Me and my man have a pretty good sex life, but it’s hard for me to cum. I’m satisfied, but he feels bad that I don’t always cum and he really wants me to! He suggested we try toys to help me. Any suggestions? Preferably ones that we will both be able to enjoy Submitted October 17, 2019 at 11:40PM Me and my man have a pretty good sex life, but it’s hard for me to cum. I’m satisfied, but he feels bad that I don’t always cum and he really wants me to! He suggested we try toys to help me. Any suggestions? Preferably ones that we will both be able to enjoy

My boyfriend brought up the idea of casual hookups, but does not want to actually hook up with anyone besides me. Instead he wants to try to do some roleplay where we pretend not to know each other and make moves as if it were to be a one night stand. How should i go about this? Ive never attempted to roleplay a casual hookup let alone hook up in that sort of way. If anyone has tried this before are there any flirty pointers my antisocial ass can try? Submitted October 17, 2019 at 11:48PM My boyfriend brought up the idea of casual hookups, but does not want to actually hook up with anyone besides me. Instead he wants to try to do some roleplay where we pretend not to know each other and make moves as if it were to be a one night stand.How should i go about this? Ive never attempted to roleplay a casual hookup let alone hook up in that sort of way. If anyone has tried this before are there any flirty pointers my antisocial ass can try?

I have a couple of well endowed partners, and also like to have really deep/intense penatrative sex. Occasionally, if I get hit at the right angle it will feel strange and nerve-y, almost like they're poking into my hip socket. It isn't super painful, but just an odd feeling that is distinct and slightly numbing. It's usually when their penis is in the neighborhood of my vaginal fornix. Any idea what this is? Submitted October 17, 2019 at 11:55PM I have a couple of well endowed partners, and also like to have really deep/intense penatrative sex.Occasionally, if I get hit at the right angle it will feel strange and nerve-y, almost like they're poking into my hip socket. It isn't super painful, but just an odd feeling that is distinct and slightly numbing. It's usually when their penis is in the neighborhood of my vaginal fornix.Any idea what this is?

So like me(male) and my fwb are planning to have sex in the future, but I am extremely unconfident and unmotivated with it. Not my size, I am above average and it’s pretty girthy. A week ago I had a pimple down there and it was a pretty decent size, it went down but it still has a red mark and I am very embarrassed about this. It isint on my wiener or my balls it’s up towards my belly button but doesn’t go past where my pubes end. How do I get rid of this? Or at least fade? Submitted October 18, 2019 at 12:00AM So like me(male) and my fwb are planning to have sex in the future, but I am extremely unconfident and unmotivated with it. Not my size, I am above average and it’s pretty girthy. A week ago I had a pimple down there and it was a pretty decent size, it went down but it still has a red mark and I am very embarrassed about this. It isint on my wiener or my balls it’s up towards my belly button but doesn’t go past where my pubes end. How do I get rid of this? Or at least fad...

Hi! So I really want to make a move on this guy, but I’m nervous to just do it. My question is; if I send him a nude and tell him it was an accident, which I know is a terrible lie that’s the point. do you think he’d make a move? Or would it just be awkward? Submitted October 18, 2019 at 12:04AM Hi! So I really want to make a move on this guy, but I’m nervous to just do it. My question is; if I send him a nude and tell him it was an accident, which I know is a terrible lie that’s the point. do you think he’d make a move? Or would it just be awkward?

You can’t stop thinking about it and craving it for days afterwards. And you’re just involuntarily horny and wet all the time when you’re just trying to go about your day. Fack. How do you know when the sex was good? Submitted October 18, 2019 at 12:04AM You can’t stop thinking about it and craving it for days afterwards. And you’re just involuntarily horny and wet all the time when you’re just trying to go about your day. Fack.How do you know when the sex was good?

