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AITA for being upset about my girl liking this post on Instagram?

I don’t even usually think about the things that she likes, but she liked a reel of this girl that wrote “me when I see tall a man in public” and the audio said “smash” like immediately. Instagram suggested it to me because she’s the only person I ever get posts sent from Hard to explain the stupid gen Z shit, but essentially my girl agrees that she wants to smash every tall guy in public that she sees. I’m only 5’10” so this kind of hurt my feelings. If I bring it up I’m sure she’ll say I’m being unreasonable and insecure and blah blah blah so I’d just like to ask for thoughts Submitted November 16, 2022 at 02:15AM I don’t even usually think about the things that she likes, but she liked a reel of this girl that wrote “me when I see tall a man in public” and the audio said “smash” like immediately. Instagram suggested it to me because she’s the only person I ever get posts sent fromHard to explain the stupid gen Z shit, but essentially my girl agrees that she wants to smash ev...

Told a guy I’ve been seeing that I don’t want a relationship right now. Am I doing the right thing?

Hi! In my early 20s and dating for the first time as an adult. I was in a relationship from 17 until about a year ago so I have basically no clue how dating works/what’s acceptable/etc. I know what I want but am not sure if it’s ethical/fair? I want to experience casual dating, and get to know people so i know what I want in a partner in the far future. This means I do not want to get into another serious relationship right now. I do not want an entirely sexual FWB arrangement either. I want to get to know someone and spend time doing things with them (exclusively is fine!), but not have the responsibility of having to adjust my life for someone else and intertwine our lives. ideally I spend time with someone every now and then that may or may not include sex. Anyway I’ve been going on dates with a guy who I really like spending time with. We had a conversation about our relationship and he asked if we could be exclusive, which was totally fine by me and I told him pretty much exa...

/u/niky45 on insight on how to approach this issue with my flatmate?

If they really don't want to live with people who (might) have sex in their own bedrooms, then they need to find roommates who don't want to have sex in their own bedrooms. this say it louder for those in the back November 16, 2022 at 12:21AM

Cute guy at college.

(25F) There's this cute guy that always wears his sunglasses inside I find it funny, he has a really cute smile. Should I tell him that I think he's cute ? Lmao. Submitted November 16, 2022 at 12:11AM (25F) There's this cute guy that always wears his sunglasses inside I find it funny, he has a really cute smile. Should I tell him that I think he's cute ? Lmao.

/u/dotCoder876 on Annoyed at friend wanting/claiming to be ace after bad breakup

I think what they (heartbroken allos) want and what lots of self-loathing aros/aces want is to be able to turn it off. To be able to tune it down when we aren't ready, to be able to tune it up when we feel ready. Life doesn't give us that, so we have aces/aros who perceive the world very differently - life can be very isolating when you live with a constant reminder that we're not normal, whether we're in a relationship or not. Allos want their temporary heartbreak problems to go away. November 15, 2022 at 11:23PM