But of course you can! 🖤🤍💜 💖💛💙 June 23, 2021 at 12:04AM

I've known I'm a lesbian for quite a while, but it took me so long to work out I am also ace. It took getting a girlfriend and realising I only wanted the romantic not sexual side to come to terms with it! Also in the process of getting an autism diagnosis which has helped recognise how sensory overload etc plays into it. June 23, 2021 at 12:03AM

IDK but isn't shooting down planes a good talent June 23, 2021 at 12:01AM

Hes just mad because his name is Egil. June 23, 2021 at 12:01AM

my response to this aphobe would be why do you have are stupid? June 23, 2021 at 12:00AM

Thank you. Yes, that absolutely answers my question. June 22, 2021 at 11:56PM

That's a really neat idea! It looks awesome! June 22, 2021 at 11:54PM

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I’ve got mixed feelings to the idea but none to do with my asexuality really (mostly bc I have intense menstrual pain, burst ovarian cysts, PCOS, and vaginismus affecting my ability to use tampons, have Pap smears, gyno exams, etc. None of those things are sexual though, and I pretty much don’t think of those things when I consider sex, it’s just that my reproductive areas often hURT out of the blue so I’m not jazzed about potential things going wrong and being in more pain.) but aside from my physical issues I do enjoy kids, I don’t think I make enough money to comfortably have any but if I was in less pain/made more money/had better healthcare I wouldn’t hate the idea of having them. When it comes to my asexuality mostly I think the idea of sex is better than the reality (which is a lot of trouble and work and cleanup for something that I just feel really “eh” about honestly.) it’s like maybe setting up a ping pong net on your dinner table (or something) sounds like a fun idea for ...

Hi, I'm 36, female, and in west Texas June 22, 2021 at 11:47PM

Exactly, although there are plenty of things that can keep an allo from being able to have sex, like disability, old age, or medical issues. June 22, 2021 at 11:46PM

Oh my… June 22, 2021 at 11:42PM

Sorry for replying late, but I don't think I'll leave the server right now. I think experiences like this will help me exercise my stress-management skills, as well as helping me become more accustomed to hatred. I feel like hatred like this will never stop coming, so it is better to deal with it and acknowledge the fact that some people are like this, instead of avoiding it. June 22, 2021 at 11:39PM

I definitely want to be a mother, but I'm not sure about this "deep lady desire to grow a child in your uterus". I would like at least one bio child to experience pregnancy, because I do think it'll be a really emotionally rewarding experience (probably due to hormones though), but I'm also interested in fostering/adopting. I've known I've wanted kids my whole life and not just because it's what society expects. It's one of the few things I am certain I want in my future. I hope this answered your question lol I had to refrain from going on and on because I honestly love kids and everything to do with them. June 22, 2021 at 11:38PM

Ok, thanks! June 22, 2021 at 11:37PM

Some people who aren't asexual also have different sexual and romantic feelings, so saying you're biromantic doesn't automatically tell people you're asexual. June 22, 2021 at 11:34PM

I thought I was straight and going along with purity culture and then I thought I was straight with religious trauma and then straight with some kind of other emotional issues and then I learned about asexuality and finally realized nothing was wrong with me and I'm actually just ace. June 22, 2021 at 11:34PM

For someone keen on being snarky about language they sure do suck at using it. Aces are "good at shooting down planes" (not "plans"). Ace and Aro are both accurately defined in MerriamWebster. Aspec (not Aspect) isn't yet but it's up on UrbanDictionary at least. June 22, 2021 at 11:33PM

I’ve been horrified at the prospect literally since my mother gave me the talk. June 22, 2021 at 11:32PM

You can say that again! For the first time ever I met another grey ace in the wild this weekend and we were grey in totally different ways! June 22, 2021 at 11:30PM

Yeah. I mean, all of my crushes were on guys and that’s all I was ever interested in. Then I realized I’m not actually sexually attracted, just romantically attracted. June 22, 2021 at 11:29PM

I was thinking the same, I’ll post a little something later. So, be prepared June 22, 2021 at 11:28PM

Damn, shipping to Canada is between $18-46 dollars June 22, 2021 at 11:27PM