I have been sick with a cold since last Saturday. I've been feeling run down, depressed, and half dead for days. My little 🐨 came over last night like usual to make me feel better. After doing a little cleaning for me so I didn't have to do it she let me lay down on top of her and burry my face in her breasts and rest/sleep using them for actual pillows. While I was there she continuously lightly scratched my back. Basically this is maximum level aftercare for us and it went on for at least 3 hours until she had to go home. About an hour or so after she left I suddenly started feeling night and day different. And it's continued to today. I'm nowhere near as sick as I was. I blame her and her life giving boobs. And when I get a little bit better she's definitely getting a reward of some kind. So what about you? What wonderful thing has your partner done for you lately that you think they should be praised for? Submitted October 18, 2019 at 12:06AM I have b...

I (25 M) am really struggling to maintain a happy sex life with my partner (23 F), after she began to suffer more from the effects of endometriosis. A bit of back story: My partner and I have been dating for just under three years. For the first year of our relationship we had a fantastic sex life. We would have sex literally every single day. Most of the time, this wasn't painful and it was enjoyable for both of us. Sometimes she would hurt during and after sex, but she put this down to her endometriosis and my size. She encouraged me to continue even when it hurt because she would get turned on by being submissive. I learnt to be more aggressive, often hitting, restraining and choking her consentually. This was a new thing for me and it took me a while to learn to enjoy it. Often times I would feel guilty and bad for 'hurting' her after sex, even when she told me that it's exactly what she wanted. Sex sort of turned into an 'act' for me that I would need t...

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I just turned 23 and I’m still a virgin. Never had a bf either. I’m always constantly horny and fantasize about boys and sex alot. Ive been masturabating ever since I was 16. Ive only ever masturbated using my clit, never actual penetration to my vagina. My first ever sexual experience was when I was 20. It wasn’t how I expected it to be at all. The guy ate me out several times but I didn’t really feel anything, he tried to put his fingers inside me and just him touching the area around it just made me feel a huge pain of pressure and really uncomfortable, I didn’t like the feeling of being touched there at all. I felt the same feeling as well when he was about to put his dick inside. Him just touching that sensitive area alone hurt so I told him to stop. He then said “why do you have to be so tight” So then I started to question that maybe my vagina is too small? I was disappointed in myself because I really wanted to start being sexually active, but that experience kind of set me ba...

Hey I am a 20M and I am in the middle of a drought. My ex and I broke up about a year ago and she was my first. After we broke up I realised I had a high libido and ever since then I've been trying to have some sort of sexual relationship but tinder and bumble and been less than helpful. It's gotten to the point that it's starting to affect my self image. I have been told I'm above average for looks but it's hard to believe that when I get pretty much no sex at all. I have depression and this is fucking up my self image even more. I guess I'm trying to ask how could I try to fix that. I just want to have sex again. I want to make someone else cum again. And I feel kinds useless right now. Submitted October 18, 2019 at 12:16AM Hey I am a 20M and I am in the middle of a drought. My ex and I broke up about a year ago and she was my first. After we broke up I realised I had a high libido and ever since then I've been trying to have some sort of sexual rel...

Is it silly to be worried about that appearance of my penis? I am a virgin and I’m worried my girlfriend not being satisfied. I’m sure I’m overthinking this. Submitted October 18, 2019 at 12:19AM Is it silly to be worried about that appearance of my penis? I am a virgin and I’m worried my girlfriend not being satisfied. I’m sure I’m overthinking this.

So I super liked this girl on Tinder and to my surprise, we have matched. She was clearly out of my league, but her bio was really straightforward about what she wants (not chatting about our education, work etc., but really getting to know each other and developing a relationship with a future), that is why I super liked her in the first place. We've been messing around with each other online for a couple of days, until today half-jokingly I asked her out on a date. This is the point where my matches usually disappear, have some excuse, you know how it goes. She said yes, unexpectedly to me. I have registered on Tinder 2 years ago, and I haven't updated my photos since then. Unfortunately, I have gained a decent amount of weight meanwhile (maybe 20 kilograms / 44 pounds), so the person those photos show can probably be much more attractive than I am right now. What do you think I should do? I certainly don't want to disappoint or ghost her, but I'm quite sure our d...

