? Previously he was laying on his back and I was kneeling between his legs...sometimes he lifted his hips up a bit but it didn’t do much for depth (Also, somewhat related: I felt some...

Today my first ever roommate arrived. Straight off the door, I realised I'm soo going to fail at keeping things chill... You see, I'm 16 (guy) and the levels of testosterone in me are as high as ever, and to make it worse, I'm also gay. And I'm supposed to share the bedroom with a guy... yeah... Turns out this guy is such a hottie. Tall, well built... I might as well shoot myself for even thinking I could survive this. How am I supposed to sleep in the same room with him? Let me rephrase that... How the fuck am I supposed to keep my boxers dry while being a few steps away from his (probably) half naked body? This guy's freaking ripped! I've only ever seen such sexiness on instagram, and in real life it's a milion times hotter. I understand I'm probably exaggerating, but that's how I feel rn. I don't remember the last time I've needed to masturbate this bad, and he's been here only a few hours. I need to relax ASAP because pretty soon ...

Some time ago, i (M18) used my own spit as anal lubricant for masturbation. i remember it working fine, although not "optimal". I did it a couple of times but didnt really care too much about it afterwards. This might have been 2-3 months ago. Since then, ive felt this very slight pain, or best described as a discomfort after i poop, sometimes even after i pee. After i poop it feels uncomfortable to sit too. It doesnt even hurt, and its hard to describe. I dont think i ever let my bumhole get dry while i did it, so i dont THINK i caused any cuts or anything like that, however it might be possible, i dont know. At this point, ive gotten used to it, although i know its not normal, so i definately want to see if it is "fixable" Also, if i were to go to the doctor about this, how in gods name would i? its incredibly embarrasing and i dont want my parents to find out about it. Do the doctors register it somehow? My parents are extremely religious and would fucking kil...

I’m done with the pill, I’ve been off it for like a month and I feel so much better! So I wanna get a non hormonal IUD. These have strings that go outside the uterus and sit around the cervix. My husband has a Prince Albert piercing on his penis (basically a biggish ring that’s on the tip of the glans). There is some risk that his ring could get tangled in the strings and yank the IUD out. From what I’ve read online the risk isn’t so high, however there’s very little I could find. That’s why I’m asking here in case more people have had experiences with this. As a side question, are there any guys here with a PA piercing who take it out for sex? If so, does taking it off/putting it back on irritate the penis too much? As that could be a solution to minimize risk. Thanks y’all! Submitted November 09, 2019 at 11:52PM I’m done with the pill, I’ve been off it for like a month and I feel so much better! So I wanna get a non hormonal IUD. These have strings that go outside the uter...

Any tips on dealing with nerves before smooshing booties Submitted November 09, 2019 at 11:53PM Any tips on dealing with nerves before smooshing booties

This is probably going to sound very problematic but I promise this is just a genuine concern of mine, please try to understand. After like a year of just doing everything else, bf and I are attempting to have sex PiV. I’m a virgin. Each time we try, it hurts and we can barely get more than an inch in. For some context, I’ve never been able to use tampons because I just can’t fit them in, but when I’m alone and very in the mood I can fit 2 fingers in. I’ve heard sex is painful for a lot of women the first and first few times so I think it’s best if I just breathe and push through it with heaps of foreplay and lube. A lot of people mention vaginismus but I’m sure it isn’t that, it’s just the fact that nothing has really gone in there before so it’s not used to being stretched. I’m not completely ruling it out though, but it’s just hard for me to access a doctor and have it confirmed atm. But I’m so scared of the pain that’ll come with it. Will the pain essentially not feel like forc...

Me F21, husband M25, we met once at my house, we had kisses nd started to enjoying the time.. i asked alot to take his penis out from the boxer but he always refuse, i also asked him to do a blowjob, he refused too such a request. Both of us were having their clothes on because we scared if any will enter the room, but my question is that we had a lot of time kissing and touching everywhere, why didn’t he cums? He tried a lot but nothing went out. Is that okay?? Submitted November 09, 2019 at 11:57PM Me F21, husband M25, we met once at my house, we had kisses nd started to enjoying the time.. i asked alot to take his penis out from the boxer but he always refuse, i also asked him to do a blowjob, he refused too such a request. Both of us were having their clothes on because we scared if any will enter the room, but my question is that we had a lot of time kissing and touching everywhere, why didn’t he cums? He tried a lot but nothing went out. Is that okay??

So i was with my girl and i pulled my dick out and i notice this everytime w her, my dick is just long and thicker , but when i’m jerking off by myself it looks pathetic LMFAO. but like when i’m w her it looks like a king dick lmfao Submitted November 09, 2019 at 11:59PM So i was with my girl and i pulled my dick out and i notice this everytime w her, my dick is just long and thicker , but when i’m jerking off by myself it looks pathetic LMFAO. but like when i’m w her it looks like a king dick lmfao

I mean, i know EVERYTHING depends on mood and circumstances and everything but I'll tell you this When a man masturbates usually (I know there are exceptions, again this is just generalization) cums one time, washes his hands, does shit and if he feels like it, after 10 minutes or so, he'll go for round two What I'm saying is "in one sitting men, usually are satisfied with one orgasm" Obviously this is different during sex, since it's team work, you go on for longer, 4-5 orgasms or so, but in one "sitting" men are satisfied with just one orgasm How is it for you? I know you women are multiorgasmic, meaning you can achieve multiple orgasms in a rapid sucesion with little time in between, but when does it end? In one "sitting" or masturbation session, how many orgasms are enough? I know you can go on all day, but I'm asking in the same "session" when are you satisfied? Usually one? Two? Submitted November 10, 2019 at 1...

Most of my friends said I should let the guy give it to me raw. As I can't get pregnant this would mean cumming inside would be irrelevant BUT I am hyper paranoid of stds. Seriously, i couldnt even trust my ex boyfriend of three years and he was trustworthy. I just get nervous towards the idea. Is it worth it? I mean i really wanna try it but still... Submitted November 10, 2019 at 12:02AM Most of my friends said I should let the guy give it to me raw. As I can't get pregnant this would mean cumming inside would be irrelevant BUT I am hyper paranoid of stds. Seriously, i couldnt even trust my ex boyfriend of three years and he was trustworthy. I just get nervous towards the idea.Is it worth it? I mean i really wanna try it but still...

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I have a problem. I HATE those sex scenes, but i like porn. These scenes bring 0 value to the plot and I've been so bored because of them. I often just roll my eyes and wait for it to be over. Even my friend warns me that there are sex scenes in particular movie/show, so i can be prepared to skip them when i watch them. But i have no problem watching porn. Am i false ace, because of that? ._. November 10, 2019 at 12:08AM

I have never experienced this fact of being mocked because I'm the nice guy, but I always have to clarify that I'm not there for the f u c c. Also, congratulations for overcoming depression! November 10, 2019 at 12:02AM

"oh guys, one thing... I don't like the p... neither the d... you know, I'm asexual" November 10, 2019 at 12:00AM