Do girls usually do this? She spent 4 hours at mine yesterday because she wanted to watch me work and she left her bra at mine. It was really nice, she sat down on the floor next to my desk and rested her head on my leg. Why would a girl do this? Submitted May 09, 2021 at 11:52PM Do girls usually do this?She spent 4 hours at mine yesterday because she wanted to watch me work and she left her bra at mine.It was really nice, she sat down on the floor next to my desk and rested her head on my leg.Why would a girl do this?

a 20 yo male, i don't know how to chat to female , don't what to say please give me advice , how can make her my friend. what to say , what not to say , what is best please give an advice how to start the conversation how to continue the conversation how to know if they are bored Submitted May 09, 2021 at 11:52PM a 20 yo male, i don't know how to chat to female , don't what to say please give me advice , how can make her my friend. what to say , what not to say , what is best please give an advice how to start the conversation how to continue the conversation how to know if they are bored

Why are other guys so weird about you having friends that are guys ? I can totally be friends with a dude and be strictly friends yet most guys I’m with tell me it’s stupid and there’s no such thing . I don’t understand why it’s so weird to be just friends with a dude . Every guy I’ve dated thinks I’m bieng dumb to think we are “ just friends “ ... men what do you think ? Submitted May 09, 2021 at 11:54PM Why are other guys so weird about you having friends that are guys ? I can totally be friends with a dude and be strictly friends yet most guys I’m with tell me it’s stupid and there’s no such thing . I don’t understand why it’s so weird to be just friends with a dude . Every guy I’ve dated thinks I’m bieng dumb to think we are “ just friends “ ... men what do you think ?

So I (M 22) have an online friend group that I've played games with very often for the past 2 years. I've known this girl for about just as long as I've been a part of this online friend group and I now consider myself to be close friends with them as we've made plans to take a trip to all hang out minus the girl that I like. Niky, the girl I like, and I have rarely talked over the previous 2 years until recently (past month) where we talk on both discord and outside of discord quite often. If we aren't working we are sending each other texts or are gaming with one another. Well, recently I've started to catch feelings as we've started to send photos of each other and ask much more personal questions, however, it still feels like even though we've gotten closer over the past month, we still are just friends, and feels like she may not be interested even though she constantly wants to game with me. It could just be that she's not into the games that...

So I’m a virgin, never really kissed a girl, liked people but it’s never worked out. I’ve been working on my anxiety for years now and I really think it’s all starting to come together which is great, I work as an accountant, and I’m on the verge of passing my final cpa exam. My lack of dating experience used to be very bothersome to me and almost obsessive, which makes sense due to my anxiety. I used to say screw it im giving up and I’m done, but it was upsetting to me. Now it’s like I don’t even care, don’t think about it nearly as much, and part of me is embracing the fact of being single and accomplishing so much alone. Is this weird? I guess I’d be open to something down the line and I’m definitely shy cause of my past, but obviously I don’t wanna come out of my comfort zone enough cause it doesn’t mean that much to me no? Submitted May 10, 2021 at 12:13AM So I’m a virgin, never really kissed a girl, liked people but it’s never worked out. I’ve been working on my anxiety fo...

Weird question but I 17m just wanna get over my crush that I have had for almost 5 years. Im tired of being single and it feels like it wont ever happen with my crush, so how do I find someone? Is tinder even a good way to date? Submitted May 10, 2021 at 12:14AM Weird question but I 17m just wanna get over my crush that I have had for almost 5 years.Im tired of being single and it feels like it wont ever happen with my crush, so how do I find someone?Is tinder even a good way to date?

I didn’t know who TJ Watt was b4 this post .... May 10, 2021 at 12:04AM

Sometimes you are inside, where smoking is prohibited May 10, 2021 at 12:01AM

Making sure to add purple smoke bombs into my daily carry. May 09, 2021 at 11:56PM

I know a guy who was considering St. Nicholas. Yes, in the guy Santa Claus is based on. May 09, 2021 at 11:40PM

Thank you? Sorry not used to compliments May 09, 2021 at 11:38PM

What would be the Allo equivalent to this particular phrase? Would it be like when Allos say "pause" or something? May 09, 2021 at 11:32PM

I love that for you. Sounds like a blast! May 09, 2021 at 11:25PM

did that today while we watched funny shows. it was the best May 09, 2021 at 11:24PM

Cuddling with a best friend >>>>> May 09, 2021 at 11:23PM

Not having to worry or struggle with the whole girlfriend, boyfriend, partner thing. Personally for me I'm not interested in relationships, seeing how hard it is to balance just your relationships with your family and friends. I don't need another person to juggle to please. May 09, 2021 at 11:22PM

You’re funny. May 09, 2021 at 11:19PM

That's definitely understandable. May 09, 2021 at 11:18PM

She does say that she gets emotional satisfaction from it, though, from knowing that sex is something that her partner does enjoy and that might mean more to him. I think what she might have meant by ‘numb’ is that some days she is not repulsed by it, even if she doesn’t desire it either. May 09, 2021 at 11:17PM

Precisely! Maybe they WERE recording asexuality, in a way. They just wouldn't have known that's what it was at the time. Think of all the people who opted for being "confirmed bachelors" or "spinsters" over getting married, or the number of women who chose to become nuns. Sure, we can attribute some of those choices to other circumstances, but I'm sure at least some percentage made that choice because by today's standards they would qualify as asexual. Also, based on how often we can find posts about people just now realizing they're asexual after being in relationships for years, my guess is that a good chunk of people who would be considered asexual today would, in the past, have simply gotten married anyways because that's just what you did. May 09, 2021 at 11:17PM

Thanks for this. I was literally working up the courage to call him cuz this is really bugging me and your comment is really helping May 09, 2021 at 11:16PM

I don't know if her situation is exactly the same as mine, but it sounds very similar and I don't feel 'numb' is negative in the way that you're thinking. For me, sex is sometimes horrible. Like she said - so repulsive the idea of it makes you freak out, and if you try anyway, it can physically as well as mentally hurt. It feels like terrifyingly painful overstimulation and it absolutely has to stop. But, sometimes it's not. It feels a bit icky. Or stimulation, but not painful overstimulation, just odd. 'Numb' in that context means 'less physical or mental reaction' in exactly the same way as painkillers numb pain. So, I get where you're coming from - feeling numb because you've repressed your response in order to have sex with someone sounds worrying. But feeling numb and therefore being able to have sex with someone is different, and I don't think it has to be bad. My partner likes sex, and I like making him happy with sex. So...

Crushes but never seeing myself dating them or being in a relationship May 09, 2021 at 11:14PM