Is wanting to be complimented too petty of a reason to break it off?
I’m (24F) very strongly considering breaking it off with a guy (25M) I’ve been seeing for 4 months because he has NEVER complimented me unprompted. Not about my personality or physical appearance. Not even during sex. He’ll say things like “I want to f*** you” and things like that during sex, but nothing ME specific :/ I really like him- we laugh a lot and we enjoy a lot in common. Because I like him so much, I’ve been trying to not let it bug me and be an adult about it so i have very casually brought it up twice before. When I’ve done this, he states things he does “like” about me physically, but has said he doesn’t understand the need to say or hear it. I guess just don’t believe it. I think he enjoys my presence fine, but not enough to make an effort with. I think he thinks I’m attractive enough to fuck but not so much so that he wants to make me feel beautiful. Which sucks. And I do compliment him, for context. For physical and non physical things. Anyway when I told my girlfr...