So i’ve been casually dating a guy for a few weeks now and everything has been great until today. Wednesday he texted me to come cuddle him and we were all good but today he hasn’t texted me all day and when i tried to talk to him he seemed distant. I just let it go and thought maybe he needs some space but he hasn’t texted or called me since the afternoon.. im scared. Is this how it will end? Just like that? He normally calls or at least sends a message but today there was nothing.. Submitted October 17, 2019 at 11:44PM So i’ve been casually dating a guy for a few weeks now and everything has been great until today. Wednesday he texted me to come cuddle him and we were all good but today he hasn’t texted me all day and when i tried to talk to him he seemed distant. I just let it go and thought maybe he needs some space but he hasn’t texted or called me since the afternoon.. im scared. Is this how it will end? Just like that? He normally calls or at least sends a message but tod...

Hi, hope you are having a smooth day. Tonight i was on a tinder date. We met for beers at a cool bar and I thought she was a really pretty and interesting person. We had very much in common and conversations where flowing really good. After about 3 hours i said that I was thinking of going home since its late but she could join for a joint if she wanted. She agreed to join me. We went to my place and then outside on a bench in the park. We were sitting close together under the umbrella in the rain and smoking. I really felt like kissing her so i did. She didn't kiss me back, and said that its too fast for her, she likes to get to know people better before kissing etc. I told her that I understand, and that I tried to kiss her because I think she was very pretty. She told me I was pretty too, and that I was a cool person. It was a bit awkward for a minute, but we managed to keep the conversation going ok and talk about other stuff. She then said that it was time for her to go ho...

I've noticed the few times I have any luck with casually meeting women, it's never fun, it's hard work. It takes an overwhelming effort to win anybody over and get consent. I'm an introvert, so socializing with total strangers and navigating the minefield that is small talk is really hard work. I'm finding that girls you meet this way are no fun and are terrible in the sack, on account of their not trying or putting forth any effort at all. There's nothing enjoyable about this. Am I insane? I miss a good, steady relationship, but I'm not in a position to date properly, and due to the nature of my work I could be that way for more than a year. My only option is casual, and it doesn't seem like it's an option. I see people all around me enjoying being single. Is there something I'm missing here or is being an introvert a disqualification? Submitted October 18, 2019 at 12:18AM I've noticed the few times I have any luck with casually meet...

I could so use your input. We have been together for 12 years and have 2 autistic children. I knew my husband was quirky. I didn't realize it was autism until I was pregnant a second time and saw the symptoms in my older child. From there it was just down, down, down. My husband's symptoms became a lot worse with the stress of kids. For years I've told him that we need therapy. It doesn't help that we have very little support network. Most of my family is dead or estranged, he has no friends and is very distant from his family. He tells me we can't get a baby-sitter (my sibling probably could once or twice a month). He tells me we don't have the money (we do). He tells me we just need to spend time together - we do, but obviously it's more than that. I don't think either of us cares to spend time together. My hobbies, interests, what happened in my day are of no interest to him. To be blunt, his doesn't appeal to me either. I at least try to enga...

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Hello their redditors, So about a year I ago I helped my friend by giving him the snapchat of a girl he liked and they ended up dating and I feel happy that I did. Today he gave me the snapchat of this girl I liked because he saw me talking to her and idk if I should message her, it just feels weird that I didn’t ask her for it... Submitted October 17, 2019 at 11:06PM Hello their redditors,So about a year I ago I helped my friend by giving him the snapchat of a girl he liked and they ended up dating and I feel happy that I did. Today he gave me the snapchat of this girl I liked because he saw me talking to her and idk if I should message her, it just feels weird that I didn’t ask her for it...

Yeah man idk why people wanna just talk about sex all the time, like going into detail and everything. It's pretty frustrating at times I'll admit. So yeah you're not alone. October 18, 2019 at 12:08AM

I'm confused..did he put his ummm. .in the jar???? October 18, 2019 at 12:03AM

Often "allies" are closeted something else. Or, someone heterosexual that is in a relationship with someone LGBTQIA+. It could be harmful to these groups to say anyone "deserves" to be anywhere more than anyone else. That's just exclusion, and that's the opposite of what we want. October 18, 2019 at 12:02AM

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