Fingered my bf but couldn’t reach *the* spot

So I tried fingering my bf for the second time (but first time I actually understood what I was doing vs fingering it like you would a vagina. Oops). He seemed to enjoy it a lot but I could tell I wasn’t hitting his prostate. If I reallllyyy reached I could feel it with the tip of my longest finger. It was frustrating for me cause I felt bad, I was really hoping I’d be able to make him go crazy.

He still said he really liked it but we’d figure out better positions to go deeper later. But I also wanna do my own research so I can maybe try again and surprise him. I haven’t found many helpful things via google (no, I don’t want to watch a “pegging demonstration” video on pornhub, google) so I was wondering if I’d get better help here. What positions could we try that would make the prostate easier to reach? Previously he was laying on his back and I was kneeling between his legs...sometimes he lifted his hips up a bit but it didn’t do much for depth

(Also, somewhat related: I felt something hard on the “back” side as I was fingering him when about half my middle finger was in...I didn’t pay much attention bc honestly the texture freaked me out and I wanted to focus on ~other~ things. I mentioned it and he was like “uh yea that was...never mind I don’t wanna say it” so I think he thinks I was talking about literal shit but I don’t think that was it? Google didn’t help with this either)

Submitted November 09, 2019 at 11:37PM

So I tried fingering my bf for the second time (but first time I actually understood what I was doing vs fingering it like you would a vagina. Oops). He seemed to enjoy it a lot but I could tell I wasn’t hitting his prostate. If I reallllyyy reached I could feel it with the tip of my longest finger. It was frustrating for me cause I felt bad, I was really hoping I’d be able to make him go crazy.He still said he really liked it but we’d figure out better positions to go deeper later. But I also wanna do my own research so I can maybe try again and surprise him. I haven’t found many helpful things via google (no, I don’t want to watch a “pegging demonstration” video on pornhub, google) so I was wondering if I’d get better help here. What positions could we try that would make the prostate easier to reach? Previously he was laying on his back and I was kneeling between his legs...sometimes he lifted his hips up a bit but it didn’t do much for depth(Also, somewhat related: I felt something hard on the “back” side as I was fingering him when about half my middle finger was in...I didn’t pay much attention bc honestly the texture freaked me out and I wanted to focus on ~other~ things. I mentioned it and he was like “uh yea that was...never mind I don’t wanna say it” so I think he thinks I was talking about literal shit but I don’t think that was it? Google didn’t help with this either)