So her 25F and I 25M have been seeing each other for a few weeks now. We’ve made out a lot and had sex a few times and I asked her a week or so ago if she sees us becoming more than we are now and she told me yes and said she’s glad that we are more than just friends. Fast forward to last Saturday night, her and I were having sex and I called her ‘baby’ and she said she loves when I call her that. At the end of the night, I kissed her and said ‘night baby’, and left. Anyway, she has her finals this week and I texted her this morning and said ‘good luck on your finals this week 😘’ she replied and said ‘thanks babe 😚 hopefully it goes by quick!’ I “loved” the message and left it at that. That was the first time she’s called me babe, so I’m curious what that typically means at this stage of the relationship and why she hasn’t messaged me since this (12pm today). Thanks! Submitted December 14, 2021 at 01:58AM So her 25F and I 25M have been seeing each other for a few weeks now. ...

Alright, so I feel there is a lot to unpack here but I'll start with the basics. I am very good friends with this woman from work, we hangout outside of work, and I believe we have grown very close. I have always thought she was very attractive, but didn't really think she was interested. However, at one point we were talking and she mentioned that I was handsome. So I do wonder if I should see if a romantic relationship is a possibility, but I do not want to jeopardize the friendship we already have. Also, to make things even more complicated she is in a relationship. I do know that it is a long distance relationship, and they do not get to see eachother very often. I am wondering if I can tell her my feelings, tell her that I don't want to damage our friendship, and perhaps knowing that I am an option could let her see her long distance relationship in another light. Thanks for reading. Any advice would be great, because I am clearly out of my depths here. lol ...

Like seriously.. i have like really bad luck when it comes to men, thats why i don’t wanna get to attatched to them.. i always end up hurt.. because they like me as a friend or dosn’t feel the same.. or worse.. not ready for a commitment.. people also say it looks like they are togheter when we party This guy is really sweet and i trust my friend, she also has a bf who she has been with for 3 years. They know each other trough me, i have knowed him like 5 months and she 4 months. They have gotten close as friends to. But anyways last weekned it was like he only focused on her, he wanted to go where she wanted, and when we where drinking at his house and my friend needed to leave since her bf comed to pick her up, i was gonna talk to him and he suddenly ran to talk to her before her leaving even if they said goodbye, left me hanging. We all where pretty drunk to.. me and him ended up sleeping togheter, but he also told my friend we sleept togheter, i think they also text a lot, when i...

I'm in a situation where I'm planning a first date that I think needs to be a little more than just coffee. I don't know a ton about this person, but I do know that she's extremely outdoorsy and loves hiking, climbing, etc. Hiking's known for being a little too serial-killery for a first date, but are there any other outdoorsy activities that could work? Submitted December 14, 2021 at 02:11AM I'm in a situation where I'm planning a first date that I think needs to be a little more than just coffee. I don't know a ton about this person, but I do know that she's extremely outdoorsy and loves hiking, climbing, etc. Hiking's known for being a little too serial-killery for a first date, but are there any other outdoorsy activities that could work?

My boyfriend and I broke up yesterday. We have known each other for the past 7 years, most of which we have been dating. We had some issues with finding a place to stay, while waiting for our apartment to be ready, so I offered to stay at a family friends until it was ready. We had only been there for 2 nights until I was in a room with my family’s friend, and he had pulled his pants down and exposed himself to me and would not stop. That already fucked with me because not only could we not stay at my parents, we also couldn’t stay at my boyfriends parents so this was the last resort. I was not raped but that was close enough. My boyfriend was in the other room and I eventually walked out and went to him and didn’t know what to say. I was in shock. Anyway, the next day, I told him that we needed to leave and he could go to his parents and I would go to mine. I told him the reason was bc i was under so much stress that I seemed to be losing weight. He said okay but it seemed to stress ...

So me and my bf kinda had a dry spell in our sex life bc I haven’t been enjoying it much (just bc Im not in the best headspace/ lack body confidence, nothing he does wrong). But yesterday was our last day seeing each other before he goes to France for a few weeks. So I decided to have sex bc like we wouldn’t see each other and I was in the mood, and omg it was so good, I can’t stop thinking about it. Idk how I’ll last 3 week without him!! Submitted December 14, 2021 at 01:58AM So me and my bf kinda had a dry spell in our sex life bc I haven’t been enjoying it much (just bc Im not in the best headspace/ lack body confidence, nothing he does wrong). But yesterday was our last day seeing each other before he goes to France for a few weeks. So I decided to have sex bc like we wouldn’t see each other and I was in the mood, and omg it was so good, I can’t stop thinking about it. Idk how I’ll last 3 week without him!!

