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/u/r_renfield on Wat do?

I'd love to be someone's financial dominatrix... Got bills to pay September 01, 2019 at 12:17AM

/u/beetights27 on Asexual characters?

Todd from BoJack Horseman is canonically ace! and a super cutie to draw. September 01, 2019 at 12:16AM

/u/Midnight_Skky126 on Any good literature/media for a growing asexual?

if you like fantasy / post-apocalyptic kind of books. There's "Chameleon Moon" by Roanna Sylver. The main character is Asexual and there is a lot LGBT+ representation in the book as well. There also this website that is a database for LGBT+ books, and it includes an Asexual tab. It even has tags for genre, race, religion, etc. I highly recommend it. http://queerbooksforteens.com/find-books/?fwp_orientation=asexual September 01, 2019 at 12:15AM

/u/stitchitch on Most ace thing that ever happened to me

That is some real Footloose shit September 01, 2019 at 12:04AM

/u/Tyrannosaurus__Wreck on shocked and upset

not funny cried :( September 01, 2019 at 12:03AM

/u/Anthony1881 on Well at least one thing in life is going right

Lol... September 01, 2019 at 12:03AM

/u/wobbuffette on Pride dragon I drew today! So glad when my family saw it, they just thought it was a cards thing.

This would be an absolutely phenomenal tattoo!!! Oh man I love it! August 31, 2019 at 11:57PM

/u/leftargus on How do you guys differentiate sexual and aesthetic attraction?

Well, I really think it's actually simple. Do you think "Damn, that person is hot" or "Damn, I would totally fuck her/him"? If former, then it's aesthetic attraction. If latter, or both, it's sexual attraction. August 31, 2019 at 11:57PM

I'm a good looking guy, but have little confidence when talking to cute girls. How can I be more confident?

TLDR; I'm a good looking 21 yo dude, but get shook when talking to cute girls. I have no experience. How do I make a move without blowing it? I can confidently say that I am a handsome guy. I'm tall and in decent shape. I could be in better shape, but I could still keep up whenever I play sports. I wouldn't say that I could be a model, but who knows. I'm Mexican with brown skin, but I've been told that I look puerto Rican, Dominican, and even middle eastern one time. I guess I sort of look like a Mexican Chris Brown. I've been feeling this way since I was about 19. I'm 21 now and feel this way every day I wake up. In short, I am for the most part confident about my looks. Despite my good looks, I have never had a girlfriend. I was never interested in having a GF throughout high school because I went to small school. I honestly did feel attracted to many of them. And the ones I that I was to, were taken. Another issue I had throughout school was having gi...

Sexuality questions as a virgin - am I bi?

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Is foreplay more important than penetration?

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Can only orgasm from grinding

Ok, this is weird. To preface, I'm male and a virgin. Basically, the only way I can cum is by sort of grinding against a blanket. I've tried 'regular' jerking off, simulating blow jobs, and lots of other techniques I've read about/been recommended. They all feel good, but I can't orgasm from them Submitted August 31, 2019 at 10:07PM Ok, this is weird. To preface, I'm male and a virgin. Basically, the only way I can cum is by sort of grinding against a blanket. I've tried 'regular' jerking off, simulating blow jobs, and lots of other techniques I've read about/been recommended. They all feel good, but I can't orgasm from them

Butt or skinny? One has to go

Hello! I (20F) feel like (and recognize that I am) the most unattractive human on the planet. I have even had friends stop hanging out with me because they said being around me prevented guys from coming up to them and talking to them. The only sex I have had has been people who have taken me home when I was already too drunk to be aware of what was going on. Other times I’ve started hookups but I’ve had them say that I’m too ugly for them to want to touch me. I workout constantly, and can’t go a day without it. I love it, and I’m muscular but I’m still heavy-set. I have a decent ass, because of all the hard work I’ve put into it, but I can’t get rid of all the extra fat. So, I’m about to start a very restrictive diet that I have done plenty of times before, but there’s one downside. I will lose my but. So, I’m wondering, would you rather have a girl that’s perfectly skinny with as little fat as possible on her body, or a girl that’s a little heavier but has an ass? Before it’s as...

[advice needed] boyfriend wants me to dom but I don't like it. What do I do?

So my boyfriend and I have been having this certain conversation for.... Almost the whole time we've been dating (over a year.) He wants me to dom him and... Well, you know fuck him. I'm not into it, I'm not a Dom, I don't find traps attractive. But I don't mind him being into it, everyone has their own kinks why should I judge. And again, I'm giving this spill to him about how I'm not into it, idk how to do it, it makes me feel more anxious than turned on. And then he said that he doesn't like domming either. Thing is, that's how it goes. He's the Dom I'm the Sub. I feel bad, I've told him time and time before I'll try it out just for him when we get the supplies to, like a strap on and stuff. But now that he said he doesn't want to dom either idk what to say or do. Help? Submitted August 31, 2019 at 10:12PM So my boyfriend and I have been having this certain conversation for.... Almost the whole time we've been dating...

Sex for the first time in almost a year. How do I please a guy idk sexually ?

I haven’t had sex since last November (with my ex btw) and I’ve been talking to this guy for about 3 months now, I really like him. And I want to have sex with him. My question is, how do I please him ? I didn’t know him sexually and I’m kind of inexperienced I’m 21 with only two sexual partners. So I’m very inexperienced. How can I please him so he doesn’t think I am boring ? Submitted August 31, 2019 at 11:39PM I haven’t had sex since last November (with my ex btw) and I’ve been talking to this guy for about 3 months now, I really like him. And I want to have sex with him. My question is, how do I please him ? I didn’t know him sexually and I’m kind of inexperienced I’m 21 with only two sexual partners. So I’m very inexperienced. How can I please him so he doesn’t think I am boring ?

