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Is wanting to be complimented too petty of a reason to break it off?

I’m (24F) very strongly considering breaking it off with a guy (25M) I’ve been seeing for 4 months because he has NEVER complimented me unprompted. Not about my personality or physical appearance. Not even during sex. He’ll say things like “I want to f*** you” and things like that during sex, but nothing ME specific :/ I really like him- we laugh a lot and we enjoy a lot in common. Because I like him so much, I’ve been trying to not let it bug me and be an adult about it so i have very casually brought it up twice before. When I’ve done this, he states things he does “like” about me physically, but has said he doesn’t understand the need to say or hear it. I guess just don’t believe it. I think he enjoys my presence fine, but not enough to make an effort with. I think he thinks I’m attractive enough to fuck but not so much so that he wants to make me feel beautiful. Which sucks. And I do compliment him, for context. For physical and non physical things. Anyway when I told my girlfr...

in your experience... do you want to know as much as you can up front, or do you want to learn about them as slow as possible?

it might differ between guys and girls i been rejecting girls based on knowing too much too fast, instead of spreading out a single hour long conversation over a few weeks. so that i can get a vibe and overall attitude before i get down to their beliefs about universal things Submitted April 15, 2023 at 12:09AM it might differ between guys and girlsi been rejecting girls based on knowing too much too fast, instead of spreading out a single hour long conversation over a few weeks. so that i can get a vibe and overall attitude before i get down to their beliefs about universal things

/u/Madmonkeman on I've never had a sexual dream in my life (44F)

I’ve had them but the dreams weren’t about sex. It was weird. April 14, 2023 at 10:58PM

/u/Sirius-133 on If you didn’t have to worry about people being weird around you (or cost) what would be your ideal look?

Capes lots and lots of colorful capes. April 14, 2023 at 10:52PM

/u/Ramja9 on "Acephobia does not extists. Aces are not that discriminated" This tweet's section comment:

You should post your folder somewhere. April 14, 2023 at 10:52PM

/u/forests-of-purgatory on Why do so people many dislikes allosexuals?

I think you missed the joke Homophobic rhetoric is often about keeping children away from queer people due to the false belief that they are pedophiles and invalidating their sexual attraction Because ace people dont experience sexual attraction its even further laughable that we are dangerous towards children. they are making fun of the homophobic jokes by turning them towards allosexuality to show how homophobic people how dumb they sound April 14, 2023 at 10:52PM

/u/JustEllaa on What do you call your partner when you’re in a QPR?

“Partner” and “person” were my first two thoughts as well April 14, 2023 at 10:51PM