Going on a decade of OLD and now just realizing how much it's messed me up. If you're new or thinking about it, please proceed with caution. Use it passively, don't make it a lifestyle like me. From my experience I've found a lot of people in real life to be attractive, but in OLD I would probably swipe left because my standards have exceeded the threshold of only being satisfied with the top tier on the apps. And let's face it, they are so inundated they will never see you AND they are only getting the top tier models at the top of their swipe stack and are not spending a significant about of time everyday because they can stumble across a date whenever they walk out the door. Or the opposite where someone could look so beautiful in their pics, but in real life a totally different person. At this point I feel like I'm chasing the cream of the crop on Tinder and get the occasional date with an 8+, but you're just one of 7 dates that week. The odds just ...

Oh god Ive needed this sub for many many years. Thank you for responding and being so gracious!! December 14, 2021 at 12:49AM

well the good thing is you can have a romantic relationship without kissing, the bad thing is it might be hard to find December 14, 2021 at 12:49AM

27 yrs old and no dice....no sex....no anything and I'm talking when I DO finally get to finally, honest to fucking goodness, close and lock the door, rip each other's clothes off while making out n shit, and of course she'll be into me because why else would she be there i'd certainly HOPE she was into me , and she has accepted me for my 5'7" 120 lbs slight stature (I stay like this because I just so happen to believe u can fuck better if u got long lean legs, kamasutra shit, instead of like fucking just being like a sex dildo fucking machine standing at the edge of the bed, your FUPA sticking out and your man gut hanging over your manhood), but when she unzips my pants she probably is not going to expect that I'm a grower not a shower and if it's cold I look like I got a baby dick. Girls and guys have already giving me so many small dick insults during my life just based off my soyboyish appearance that I wanna rip their fucking heads off and drink t...

I have my own personal trust issues that I have been working through, but my bf not too long ago actually broke my trust, and I immediately think the worst-case scenario, because of that more now. Anyway, my bf has been going to this super expensive gym for while and today he said he partnered with a girl for his workout today. He even said her name to me. I am feeling a sort of way and I hate it. Partly because my bf has been wanting me to get more into shape and now he's going to a gym with one. I ended up asking him tons of questions and even accused him of falling for someone easily like he could leave me for her on a whim. I know I sound really insecure and it could be unreasonable to be jealous but I do. It just all sort of spilled out. What can I do to help ease these feelings? Submitted December 13, 2021 at 11:48PM I have my own personal trust issues that I have been working through, but my bf not too long ago actually broke my trust, and I immediately think the wors...

Last year I (20F) used to hang out with a group of friends. One of my friends (23M) had a crush on me, but I didn’t know about it. I had absolutely no interest in this man. My other friend (21M) told me about the crush. After that, I started obsessing about every interaction I had with him, imagining the things he thought about me. After a few months, he asked me out and we hung out more alone. I felt so comfortable that I lost my virginity to him. As emotionally safe as I felt, I never felt attracted to his appearance. I don’t mean that in a mean way, he’s nice. I just didn’t look at him and want to fuck him. The idea of him wanting to fuck me is what made me able to. When he broke things off from what had been our situationship since he was moving, I was very sad. I still think about it a lot. But I realized that in the future I should go after people I’m attracted to instead of just feeling comfortable with. Now I feel like I lost a friend for no reason. Last summer at my 21st bir...

What’s the general consensus on this? I find this is a common thing even not in dating but in just talking to people in general. I’m wondering do you think it’s more common or less common in dating. My initial thoughts are maybe it’s less common? If you’re going out with a person surely you’d be interested so you’d ask a lot of questions? What do you think? Submitted December 14, 2021 at 12:07AM What’s the general consensus on this? I find this is a common thing even not in dating but in just talking to people in general.I’m wondering do you think it’s more common or less common in dating. My initial thoughts are maybe it’s less common? If you’re going out with a person surely you’d be interested so you’d ask a lot of questions?What do you think?

My partner hates my self concerns, but he doesn't give me any complements, what makes me even more self concern. He told me that it's my concerns what make me less beautiful. I'm not sure how to overcome my problems, but it's very important to me, I want to do it for me, but also I want to be seen as a beautiful woman by my partner. How can I deal with it? Submitted December 14, 2021 at 12:09AM My partner hates my self concerns, but he doesn't give me any complements, what makes me even more self concern. He told me that it's my concerns what make me less beautiful. I'm not sure how to overcome my problems, but it's very important to me, I want to do it for me, but also I want to be seen as a beautiful woman by my partner. How can I deal with it?

Hey everyone! I am 21 (Male) and she is 20 (Female). We live in the same city and we bonded over movies at first then moved to our shared love of music. She can play some instruments. (Piano, guitar and various others) I am trying to learn the piano but not even a beginner at this point and can't sing for the sake of my life.Our interactions were from a social media and we did not meet, ever. We talked enormous hours in a day, so I think we got the chemistry down. We are both introverts. I want something that we can feel both comfortable because she said she has problems getting out of her comfort zone.What would you suggest our first date should be? I don't want movie theatres because it gives little room for bonding. Something unusual would be better but I will take all the advice I get. Submitted December 14, 2021 at 12:10AM Hey everyone! I am 21 (Male) and she is 20 (Female). We live in the same city and we bonded over movies at first then moved to our shared love of...