Why wouldn't you look at someone during sex?

I'm not talking about just no eye contact I mean like not looking at all. Not at my face, not at my body, nothing. The guy I'm hooking up with constantly has his face in my neck/shoulder when we are having sex and I don't know if I should be offended by it or not. Occasionally he'll come up to kiss me but then it's right back down to my neck. And it's not even like he's kissing my neck, he's just sort of there. I try to pull his face up a little but it seems like he resists and if he does give in, it's just to kiss me. It kind of makes me feel like he's just not attracted to me, but he compliments me a lot and he gives me that "you're so hot let's fuck" up and down look when I'm undressing and during foreplay. He also doesn't really let me look at him. Whenever I'm going down on him, I try to look up at him but he just kinda grabs my hair so I can't tilt my head to look at him. Which is annoying because that...

What kinky apps can I use?

Looking for essentially a Kinky Tinder. But I can only find apps that you are required to pay for after signing up. Can someone give me advice on where to look? As bad as it sounds, I'm just looking for a hook up, but I'm into bdsm etc. Submitted August 31, 2019 at 11:51PM Looking for essentially a Kinky Tinder. But I can only find apps that you are required to pay for after signing up. Can someone give me advice on where to look? As bad as it sounds, I'm just looking for a hook up, but I'm into bdsm etc.

My body doesn’t like my sex toy

Ive gotten BV 3x now since I bought a new wand, the rechargeable one from “evolved.” The first time was in May right after I purchased the toy, the last two just this month. I’ve tried two new toy cleaners since and still get it. I store the stupid thing the same way as my old wand. I clean it the same way (was until I got the BV). My hygiene habits are the same, if not better now than they were previously. The new toy was all that changed when i got it the first time. This one feels like silicone, I’m not sure what the previous one was. It was the hitachi magic wand. I’ve cleaned every nook and cranny of this vibrator, yet still get BV. At this point, do I need to throw it away and go back to what I used to have? How long should I wait after the antibiotics of being symptom free to try using this potential new toy again? I want to enjoy my me time but I’m tired of being on antibiotics and not being able to drink. Submitted August 31, 2019 at 11:54PM Ive gotten BV 3x now since...

Uncomfortable With My Partner Liking My Ass

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All I want is a BJ

Yes that's it , and in return I eat your pussy . My wife doesn't like that but I crave it and I don't wanna have regular sex I've been lead on by my wife and it never happens kind of a let down at this point. Might have to find a FWB in Oregon. Submitted August 31, 2019 at 11:57PM Yes that's it , and in return I eat your pussy .My wife doesn't like that but I crave it and I don't wanna have regular sex I've been lead on by my wife and it never happens kind of a let down at this point.Might have to find a FWB in Oregon.

I’m transgender mtf (haven’t had sexual reassignment surgery yet) and want to know about masturbation

So I’m transgender mtf and have been on hrt since I was 13 (I’m 19 now) and because of how much I hate the fact that I have a penis I never masturbated. I haven’t gotten sexual reassignment surgery yet but I am going to relatively soon, I feel like I should masturbate at least 1 time before I get surgery. But I was just wondering if there is anything I should know about masturbation as a trans women that would be different from a cis man masturbating. Thanks :) Submitted September 01, 2019 at 12:03AM So I’m transgender mtf and have been on hrt since I was 13 (I’m 19 now) and because of how much I hate the fact that I have a penis I never masturbated. I haven’t gotten sexual reassignment surgery yet but I am going to relatively soon, I feel like I should masturbate at least 1 time before I get surgery. But I was just wondering if there is anything I should know about masturbation as a trans women that would be different from a cis man masturbating. Thanks :)

I’m [18F] afraid to tell my boyfriend [19M] about my embarrassing kink... and it prevents me from having an orgasm during sex.

Alright here it goes... I’ve never told anyone, whether a close friend or a lover, about this so hey why not tell a bunch of strangers on Reddit! Ever since I was a kid I’ve had a weird fetish. I discovered masturbation by touching myself while watching cartoons. I don’t know how it developed but I ended up with a fart kink. I’ve burried this deep within me for almost my entire life. I’ve been in constant denial and have always insisted “I can orgasm without it!” I’ve always found myself turned on by specifically women farting. Whether it’s intentional, unintentional, real or not, it’s so fucking hot to me. I know that’s gross, but I have no control over it. Well, now that I’m sexually active I’ve realized no matter how turned on I get or how long I’ve been caressed and fucked I still can’t come. This hidden kink contributes to my orgasm anxiety and how I have trouble coming without my kink. Now I have a shitty mental block that prevents me from coming, even while masturbating. I...

How do I gain confidence?

How the fuck am I (a straight male) supposed to be confident when I think of stuff like this https://www.reddit.com/r/sex/comments/cy0c0f/as_a_guy_i_have_a_hard_time_understanding_what/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share ? (I have a similar thought process as OP.) Not only that but also me being a virgin and simply objectively unattractive, is there even a chance? Worse yet, confidence (atleast according to majority here) is one of the prerequisites to getting laid so I'm just stuck in this weird Catch-22 type of thing. I know these kind of questions get asked here a lot but any advice (sans "hit the gym" - I do that, doesn't help much, atleast for now) is appreciated. Submitted September 01, 2019 at 12:08AM How the fuck am I (a straight male) supposed to be confident when I think of stuff like this https://ift.tt/2NI1109 ? (I have a similar thought process as OP.)Not only that but also me being a virgin and simply objectively unattractive, is there...